FabSwingers.com forum: What do you dislike on here?

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over a year ago

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

The lack of sex I get

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The -ists

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Scrolling through profiles looking for someone I'm interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of guys I find attractive

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By *na64Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

The three word messages expecting you to “hook up” with no prior interaction

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

All the opportunities I missed.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

^^^^^^^^^ so this ladies -

and the time wasters, the chasers, the wannabe's and ghosts!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The -ists "

lol if I speak

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The -ists

lol if I speak "

But I’m not tryna be a race baiter anymore

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

The unsolicited penis pics

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

The fantasists

Walkers and talkers

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The lack of cake.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough penis and too many picky men.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"The -ists

lol if I speak "

Of that I have No Doubt

https://g.co/kgs/D9HtKvx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not enough penis and too many picky men."

Good one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The -ists

lol if I speak

Of that I have No Doubt

https://g.co/kgs/D9HtKvx"

Banger.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

So many dick pics, I like cock, but I don’t get profiles with photos upon photos of the same dick and nothing else…it like “yeah Iv seen that now, what else you got”

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By *ad HardcoreMan
over a year ago

A Chippy Near You...

Got a nice message with friend invite, accepted. Very attractive, younger, local.

Replied - my reply message still unread.

WTF?

Really don't know what to make of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to keep up with the abundance of messages I recieve day in, day out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who do not read profiles and attach face pictures, it really does grate on me personally.

I also find close up pictures of spread arses or all sorts of things stuck in them a bit stomach turning.

To a degree also some of the utter delusion about sexuality - never seen so many straight men into cocks.

Other than that, I like this site as it has an interesting and eclectic mix of people. The forums are very educational. With an added bonus of some very attractive people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not enough penis and too many picky men."

That made me spit my coffee out lol

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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"So many dick pics, I like cock, but I don’t get profiles with photos upon photos of the same dick and nothing else…it like “yeah Iv seen that now, what else you got”"

This!

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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Not enough penis and too many picky men."

I'm sure you will be getting plenty now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of females that find me atractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many dick pics, I like cock, but I don’t get profiles with photos upon photos of the same dick and nothing else…it like “yeah Iv seen that now, what else you got”

This!"

Yes I agree, seen some profiles literally with dozens of cock pics, including shot at the same angle too, for example on their back in bed holding their hard dick up.

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"The lack of cake.

Mrs "

This. Right now I'd much prefer cake to anything else

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

The use of the word "female" in place of "woman".

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By *m-BatmanMan
over a year ago

Gotham

I can’t stand all the unsolicited winkers.

Those people who just wink at you.

Like they have the right, just because the button and option is there, to not having spent enough time trying to gain your attention, seduce you with their words and so on - they just jump on your profile and wink at you.

Total winkers. There’s loads of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing really, it is what it is

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By *r MzchiefMan
over a year ago

Middle Earth

I get the penis pic issue. The few I have are not on public view. Not the most aesthetically pleasing appendage but neither is spread open vagina and arseholes stuffed like a turkey at christmas. Have some self respect ladies. Less is more. In my opinion a partially dressed form is far sexier than everything on show. But what do i know im just some guy.

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By *ros40Man
over a year ago

Bedford

All the fun is 100s of miles away

Think I've got to move

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By *ittleshit-SteveMan
over a year ago

Devon

The lack of conversational skills sometimes displayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not dislike..but I'd like to see more people's faces.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

There's quite a few things. But if people didn't do them then I wouldn't know that I don't want to meet them. So I'm staying

Also if I listed them all I'd sound like a right whingey bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lack of cake.

Mrs

This. Right now I'd much prefer cake to anything else "

Agree with you both, I am partial myself and especially dangerous in M&S

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By *anillaboyMan
over a year ago

london

The lack of Dom ladies or couples ( I think)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The use of the word "female" in place of "woman".

Odd isn't it. Puts me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the fun is 100s of miles away

Think I've got to move "

The North of England and Wales seem to be crawling with swingers on here, our counties seem barren wastelands in comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The use of the word "female" in place of "woman".

