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By *ello OP   Woman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri

If you fancy going to an organised social but then you realise it falls on a bloody annoying time of the month would you still attend.

What happens if you really hit off with someone and you want to jump their bones, do you hope they agree to a future meet where you can play or do you hope they'll go along with it, just lay a thick towel down on the bed and hope the shower works.

Or would you not go to the social and wait for the next one, where there would be no issue with playing if the mood takes you.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
35 weeks ago

Sheffield

I’d just talk to them beforehand firstly. Beppy pads are a game changer also.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I wouldn't go to a social. Period.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

You could always just go for socialising. But if you’re lowkey looking or hoping for more then don’t upset or frustrate yourself surely?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If it's just a social I'd go.

If it looks like it's going more that way during, can reassess and sort something out then.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

Obviously this no longer applies to me but I'd go.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
35 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I've been to a few when on my period. It's still fun!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Go to the social, flirt, enjoy yourself. If you’re not comfortable to go any further then make another date to do so.

Also someone above said about the Beppy pads if you do want to. These are totally a game changer.

Just have fun. That’s what life is all about

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I probably wouldn't go in all honesty. I never feel good when mother nature visits

Mrs

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

yea no longer applies here - but i would have gone

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Wait til you’re menopausal & you never know when they’re going to turn up, how long they’re going to be for, or how light of heavy they’re going to be, bloody ruining my sex life right now!!!!

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By *ello OP   Woman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Oh wow , never heard of beppy pads before they sound fab. I used to use a ripped up bath sponge over 20 years ago when going to a swingers club. Worked really well.

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By *ello OP   Woman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Wait til you’re menopausal & you never know when they’re going to turn up, how long they’re going to be for, or how light of heavy they’re going to be, bloody ruining my sex life right now!!!! "

I've got PCOS so that's been my normal for 35 years lol

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
35 weeks ago

Cardiff


"Wait til you’re menopausal & you never know when they’re going to turn up, how long they’re going to be for, or how light of heavy they’re going to be, bloody ruining my sex life right now!!!! "
this me to now

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By *ike0090Man
35 weeks ago

longford

Any one using telegram

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By *ike0090Man
35 weeks ago

longford

Would love to have some

Chat or cam fun with some

If interested

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By *ad NannaWoman
35 weeks ago

East London

I go to socials to socialise and be sociable, so a period wouldn't make any difference to me.

If I did hit it off with someone I wouldn't go straight to sex with them, anyway.

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By *ettriano 6969Man
35 weeks ago

Eastbourne

What if it was going to a comicon instead OP and having the chance to meet Lister, Rimmer, the Cat and Kryten?

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Would love to have some

Chat or cam fun with some

If interested "

Wrong thread broski

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

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I don't go to socials to have sex.

I do leave them early for sex. I was about to say I never have sex after one but that'd be utter tosh.

It depends on what day my period is. First day? Zero chance. I'd go full on black widow. No one needs my scathing sarcasm.

In terms of having sex on your period - beppy sponges are great but make sure you use lube for removal. It's also easier to remove after if you're in the bath.

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By *ello OP   Woman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"What if it was going to a comicon instead OP and having the chance to meet Lister, Rimmer, the Cat and Kryten?"

Well definitely don't go dressed as legion, cause that green bodysuit would really show up any leaked blood.

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By *issP69Woman
35 weeks ago

Neath

As others I assume have meant by Beppy pads, I would recommend Beppy Tampons.

Just be advised that they're stringless and after sex they tend to get pushed quite high up so allow a bit of time for removal

Go for the crap grip and be prepared to do a bit of squeezing

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By *issP69Woman
35 weeks ago

Neath

Crab grip even lmao....like a lobster between index finger and thumb....you'll get my vibe

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"

In terms of having sex on your period - beppy sponges are great but make sure you use lube for removal. It's also easier to remove after if you're in the bath."

What is this witchcraft? Are they like soft moon cups ? You can have sex with these in?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"

In terms of having sex on your period - beppy sponges are great but make sure you use lube for removal. It's also easier to remove after if you're in the bath.

What is this witchcraft? Are they like soft moon cups ? You can have sex with these in? "

Total witchcraft… available on Amazon and other retailers

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By *B69Woman
35 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I would still go to the social, you may meet someone new for a future rendezvous

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester

I’d go to the social and arrange for future play

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

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"

In terms of having sex on your period - beppy sponges are great but make sure you use lube for removal. It's also easier to remove after if you're in the bath.

What is this witchcraft? Are they like soft moon cups ? You can have sex with these in?

Total witchcraft… available on Amazon and other retailers "

Yep they're brilliant! They're not really soft moon cups. They're organic sponges that are inserted in the canal and absorb liquid. Men can sometimes feel them depending on the position and their size but it's like a squidgey sponge thing and not uncomfortable for them. Most of the time they can't.

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By *partharmonyCouple
35 weeks ago

Ruislip


"If you fancy going to an organised social but then you realise it falls on a bloody annoying time of the month would you still attend.

What happens if you really hit off with someone and you want to jump their bones, do you hope they agree to a future meet where you can play or do you hope they'll go along with it, just lay a thick towel down on the bed and hope the shower works.

Or would you not go to the social and wait for the next one, where there would be no issue with playing if the mood takes you."

I told you. We can meet up whenever is works for you.

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
35 weeks ago

Narberth

You can have sex with a menstrual cup on. No one notices and it wouldn't come out unless they fist you big time

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By *ello OP   Woman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Just ordered some of the beppy's, thank you ladies .

