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"What's the point of being on Fab with no intention of meeting up for sex. " For the forum entertainment of course  | |||
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"What’s the point of saying you want to meet up but don’t actually try to meet up? " Good one  | |||
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"Pretending to be someone you aren't, masks slip eventually." Very true | |||
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"What's the point of being on Fab with no intention of meeting up for sex. " Because some people take a break...why should they delete their account? | |||
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"What's the point of being an areshole to people, just because they are behind a screen "Keyboard warriors, don't have the balls to say it face to face  | |||
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"What’s the point of lying about your orientation in here? " Never got that one either  | |||
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"... of much of anything really. "I ask myself often! | |||
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"What's the point of a blunt knife? "Very sharp of you | |||
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"Sparked by another thread..what’s the point of just going in the forums to insult people? " That thread got removed thankfully. | |||
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"Sparked by another thread..what’s the point of just going in the forums to insult people? That thread got removed thankfully." Hurrah... | |||
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"Sparked by another thread..what’s the point of just going in the forums to insult people? That thread got removed thankfully. Hurrah... " I think a few of us reported it. | |||
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"What's the point of being an areshole to people, just because they are behind a screen "Cos they're arseholes in general?  | |||
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"What on fab has you saying "what's the point" For me it's What's the point in writing a profile (most ignore it) and What's the point setting an age range (again most ignore it)....x" I don't know about the rest of you, but I do read profiles, the age thing is negotiable, as people lie about their age anyway  | |||
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"What's the point of a blunt knife?
Very sharp of you "One could say - 'one has an edge'. | |||
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"What is the point in trying most the time? MrsAbz" True, but sometimes trying is the person that you are | |||
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"Sparked by another thread..what’s the point of just going in the forums to insult people? That thread got removed thankfully." Yay | |||
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"What's the point of a blunt knife?
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One could say - 'one has an edge'. " | |||
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"What’s the point of all these ‘straight’ guys messaging when I know for sure they won’t turn up? " I would go a step further. What’s the point of putting your sexuality on a profile? I get, as you do, lots of message from ‘straight’ guys. They say they’re straight because they think it increases their chances with women. Further from that, it always makes me smile when a profile states they only want to meet straight guys (no one cares what sexuality a woman is!). Sometimes I look through their verifications and the masculine man they said was brilliant and everything they wanted….. you guessed it. In fact, on an NSA site why does it matter who someone else has fucked? Surely you’re taking care of your own sexual health? | |||
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"What’s the point of all these ‘straight’ guys messaging when I know for sure they won’t turn up? I would go a step further. What’s the point of putting your sexuality on a profile? I get, as you do, lots of message from ‘straight’ guys. They say they’re straight because they think it increases their chances with women. Further from that, it always makes me smile when a profile states they only want to meet straight guys (no one cares what sexuality a woman is!). Sometimes I look through their verifications and the masculine man they said was brilliant and everything they wanted….. you guessed it. In fact, on an NSA site why does it matter who someone else has fucked? Surely you’re taking care of your own sexual health?" Good point well made | |||
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"What's the point of sending a good first message? You put all that effort in and it won't be read or it will be read but no reply is a reply despite the profile telling you to send a good first message. It's absolutely pointless and I'll embrace the hate I get for that opinion." not wrong though | |||
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"What’s the point In stating your boundaries to be told I’m wrong and they’ll convince otherwise…….no is a sentence x" Sorry, really? | |||
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"What's the point of being on Fab with no intention of meeting up for sex. " This. | |||
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"In being here." Hope you mean the site and not the planet fella... | |||
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"What is the point of heavily filtered pics when you will look nothing like the person someone is expecting to see" 100% agree with that. I don’t get why people create an image of themselves that they can’t live up to. If people don’t like what I look like then that’s fine. I am what I am and happy with that ish lol | |||
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"What on fab has you saying "what's the point" For me it's What's the point in writing a profile (most ignore it) and What's the point setting an age range (again most ignore it)....x" 
The good ones read a profile aswell as respecting age preferences, assume the people who don't are disrespectful and cater to themselves only | |||
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"What’s the point of lying you’re single when you’re not?" What's the point of asking such a naive question?!!! Could the answer be 'to get a foot in the door while negotiating a special dispensation for being such a good lover'? | |||
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"Whats the point if im only ever going to be a option " …. *throws coffee cup against the wall. I hear you pal. I hear you!…. I’ll clean that up later | |||
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"What is the point in stating we don't meet men 90% of our messages are from men. I got no interest in the penis. Mrs " What's the point in message filters if you're not going to use them, then have a little complain when men still message. We all know that 95% of men are on the dim side and will always 'try their luck.' | |||
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"What is the point in stating we don't meet men 90% of our messages are from men. I got no interest in the penis. Mrs What's the point in message filters if you're not going to use them, then have a little complain when men still message. We all know that 95% of men are on the dim side and will always 'try their luck.'" What's the point in blocking all people & not being able to socialise just because some blokes are pricks. Mrs | |||
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"What's the point of being on Fab with no intention of meeting up for sex. " __ There's several valid reasons I can think of. | |||
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"Whats the point of a woman asking for my number, text me but doesnt responed but still keeps looking at my profile" Usual answer … probably not a woman. | |||
