FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest ick on fab?

By *endalshaggers OP Couple
41 weeks ago

Kendal

What's your biggest ick whilst chatting et al on here? Not so much sexually, just what grinds your gears that others do while you're logged in?

Ours have to be those who do not read your profile - especially if they message asking a question where the answer is clearly stated if they'd have bothered to read.

Oh, and random friend requests out the blue from people you've never chatted to/looked at before. They're annoying.

The admin side of this really can be vexing at times. Deep breath.

C xoxo

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Unsolicited cock pics & videos.

To me it shouts I'm a creep and I don't care.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
41 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Couples looking for other couples, who have no pics of the man, or just a cock shot.

Also when someone sends you a message, you read it and before you respond either way, they send another. I block anyone who does this.

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
41 weeks ago

Southend

Gay guys who do not take accept that straight men don't want to chat to them

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Couples looking for other couples, who have no pics of the man, or just a cock shot.

Also when someone sends you a message, you read it and before you respond either way, they send another. I block anyone who does this. "

That's 80% of couples accounts tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Gay guys who do not take accept that straight men don't want to chat to them"

Yup. The ones that constantly fab every photo/video you upload in a desperate attempt to get your attention in hope that you’ll somehow change your mind for him.

Block. Block. Ohhh another one…block.

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By *sWyldWoman
41 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Can I ask you a question.."

Erm you just have

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By *issmorganWoman
41 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Couples looking for other couples, who have no pics of the man, or just a cock shot.

Also when someone sends you a message, you read it and before you respond either way, they send another. I block anyone who does this.

That's 80% of couples accounts tho.

I know, its part of why my partner and I have kept our single profiles.

As a straight woman, seeing the man is pretty important to me. Past experience has shown its usually really difficult to get a pic of him and then often there's been no attraction. So we don't engage at all with them now, but they make up such a big percentage as you say.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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41 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Generally I don't have many icks. People do what people do and you'll never change them. And everyone has their way of presenting themselves and managing profiles.

Certain things make me cringe a little though.

Thinking certain styles of photos are a good choice as a profile pic.

Asking for advice/feedback, getting good positive suggestions and then not acting on it and wondering why things don't change.

The whole 'Fab for.....' thing on photos.

The only real ick I have is people offering up photos of partners for wank material from single profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Men claiming that they can make Every woman orgasm....

They can dream on

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By *issmorganWoman
41 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Men claiming that they can make Every woman orgasm....

They can dream on

Or they can make Ebry woman squirt.

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By *issmorganWoman
41 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Generally I don't have many icks. People do what people do and you'll never change them. And everyone has their way of presenting themselves and managing profiles.

Certain things make me cringe a little though.

Thinking certain styles of photos are a good choice as a profile pic.

Asking for advice/feedback, getting good positive suggestions and then not acting on it and wondering why things don't change.

The whole 'Fab for.....' thing on photos.

The only real ick I have is people offering up photos of partners for wank material from single profiles.

Oh yeah and trying to set their partners up with other men or women behind their backs too.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

'I've just stumbled across your profile' after sending 5 previous messages.. man like goldfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Men claiming that they can make Every woman orgasm....

They can dream on

Or they can make Ebry woman squirt. "

Yup that too

They must think they have sexual super powers or something

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
41 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Seriously hot women cramming my inbox full, without any warning.

I have to filter them out based on lack of Fabsonality. Can't stand the word 'ick' either.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

The word ICK.

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By *elix SightedMan
41 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Update pictures of a seriously graphic nature. I have no interest in seeing the inside of your gopping minge, not least because it looks like roadkill in a hedge.

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By *ACOLCouple
41 weeks ago

limerick

Fab for things on photos and videos!

Lina

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By *antricSeeker60Man
41 weeks ago

Durham

The biggest ick thing about fab nowadays is the amount dishonest or predatory individuals who may not have the best intentions.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Nobody says my name on those who do you like threads.

I makes me so sad that I piss my pants in Morrisons just for the attention.

The mr

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
41 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Update pictures of a seriously graphic nature. I have no interest in seeing the inside of your gopping minge, not least because it looks like roadkill in a hedge."

2 seriously good words put together in one sentence.

Gopping minge. I salute you.

Honking Clunge.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
41 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Nobody says my name on those who do you like threads.

I makes me so sad that I piss my pants in Morrisons just for the attention.

The mr "

My toes curled up when I read it I must admit. Mainly because I am a lowly Tier 4 Bronzer

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By *ACOLCouple
41 weeks ago

limerick

"Nobody says my name on those who do you like threads.

