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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago

This is a dating thread.

Are you open for dating, or are you just into staying single and enjoying the sexy swinging lifestyle of none committed relationships?

If you are into dating and not just a hook up sex meet, see if anyone else joins this thread, tell them you match up for a social/date and see how things go. You can match with 1 or more, this is Fab after all.

Good luck, we all need some sometimes.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
35 weeks ago

Worcester

Yes absolutely. If I’m into swinging, why wouldn’t I want to date other swingers?

I love a non-monogamous lifestyle so there’s room for both casual swinging hook-ups as well as more long-lasting connections.

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By *iasubTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Yes absolutely. If I’m into swinging, why wouldn’t I want to date other swingers?

I love a non-monogamous lifestyle so there’s room for both casual swinging hook-ups as well as more long-lasting connections."

^this

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By *MCMan
35 weeks ago

London/EA

Coming back later to see if anyone catches me eye…

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

I don’t really have time in my life unless I meet a really secure, understanding guy who wasn’t overly needy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings."

That’s a date isn’t it?

That’s my point. …

I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I’m into poly dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings.

That’s a date isn’t it?

That’s my point. …

I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. "

But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
35 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I like the idea of dating someone in the scene, but then I don't know if I want to share the swinging side of me with someone. I like that swinging is my thing I do for me. And I wouldn't be willing to give up those I already see in the scene

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By *sWyldWoman
35 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I am very open to dating. It's what I'm looking for and I make no secret of that.

Dating doesn't mean we run off into the sunset together though, it just means I want the whole experience. Not just some stollen fumbles and definitely not the "fuck and go" thing.

I would absolutely be open to having a relationship if I met the right person here. I reality I'm not really a swinger and that would possibly be the deal breaker for most given they are here.

I am happy to be non exclusive and enjoy the freedoms of being single, but in an ideal world, my happy ever after wouldn't involve other people.

Thats not a judgement in anyway, it's just how I feel and what I know about myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings.

That’s a date isn’t it?

That’s my point. …

I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes.

But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun."

Wrong. Or that how you see it.

I’ve asked someone in fab for a proper date, and we’d never had sex. I actually meant it.

But you wouldn’t do that with anyone would you?

Just someone you felt might be in your level for something to build on.

And so, this is my point with this thread.

But if you see that all people on fab have to offer you is sex and nothing more, I can see why you wouldn’t date from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings.

That’s a date isn’t it?

That’s my point. …

I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes.

But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun.

Wrong. Or that how you see it.

I’ve asked someone in fab for a proper date, and we’d never had sex. I actually meant it.

But you wouldn’t do that with anyone would you?

Just someone you felt might be in your level for something to build on.

And so, this is my point with this thread.

But if you see that all people on fab have to offer you is sex and nothing more, I can see why you wouldn’t date from here.

"

Whats wrong is asking for opinions and then picking apart someone for their answers. You do you, I'm gonna leave it there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings.

That’s a date isn’t it?

That’s my point. …

I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes.

But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun.

Wrong. Or that how you see it.

I’ve asked someone in fab for a proper date, and we’d never had sex. I actually meant it.

But you wouldn’t do that with anyone would you?

Just someone you felt might be in your level for something to build on.

And so, this is my point with this thread.

But if you see that all people on fab have to offer you is sex and nothing more, I can see why you wouldn’t date from here.

Whats wrong is asking for opinions and then picking apart someone for their answers. You do you, I'm gonna leave it there. "

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By *acksparrow99Man
35 weeks ago

London

Dating other swingers? Yes.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
35 weeks ago

Somewhere

I'd be open to it

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
35 weeks ago

Worcester


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings.

That’s a date isn’t it?

That’s my point. …

I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes.

But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun."

That’s not true. I’ve certainly signed up with the intention to date people who are into swinging, as well as continuing to have more casual encounters.

And you can have sex on the first date if you want to. It doesn’t make it less of a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings.

That’s a date isn’t it?

That’s my point. …

I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes.

But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun.

That’s not true. I’ve certainly signed up with the intention to date people who are into swinging, as well as continuing to have more casual encounters.

And you can have sex on the first date if you want to. It doesn’t make it less of a date."

This!

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By *ife NinjaMan
35 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I'd love a date, so why not a fabber? At least everyone can be honest with each other

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By *ookie46Woman
35 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I am very open to dating. It's what I'm looking for and I make no secret of that.

Dating doesn't mean we run off into the sunset together though, it just means I want the whole experience. Not just some stollen fumbles and definitely not the "fuck and go" thing.

