FabSwingers.com forum: RIP Licketysplits

West Sussex

Some of the old timers on here will know Lickety through the forums, clubs and parties.

Over the years, we became good friends, which I'm proud of.

Sadly she passed away after a short illness yesterday. I'll be attending her funeral when it's organised. If anyone else was a friend and wants details, please drop me a private message.

RIP Lickety. A unique and lovely person x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
28 weeks ago

East Sussex

That's a shock! RIP. Sincere condolences to her family and friends.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
28 weeks ago

Hell

Oh my goodness… I can’t believe this

I used to like her posts way back in the day. RIP

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By *otSoPoshWoman
28 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Such sad news. She was lovely.

Rest in peace, beautiful soul

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
28 weeks ago

Southampton

I didn't know Lickety although her name is familiar. Such a very sad loss, sending much love to her friends and family xx

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By *iss SinWoman
28 weeks ago

portchester

So sorry to hear this

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
28 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

In a word....fuck!

She came to my last wedding.

RIP - an absolutely beautiful soul.

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By *ife NinjaMan
28 weeks ago

Dunfermline

No way! Met her at a social in London. Sad. RIP

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Bloody hell!

She was lovely!

I hope all her family and friends are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Sad to hear this ! RIP Lickety!

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By *ggdrasil66Man
28 weeks ago

Saltdean

Sorry to hear this. RIP.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
28 weeks ago

in Lancashire

That's really sad news, she was an absolute gem of a person..

Caring, humane and a way with words that was unique..

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By *ad NannaWoman
28 weeks ago

East London

Devastating news.

Rest in peace my dear honorary twin.

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By *abioMan
28 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Oh my god!!!

She was a kindred spirit of mine… wow!!!

One of the nicest people I’ve have known on here….

I’m in shock

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By *sWyldWoman
28 weeks ago

Edinburgh

This is such sad news. She was so lovely. Thoughts to all her family and friends

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By *edeWoman
28 weeks ago

the abyss

Such sad news. Thinking of all those close to her

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By *ovingSussexLife OP Man
28 weeks ago

West Sussex

I remember her being so excited about your wedding.

I was GentlemanBen back then x

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By *ovingSussexLife OP Man
28 weeks ago

West Sussex

"Oh my god!!!

She was a kindred spirit of mine… wow!!!

One of the nicest people I’ve have known on here….

I’m in shock "

She was an amazing soul. One of the wisest friends I had

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
28 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Wow, was not expecting to read that news.

That’s very sad. Was thinking of her only a few days ago when I saw her name on an old thread someone had resurrected think it was one of woodys.

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By *ovingSussexLife OP Man
28 weeks ago

West Sussex

"That's really sad news, she was an absolute gem of a person..

Caring, humane and a way with words that was unique.."

I think this sums her up nicely x

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By *wisted999Man
28 weeks ago

North Bucks

Someone who took time out to be nice to me on the forums.

Rip indeed.

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By *im ForbedMan
28 weeks ago

Winchester

Very sorry to learn this. We enjoyed a very pleasant lunch when she was visiting my patch a good few years ago now. A lady of style and character.

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By *essiCouple
28 weeks ago

suffolk

"Such sad news. Thinking of all those close to her

This..such sad news..

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By *ife NinjaMan
28 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Gerry has emailed me to pass on her best wishes and condolences

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
28 weeks ago

Markfield

Very sad to read this, please accept my condolences x

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Had many a chat on here. Lovely lady. So sad to hear this news

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By *VineMan
28 weeks ago

The right place

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
28 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I'm sorry not to have known them. They must've been very special from all these posts

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
28 weeks ago

North Wales

Ahh so sad to read this

condolences to family and friends

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By *ookie46Woman
28 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

So sad to read this …..

A lovely lady who I had the pleasure of meeting at a few socials and who always had a wonderful forum presence

RIP Lickety

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
28 weeks ago

Debauchery

Lickety was adorable, intelligent, classy and I am sad that I will never get to see her again. I have some some great memories of her and I class myself lucky to have spent time with the teeny, tiny, sexy bundle of joy that was Lickety

Cherry x

Ps She made me feel tall, so very tall

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
28 weeks ago

Debauchery

I was fortunate enough to while away a sunny Saturday afternoon in a London park with Cherry Lickety a load of other fabbers.

After the park we all got to go to a bar to sit, talk and exchange stories. I sat next to Lickety whilst we ate food. She asked me all about my life, about meeting Cherry and promised (like so many have) to hunt me down if I did anything to upset her

She was intelligent, interested in what was saying and was really interesting. She had a sincere wonderful smile that was so welcoming it made me feel right at ease sat next to her.

I remarked to Cherry afterwards about her bright warm smile and her sincerity and thought to myself I’d love to see her and chew the fat with her again. “I’m sure we’ll get the chance to chat again” I thought to myself, I never did though and I’m both angry and sad about it.

Posting on a forum thread feels like scant tribute to such a lovely person who seems to have brought a smile to everyone who she met and I wish I could do more.

