FabSwingers.com forum: Does age matter to you when trying to find someone on fab ??

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36 weeks ago

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By *ealitybitesMan
36 weeks ago

Belfast

Yes, it's the very first thing I look at in a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"??"

Well, just like you would like the best deal and not settle for less, women too like to get the best deal.

So if you have decent amount of cash to compensate for your advanced age, age won’t be a problem.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
36 weeks ago

Glasgow

"??

Well, just like you would like the best deal and not settle for less, women too like to get the best deal.

So if you have decent amount of cash to compensate for your advanced age, age won’t be a problem. "

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"??

Well, just like you would like the best deal and not settle for less, women too like to get the best deal.

So if you have decent amount of cash to compensate for your advanced age, age won’t be a problem. "

Money is not the only compensating factor.

Wit, talent, personality, good looks, extra large ahem, celebrity status could work too in your favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Nope, had meets with people in thier 20s and 70s and had as much fun with both age groups.

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
36 weeks ago

dublin

Yes it is, I’ve always been attracted to older men. Granted it’s just a fab meet and I have my older handsome hubs now so I don’t mind going a bit younger. But 18-early 20’s still doesn’t do it for me

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By *imply DeeWoman
36 weeks ago

Wherever

Pretty much yes.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
36 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"??

Well, just like you would like the best deal and not settle for less, women too like to get the best deal.

So if you have decent amount of cash to compensate for your advanced age, age won’t be a problem. "

Yes, I pick up all my Men in the middle of Lidls, always a good deal on Men, better than Tesco. It does pay to shop about

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By *rHotNottsMan
36 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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Well, just like you would like the best deal and not settle for less, women too like to get the best deal.

So if you have decent amount of cash to compensate for your advanced age, age won’t be a problem. "

That’s just total rubbish. Women on fab in general have no interest in a guys money, if anything it’s even a turn off for some. There’s gold diggers of course but very small minority.

Outside of fab I do really well in the 20-40 age range , on fab slightly older say 30-50, it’s different type of conversations. younger women on fab tend to more insecure & mentally unstable than younger women in real life. Younger women I mean in real life have a different view of sexual liberation to younger women on fab

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By *avexxMan
36 weeks ago

cheshire

"??

Well, just like you would like the best deal and not settle for less, women too like to get the best deal.

So if you have decent amount of cash to compensate for your advanced age, age won’t be a problem.

Yes, I pick up all my Men in the middle of Lidls, always a good deal on Men, better than Tesco. It does pay to shop about"

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes and no.

If I was specifically looking in the hope of finding a profile that I like, I put in an age bracket, so yes, it would be important.

But it’s very easy to get talking to someone that you do not know their age and immediately you start to like them, and then age isn’t so important anymore.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
36 weeks ago

ashford

Yes it's important to me 50 ish is my ideal age x

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By *avexxMan
36 weeks ago

cheshire

"Yes it's important to me 50 ish is my ideal age x"
... candy your the same age as me

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By *ymo80Man
36 weeks ago

grimsby

I think there’s more to a person than age side joining here I’m far more attached to the more mature lady

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By *otsMan
36 weeks ago

Higham

No age boundaries really but do like the more mature lady.

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

It did. Women, no but men, yes. I thought I was exclusively attracted to men significantly older (10+) than me and so wouldn't even begin to pay attention to those anywhere near my age. Combination of things - presumed emotional maturity and intelligence, level of honesty, confidence etc.

And then I found that age doesn't mean that at all. And men closer to/around my own age can have those qualities I value and be really, really fucking hot. So, now it doesn't (within reason).

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"It did. Women, no but men, yes. I thought I was exclusively attracted to men significantly older (10+) than me and so wouldn't even begin to pay attention to those anywhere near my age. Combination of things - presumed emotional maturity and intelligence, level of honesty, confidence etc.

And then I found that age doesn't mean that at all. And men closer to/around my own age can have those qualities I value and be really, really fucking hot. So, now it doesn't (within reason).