I would absolutely be open to having a relationship if I met the right person here. I reality I'm not really a swinger and that would possibly be the deal breaker for most given they are here.

I am happy to be non exclusive and enjoy the freedoms of being single, but in an ideal world, my happy ever after wouldn't involve other people.

Thats not a judgement in anyway, it's just how I feel and what I know about myself. "

I could have wrote that myself but not as eloquently

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By *adyBugsWoman
35 weeks ago

cognito

You can find relationships anywhere right? Here is just as good as any.

With the right person I’d be open to it. But it’d be something that grows organically from a deep friendship first, not something I’d be actively seeking to find.

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By *sWyldWoman
35 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings.

That’s a date isn’t it?

That’s my point. …

I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes.

But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun.

That’s not true. I’ve certainly signed up with the intention to date people who are into swinging, as well as continuing to have more casual encounters.

And you can have sex on the first date if you want to. It doesn’t make it less of a date."

You can also wait til date 3 on fab too

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By *ornycougaWoman
35 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings.

That’s a date isn’t it?

That’s my point. …

I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes.

But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun."

I tried Bumble briefly and from the 2 interactions I had before I deleted it they were expecting nudes and/or sex from the get go. Loads of guys on here are open to the more social side as well as (and in some cases instead of) a quick fuck and go.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
35 weeks ago

Basingstoke

As has been proven by many couples on Fab, relationships happen - whether seeking to date or not. I've met people on here and have gone on to have romantic relationships with them, where we've swung as a couple.

So yes, I'd absolutely be open to dating a swinger again and seeing where it leads.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex

Not something I need to worry about luckily. I’m undateable anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago


"Not something I need to worry about luckily. I’m undateable anyway."

That’s how I feel sometimes. Hence this thread.

You are someone’s type, it’s just getting yourself out there to be noticed I think. *my oppinion.

I don’t, and I’m trying to change it.

I realy hope the people who join this thread with an open mind find a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Absolutely not

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By *arla SwingerWoman
35 weeks ago

Somewhere

It's always just that elusive needle in a haystack innit... Finding someone open to it, localish, and then clicking with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago


"Absolutely not "

I can’t believe there’s so much negativity to an idea.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
35 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Wasn't my plan but was open to it...the rest they say is history

Tinder

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By *illyTwinkleWoman
35 weeks ago

South Tyneside

Absolutely YES. Why wouldn’t you! Best of everything in my opinion.

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By *elix SightedMan
35 weeks ago

Cloud 8

It’s not something I would proactively seek on fab, but I was never closed off to the idea.

I’ve been seeking a relationship away from the lifestyle because I feel it better suits what I want. However, if I’d been playing with someone on fab I had really clicked with, and the opportunity arose, and we both felt it was the right thing to do, I would certainly have considered it.

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By *mie subCDTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Doncaster

I would date one ha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago


"It’s not something I would proactively seek on fab, but I was never closed off to the idea.

I’ve been seeking a relationship away from the lifestyle because I feel it better suits what I want. However, if I’d been playing with someone on fab I had really clicked with, and the opportunity arose, and we both felt it was the right thing to do, I would certainly have considered it.

"

Would you have then stayed with this kinky side? Or have you ventured to just going ‘vanilla’ (hate that phrase). Just out of interest, because I’m nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Absolutely not

I can’t believe there’s so much negativity to an idea. "

Probably just down to my own experience with berserkers

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
35 weeks ago

chichester

Maybe if a woman existed on here that was into dating a trans woman I would.

Otherwise it’s just sex basically

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

35 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm not single heaven forfend that I were but yeah, hypothetically I'd date a fab member.

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By *loriouscurvesWoman
35 weeks ago

wild west lothian

Yes I’m open to it

I’ve dated 2 guys I met via fab. Online dating is horrific and meeting someone via here I do at least get to be my whole self which is rather refreshing.

How we as a couple move forward is up to us but you can date and form relationships via here.

I don’t wish to date every guy I meet here and it’s only something that comes up when you realise how often you are in contact and how much time you are spending together.

I’m open to it.

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By *irthandgirthMan
35 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Have done. Twice.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
35 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"I'm not single heaven forfend that I were but yeah, hypothetically I'd date a fab member. "

Ditto. Same here.

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By *ycanNightsMan
35 weeks ago

Workington

I mean I already do ...so obviously yes

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By *Cups32Woman
35 weeks ago

Colne

I'd happily be open to dating a fellow fabster...

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By *elix SightedMan
35 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"It’s not something I would proactively seek on fab, but I was never closed off to the idea.