Be kind each other people, you never know when you may not get a chance again.

Hades

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
28 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Oh no! Gutted to heat this, she was one of a kind with a heart of gold

Love to Lickety, her friends and family

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By *eyond PurityCouple
28 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

A beautiful person who was taken far too soon.

RIP

BP x

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By *imply DeeWoman
28 weeks ago

Wherever

Fly high beautiful x

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By *ovingSussexLife OP Man
28 weeks ago

West Sussex

"I was fortunate enough to while away a sunny Saturday afternoon in a London park with Cherry Lickety a load of other fabbers.

She was intelligent, interested in what was saying and was really interesting. She had a sincere wonderful smile that was so welcoming it made me feel right at ease sat next to her.

Posting on a forum thread feels like scant tribute to such a lovely person who seems to have brought a smile to everyone who she met and I wish I could do more.

Be kind each other people, you never know when you may not get a chance again.

Hades

She was such a lovely lady. I'm glad you got to spend time with her x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
28 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

An absolute forum legend I remember her well ..

Very sad

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By *LiamMan
28 weeks ago

Midlands

Rest easy

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
28 weeks ago

On a mooch

So sad & shocked to read this.

I got to meet this wee unique bundle a few times at socials and she was a beautiful character, so easy to talk to and share laughs with.

RIP lovely Lickety

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By *ora the explorerWoman
28 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

So sad to read this. I remember she literally did light the room up last time I saw her. It was a Christmas social and she had Christmas lights attached to her clothes

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By *ik MMan
28 weeks ago

Lancashire

Sad news, a lovely lady and so much fun to be around

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Central

Oh God!

She was such a wonderful person. What a terrible loss. Thanks for updating us OP.

A huge loss to us

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
28 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Oh my goodness, this is a shock. So sad to hear.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
28 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Some of the old timers on here will know Lickety through the forums, clubs and parties.

Over the years, we became good friends, which I'm proud of.

Sadly she passed away after a short illness yesterday. I'll be attending her funeral when it's organised. If anyone else was a friend and wants details, please drop me a private message.

RIP Lickety. A unique and lovely person x"
omg.... that's so very sad. Many a good giggle was had with lickerty over the years. Good Times at the STP...

Truly sad to hear this

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By *udding RoseWoman
28 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

Sorry to hear this news....

Wasn't Lickity the lady who used to organise the dating threads, some people got really lucky and became couples?

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By *midnight-Woman
28 weeks ago

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Such sad news, i remember her posts and i think she used to have a love heart +lips for her profile pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Very sad news.

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By *udding RoseWoman
28 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Sorry to hear this news....

Wasn't Lickity the lady who used to organise the dating threads, some people got really lucky and became couples? "

Or was it the Sunday morning threads. She seemed so so nice on the forums and a great laugh, she would have you in giggles. RIP Lickity xx

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Sorry to hear this news....

Wasn't Lickity the lady who used to organise the dating threads, some people got really lucky and became couples?

Or was it the Sunday morning threads. She seemed so so nice on the forums and a great laugh, she would have you in giggles. RIP Lickity xx

I think Lickety actually set up a dating website.

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By *hagTonightMan
28 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

That is sad news, r.i.p.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Sad sad news..

Heaven has gained another angel.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
28 weeks ago

wonderland.

Last time I saw Lickety was at the last STP...

Reeling over this x

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Shit.

I remember her from years ago on here. She was always lovely.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
28 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'm in shock. She was the same age as me. One of a few on here who met my late partner and I think he was a little smitten by her. Condolences to her family, I know she was very close to her sister and nephews

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By *ex HolesMan
28 weeks ago

Up North

This is very sad news. RIP Lickerty

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
28 weeks ago

North West

We met Lickety a couple of times at socials and she was as everyone else has said. Lovely, kind, warm and friendly. It was a shock when Nanna let me know earlier today about Lickety passing away.

Our condolences go to all her friends and family

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By *stellaWoman
28 weeks ago

London

This has made me so very sad. Lickety was a swinger mum to me and took me under her wee wing - full of care, compassion and love. She was pure heart and so much fun to hang out with. Devastating news. I shall miss her greatly.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
28 weeks ago

ashford

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By *heGateKeeperMan
28 weeks ago

Stratford

My first meet was the STP so this saddens me massively xx

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By *ularliWoman
28 weeks ago

burnham

I didn’t know her but over the years of coming and going on here I often saw her posts/comments on the forum.

Thinking of you all who knew her personally

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"I didn’t know her but over the years of coming and going on here I often saw her posts/comments on the forum.

Thinking of you all who knew her personally

Same, she seemed lovely. RIP

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By *eliWoman
28 weeks ago

Rest in peace dear Lickety.

She meant a lot. She was a lot but in the best of ways - passionate, caring, intense and always with wisdom and time for others. Made you feel like you mattered, were seen and heard. Friendships, work. Random thoughts or more serious matters.

Lickety was truly brilliant and the world is a little less bright without her and her love.

