FabSwingers.com forum: Right or wrong

By *aloo99 OP Woman
32 weeks ago

town

How would u feel if ur other half said that they find women attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Whare I am in life right now that would have all been talked about before realship talk

Ie do they want it open or closed

Or a closed with a maybe open later

So wouldn’t bother me

I suspect most guys will be ok with it if it’s the woman saying it they be thinking 3 ways / watching

I would suspect if it’s a man saying it to a woman that they like other woman in a closed relationship

That it wouldn’t go down well

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

"How would u feel if ur other half said that they find women attractive "

People can find anything attractive as we all like pretty things….i wouldn’t see it as a big deal!!

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By *a LunaWoman
32 weeks ago

South Wales

I’d say that’s fine - you can look and not touch without your dick needing to get involved!

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
32 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Human nature isn't it to find people of the opposite sex attractive. But I guess it depends on the dynamic of the relationship and the context

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By *agnar73Man
32 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Married?

Other question, in general or specifics?

Like that tennis player has a nice arse, ooh that actress is attractive or I want to shag your sister/workmate.

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By *parkle1974Woman
32 weeks ago

Leeds

Wouldn't bother me as long as they didn't bump uglies with each other if we were in a monogamous relationship x

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By *ambertMan
32 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Will let you know if I ever have another one haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
32 weeks ago

East Sussex

He often does and I sometimes point out attractive women to him.

I feel fine about it

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd find it odd if my partner didn't find other people attractive.

Especially being on a swingers site.

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By *rill PhilMan
31 weeks ago

Crediton

If my partner said they didn't find other men attractive, I'd probably be suspicious and wonder what they were hiding from me.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
31 weeks ago

Llanelli

I'd feel delightful and ask if there was someone they wanted to invite over

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"I'd find it odd if my partner didn't find other people attractive.

Especially being on a swingers site. "

I always find it odd questions like this on a swingers site. The answers are gonna be somewhat biased.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'd be fine with it,

We are both on here after all.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
31 weeks ago

somewhere

It means when out we can both appreciate the view!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
31 weeks ago

Leeds

Well since we are here we don't have an issue with it.

It's human nature to see attraction in others, I never understand the upset over it, would people rather they lied?

Mrs

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By *ellinever70Woman
31 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Context is everything

It would probably get on my nerves if they felt the need to tell me every time they encountered a woman that they thought was attractive

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"How would u feel if ur other half said that they find women attractive "

Relieved.

If they weren't attracted to women I'd wonder what the hell they were doing with me

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
31 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Even in a monogamous relationship, it is normal to find others attractive still.

It would be weird in a swinging relationship if neither or only one person found others attractive.

It isn't normal to make your partner feel awful by spouting your attraction to others in an offputting or putting you down way

MrsAbz

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By *ansoffateMan
31 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I think I'd be able to empathise with her.

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By *WB85Man
31 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Is that not the point of a swingers site?

Or do we just fuck those we aren't attracted to?

Do you find other men attractive?

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By *AYENCouple
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"How would u feel if ur other half said that they find women attractive "

I would feel happy that they could express themselves openly and honestly to me, it's how it should be.

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By *partharmonyCouple
31 weeks ago

Ruislip

"How would u feel if ur other half said that they find women attractive "

My other half (Hannah) does find other women attractive. It's hot and has let to some great experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

She does

and we openly talk about other women and what we would like to do, this includes while out shopping or in a restaurant ect

Not a single hint of jealousy both ways,we both enjoy a similar taste in women and go for slightly unusual looking types that spark interest, both of us also being sapiosexual and favour brunettes or redheads

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