*this. I've always gije older too and wouldn't meet under 35. That's totally been blown out the water now x

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By *sWyldWoman
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes and no. I have a limit that I tend to stick to of no one under

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

And then I found that age doesn't mean that at all. And men closer to/around my own age can have those qualities I value and be really, really fucking hot. So, now it doesn't (within reason).

*this. I've always gije older too and wouldn't meet under 35. That's totally been blown out the water now x"

Ah, that's lovely! My first voyage was someone a few years older. Not minimum ten. It was well and truly blown out of the water by a delightful man even closer to my age. x

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By *assy MissWoman
36 weeks ago

Sent to Coventry

"??

Well, just like you would like the best deal and not settle for less, women too like to get the best deal.

So if you have decent amount of cash to compensate for your advanced age, age won’t be a problem. "

I prefer men older than me or at least close to my age, regardless of how much money they have. It’s this sort of attitude that spoils Fab for me.

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By *agneto.Man
36 weeks ago

Bham

"Yes, it's the very first thing I look at in a profile. "

Wow really? It's probably the last thing I look at, if at all!!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
36 weeks ago

Age does matter to me a lot. A hell of a lot more than what money a guy has, I'm hoping to fuck em, not to start up a business with them

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

How you know they are who they say they are on a profile in age circumstance.

I trust nothing and on one on here with anything.

Age.. Is a number for some. I prefer mature people. Over 45.

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By *ellinever70Woman
36 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Yes, it matters

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By *ealitybitesMan
36 weeks ago

Belfast

"Yes, it's the very first thing I look at in a profile.

Wow really? It's probably the last thing I look at, if at all!!

Yes really. My lower age filters are not negotiable and I will always keep a 10 year gap between my eldest child's age and anyone I meet on here.

If I look at a profile and they are below those filters I will click out of it without looking at pics or reading their bio.

Age is actually one of the few hard limits I have on here.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Yep. Height, age then size of wallet

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By *inkylipsWoman
36 weeks ago

Debauchery

Unfortunately it does. I know I like and seem to be more sexually attracted to those in their 30 - 40’s

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
36 weeks ago

your head

Yes.

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By *ealitybitesMan
36 weeks ago

Belfast

To borrow what someone else said here recently.

If age is really just a number why are there so many threads whinging about people using old pics or not having their correct age on their profile?

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By *andy 1Couple
36 weeks ago

northeast

long as they have had a birthday card off the king

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

For me how we are with people is more predominate.

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By *andC1000Couple
36 weeks ago

Ashford

I’d be more picky about age than J but would also depend on how well someone has aged. There’s a lot older couples who have taken far more care of themselves and look a lot fitter and healthier than the younger generations

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By *avexxMan
36 weeks ago

cheshire

"I’d be more picky about age than J but would also depend on how well someone has aged. There’s a lot older couples who have taken far more care of themselves and look a lot fitter and healthier than the younger generations "
,,spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Apparently yes.

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By *inkyguyUKMan
36 weeks ago

worcester

Depends I mean I have an itch at the moment to fuck a woman in her 60s. In a few months I might want a younger woman. So for me yes it does

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By *orl1971Couple
36 weeks ago

Glasgow

Age does matter but sometimes there are more important factors. For us generally fitness, body shape. Would rather be with someone in their 50s who is fit than an obese 40 year old.

Having said that we don’t meet anyone younger than 35.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Central

Yes. I know my tastes very well

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By * and M lookingCouple
36 weeks ago

Worcester

Yes, as being within her preferred age means that they are more likely to be on the right page.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Kind of, I just find younger men not that attractive and feel kinda icky being with them. Older men are more my jam these days.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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36 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes it does

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
36 weeks ago

Worcester

Yes. The issue of consent becomes sticky when there’s a power dynamic.

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By *isa 59Woman
36 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yes…hence my filters

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes totally... I would be apprehensive meeting anyone younger than me as my body is wearing its age... The wider the gap, the higher the anxiety

... If we both wore paper bags with eye + breathing holes cut out that would be ok

Ooooo new kink unlocked

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

No to me as long as there is attraction, but it often matters to people I am attracted to.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
36 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I think age matters to most or do you mean as long as they are in your age range, does it matter?