I makes me so sad that I piss my pants in Morrisons just for the attention.

The mr "

Amazing photos, personally I would die - I don't want to know if we on someone hoyle list

I doubt we are but still

Lina.

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By *ACOLCouple
41 weeks ago

limerick

"Update pictures of a seriously graphic nature. I have no interest in seeing the inside of your gopping minge, not least because it looks like roadkill in a hedge."

Yeap! Too invasive I agree.

Lina.

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By *uvery30Woman
41 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

When a guy just wants to constantly talk about sex,fucking, about how honey they are all the time.

Ya I know we are here for all if that bit some actually conversation to get to know someone would be nice as well.

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By *estarossa.Woman
41 weeks ago

Flagrante

Men who only message when they are horny, looking for wank-fodder...

Cum shots pictures...

Overly graphic...

Asking for discretion when their profile is plastered with womens faces and pictures of them having unprotected sex..

Loads of the ones mentioned above in this thread too.

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By *ealitybitesMan
41 weeks ago

Belfast

The only eye rolling moments I have are forum or verification related.

Acting like fab besties in public while sharing each others details in private messages to other fabbers.

Verifying people as genuine and lovely while warning others in private that they are dangerous and should be avoided.

Attacking people in forum threads for the very things they themselves are guilty of once again in PM's.

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By *erandHerManCouple
41 weeks ago

Swindon

This is a very popular one but not reading our profile then asking us what we're into. Also automatically thinking it's the female online. X

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
41 weeks ago

People reposting the same picture or video over and over again, petty I know but why ?

To me it just means its a Man on a couples profile or they're fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"People reposting the same picture or video over and over again, petty I know but why ?

To me it just means its a Man on a couples profile or they're fakes "

Lol. There’s a couple of guys who I’ve seen do this several times a day and have done for years. One describes himself as “girthy”

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By *xhibitionistbenMan
41 weeks ago

Ware / Kings Cross

People demanding a well thought out and interesting message and replying with “hi I’m good”

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By *eneralKenobiMan
41 weeks ago

North Angus

Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

People that don’t bake me a cake for the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Are you bi? What are you into?"

It isn't like we have a profile with this info or anything.

Or just sending "mmmmmmm"

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo "

.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
41 weeks ago

Wherever

Responded to their message = guaranteed shag

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

People that ask for pictures when they have none

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Poorly taken photos.

The kind with extension cables, piles of washing, toilets and dirty plates in the background.

.omg I just can't even....

Stop please haha

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By *CLM87Woman
41 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Unsolicited friend requests.

The amount of guys that get possessive and/or abusive(generally the ones who just want a leg over) when they find out that you had a social or meet and how I'm apparently now theirs

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
41 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo

.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me

2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Smoking. The mention of illegal substances. Unsolicited demands (they mainly come from couples).

All instant turn offs

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo

.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me

2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up."

Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
41 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo

.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me

2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.

Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!

Look at it as a BOGOF lol

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By *r_reusMan
41 weeks ago

Coventry

'cream pie clean up', urgh

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo

.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me

2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.

Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!

Look at it as a BOGOF lol"

I prefer the term twofer.. bogof sounds like you're telling me to go away

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
41 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo

.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me

2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.

Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!

Look at it as a BOGOF lol

I prefer the term twofer.. bogof sounds like you're telling me to go away

Plus I keep picturing that Terry Nutkins type bloke selling windows in a Wigan esque accent.

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By *ex HolesMan
41 weeks ago

Up North

Big Harold

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"What's your biggest ick whilst chatting et al on here? Not so much sexually, just what grinds your gears that others do while you're logged in?

Ours have to be those who do not read your profile - especially if they message asking a question where the answer is clearly stated if they'd have bothered to read.

Oh, and random friend requests out the blue from people you've never chatted to/looked at before. They're annoying.

The admin side of this really can be vexing at times. Deep breath.

C xoxo"

Absolute zoomers, timewasting, attention seeking zoomers.

GGGRRRR

Hopefully my venom comes over in that. Gggr again, just incase it didnt.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo

.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me

2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.

Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!

Look at it as a BOGOF lol

I prefer the term twofer.. bogof sounds like you're telling me to go away

Plus I keep picturing that Terry Nutkins type bloke selling windows in a Wigan esque accent."

Oh bloody hell I know the ad...

Safestyle or something ...

