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"Yes absolutely. If I’m into swinging, why wouldn’t I want to date other swingers? I love a non-monogamous lifestyle so there’s room for both casual swinging hook-ups as well as more long-lasting connections." ^this | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings." That’s a date isn’t it? That’s my point. … I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings. That’s a date isn’t it? That’s my point. … I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. " But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun. | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings. That’s a date isn’t it? That’s my point. … I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun." Wrong. Or that how you see it. I’ve asked someone in fab for a proper date, and we’d never had sex. I actually meant it. But you wouldn’t do that with anyone would you? Just someone you felt might be in your level for something to build on. And so, this is my point with this thread. But if you see that all people on fab have to offer you is sex and nothing more, I can see why you wouldn’t date from here. | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings. That’s a date isn’t it? That’s my point. … I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun. Wrong. Or that how you see it. I’ve asked someone in fab for a proper date, and we’d never had sex. I actually meant it. But you wouldn’t do that with anyone would you? Just someone you felt might be in your level for something to build on. And so, this is my point with this thread. But if you see that all people on fab have to offer you is sex and nothing more, I can see why you wouldn’t date from here. " Whats wrong is asking for opinions and then picking apart someone for their answers. You do you, I'm gonna leave it there. | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings. That’s a date isn’t it? That’s my point. … I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun. Wrong. Or that how you see it. I’ve asked someone in fab for a proper date, and we’d never had sex. I actually meant it. But you wouldn’t do that with anyone would you? Just someone you felt might be in your level for something to build on. And so, this is my point with this thread. But if you see that all people on fab have to offer you is sex and nothing more, I can see why you wouldn’t date from here. Whats wrong is asking for opinions and then picking apart someone for their answers. You do you, I'm gonna leave it there. " | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings. That’s a date isn’t it? That’s my point. … I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun." That’s not true. I’ve certainly signed up with the intention to date people who are into swinging, as well as continuing to have more casual encounters. And you can have sex on the first date if you want to. It doesn’t make it less of a date. | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings. That’s a date isn’t it? That’s my point. … I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun. That’s not true. I’ve certainly signed up with the intention to date people who are into swinging, as well as continuing to have more casual encounters. And you can have sex on the first date if you want to. It doesn’t make it less of a date." This! | |||
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"I am very open to dating. It's what I'm looking for and I make no secret of that. Dating doesn't mean we run off into the sunset together though, it just means I want the whole experience. Not just some stollen fumbles and definitely not the "fuck and go" thing. I would absolutely be open to having a relationship if I met the right person here. I reality I'm not really a swinger and that would possibly be the deal breaker for most given they are here. I am happy to be non exclusive and enjoy the freedoms of being single, but in an ideal world, my happy ever after wouldn't involve other people. Thats not a judgement in anyway, it's just how I feel and what I know about myself. " I could have wrote that myself but not as eloquently | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings. That’s a date isn’t it? That’s my point. … I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun. That’s not true. I’ve certainly signed up with the intention to date people who are into swinging, as well as continuing to have more casual encounters. And you can have sex on the first date if you want to. It doesn’t make it less of a date." You can also wait til date 3 on fab too | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings. That’s a date isn’t it? That’s my point. … I think everyone kinda jumps the gun sometimes. But it's not possible on fab. People don't sign up with the intention to date, they want to bang. The only way people begin dating is by starting with the sex so you can't avoid jumping the gun." I tried Bumble briefly and from the 2 interactions I had before I deleted it they were expecting nudes and/or sex from the get go. Loads of guys on here are open to the more social side as well as (and in some cases instead of) a quick fuck and go. | |||
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"Not something I need to worry about luckily. I’m undateable anyway." That’s how I feel sometimes. Hence this thread. You are someone’s type, it’s just getting yourself out there to be noticed I think. *my oppinion. I don’t, and I’m trying to change it. I realy hope the people who join this thread with an open mind find a date. | |||
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"Absolutely not " I can’t believe there’s so much negativity to an idea. | |||
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"It’s not something I would proactively seek on fab, but I was never closed off to the idea. I’ve been seeking a relationship away from the lifestyle because I feel it better suits what I want. However, if I’d been playing with someone on fab I had really clicked with, and the opportunity arose, and we both felt it was the right thing to do, I would certainly have considered it. " Would you have then stayed with this kinky side? Or have you ventured to just going ‘vanilla’ (hate that phrase). Just out of interest, because I’m nosey. | |||
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"Absolutely not I can’t believe there’s so much negativity to an idea. " Probably just down to my own experience with berserkers | |||
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"I'm not single heaven forfend that I were but yeah, hypothetically I'd date a fab member. " Ditto. Same here. | |||
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"It’s not something I would proactively seek on fab, but I was never closed off to the idea. I’ve been seeking a relationship away from the lifestyle because I feel it better suits what I want. However, if I’d been playing with someone on fab I had really clicked with, and the opportunity arose, and we both felt it was the right thing to do, I would certainly have considered it. Would you have then stayed with this kinky side? Or have you ventured to just going ‘vanilla’ (hate that phrase). Just out of interest, because I’m nosey. " Depends on what we both wanted. I would assume fab would always be a part of our lives as we met there and are comfortable with the lifestyle. I suppose the natural assumption would be to make a couples profile or keep single ones. But that’s all speculation. | |||
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"Id be open to it for sure " I date nic too (Joking.. joking before I get in trouble) | |||
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"Don't think I could go back to conventional relationship now. So yeah why wouldn't dating here be an option. It's all down to connection really" Couldn’t agree more | |||
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"Did anyone get a date yet? " I’ve not even got a sex date yet, let alone a date date | |||
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"Did anyone get a date yet? " Nope lol | |||
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"I love dating. " I've never really done it lol | |||
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"Personally it's not for me, I don't want to start a relationship with sex. If I was to date someone I'd want to build a different foundation before introducing sex to separate lust and genuine feelings." This strikes a chord with me and I definitely agree. But no, dating is not what I'm looking for at the moment. | |||
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"I hate being single, but I suck at relationships. I’m not sure if that’s because monogamy isn’t for me, or if I’m just shit at dating. Hit me up if this appeals to you " I feel ya! | |||
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"I hate being single, but I suck at relationships. I’m not sure if that’s because monogamy isn’t for me, or if I’m just shit at dating. Hit me up if this appeals to you I feel ya!" I'd feel you both | |||
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"I am single, poly and would love to take a fine woman out for dinner. Chance would be a fine thing." Move to Reading and you are on | |||
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"Be nice to go to clubs with someone I've been 4 times by myself and it's just not the same " Twice myself. Be much better with someone | |||
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"I want something in between- local regular non monogamous fwb" I think that this would be the sort of thing that would suit me as well. | |||
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"Did anyone get a date yet? " No, not yet. | |||
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"A travesty that I missed this thread. There are some date-worthy people on here. " Nero! I can see your nipples | |||
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"A travesty that I missed this thread. There are some date-worthy people on here. · Nero! I can see your nipples " • | |||
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