FabSwingers.com forum: If you catch someone eyeing you up

By *W_Red OP Man
39 weeks ago

Manchester

How do you react?

Smile

Wink

Look away

Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out

Say something

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
39 weeks ago

Essex

I’d probably smile.

It’s never happened, but I’m fairly sure I’d smile.

(And then trip over or something)

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
39 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Carry on as normal

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By *damxxMan
39 weeks ago

London

A cheeky smile back

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Open the camera on my phone to check if I have anything on my face.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
39 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

I dont know, it's never happened to me...

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By *odgerMooreMan
39 weeks ago

Nowhere

"How do you react?

Smile

Wink

Look away

Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out

Say something"

Should that ever happen it will likely be in Specsavers… but I will definitely update the thread - i imagine I’d give them my ‘come hither sexy look’ and powerless they would be snared into my web of carnal desire…and unwilling to resist .. then theyd get the trademark Todger rummage up the jumper and be left ruined for other men!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

We approach them if they are clearly eyeing us up.

Strike while the iron is hot

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
39 weeks ago

East Sussex

I just ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I would give a smile or if it happened

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By *TG3Man
39 weeks ago

Dorchester

"How do you react?

Smile

Wink

Look away

Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out

Say something"
If i get the opportunity to say something i will but last night for example a very attractive woman came in the eatery i attended and looked and smiled but she was with her daughter i guess and her focus was on her

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I assume they’re looking at someone behind me and go about my day.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

They say something to me first before I notice..

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I generally wouldn't know they were

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
39 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Not sure I'd actually recognise someone eyeing me up!

Random jogger this morning as I was walking to the station, waved and smiled at me. Does that count as being eyed up?

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By *TG3Man
39 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Not sure I'd actually recognise someone eyeing me up!

Random jogger this morning as I was walking to the station, waved and smiled at me. Does that count as being eyed up?"
yes lol he waved and smiled

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By *issBellaWoman
39 weeks ago

Wales

In my head Im giving them a flirty smile. In reality I'm giving just got out on day release vibes

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
39 weeks ago

Reading

Blush look down smiling.

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By *ornycougaWoman
39 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I wouldn't notice it unless they slapped me round the chops with a wet haddock

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By *TG3Man
39 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I wouldn't notice it unless they slapped me round the chops with a wet haddock"
lol

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By *amierebelMan
39 weeks ago

My own little world

Ask who the fuck they're staying at

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"How do you react?

Smile

Wink

Look away

Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out

Say something"

Think he has dodgy eyeballs

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By *odgerMooreMan
39 weeks ago

Nowhere

"In my head Im giving them a flirty smile. In reality I'm giving just got out on day release vibes

Day release for good behaviour or day release you just vaulted the wall and legged it?

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By *eeling0880Man
39 weeks ago

Pennines

Probably look away and then look back if still checking me out I’d smile

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"I dont know, it's never happened to me..."

Same here I wish they would

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"I wouldn't notice it unless they slapped me round the chops with a wet haddock"

Same here .... I'd probably check I didn't have lipstick on my teeth or my dress accidentally tucked into my knickers ..

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By *alico_KittyWoman
39 weeks ago

Kittys Lane

I'd just assume they were looking at someone stood behind me or I'd just not notice at all x

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By *ibennyMan
39 weeks ago

rutherglen

Smile

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By *ongandharderMan
39 weeks ago

Rotherham

"How do you react?

Smile

Wink

Look away

Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out

Say something"

Feel a wave of anxiety

smile and get involved in something on my phone haha

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
39 weeks ago

Lancaster

wake up

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By *enk15Man
39 weeks ago

Evesham

Depends how the psyche be doing that day.

Good = It would give me a confidence boost, and I'd have a skip in my step the rest of the day.

Bad = I would assume there was someone behind me they were actually checking out.

Either way, I'm not responding directly to them.

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By *eroLondonMan
39 weeks ago

Mayfair

I would smile and then carry on about my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Tend just to carry on with what I’m doing

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Stare at them and see who looks away first

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By *earded-OneMan
39 weeks ago

Woolwich

"Stare at them and see who looks away first"
I expect no less from you

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
39 weeks ago

Wherever

Ignoring.

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By *earded-OneMan
39 weeks ago

Woolwich

I am normally oblivious

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
39 weeks ago

tf1

Depends on whether they were hot or not.