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By *edWitch0000Woman
41 weeks ago

worthing

Awful photos. Semi erect or flaccid penises flopped against a hairy thigh. Spotty shaving rashes on close ups of spunk splattered genitals. Spunk dribbling down a chin. A hairy taint and balls with a large anal toy protruding. These all might be titillating to the photo takers but while there are some faces only a mother could love, there are some explicit images that only your partner could get off on. Some pictures hurt my eyes.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
41 weeks ago

kent

I don’t really have any icks. I’m not sufficiently invested for Fab to be irritating, Ailsa really doesn’t care. The moment anything leans in that direction we disengage for a little while.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Awful photos. Semi erect or flaccid penises flopped against a hairy thigh. Spotty shaving rashes on close ups of spunk splattered genitals. Spunk dribbling down a chin. A hairy taint and balls with a large anal toy protruding. These all might be titillating to the photo takers but while there are some faces only a mother could love, there are some explicit images that only your partner could get off on. Some pictures hurt my eyes. "

I genuinely lol’d at this

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By *agpie and RavenMan
41 weeks ago

Leicester

Putting your name at the end of a post when you have a single's profile. Why?

Frank

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
41 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Putting your name at the end of a post when you have a single's profile. Why?

Frank"

I do laugh at this. We need Gbat to comment.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
41 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Undiscussed expectations, like when someone 400 miles away thinks they’ll get a meet from me only having fabbed their photo

.... *checks distance to North Angus +500 miles phew not me

2 for the price of one. I'm a little further up.

Well I do fancy another trip north of the border sometime!

Look at it as a BOGOF lol

I prefer the term twofer.. bogof sounds like you're telling me to go away

Plus I keep picturing that Terry Nutkins type bloke selling windows in a Wigan esque accent.

Oh bloody hell I know the ad...

Safestyle or something ...

Bob on

https://youtu.be/i3A1TT3kwIY?si=pyWOeAmKyah3KVQw

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By *tsJustKateWoman
41 weeks ago

London

Guys who's opening message is an explicit description of what they would like to do to me, and assume its what I want.

Instant block!

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By *smith87Man
41 weeks ago

totton

"Gay guys who do not take accept that straight men don't want to chat to them"

Doesn't say no single guys on profile . Just saying

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
41 weeks ago

Lingfield

Bi guys who masquerade as straight guys. They'll start chatting about their wives, everything is going along nicely then suddenly it's "have you ever thought about being with another guy?" Nope, read my profile. Slowly. Cheerio....

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By *smith87Man
41 weeks ago

totton

1. Fab for friend requests

2. Spunk dripping out of pussy pic

3. Couples profile just all pics of women but lots cropped out leads me to think fake

4. Demanding face pics but don't have one

5. Any drug references

6. Lots still ask for ££

Probably lots more

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By *iking_WitchWoman
41 weeks ago

Hinckley

"Update pictures of a seriously graphic nature. I have no interest in seeing the inside of your gopping minge, not least because it looks like roadkill in a hedge."

I thought you'd like my dead panty badger

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By *ittykitty14Woman
41 weeks ago

greenock

This is one of my top dislikes ! Just because it’s more graphic definitely does not make it better

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Guys who's opening message is an explicit description of what they would like to do to me, and assume its what I want.

Instant block!"

^^^^^^^

That creeps me out & some are essay type 1st msgs that go into extreme graphic detail & some are disturbing of what they want to do to me

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
41 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Guys who's opening message is an explicit description of what they would like to do to me, and assume its what I want.

Instant block!"
this for me too

Cali

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By *nterracial cpl essexCouple
41 weeks ago

Essex

Loving this post. So many things I’m agreeing with. Reassuring me I’m not just a moody b*tch about this stuff.

My main gripe is not reading the profile. Recently we’ve been asked if I’ll meet alone to cuck the husband whilst having girl on girl play. No where does our profile mention cuck.

It clearly states we play together so no, my partner won’t meet you on his own because you fancy trying a bit of black. There’s single guys for that.

Oohhh shouldn’t get me started…. My grumbles would be endless.

And breathe…

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By *ntrigued888Woman
41 weeks ago

Beds

Repeated messages when I've clearly not responded to the 1st one

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By *uri00620Woman
41 weeks ago

Croydon

'Fab my picture/video' posts or other equally needy and attention seeking posts.

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By *istretchMan
41 weeks ago

leeds

Cpls who say they block men with only dick pics while having 1 pic taken within the confines of her flaps .

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By *ugar kittenWoman
41 weeks ago

home

""Are you bi? What are you into?"

It isn't like we have a profile with this info or anything.