C prefers her men younger for sure - she missed out on sleeping with late 30 to mid 40’s gents when she was married and has found thats her sweet spot. Ladies, we don’t mind if they are younger or older.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
36 weeks ago

Manchester

"Yes totally... I would be apprehensive meeting anyone younger than me as my body is wearing its age... The wider the gap, the higher the anxiety

... If we both wore paper bags with eye + breathing holes cut out that would be ok

Ooooo new kink unlocked

Yes but my body looks older than it is, so it would even out?

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By *randmrsbigboobsCouple
36 weeks ago

romsey

It matters a fair bit to us, but at the same time we have played with people in clubs that are older than we would choose on fab in the moment that we’ve clicked with and have gone on to have great friendships with

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

If there young enough that I could have legally given birth to them I can't. Or similar ages to my oldest son

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By *aseylee324Couple
36 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
36 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"??

Well, just like you would like the best deal and not settle for less, women too like to get the best deal.

So if you have decent amount of cash to compensate for your advanced age, age won’t be a problem.

That’s just total rubbish. Women on fab in general have no interest in a guys money, if anything it’s even a turn off for some. There’s gold diggers of course but very small minority.

So being on fab is a bench mark of sexual liberation? And a hive for insecurities and higher degrees of mental instability in the younger age group range, that those who are not on fab don't possess, sorry but absolute tosh.....

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By *D3!Man
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Yes but also no, when I was younger I was only interested in people my age, as I've gotten older that's slowly changed and I've realised I've possibly missed out because I was so strict in my age policy, doesn't mean it's a free-for-all, I'm still fussy but I'm more open than I was

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

nope not a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

It depends on your own preference I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Yep. Height, age then size of wallet "

And size of pallet?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes. I wouldn’t meet anyone under 30 but have my preferences set from 35+

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
36 weeks ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

"??"

No age is just a number.........it`s what you look like!!

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"To borrow what someone else said here recently.

If age is really just a number why are there so many threads whinging about people using old pics or not having their correct age on their profile? "

So many women here have age restricting filters. Most of comments here on the post are men replying to OP who is a guy.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
36 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes. I don't find many men in my age group sexually attractive. That doesn't mean I like younger men.....

It means men are men and if they are fanciable they are fanciable but not many of my age are..... to me.

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By *oiluvfunMan
36 weeks ago

Penrith

Age has never been an issue for me, as long as I can chat with, flirt and swap cheeky banter with my meet, it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Kind of, I just find younger men not that attractive and feel kinda icky being with them. Older men are more my jam these days."

“More my jam these days”

Never heard that line before, but definitely sounds nice.

Checked your profile out.

Best opening profile line I read.

“Boom boom boom boom I want you in my room.” One of my favourite songs.

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
36 weeks ago

Liverpool

Yes, it matters to us. No under 30’s

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

East Sussex

Basically age matters to some and not to others.

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By *omKsubSMan
36 weeks ago

Newton

No. There are other factors that are more important... so age range is consenting adult.

Although the messages I get tend to be 18 - 26 with a gap, starting again 40+ on here.

Elsewhere its the opposite, I get messages from 30 - 40 ... so idk..

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes it would. I think it would just be a bit weird going above 35+

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Sex on Fabswingers - no

Soulmate - yes (ideally similar age, interests, etc.)

Bottom line is it'd be very much dependent on chemistry (making age concern irrelevant).

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes. I couldn't date someone younger than me as it just feels weird and I couldn't go for guys over 28 as I don't want to steal them away from the bingo halls. Age is probably the first thing I look at.

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By *irAndBalayageExpertCouple
36 weeks ago

Essex

Depends on how attractive they are

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By *ex HolesMan
36 weeks ago

Up North

If they smell like Worthers Originals and got a snot hanky up their sleeve then this is where I draw the line

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By *tsJustKateWoman
36 weeks ago

London

Not really.

