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"Thank you for being a kind person OP much appreciated  "there’s a lot of great people on fab but if you’re struggling with confidence or low self esteem it can make you feel not great | |||
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"I actually think Fab is not the place to be if you are struggling to be honest. " I agree, especially for men of a weak disposition it could be brutal (good job I’m thick skinned like a rhinoceros)
I can imagine false attention from some guys to gals to get them into bed could have a detrimental effect on well being if they don’t see it’s false.
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"I actually think Fab is not the place to be if you are struggling to be honest. " very true I feel I’m over the worst of my struggles but for others that are struggling it’s not the best place | |||
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"We had a dec/Jan mental health thread which were very successful. Look them up. Went a bit quiet in Feb/March Let's have an April mental health thread which I think you'd be a great OP" that was a great idea I’ll definitely be making a thread for April | |||
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"We had a dec/Jan mental health thread which were very successful. Look them up. Went a bit quiet in Feb/March Let's have an April mental health thread which I think you'd be a great OP that was a great idea I’ll definitely be making a thread for April " we all need a lil help and support from time to time | |||
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"I actually think Fab is not the place to be if you are struggling to be honest. " Could not agree more. This!  | |||
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"Thats a lovely post. No human is an island, we all need someone." thanks! It can be really hard if you have no one to talk or chat with when you’re struggling. I saw you’re status I wish you a much better long weekend than the week you’ve had | |||
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"Good luck with this though I know others have disagreed with these type of threads before " I had someone message me the same yesterday but people seem to enjoy my posts so will continue trying to give people hope that things can be better after struggling myself | |||
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"What a great post OP. It is often very difficult to admit your finding it tough. What a nice gesture." thanks pal things have being going much much better the last few months and my confidence is improving alot. Being sober from alcohol has helped a lot | |||
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It's often those who have/are struggling who are happy to lend a listening ear. I suppose it's that shared experience of difficulties..
Either way, as someone who does struggle with their mental health, it doesn't define me, and anyone who doesn't understand that doesn't deserve my attention.
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"Brilliant attitude OP, genuinely love this idea
It's often those who have/are struggling who are happy to lend a listening ear. I suppose it's that shared experience of difficulties..
Either way, as someone who does struggle with their mental health, it doesn't define me, and anyone who doesn't understand that doesn't deserve my attention.
This is genuinely admirable "Thanks so much for your lovely comments. I’ve struggled with Anorexia for over 3 years and had pretty bad anxiety for a lot of years. I’m in recovery now and feel a sense of hope and positivity about the future that I hadn’t felt in a long time. If me sharing my struggles helps anyone, it makes me happy. I’m sorry to hear you’ve struggled with your mental health, and it doesn’t define me or you. There’ll be brighter times ahead for you to keep fighting and keep positive. | |||
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"Top post "thanks pal how’s your week been ? | |||
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"Top post thanks pal how’s your week been ?"It’s been decent actually. Just booked a little solo trip abroad & need to break it to the wife over the weekend   | |||
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"Top post thanks pal how’s your week been ?"How about you OP. What’s been the highlight of your week? | |||
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"Top post thanks pal how’s your week been ?
It’s been decent actually. Just booked a little solo trip abroad & need to break it to the wife over the weekend "Where about are you heading ? I love to travel apart from music That’s my other passion in life. The highlight of my week has got to be an email I got this afternoon offering to do some work experience at a local event lighting company. I got offered the chance to come in for a visit and look around about a year ago, but I was just too anxious on the day and couldn’t make it in the front door, but my confidence has improved massively in the last few months and I am feeling excited about it I really want to work in the event’s industry because of my love of music and attending concerts | |||
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"Top post thanks pal how’s your week been ?
It’s been decent actually. Just booked a little solo trip abroad & need to break it to the wife over the weekend Where about are you heading ? I love to travel apart from music That’s my other passion in life. The highlight of my week has got to be an email I got this afternoon offering to do some work experience at a local event lighting company. I got offered the chance to come in for a visit and look around about a year ago, but I was just too anxious on the day and couldn’t make it in the front door, but my confidence has improved massively in the last few months and I am feeling excited about it I really want to work in the event’s industry because of my love of music and attending concerts "Germany to watch the mighty Arsenal | |||
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"Top post thanks pal how’s your week been ?
It’s been decent actually. Just booked a little solo trip abroad & need to break it to the wife over the weekend Where about are you heading ? I love to travel apart from music That’s my other passion in life. The highlight of my week has got to be an email I got this afternoon offering to do some work experience at a local event lighting company. I got offered the chance to come in for a visit and look around about a year ago, but I was just too anxious on the day and couldn’t make it in the front door, but my confidence has improved massively in the last few months and I am feeling excited about it I really want to work in the event’s industry because of my love of music and attending concerts
Germany to watch the mighty Arsenal "brilliant I’ve been to Leipzig and Frankfurt to watch Chelsea and rangers it’s always a great country to to for a football match | |||
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"Thats a lovely post. No human is an island, we all need someone. thanks! It can be really hard if you have no one to talk or chat with when you’re struggling. I saw you’re status I wish you a much better long weekend than the week you’ve had " Thank you. It sure will be. Hope you have a good weekend. | |||
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"Top post thanks pal how’s your week been ?
It’s been decent actually. Just booked a little solo trip abroad & need to break it to the wife over the weekend Where about are you heading ? I love to travel apart from music That’s my other passion in life. The highlight of my week has got to be an email I got this afternoon offering to do some work experience at a local event lighting company. I got offered the chance to come in for a visit and look around about a year ago, but I was just too anxious on the day and couldn’t make it in the front door, but my confidence has improved massively in the last few months and I am feeling excited about it I really want to work in the event’s industry because of my love of music and attending concerts "Good luck in you endeavor in to the events industry. Have you any experience. PM me if you want. | |||
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"OP you are such a lovely person for this, thank you for posting such a thoughtful post "thanks sweetheart I think weekends can be even more lonely than the week if you don’t have anyone to chat | |||
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