Odd isn't it. Puts me right off"

Genuinely curious, why does this bother you both? I ask innocently.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Misogyny/etc.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"The use of the word "female" in place of "woman".

Odd isn't it. Puts me right off

Genuinely curious, why does this bother you both? I ask innocently. "

It’s often used to objectify women by misogynists. In almost all situations “woman” is better.

It’s not really used in the same way the other way round. You don’t see working males clubs, and I don’t tell my friends I’m going on a date tonight with a male.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"The lack of guys I find attractive "

This.

Fab has become just another vanilla pastime.

Nothing wrong with that, I hasten to add…

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"The use of the word "female" in place of "woman".

Odd isn't it. Puts me right off

Genuinely curious, why does this bother you both? I ask innocently. "

I find it faintly dehumanising. Female can refer to any species. Woman applies only to humans. Receiving a message starting ' does the female?' feels horrible to me.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Duplicity, double-standards and the limitless whataboutery.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"I get the penis pic issue. The few I have are not on public view. Not the most aesthetically pleasing appendage but neither is spread open vagina and arseholes stuffed like a turkey at christmas. Have some self respect ladies. Less is more. In my opinion a partially dressed form is far sexier than everything on show. But what do i know im just some guy.

Oh! I also dislike men associating things like self respect and classiness with how much of her body a woman has on show on her profile or how many dicks she’s fucked.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

That just because they are here 'solo' doesn't equate to being single!

The amount of one liner chancers .. I could go on, but, as Julie says, I use the undesireable things to filter out what I am avoiding.

Sadly that and geography leaves precious little.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

People who can’t read

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By *ighting 50Man
over a year ago

Retford

"The lack of sex I get"

Are we twins lol

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By *ighting 50Man
over a year ago

Retford

The lack of women that find me attractive

Damn genetics

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By * nicstimMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Not knowing if people can accommodate.

I'd prefer some indication BEFORE going into profile

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"The use of the word "female" in place of "woman".

Yes!! Female what?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many weird and rude people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disingenuous people, bitterness & entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah can't forget the entitlement on here too from most women on here

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Oh yeah can't forget the entitlement on here too from most women on here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yeah can't forget the entitlement on here too from most women on here

Popcorn time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People not reading profiles. It would save alot of wasted time.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Oh yeah can't forget the entitlement on here too from most women on here"

There is, but that runs both ways.

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By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge

To many cam wankers

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

"The lack of cake.

Mrs

This. Right now I'd much prefer cake to anything else

Agree with you both, I am partial myself and especially dangerous in M&S

Oooh yes please ... cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you to the women who explained why they dislike being referred to as female, I personally would always use the former. Interesting to see different perspectives from other demographics, things that ordinarily seem innocent on the surface but are not for some

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

People who wish to deceive others, in order to benefit themselves

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By *ust want fun 888Man
over a year ago

nearby

People not saying, Simply, sorry not interested

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By *inxy777Woman
over a year ago

essex

Distance!

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Cheaters!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

People who think for some unknown reason they are entitled to a reply.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"The -ists "

That and the use of - ists to insult or patronise others because especially as a way of shutting down a discussion. That and the... "great filter" comment... Seem to go hand in glove.

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By *asisfan25Man
over a year ago

Stansted

Time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullies

People that like to label others when they don't even know them.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
over a year ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Bullies

People that like to label others when they don't even know them."

There the worst Boo, the wankers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypocrisy for starters! Men who judge me for being on fab, yet they themselves are on here x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

The overly keen who then ghost.

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By *iHungMikeMan
over a year ago

Shaw

People who message you and start chatting with them and then nothing totally ignore you unfortunately it happens a lot, I'm a genuine guy and love chatting with people but that really gets my back up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The -ists

That and the use of - ists to insult or patronise others because especially as a way of shutting down a discussion. That and the... "great filter" comment... Seem to go hand in glove. "

I have found it peculiar how on a site like this for networking and potential sexual interactions in whichever form, have such vicious socio-political debates on the forums. It certainly dampens the mood haha

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By *iHungMikeMan
over a year ago

Shaw

"Hypocrisy for starters! Men who judge me for being on fab, yet they themselves are on here x"

Well said that lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bullies

People that like to label others when they don't even know them.