I’ve been seeking a relationship away from the lifestyle because I feel it better suits what I want. However, if I’d been playing with someone on fab I had really clicked with, and the opportunity arose, and we both felt it was the right thing to do, I would certainly have considered it.

Would you have then stayed with this kinky side? Or have you ventured to just going ‘vanilla’ (hate that phrase). Just out of interest, because I’m nosey. "

Depends on what we both wanted. I would assume fab would always be a part of our lives as we met there and are comfortable with the lifestyle. I suppose the natural assumption would be to make a couples profile or keep single ones. But that’s all speculation.

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By *ris GrayMan
35 weeks ago

Dorchester

Yes definitely

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By *ookie46Woman
35 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have done and been hurt badly ….

Would I do it again ….. yeah

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
35 weeks ago

North West

I'd be happy to date.

It doesn't mean I want a LTR.

I'd like to find someone to hang out with.

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

.

I'm poly. Open to dating but not actively looking to, if that makes sense?

For me, I'm not a swinger. I don't have sex when I first meet someone (a handful of people in a decade), I'm not attracted to people unless there's a level of friendship there. I don't think dating has to mean running in to the sunset. So yes, I would. I'm happy right now with friendships and seeing what organically develops without pressure though. It's going well.

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By *riel13Woman
35 weeks ago

Northampton

I am not up for a full on, committed relationship but if I was a fabber wouldn't be discounted

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

I'd be up for dating a fabber

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By *hinstrapMan
35 weeks ago

Barnsley

Yup I'm open to see if anything develops. Who knows never say never

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By *tag4VixenMan
35 weeks ago

Durham

I’m very keen on the idea of dating someone who is already in the lifestyle. A vanilla relationship just wouldn’t work for me but I do want the commitment of a LTR with the bonus of enjoying certain kinks in addition.

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By *henanigatorMan
35 weeks ago

Lincoln

Looking for a woman if any E Midlands or Yorkshire ladies are interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Have and would again - why not?!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
35 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I think I'd like to do some dating this year. But still wouldn't want the full on relationship.

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By *parkle1974Woman
35 weeks ago

Leeds

I met my now ex partner on here x

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By *ad NannaWoman
35 weeks ago

East London

I'm just here for the ego boost.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

[checks space in the freezer]

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Id be open to it for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"I'm just here for the ego boost."

That’s my line

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By *agnar73Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Id be open to it for sure "

I date nic too

(Joking.. joking before I get in trouble)

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Stockport

I'll give it a try.

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By *ilybethWoman
35 weeks ago

Leeds

I absolutely would be open to dating someone from here. Not sure I’d want to continue though, I don’t really consider myself a swinger as I am single.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
35 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I’m open to dating on here but it’s not what I’m expecting. The men I’m attracted to on here seem to be guys I wouldn’t have normally come into contact with away from fab and we’re rarely life style compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I would totally date from here. Indeed many socials felt more like dates

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
35 weeks ago

.

I might’ve said yes a while ago but not as sure now. Led to believe I’m dateable but end up hurt

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

We originally came here looking for a FWB type thing for me and group shenanigans. A combination of factors has lead us not to have made much progress. I don't feel like I have enough time for committing to any kind of dating but the poly idea does appeal. I don't want to lead anyone on, though. And I want enough time for my husband.

Have we tried extending the week or slowing down time?!

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I would totally be open to dating

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By *ris GrayMan
35 weeks ago

Dorchester

I'm roly and I'd be up for this

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By *eartShapedBoxxxWoman
35 weeks ago

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I have previously and would again. Definitely makes the sex better once you understand each other more...and I miss falling asleep spooning & waking up to morning sex

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By *agnar73Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

On the other thread I said I doubt it, but stranger things have happened I guess. Travel in hope and all that?

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By *a LunaWoman
35 weeks ago

South Wales

I have done, albeit briefly.

It’s not something I would actively seek out, just as I no longer have interest in dating apps etc. I realised I prefer my romances to happen organically. Spontaneously.

I’m also not a swinger, so I don’t think dating a swinger would be fair on either of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Of course. We’re most likely to be compatible with someone on here! So long as we want the same why not

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
35 weeks ago

Hell

I’ve dated people from fab before now, and I probably would again.

I’m at a stage where I’m very jaded by dating right now though, I’m very burnt out. So Prince Charming will have to find me instead of the other way around

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By *rill PhilMan
35 weeks ago

Crediton

My relationships are strictly monogamous so, if there was someone on here I had a connection with, who was also in favour of monogamy in a relationship, I can't think or any reason I wouldn't.

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By *assy LassieWoman
35 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Don't think I could go back to conventional relationship now. So yeah why wouldn't dating here be an option. It's all down to connection really

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Is more dating in fabs the reach the eye .