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By *layfullsamMan
36 weeks ago

Solihull

Not really I read the profile and look at the photos to see if there is something I like

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By *ACOLCouple
36 weeks ago

limerick

I prefer older than myself.

Lina.

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By *layfullsamMan
36 weeks ago

Solihull

"I prefer older than myself.

Lina. "

Gives hope to us older guys

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By *ustBoWoman
36 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes it matters to me.

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By *izandpaulCouple
36 weeks ago

merseyside

"If they smell like Worthers Originals and got a snot hanky up their sleeve then this is where I draw the line

Wow.

Have we met??

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By *ade crossTV/TS
36 weeks ago

chiselhurst

Yes age is important

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By *r SproutMan
36 weeks ago

the middle

It helps, I’m not strict on my age preference though

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By *udding RoseWoman
36 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

It depends, when looking at profiles on fab, I stick with my age preferences

At socials though, it can be a different story as it's not the first thing I ask somebody and if we connect, well that may change things!!

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By *irthandgirthMan
36 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"??"

Yes. This is why I set age filters on my searches.

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By *lmost TouchingMan
36 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat.

Age is not important. What is important is the maturity of the people I chat to and their personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

No, not really. Although I don't think I've met anyone sexually on Fab that has been younger than me and I've tended to go for older women just because they're who I've fancied or had the best conversations with. It's about the person for me and not the age

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By *agnar73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Respect preferences on profiles here but I guess less important at clubs or things

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By *avexxMan
36 weeks ago

cheshire

i think its a bit of a mixed bag it matters to some and not others,,

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By *itdubguyMan
36 weeks ago

Dublin

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By *orny PTMan
36 weeks ago

Peterborough

Yes it does, I see a picture that I like, read her profile and get to the bit that says "outside age range", so yes it does matter, like a no entry sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes age definitely matters to us

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By *igstiveMan
36 weeks ago

watford

I prefer older women

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By *mily36CWoman
36 weeks ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Yes, I pick up all my Men in the middle of Lidls, always a good deal on Men, better than Tesco. It does pay to shop about"

Gotta love that middle aisle

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
36 weeks ago

chichester

If I find them hot to look at then no

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By *rcoupleCouple
36 weeks ago

Mid Glam

Yes.

We are a little flexible, but we need to feel attraction and not like we are shagging our parents.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
36 weeks ago

Nr Rugby

"If they smell like Worthers Originals and got a snot hanky up their sleeve then this is where I draw the line

Shame I would share both with you

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By *reen as JadeCouple
36 weeks ago

Cheshire

We prefer older guys. But open to ideas. Not into any guy under 25. X

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By *jg83Man
36 weeks ago

BURNLEY

Yes that's why people have the preferences I'm gutted I hit 41 in January and it's took me out so many people's age range by a year haha

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By *ris GrayMan
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

Of course it does i like otoc

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By *agnar73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Yes that's why people have the preferences I'm gutted I hit 41 in January and it's took me out so many people's age range by a year haha "

51 in January there and I’m now out of so many limits, but hey ho.

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By *odgerMooreMan
36 weeks ago

Carlisle

Not a big issue for me - but im the one older than the sun… women seem to have written me off at my age - unaware that im a shagtastic beast still… their loss… once in a while one comes along and thinks ohhhhh whats the harm he’ll probably be asleep on cocoa by the time I get his slippers off… then they end up staggering home like bambi on ice skates saying.. well that was unexpected!!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
36 weeks ago

North Angus

Not really, if we get along age isn’t even questioned

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Absolutely! I have a preference for younger guys

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West

To some extent yes.

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By *xiled BikerMan
36 weeks ago

Beverley

For me not but as somebody over 60 I guess most people would not give me second glance, although I do tend to look for connections in or around my age group.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
36 weeks ago

My Own Little World

Same age older

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By *cnugatugMan
36 weeks ago

Chatham

No because age is just a number

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By *rucking-HellMan
36 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm only here for the forums these days, but when I was active here, yes, age was the first thing I'd look at. I've never been much attracted to women younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yeah I won’t meet anyone whose 18 and 19 and I think that’s too young. Apart from that no

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