There the worst Boo, the wankers

Mr "

I have to agree !

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"The -ists

That and the use of - ists to insult or patronise others because especially as a way of shutting down a discussion. That and the... "great filter" comment... Seem to go hand in glove.

It’s good for me. I don’t want to meet people who think that myself or my friends are lesser humans than them.

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By *iHungMikeMan
over a year ago

Shaw

"Bullies

People that like to label others when they don't even know them."

Hate bullies it's my pet hate

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By *allandathleticMan
over a year ago

Asgard

The nude pictures. Cover yourselves up people!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hypocrisy for starters! Men who judge me for being on fab, yet they themselves are on here x

Well said that lady "

I second that. These double standards from men, so widespread, always bemuse me. Some of it I think comes from male insecurity and ego.

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

People who hide their socks

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Bullies

People that like to label others when they don't even know them."

Down with this sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bullies

People that like to label others when they don't even know them.

Down with this sort of thing "

Careful now…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The three word messages expecting you to “hook up” with no prior interaction "

This op irks me

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Bullies

People that like to label others when they don't even know them."

Bloody annoying I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fantasists

Walkers and talkers "

Oh god yes this op

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By *lice2024Woman
over a year ago

Oldham

Poor you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who hide their socks"

The weather is improving now so soon you can start stealing appealing socks from washing lines again

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By *lice2024Woman
over a year ago

Oldham

Maybe if you put some decent body pics on you might get something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep down, I do believe men think the worst about women being here

according to how they behave after a meeting or a rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with no face pics but torso or cock really irks me.

Guy goes into a bar with his head covered. Sorry mate but you can only see me face if we connect attitude..egoist

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"To many cam wankers

And bus wankers

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Deep down, I do believe men think the worst about women being here

according to how they behave after a meeting or a rejection.

Nah, I don't. Maybe it's an age thing. Rejection is a pattern during life that we have to learn to live with. You've gotta be tough to be on here

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

The huge entitlement and creepy attitudes. The unkind status updates moaning about people's choices and boundaries.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

The lack of humour and lack of actual friendships. Most just want sex and we want the old swinger feel.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Distance! "

Yep, everyone you click with is 300 miles away

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By *asisfan25Man
over a year ago

Stansted

"The lack of humour and lack of actual friendships. Most just want sex and we want the old swinger feel.

C"
I’m exactly the same I’d rather have humour and try to build friendships

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Entitlement

Rudeness; just because there are screens and distance from people, rudeness is unnecessary

Shitty behaviours from people in their little groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naming and shaming on an profile update

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Entitlement

Rudeness; just because there are screens and distance from people, rudeness is unnecessary

Shitty behaviours from people in their little groups. "

Fab has little groups do they ..same old shirt from 20th century.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The huge entitlement and creepy attitudes. The unkind status updates moaning about people's choices and boundaries. "

See this is so fab

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"Deep down, I do believe men think the worst about women being here

according to how they behave after a meeting or a rejection.

Nah, I don't. Maybe it's an age thing. Rejection is a pattern during life that we have to learn to live with. You've gotta be tough to be on here

Sadly it’s not an age thing; men across the age spectrum behave in inappropriate, aggressive, and emotionally immature abusers when they get rejected.

Instead of telling women to be tough, perhaps men should tell men to be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" "

Your turn op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distance!

Yep, everyone you click with is 300 miles away

True ...but I travel if it is worth it and finances allow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lack of humour and lack of actual friendships. Most just want sex and we want the old swinger feel.

C I’m exactly the same I’d rather have humour and try to build friendships"

Agree there can be a distinct lack of humour on here, I personally find that off-putting in a person. On the other hand, there are definitely some regular witty posters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! I also dislike men associating things like self respect and classiness with how much of her body a woman has on show on her profile or how many dicks she’s fucked."

Eggsactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few peeps who believe it's ok to behave in an untrustworthy, deceitful and insincere way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lack of humour and lack of actual friendships. Most just want sex and we want the old swinger feel.

C I’m exactly the same I’d rather have humour and try to build friendships

Agree there can be a distinct lack of humour on here, I personally find that off-putting in a person. On the other hand, there are definitely some regular witty posters

Humour gets lost on here.To many serious folk. I have a serious face for work.Stern attitude for work. Which hand was it again lol

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By *WB85Man
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Profiles that demand face pics in first messages......but have no public pics or profile pic.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Totally agree with you. Male or female.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

The community drama, mud slinging and childishness that sometimes creeps in. We need less of that

That said, the forums are currently 200x more welcoming than when I first got involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with you. Male or female.

Oh Nora I got winked this morning by a bi guy with all sorts shoved in his behind, genuinely turned my stomach, I had not long woke up. I will send him your way x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Totally agree with you. Male or female.

Oh Nora I got winked this morning by a bi guy with all sorts shoved in his behind, genuinely turned my stomach, I had not long woke up. I will send him your way x"

Oh you’re so kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, it's not an important enough part of life to go caring about the details on here.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Nothing, it's not an important enough part of life to go caring about the details on here."

Same. I don’t think I give it much thought to be honest. It’s all just entertainment and a laugh to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication in a responsible respectful right way.

Ps grammar geeks irk me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profiles that demand face pics in first messages......but have no public pics or profile pic.

Quite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The use of the word "female" in place of "woman".

Red flag

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Be interesting to see if my counter thread fills as quickly Pickle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not dislike..but I'd like to see more people's faces."

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be interesting to see if my counter thread fills as quickly Pickle.

I haven’t got much to say on that one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The community drama, mud slinging and childishness that sometimes creeps in. We need less of that

That said, the forums are currently 200x more welcoming than when I first got involved

Real

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your turn op"

I think most of the forums know what I dislike about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bullies

People that like to label others when they don't even know them.

Bloody annoying I know

Real.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away."

Yes. This x 100

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100"

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

All the talk about how cheap it is but DO THEY LIKE -

nvm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deep down, I do believe men think the worst about women being here

according to how they behave after a meeting or a rejection.

Nah, I don't. Maybe it's an age thing. Rejection is a pattern during life that we have to learn to live with. You've gotta be tough to be on here

Sadly it’s not an age thing; men across the age spectrum behave in inappropriate, aggressive, and emotionally immature abusers when they get rejected.

Instead of telling women to be tough, perhaps men should tell men to be better."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Deep down, I do believe men think the worst about women being here

according to how they behave after a meeting or a rejection.

Nah, I don't. Maybe it's an age thing. Rejection is a pattern during life that we have to learn to live with. You've gotta be tough to be on here

Sadly it’s not an age thing; men across the age spectrum behave in inappropriate, aggressive, and emotionally immature abusers when they get rejected.

Instead of telling women to be tough, perhaps men should tell men to be better."

Fr.

Men across all ages are like that.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

All the talk about how cheap it is but DO THEY LIKE -

nvm

We northern people are very friendly. We like everyone* We hug and kiss each other liberally

*Apart from horrible people. We don't like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

I lived in Manchester for 3.5 years and fully aware of the cobs, baps, barm cakes, buns and bread roll names war. Are you luring us up to swell the ranks in this great dough debate?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

I lived in Manchester for 3.5 years and fully aware of the cobs, baps, barm cakes, buns and bread roll names war. Are you luring us up to swell the ranks in this great dough debate?"

Come back to talk carb-related nonsense

We love a good mouthful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

All the talk about how cheap it is but DO THEY LIKE -

nvm

We northern people are very friendly. We like everyone* We hug and kiss each other liberally

*Apart from horrible people. We don't like them."

Yeah the north is alright. I like at least two people up north including you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

All the talk about how cheap it is but DO THEY LIKE -

nvm

We northern people are very friendly. We like everyone* We hug and kiss each other liberally

*Apart from horrible people. We don't like them."

and Kopites*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

I lived in Manchester for 3.5 years and fully aware of the cobs, baps, barm cakes, buns and bread roll names war. Are you luring us up to swell the ranks in this great dough debate?