I'm betting there's a lot of guys reading this post going 'what the heck, women are stuffing the vaginas with things '

Guys it would appear you don't want to rummage too deep with us ladies, you'll never know what you'll find in that lucky dip black hole

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"Just ordered some of the beppy's, thank you ladies .

I'm betting there's a lot of guys reading this post going 'what the heck, women are stuffing the vaginas with things '

Guys it would appear you don't want to rummage too deep with us ladies, you'll never know what you'll find in that lucky dip black hole "

Thank you for bringing this up, I’d never of known about these

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By *ello OP   Woman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"You can have sex with a menstrual cup on. No one notices and it wouldn't come out unless they fist you big time"

My menstrual cup doesn't go that far in , and with the seal there is no way anything is going in there with it, it's actually partly visible, if someone is down there looking

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By *WB85Man
35 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Be open and honest about it would be my advice.

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
35 weeks ago

Narberth


"You can have sex with a menstrual cup on. No one notices and it wouldn't come out unless they fist you big time

My menstrual cup doesn't go that far in , and with the seal there is no way anything is going in there with it, it's actually partly visible, if someone is down there looking "

The flat ones are the ones Im talking about

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
35 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes of course. I wouldn't cancel unless something major came up. And if I want to take things further I can still have fun with them other than penetration.

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By *dam1971Man
35 weeks ago

Bedford


"Just ordered some of the beppy's, thank you ladies .

I'm betting there's a lot of guys reading this post going 'what the heck, women are stuffing the vaginas with things '

Guys it would appear you don't want to rummage too deep with us ladies, you'll never know what you'll find in that lucky dip black hole "

Most don’t know their way around even before you go putting extra stuff in there

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex


"Just ordered some of the beppy's, thank you ladies .

I'm betting there's a lot of guys reading this post going 'what the heck, women are stuffing the vaginas with things '

Guys it would appear you don't want to rummage too deep with us ladies, you'll never know what you'll find in that lucky dip black hole "

There’s a knack to removing.

I nearly gave myself a hysterectomy first time

Closest I’ve ever got to being fisted

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By *dam1971Man
35 weeks ago

Bedford


"Just ordered some of the beppy's, thank you ladies .

I'm betting there's a lot of guys reading this post going 'what the heck, women are stuffing the vaginas with things '

Guys it would appear you don't want to rummage too deep with us ladies, you'll never know what you'll find in that lucky dip black hole

There’s a knack to removing.

I nearly gave myself a hysterectomy first time

Closest I’ve ever got to being fisted "

If it’s any help, the people at A&E are quite used to seeing hoover attachments in different cavities

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex


"Just ordered some of the beppy's, thank you ladies .

I'm betting there's a lot of guys reading this post going 'what the heck, women are stuffing the vaginas with things '

Guys it would appear you don't want to rummage too deep with us ladies, you'll never know what you'll find in that lucky dip black hole

There’s a knack to removing.

I nearly gave myself a hysterectomy first time

Closest I’ve ever got to being fisted

If it’s any help, the people at A&E are quite used to seeing hoover attachments in different cavities "

How about pliers???

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By *viatrixWoman
35 weeks ago

Redhill

I’ve never gone to a social with the hope/expectation of sex… so I’d still go.

If I hit it off with someone I’d arrange for another time. I have only had sex during my period with mem I have known and trust for a long while.

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By *ello OP   Woman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Just ordered some of the beppy's, thank you ladies .

I'm betting there's a lot of guys reading this post going 'what the heck, women are stuffing the vaginas with things '

Guys it would appear you don't want to rummage too deep with us ladies, you'll never know what you'll find in that lucky dip black hole

There’s a knack to removing.

I nearly gave myself a hysterectomy first time

Closest I’ve ever got to being fisted

If it’s any help, the people at A&E are quite used to seeing hoover attachments in different cavities

How about pliers???"

Chopsticks?

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
35 weeks ago

Ryde

About 18 months ago, I had ablation surgery, and it's the been one of the best things I've ever done.

Being on the contraceptive implant, I was prone to heavy bleeds, but the ablation op has completely put an end to periods for me, and left me with a lot more freedom in that respect.

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By *dam1971Man
35 weeks ago

Bedford


"Just ordered some of the beppy's, thank you ladies .

I'm betting there's a lot of guys reading this post going 'what the heck, women are stuffing the vaginas with things '

Guys it would appear you don't want to rummage too deep with us ladies, you'll never know what you'll find in that lucky dip black hole

There’s a knack to removing.

I nearly gave myself a hysterectomy first time

Closest I’ve ever got to being fisted

If it’s any help, the people at A&E are quite used to seeing hoover attachments in different cavities

How about pliers???

Chopsticks?"

One of those magnetic fishing rods from the kids’ game?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
35 weeks ago

Dundee

As it's just a social I would still go, and if lucky enough to find a connection I'd organise a play meet for another time

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By *entleman JayMan
35 weeks ago

Wakefield

It’s a social. Patience is required.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
35 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I doubt I'd be in the mood, I tend to write that week of the month off for being sociable. Definitely wouldn't be getting in bed with anyone.

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By * and R cple4Couple
35 weeks ago

swansea

I would still go if I met someone I would flirt a little and arrange for another time with them..

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair

I went to a Period Social once. I was slipping and sliding all over the place.

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By *agneto.Man
35 weeks ago

Bham

It's alright, I'll settle for a blowie.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
35 weeks ago

Norwich

I used to fuck my wife on her period all the time.

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