I think : the dating or long term interest is higher then just hook up or nsa .

Im getting married from fabs ,

many people , (mainly couples) here are .

The rumour about Fabs is a " sex-site" is not as accurate ...

Me personally :

NSA , FWB , dating ,etc is all labels ...

What counts is the chemistry n how it feels ...

And yes a NSA is treated with love and passion .

NSA doesnt mean cold toy

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By *ohntall123Man
35 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"Don't think I could go back to conventional relationship now. So yeah why wouldn't dating here be an option. It's all down to connection really"

Couldn’t agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Did date someone off here but to my eternal regret we failed to make it work. We could and should have done better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago

Did anyone get a date yet?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire


"Did anyone get a date yet? "
I’ve not even got a sex date yet, let alone a date date

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By *hagTonightMan
35 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I am up for it. I like coffee dates

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By *arminsideMan
35 weeks ago

Barnsley

Yes of course. It's just a swinging site. I love fucking and filth. Would be a perfect match if I was looking to date.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Central

I'm in for a bloke

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton


"Did anyone get a date yet? "

Nope lol

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By *emidemiWoman
35 weeks ago

basingstoke

I love dating.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton


"I love dating. "

I've never really done it lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

I want something in between- local regular non monogamous fwb

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By *agneto.Man
35 weeks ago

Bham


"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings."

This strikes a chord with me and I definitely agree.

But no, dating is not what I'm looking for at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I hate being single, but I suck at relationships. I’m not sure if that’s because monogamy isn’t for me, or if I’m just shit at dating. Hit me up if this appeals to you

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"I hate being single, but I suck at relationships. I’m not sure if that’s because monogamy isn’t for me, or if I’m just shit at dating. Hit me up if this appeals to you "

I feel ya!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton


"I hate being single, but I suck at relationships. I’m not sure if that’s because monogamy isn’t for me, or if I’m just shit at dating. Hit me up if this appeals to you

I feel ya!"

I'd feel you both

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By *ard2pleaseCouple
35 weeks ago

Slough

I’m a fecking hippy, I love everyone! x

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
35 weeks ago

Oh yes please! I miss going on dates and the butterflies and excitement before them

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By *inochioMan
35 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Im married so " dating " would be pointless. Going out for social drinks or "date" type activities, yeah why not. Looking for friends with benefits dont need the sex benefit all the time.

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By *rowley616Man
35 weeks ago

Scarborough

I am single, poly and would love to take a fine woman out for dinner. Chance would be a fine thing.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading


"I am single, poly and would love to take a fine woman out for dinner. Chance would be a fine thing."

Move to Reading and you are on

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By *weetCherryWoman
35 weeks ago

London

I could be, problem is no one would date me

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By *r and Mrs CACACouple
35 weeks ago

congleton

We’d both look for a third to join us in our naughty lifestyle wouldnt have a problem

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By *xfordjohnMan
35 weeks ago

Oxford

Definitely up for dating and with a fellow Fab, at least you'd have an interesting conversation straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Date a fab.. Nah

I prefer single pringle no drama illama

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By *ntrigued888Woman
35 weeks ago

Beds

Be nice to go to clubs with someone

I've been 4 times by myself and it's just not the same

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By *agnar73Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Be nice to go to clubs with someone

I've been 4 times by myself and it's just not the same "

Twice myself. Be much better with someone

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By *ulu and MonkeyCouple
35 weeks ago

Durham

Why not? Sounds like a sexy idea

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By *aximum_funMan
35 weeks ago

West Herts

Dating is great, really enjoyable. I've been in some fab dates, hasn't gone anywhere but I like going somewhere nice and chatting with someone new anyway so all good!

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By *lan157Man
35 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Dating swinger friends worked for me on several levels .We better understood each other and were able to participate together.Dating meant we had all the other shared interests to enjoy as well .

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Stockport


"I want something in between- local regular non monogamous fwb"

I think that this would be the sort of thing that would suit me as well.

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By *hagTonightMan
35 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Did anyone get a date yet? "
No, not yet.

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By *eroLondonMan
30 weeks ago

Covent Garden

A travesty that I missed this thread. There are some date-worthy people on here.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Stockport

There are a few that I would love to date, but they are always at the other end of the universe

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I couldn't see myself dating anyone.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
30 weeks ago

London (She/Her)


"A travesty that I missed this thread. There are some date-worthy people on here. "

Nero! I can see your nipples

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By *eroLondonMan
30 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"A travesty that I missed this thread. There are some date-worthy people on here.

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Nero! I can see your nipples "

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