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"What's the point of sending a good first message? You put all that effort in and it won't be read or it will be read but no reply is a reply despite the profile telling you to send a good first message. It's absolutely pointless and I'll embrace the hate I get for that opinion." Couldn’t agree more. It’s soul destroying | |||
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"What’s the point of all these ‘straight’ guys messaging when I know for sure they won’t turn up? " __ For you, don't know what's the point. For them, it massages their egos, makes them feel that they are attractive and they could have you if they wanted. In other words, fantasists and attention seekers. | |||
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"I often wonder what’s the point of trying to pm people on here. Whether it’s the fact they love the attention but have no intention of meeting, that they receive wayyy too many messages or that it’s just a game to a lot of people. I’m not exactly god’s gift but I thought I’d do a bit better than I am! (The women I have met here have been lovely by the way)" Try and see it the other side. If you could see the messages most women will get on here and the sheer volume of them, you’ll see the numbing effect it has too. It’s not you individually it’s the dynamics of the site. | |||
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"What is the point in stating we don't meet men 90% of our messages are from men. I got no interest in the penis. Mrs What's the point in message filters if you're not going to use them, then have a little complain when men still message. We all know that 95% of men are on the dim side and will always 'try their luck.' What's the point in blocking all people & not being able to socialise just because some blokes are pricks. Mrs " You don't have to block all people, just men. You either want men to message you or you don't!  | |||
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"What is the point in stating we don't meet men 90% of our messages are from men. I got no interest in the penis. Mrs What's the point in message filters if you're not going to use them, then have a little complain when men still message. We all know that 95% of men are on the dim side and will always 'try their luck.' What's the point in blocking all people & not being able to socialise just because some blokes are pricks. Mrs You don't have to block all people, just men. You either want men to message you or you don't! "I chat to men yes, dick pics and wanna fuck messages no. I shouldn't have to filter out all men because some can't contain themselves, I'm not responsible for their shit behaviour. Mrs | |||
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"I often wonder what’s the point of trying to pm people on here. Whether it’s the fact they love the attention but have no intention of meeting, that they receive wayyy too many messages or that it’s just a game to a lot of people. I’m not exactly god’s gift but I thought I’d do a bit better than I am! (The women I have met here have been lovely by the way) Try and see it the other side. If you could see the messages most women will get on here and the sheer volume of them, you’ll see the numbing effect it has too. It’s not you individually it’s the dynamics of the site. " Yes, it is what it is, been going on for too long me thinks. Hence we all have filters on and should respect them. | |||
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"I often wonder what’s the point of trying to pm people on here. Whether it’s the fact they love the attention but have no intention of meeting, that they receive wayyy too many messages or that it’s just a game to a lot of people. I’m not exactly god’s gift but I thought I’d do a bit better than I am! (The women I have met here have been lovely by the way)" We are not everyone's cup of tea. | |||
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"What's the point of sending a good first message? You put all that effort in and it won't be read or it will be read but no reply is a reply despite the profile telling you to send a good first message. It's absolutely pointless and I'll embrace the hate I get for that opinion. Couldn’t agree more. It’s soul destroying" I respect that but we do not owe anyone anything not even a reply and I have sent messages to profiles and no response. It is what it is. Sadly. Likewise met some fantastic people over the years. For me I see it as a silent no thank you. | |||
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"What’s the point of having no profile text, 2 cock pics and message “hey” What is supposed to attract anyone’s attention there? I do understand the soul destruction of unread/unanswered messages. But put some effort once into your profile & you may get at least a response. I try to respond to most people who have made some effort. " Are we saying that more effort is needed in a fab CV? I see it as a filter. | |||
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"What’s the point of having no profile text, 2 cock pics and message “hey” What is supposed to attract anyone’s attention there? I do understand the soul destruction of unread/unanswered messages. But put some effort once into your profile & you may get at least a response. I try to respond to most people who have made some effort. Are we saying that more effort is needed in a fab CV? I see it as a filter. " That’s a very good point!!! | |||
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"What is the point in stating we don't meet men 90% of our messages are from men. I got no interest in the penis. Mrs What's the point in message filters if you're not going to use them, then have a little complain when men still message. We all know that 95% of men are on the dim side and will always 'try their luck.' What's the point in blocking all people & not being able to socialise just because some blokes are pricks. Mrs You don't have to block all people, just men. You either want men to message you or you don't!
I chat to men yes, dick pics and wanna fuck messages no.
I shouldn't have to filter out all men because some can't contain themselves, I'm not responsible for their shit behaviour.
Mrs "But your initial 'what's the point' was about men messaging as you don't meet men. Nothing said about dick pics or men's "shit behaviour." Anyway you know what you mean, it's about as clear as mud to me. You have a good day | |||
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"What is the point in stating we don't meet men 90% of our messages are from men. I got no interest in the penis. Mrs What's the point in message filters if you're not going to use them, then have a little complain when men still message. We all know that 95% of men are on the dim side and will always 'try their luck.' What's the point in blocking all people & not being able to socialise just because some blokes are pricks. Mrs You don't have to block all people, just men. You either want men to message you or you don't!
I chat to men yes, dick pics and wanna fuck messages no.
I shouldn't have to filter out all men because some can't contain themselves, I'm not responsible for their shit behaviour.
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But your initial 'what's the point' was about men messaging as you don't meet men. Nothing said about dick pics or men's "shit behaviour." Anyway you know what you mean, it's about as clear as mud to me. You have a good day "Urgh, men messaging to meet quite clearly since we don't meet men as stated. I remember why I have gone off men. Mrs | |||
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Miss S x"To be honest, I’m doing ok with it. | |||
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"What’s the point of wondering what the point is? " Without the point we won't know what direction to go | |||
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"What's the point in engaging your brain, just look at the pretty pictures and use "I’ve looked at the pretty pictures! | |||
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