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"Yes everyday Am I arrogant. Yes probably but it doesn’t impede my function day to day " Arrogant? No. Real? Yes. | |||
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"No, I think I look OK, 6 or 7 out of 10 at best, never have I ever thought I look hot." You have the most beautiful smile. Your whole face lights up. | |||
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"No, it's a bit to much like being vain or as others have said a bit up ones own arse neither of which are attractive.." No one has said it’s vain or up their own arse. | |||
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"No, it's a bit to much like being vain or as others have said a bit up ones own arse neither of which are attractive.. No one has said it’s vain or up their own arse. " I didn't say anyone else had said it's like being vain.. Personally I equate arrogance with someone being up their own arse.. | |||
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"I don't always, no. But sometimes yeah, I think "yes, you are fuckable"." I'd like to add that being on here can be a big boost to my self esteem, when people compliment my pics, ask me to send them my vids etc. To feel desired is to feel sexy. | |||
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"Sometimes, yes. It doesn’t make me arrogant. Most of the time I’m neutral. Sometimes I’ll think what the hell are you wearing why do you look like that but everyone has bad days. " Pretty much the same for me with the exception of the "what the hell are you wearing why do you look like that" bit | |||
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"Ooooh let's not open that can of worms... Talk to me " Ok, I've had a love/hate relationship with my face. There are times I think I look attractive, but then there are things I've always been self-conscious of that I don't find attractive that will always be at the back of my mind and wish I could change. I won't highlight them because no-one needs to hear that level of self-loathing right now | |||
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"Ooooh let's not open that can of worms... Talk to me Ok, I've had a love/hate relationship with my face. There are times I think I look attractive, but then there are things I've always been self-conscious of that I don't find attractive that will always be at the back of my mind and wish I could change. I won't highlight them because no-one needs to hear that level of self-loathing right now " But it’s a good point right. It’s like sometimes we look at ourselves and we find things we want to change. And I think sometimes because of that it undermines our feelings about the rest of us. I hate my eyes. And sometimes it makes me hate my face. That one thing. As a side note, Joe. You’re a peng ting. The people know it. I hope you can see it too. | |||
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"Ooooh let's not open that can of worms... Talk to me Ok, I've had a love/hate relationship with my face. There are times I think I look attractive, but then there are things I've always been self-conscious of that I don't find attractive that will always be at the back of my mind and wish I could change. I won't highlight them because no-one needs to hear that level of self-loathing right now But it’s a good point right. It’s like sometimes we look at ourselves and we find things we want to change. And I think sometimes because of that it undermines our feelings about the rest of us. I hate my eyes. And sometimes it makes me hate my face. That one thing. As a side note, Joe. You’re a peng ting. The people know it. I hope you can see it too. " Thanks Pickle! You make a good point about one aspect giving you an overall negative perception of yourself which is something I'd like to work on being better at ignoring. | |||
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"Ooooh let's not open that can of worms... Talk to me Ok, I've had a love/hate relationship with my face. There are times I think I look attractive, but then there are things I've always been self-conscious of that I don't find attractive that will always be at the back of my mind and wish I could change. I won't highlight them because no-one needs to hear that level of self-loathing right now But it’s a good point right. It’s like sometimes we look at ourselves and we find things we want to change. And I think sometimes because of that it undermines our feelings about the rest of us. I hate my eyes. And sometimes it makes me hate my face. That one thing. As a side note, Joe. You’re a peng ting. The people know it. I hope you can see it too. " What he said Joe | |||
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"Maybe it's an age thing. You look in the mirror and just appreciate that you're still in one piece. Anyway it doesn't matter what you look like because according to forum lore personality is the most important thing. " Love it when you bring the sassiness, Nice. | |||
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"Maybe it's an age thing. You look in the mirror and just appreciate that you're still in one piece. Anyway it doesn't matter what you look like because according to forum lore personality is the most important thing. Love it when you bring the sassiness, Nice. " | |||
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"Arrogance isn't acknowledging that you find yourself attractive. Believing that everyone else does, is arrogant in my opinion. " This.. More succinctly pu than my earlier input.. | |||
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"Does it make you arrogant if you do? (Inspired by another thread that wasn’t about what I thought )" No to both. Arrogance and self confidence are very different. I see my grey, my wrinkles, my scars, the cellulite that I swear appeared out of nowhere. I think being single long term takes a toll on a persons self confidence. | |||
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"I do know I'm attractive yes & the mirror tells me so also. " That doesn't mean I'm big headed or vain. I'm no beauty....pretty yes & attractive but that's about it. | |||
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"Nope, i lack confidence tbh " With abs like yours bud I’d allow myself a bit of ego | |||
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"Yeah tbh " So you should, you’re hot! | |||
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