Or just sending "mmmmmmm"

I reply with Bop after an mmmmm message

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
41 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Not an ick so much but why oh why do some write a really good message only to accompany it with a multitude of cock shots

Tinder

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By *inger_SnapWoman
41 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

All of the above... And just some of the language used, "females" "tits" "mmmm" "he he"

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By *all me missWoman
41 weeks ago

South Wales

Guys who don’t listen and persistently send me message after message when I’ve already said no …. No means no simple as

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Pics with toilets in the background. Or socks on. These things just aren't attractive!

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By *ittykitty14Woman
41 weeks ago

greenock

"Guys who don’t listen and persistently send me message after message when I’ve already said no …. No means no simple as "

I very politely (as I always do) told someone for the 3rd time that I wasn’t interested . The absolute dogs abuse I received? Four massive paragraphs long, apparently because I said no to him ? I am everything that is wrong with the site .

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By *ackformore100Man
41 weeks ago

Tin town

"What's your biggest ick whilst chatting et al on here? Not so much sexually, just what grinds your gears that others do while you're logged in?

Ours have to be those who do not read your profile - especially if they message asking a question where the answer is clearly stated if they'd have bothered to read.

Oh, and random friend requests out the blue from people you've never chatted to/looked at before. They're annoying.

The admin side of this really can be vexing at times. Deep breath.

C xoxo"

The word ick

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
41 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

So many people write, ‘intrigued’ when they mean curious. It gives me massive ick as it feels like they’re trying to be impressive and intelligent. The same with people who say they are sapiosexual.

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By *wingnswitchCouple
41 weeks ago

NEWARK

Claims to be a bull or a dom or a daddy or vwe.. just why???

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By *all me missWoman
41 weeks ago

South Wales

"Guys who don’t listen and persistently send me message after message when I’ve already said no …. No means no simple as

Unfortunately guys think it’s appropriate to speak to women like that when they can’t get what they want ….. if they just listened to the first no and moved on there would be no issues

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Claims to be a bull or a dom or a daddy or vwe.. just why???"

To be fair, some might be. And they are targeting those who look for such skills/experience, or length/girth.

Speaking of VWE, not an ice, but a hilarious attempt to attract attention--photoshopped sixpacks, biceps, and cocks.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
41 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

The 'me and my mate' or me and my mrs' - No thanks. "Why not" *block*

'You look fun' - I'm not a bouncy castle you know

Yesterday I got called a "Typical stuck up English girl' because his offer of a cat fight did not appeal to me. - I'm actually Welsh and stuck up not English and stuck up so shove that up your poo pipe.

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By *inkybuggersCouple
41 weeks ago

leicester

I read that as 'Biggest dick on fab' clicked on expecting a completely different discussion with some eye watering pics lol

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

"The 'me and my mate' or me and my mrs' - No thanks. "Why not" *block*

'You look fun' - I'm not a bouncy castle you know

Shove that up your poo pipe made me laugh so much

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Entitlement. People with their knickers in a twist because you won't meet them, who think it makes all men/nationality/age/whatever hard done by.

No, it's just you're not as appealing as a novel and an early night.

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By *inxy777Woman
41 weeks ago

essex

"Guys who don’t listen and persistently send me message after message when I’ve already said no …. No means no simple as

I didn’t get a long paragraph after I politely declined his offer, but I was called a whore!

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Guys who don’t listen and persistently send me message after message when I’ve already said no …. No means no simple as

I didn’t get a long paragraph after I politely declined his offer, but I was called a whore!"

If only people were as creative in their first messages as they are when they lose their shit, hey

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By *oodoodMan
41 weeks ago

Suffolkish

Emoji replies. Instant turn off. Also women with pics of them with guys with their socks on.

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By *odevilWoman
41 weeks ago

exeter

"So many people write, ‘intrigued’ when they mean curious. It gives me massive ick as it feels like they’re trying to be impressive and intelligent. The same with people who say they are sapiosexual. "

I think its hilarious when people claim to be sapiosexual and immediately ask for face/body pics.

I personally detest the words "hubby"

"Naughty" (or god forbid "nawty")

And hate to be addressed as babe/hun/sweet etc etc

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By *ornucopiaMan
41 weeks ago

Bexley

The word ick "

Whoever thought it up did language a massive disservice.

There must, surely be better ways of expressing displeasure..

..and, no, I am not thinking of 'Grrrr', 'Grinds my gears' or 'Boils my piss' which rank alongside 'ick' as trendy phrases or words which I will never be needing to use.

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By *carlett!Woman
41 weeks ago

""Can I ask you a question.."

Erm you just have "

That one does my head in

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By *carlett!Woman
41 weeks ago

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By *carlett!Woman
41 weeks ago

As previously said, not reading your profile at all & asking questions that are clearly answered in your profile.