If not, ignore

If hot, smile and try and look sexy and fail terribly.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
39 weeks ago

Coventry

seem to get into mischief with my female fab friend when we go out for a meal together

one time the pub owner kept leaning on the wall staring at us - we spent the entire time giggling like school girls

last time, the waiter was fit - poor lad got full flirt mode from both of us - he loved it.

yesterday i got flirted with by the guy on the help line i was calling - after we dealt with everything the conversation continued about ex partners and i got a text of him this morning saying he agreed and hoped i had a lovely day.!!!

I think people notice if your open and smiling and happy - well my theory - seem to get a lot of people smiling, so i beam back thinking that maybe I know them and being oblivious to general life events going on around me, wonder if my skirt is stuck in my pants or i am trailing some toilet paper

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Just a nice cheeky smile back.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Stare at them and see who looks away firstI expect no less from you

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Fail to notice and carry on.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Central

I smile and usually say hi

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
39 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I usually assume I have something on my face or my hair has decided to go wild, anything like that really.

Still smile back to be polite though

MrsAbz

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By *mmaleiaWoman
39 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Check I haven’t got something in my face

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By *as7643Man
39 weeks ago

staffs

Check behind me and smile ??

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
39 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Shuffle nervously and look to the floor

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
39 weeks ago

somewhere

I've never noticed but I imagine I would be my usual self and walk off because someone was looking at me

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By *londebiguyMan
39 weeks ago

Southport

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By *orny-DJMan
39 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I rarely notice

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By *londebiguyMan
39 weeks ago

Southport

"How do you react?

Smile

Wink

Look away

Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out

Say something"

Strangely, for me, it depends on the setting.

Of its a public bar or club then I'm usually a little shy snd Look away.

In a more cruiser environment like a club, beach or sauna etc , then I'm more confident snd ready to get going.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
39 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

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By *parkle1974Woman
39 weeks ago

Leeds

I'll tell you if it ever happens

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
39 weeks ago

Maidstone

If I like them I flash my boobs. If not I run and hide.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out"

Sat at a pub, drinking with a girlfriend. Gorgeous guy stood by the door (behind me) and we exchanged a couple of smiles.

I looked back and he was gone! So I looked around the pub and located him, who was staring at me with a massive grin. That was his tactic and it worked... While I was blushing, he walked over and chatted me up.

Ended up at his place (nice hot-tub!) and he drove me home next day.

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By *ove2-lickMan
39 weeks ago

Worcester

If it's female Definitely I smile back to get next response

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
39 weeks ago

Carlisle

Look around, go bright red and then give a shy smile.

Mrs

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
39 weeks ago

St Leonards

Initially, I'll try to subtly work out their body language if they're with friends, how their friends are reacting to them (warmth, or reluctant tolerance?).

If they pass my "not bad news" radar I'll make eye contact back, see how long they hold it.

If a long time, I'll beam a smile, watch their reaction, and then go over and talk.

If not a long time, I'll try another once or twice, but if they're too coy I'll lose interest and carry on with the rest of my night/day.

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By *edeWoman
39 weeks ago

the abyss

Assume I have something on my face or in my teeth

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By *rBobbMan
39 weeks ago

Birmingham

Look over my shoulder. They surely wouldn't be eyeing me up.

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By *ellhungvweMan
39 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I will play it cool, calm and collected. Which probably means that I will walk into a lamppost, trip over the pavement and knock myself out on a bin. Obviously it is all part of the plan to see if they run over and check if I am ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I look away to be fair, unless they are attractive then I will give a little smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"In my head Im giving them a flirty smile. In reality I'm giving just got out on day release vibes

Haha! This would be me too - Mrs

The Mr wouldn’t notice anyone eyeing him up unless they smacked him in the face!

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By *ansoffateMan
39 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I entice them with a coy glance and smile.

Then if they let on and say hi - I shit it and run.

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By *ophie199Couple
39 weeks ago

Leeds

Smile and wave boys, smile and wave

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Blow them a kiss…

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By *naswingdressWoman
39 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ignore it

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By *ohntall123Man
39 weeks ago

Biggleswade

Smile away

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
39 weeks ago

Norwich

Check to see if my flies are undone or if I’ve spilt something down my shirt.

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By *cLovin2Man
39 weeks ago

Reading

I have realised that the correct reaction for a guy is to smile at the lady who lets you know that she finds you attractive. If she smiles back, walk on over and chat her up.

Then find out she's married

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By *hrek101Man
39 weeks ago

Herts

"How do you react?

Smile

Wink

Look away

Look away but glance back to see if they are still checking you out

Say something"

I don't understand the question, what's being eyed up?

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Smile and maintain eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Smile and maintain eye contact

What if they are cross eyed?

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