Come back to talk carb-related nonsense

We love a good mouthful

Oh trust me I got plenty of mouthfuls when living up there

I actually loved it up there, miss the place

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

That some people feel left out and that it can exacerbate low confidence especially when the opposite can so easily happen too. I just wish life panned out favourably for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That some people feel left out and that it can exacerbate low confidence especially when the opposite can so easily happen too. I just wish life panned out favourably for everyone. "

This place is the worst for confidence.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"That some people feel left out and that it can exacerbate low confidence especially when the opposite can so easily happen too. I just wish life panned out favourably for everyone.

This place is the worst for confidence. "

It can be brilliant for it too. I’ve experienced both extremes.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

All the talk about how cheap it is but DO THEY LIKE -

nvm

We northern people are very friendly. We like everyone* We hug and kiss each other liberally

*Apart from horrible people. We don't like them.

and Kopites* "

Oi! I like Kopites. One of my bestest buds is a Red

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

I lived in Manchester for 3.5 years and fully aware of the cobs, baps, barm cakes, buns and bread roll names war. Are you luring us up to swell the ranks in this great dough debate?

Come back to talk carb-related nonsense

We love a good mouthful

Oh trust me I got plenty of mouthfuls when living up there

I actually loved it up there, miss the place "

Come back and I'll get a barm-related snack in celebration

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That some people feel left out and that it can exacerbate low confidence especially when the opposite can so easily happen too. I just wish life panned out favourably for everyone.

This place is the worst for confidence.

It can be brilliant for it too. I’ve experienced both extremes. "

I agree it can be. Just hasn’t been for me

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"That some people feel left out and that it can exacerbate low confidence especially when the opposite can so easily happen too. I just wish life panned out favourably for everyone.

This place is the worst for confidence.

It can be brilliant for it too. I’ve experienced both extremes.

I agree it can be. Just hasn’t been for me"

I’m sad to read that. As someone that I think is well loved by a significant number of people on here, I hope you can accept that love and see that you have brought joy to many. You’re a wonderful human and deserve good things. Sorry to get a sense that things are not great at the moment, if there’s anything I can do, don’t hesitate to let me know. Go gently. You are loved.

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By *rill PhilMan
over a year ago

Crediton

The thing I don't like the most, is that due to the number of men on here it's hard not to get lost in the wash.

It's not like I'm looking for a queue of women all the way to the end of my street. Just meeting one local woman who would be interested in the occasional Throwdown would be sufficient!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

I lived in Manchester for 3.5 years and fully aware of the cobs, baps, barm cakes, buns and bread roll names war. Are you luring us up to swell the ranks in this great dough debate?

Come back to talk carb-related nonsense

We love a good mouthful

Oh trust me I got plenty of mouthfuls when living up there

I actually loved it up there, miss the place

Come back and I'll get a barm-related snack in celebration

Is that before or after a big northern sausage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

All the talk about how cheap it is but DO THEY LIKE -

nvm

We northern people are very friendly. We like everyone* We hug and kiss each other liberally

*Apart from horrible people. We don't like them.

and Kopites*

Oi! I like Kopites. One of my bestest buds is a Red

they’re alright in small doses

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

I lived in Manchester for 3.5 years and fully aware of the cobs, baps, barm cakes, buns and bread roll names war. Are you luring us up to swell the ranks in this great dough debate?

Come back to talk carb-related nonsense

We love a good mouthful

Oh trust me I got plenty of mouthfuls when living up there

I actually loved it up there, miss the place

Come back and I'll get a barm-related snack in celebration

Is that before or after a big northern sausage? "

If you like a mouthful of meat, who am I to say no?!

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By *eacupsbearCouple
over a year ago

York

One frustrating thing is the lack of patience of some people.

They want now now now, and if instant gratification doesn't happen they either block you or just stop talking.

Especially annoying if they instigated first contact.

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

I dislike the majority of people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much.