Copy & pasted messages, that it's clear they've sent to every other girl cause it's so generic. Receiving the same copy & pasted message multiple times with no effort at all.

Invasive genitalia pics. Leave something to the imagination.

Yeah

Friend requests when you haven't even met.

I'll stop now, there are too many to mention lol

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By *oubleswing2019Man
41 weeks ago

Colchester

I wouldn't call it an "ick" but those who don't read profiles. Fully.

A long profile serves several useful purposes.

1. Folks "screen" themselves, because when some message me and it's obvious they haven't read the profile, they've effectively sifted themselves out for me, saving me the bother.

2. It's designed to attract the "right" people for me, and if that helps them sift me in or out, it's helped everyone all round. Not being contacted by people you would not have been interested in anyway is a positive.

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By *m-BatmanMan
41 weeks ago

Gotham

The word ick

Whoever thought it up did language a massive disservice.

There must, surely be better ways of expressing displeasure..

..and, no, I am not thinking of 'Grrrr', 'Grinds my gears' or 'Boils my piss' which rank alongside 'ick' as trendy phrases or words which I will never be needing to use."

Never heard the phrase ‘boils my piss’ before.

I wonder what the boiling point for piss actually is and how much you lose to evaporation etc under the right circumstances.

Sounds pretty icky though.

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By *hawslut_redemptionCouple
41 weeks ago

Minehead

""Can I ask you a question.."

Erm you just have

That one does my head in "

100% agree

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
41 weeks ago

Merseyside

"What's your biggest ick whilst chatting et al on here? Not so much sexually, just what grinds your gears that others do while you're logged in?

Ours have to be those who do not read your profile - especially if they message asking a question where the answer is clearly stated if they'd have bothered to read.

Oh, and random friend requests out the blue from people you've never chatted to/looked at before. They're annoying.

The admin side of this really can be vexing at times. Deep breath.

C xoxo"

Ours is the same - if they can’t be arsed reading the profile we put effort into, then what’s a meet going to be like?

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Messages from profiles saying "No Asians". Do they think this is a deep and permanent tan?

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
41 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The word 'ick' and also 'gotten'.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"The word 'ick' and also 'gotten'."

Gott...ed?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
41 weeks ago

Southampton

"Messages from profiles saying "No Asians". Do they think this is a deep and permanent tan?

That's pretty shitty... I'm friends with a guy on here who told me recently he was told to " stick with your own kind "....I really hate people sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

When people message me and expect me to carry the conversation

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By *WB85Man
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

On our couples account mainly when others try and encourage us to match their preferences.

We know what we like and we won't be pushed into other things.

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By *olo180Man
41 weeks ago

West London

"Update pictures of a seriously graphic nature. I have no interest in seeing the inside of your gopping minge, not least because it looks like roadkill in a hedge."

Haha and I thought it was as just me that yukked at a close up vadge with the lips pulled apart! Eww not sexy!

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By *ornyhappyCouple
41 weeks ago

perth

Eleventythreethousand close ups of boobs in varying different coloured bras whilst their profile states 'seen one cock seen them all'.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Anyone begging for money.

Anyone who expects to meet instantly when they're halfway across the country.

When people constantly question your sexuality.

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By *ornucopiaMan
41 weeks ago

Bexley

"Anyone begging for money.

Anyone who expects to meet instantly when they're halfway across the country.

When people constantly question your sexuality.

Begging for money is a bit off. At least I'd expect something worthwhile in return!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Central

Immediate meeting expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"'I've just stumbled across your profile' after sending 5 previous messages.. man like goldfish."

Head bangs against wall, drives me crazy

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
41 weeks ago

Profiles with shit pictures who then message us expecting a reply based on one photo of a gaping flange

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By *egan_CDTV/TS
41 weeks ago

In the closet

"Gay guys who do not take accept that straight men don't want to chat to them

Yup. The ones that constantly fab every photo/video you upload in a desperate attempt to get your attention in hope that you’ll somehow change your mind for him.

Block. Block. Ohhh another one…block. "

I usually fab photos because I like them for whatever reason, not because I’m angling. I had no idea that some people took it so personally.

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By *hMeOhMyOhCouple
41 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Sings…. These are some of my favourite things.

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
41 weeks ago

Durham

When thirsty singles completely ignore the fact we're a couple who don't meet separately, and disrespectfully direct their crude messages solely at me

H x

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By *ags73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Sings…. These are some of my favourite things. "

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By *ackformore100Man
41 weeks ago

Tin town

Anything that's a "good filter"..

. Telling a stranger on a website you don't like them... Just dont say anything. I'm aware of the irony. It's a good filter.

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