There are a few people who I think I actively dislike - but I only see a snapshot, so I don’t know that.

I’m here for what I’m here for. I can delete, block and walk away from what I don’t want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact all the people I might want to bang are miles away.

Yes. This x 100

Can all the bangable people please move up north? Ta

I lived in Manchester for 3.5 years and fully aware of the cobs, baps, barm cakes, buns and bread roll names war. Are you luring us up to swell the ranks in this great dough debate?

Come back to talk carb-related nonsense

We love a good mouthful

Oh trust me I got plenty of mouthfuls when living up there

I actually loved it up there, miss the place

Come back and I'll get a barm-related snack in celebration

Is that before or after a big northern sausage?

If you like a mouthful of meat, who am I to say no?!

I am on my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The judgement.. comming from a Liberal stance there seem to be a hellava judgement from others ..

Attached people are judged.

Single men are judged.

People who can't meet are judged.

Can't accommodate gets judged .

How many meets someone has is judged.

Even poor grammar and spelling is judged .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People contacting you you message them and they disappear

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

All the filthy photos from the ladies of fab Begging me for sex and treating me like a piece of meat.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Local gents seem to think having cock pics as their profile pic is the norm

Although no point dwelling on things you don’t like about the site - focus on the positive and you’ll have a better experience on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That some people feel left out and that it can exacerbate low confidence especially when the opposite can so easily happen too. I just wish life panned out favourably for everyone.

This place is the worst for confidence.

It can be brilliant for it too. I’ve experienced both extremes.

I agree it can be. Just hasn’t been for me

This is really sweet.

It’s my own issue. My own self esteem. My own body image. But it’s a journey right? This place doesn’t help but I think that’s the case for many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That some people feel left out and that it can exacerbate low confidence especially when the opposite can so easily happen too. I just wish life panned out favourably for everyone.

This place is the worst for confidence. "

I'd agree with this. It's either full of false compliments or just being ignored and dismissed as you don't fit.

I also think it's a distraction and not in a good way, people are good at replacing how they are really feeling with irrelevant stuff and not actually feeling what you need to.

Sometimes it's good just to be completely alone and feel sad. But then again I am miserable so maybe that's just me.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Sweeping statements. A daily event

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

The lack of interest in some of the profiles,

Profiles that i like that state they are after everything i'm not lol,

the lack of interest from others in me.

not much i can do about any of that stuff though lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sweeping statements. A daily event

Actually yes this does annoy me. Why do women ….blah blah. And why do men……

fuck off I’m not “women” just like him over there isn’t “men”.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Statuses “ balls need emptied “

Messages “ I can come to your house right now ( middle of the night) want to empty my balls on you”

Yeah no thanks

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

The constant daily stream of unsolicited fanny and tit pics, inundated with hundreds of MSG's of women wanting instant gratification, treating me like a hunky fuck machine...but most of all it's waking up and realising that was all just a dream

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By *evon_LexiWoman
over a year ago

Devon

"People who do not read profiles and attach face pictures, it really does grate on me personally.

I also find close up pictures of spread arses or all sorts of things stuck in them a bit stomach turning.

To a degree also some of the utter delusion about sexuality - never seen so many straight men into cocks.

Other than that, I like this site as it has an interesting and eclectic mix of people. The forums are very educational. With an added bonus of some very attractive people

Spot on!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"The lack of sex I get"

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of couples profiles with nothing or just a cock shot of the bloke on and nothing more if both parties are looking to play

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By *ifeforelivingMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Turning a year older and other people turning a year older and their upper age limit not changing by +1 year. So frustrating not being able to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I dislike KARENS

but I do enjoy winding them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lack of sex I get"

I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of guys punching above their weight. Deluded much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Egos....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of guys punching above their weight. Deluded much."

Oh my

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The amount of guys punching above their weight. Deluded much."

What makes you think this?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"The amount of guys punching above their weight. Deluded much.

What makes you think this?"

We're obviously all munters unless you meet her standards. What was I saying about sweeping statements?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"The amount of guys punching above their weight. Deluded much."

•

I genuinely don't understand that remark.

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