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By *ty31Man
28 weeks ago

NW London

I don't have anything to add to the beautiful words others have written because I didn't know Lickety personally but I remember her from Fab and she always came across as lovely person, a good soul and a beacon of common sense and sanity.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Some of the old timers on here will know Lickety through the forums, clubs and parties.

Over the years, we became good friends, which I'm proud of.

Sadly she passed away after a short illness yesterday. I'll be attending her funeral when it's organised. If anyone else was a friend and wants details, please drop me a private message.

RIP Lickety. A unique and lovely person x"

Oh my days. X so sad rest in peace Angel.

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By *udding RoseWoman
28 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Rest in peace dear Lickety.

Lickety was truly brilliant and the world is a little less bright without her and her love.

The great ones always die too young....

she seems like one of those loveable people you just had to like. I hope she gets a good send off. For the next organised social, you should do something in memory of her! Play her favourite songs and tell your stories of what she meant to you. Xx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
28 weeks ago

Cheshire

Just searched on the forums and found her profile, what a cool person she was. The photos especially show a really switched on and sexy personality / amusing persona. Unfortunately I never had the opportunity to meet her but I know I’d definitely like her.

Someone up there obviously wanted to meet her as well. RIP the forums lost a good soul

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Oh my goodness… I can’t believe this

I used to like her posts way back in the day. RIP

Me too.

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By *oeBeansMan
28 weeks ago

Derby

I remember the name but don't think I quite got to know her. It sounds like she was an amazing woman though who touched a lot of people

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Stockport

The fab world is a smaller place xxx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
28 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

Goodnight Lickety x

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

RIP sending condolences to family and friends in this time of sadness

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By *a LunaWoman
27 weeks ago

South

Sending love to all her family and friends. Her forum posts always came across as wise and understanding. Bit shocked to be honest.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
27 weeks ago

south coast IOW

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
27 weeks ago

south coast IOW

RIP Lickety. The name is familiar but we never met. The loss of anyone is always sad but the loss of someone who many people clearly think very highly of and who touched so many lives in a good way is a tragedy. You will clearly be missed. X

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By *mber SkiesWoman
27 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

Always sad when a fab member have passed away unexpectedly

rip beaut x

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By *ea monkeyMan
27 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Oh god, that’s so sad. I’m absolutely shocked and stunned

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By *ady LickWoman
27 weeks ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sad news, never met her but did chat briefly, she seemed very kind and lovely.

Condolences to her friends on here.

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By *easeRyanCouple
27 weeks ago

Devastated. Lickety was one of my first friends on here have some great memories. She even dressed me as a tv for a forum challenge. Took her an age to arrange the knickers position! RIP buddy, miss our coffee dates

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By *JB1954Man
27 weeks ago

Reading

Rip to another forum member who contributed to this site .

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

This is terrible news. Lickety was one of the loveliest people I ever met from here. She had a wicked sense of humour and she was massively intelligent.

MrWho.

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By *illan-KillashMan
27 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Like a lot of people here I met Lickety many times over the years.

Hugely influential to me in my early years of swinging, wise, articulate, funny, fair, engaging and never afraid to pull me up when I was wrong.

To say she left a lasting impression is an understatement.

Sleep well dear lady. And thank you.

RIP Lickety.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Rest in peace

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By *olarbear73Man
27 weeks ago

Glasgow

Sad news indeed. RIP Lickety x

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By *midnight-Woman
27 weeks ago

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She touched so many people - maybe we should have a photo challenge in her memory x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
27 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

RIP.

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By *oodmessMan
27 weeks ago

yumsville

My condolences, I didn't know her personally, only by name, though she sounds someone who enjoyed life to the full

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By *udding RoseWoman
27 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"She touched so many people - maybe we should have a photo challenge in her memory x"

That sounds lovely and maybe a social could be organised in her memory, play her favourite songs, what was her favourite colour, wear something that reflects her favourite colour, tell your stories of what you remember of her!! Or maybe, in your own time, set off a balloon for her. Xx

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By *ubikslongswordMan
27 weeks ago

East Grinstead

We never got to meet lickety but for all our years on the forums, she was a strong presence and many a debate, she will be very missed.

Doughnut and Danish x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Central

She was truly the best of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Oh how sad

I met her many years ago when I did the London Moonwalk. A few of us from Fab met up for lunch the following day. She was a lovely, kind person and one of the Forumites I've been keeping an eye out for since returning. RIP Lickety.

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By *illan-KillashMan
27 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

When we die, we die twice.

The first time when our last breath leaves our body.

The second time, the last time someone says our name.

All the time Lickety is in someone’s thoughts, she'll always be here.

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By *ad NannaWoman
27 weeks ago

East London

"When we die, we die twice.

The first time when our last breath leaves our body.

The second time, the last time someone says our name.

All the time Lickety is in someone’s thoughts, she'll always be here.

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By *urvytreatWoman
27 weeks ago

somewhere nice

I never had the pleasure, but god bless x

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By *ealitybitesMan
27 weeks ago

Belfast

RIP.

I only exchanged a few messages 4 or 5 years ago but from what I remember she was easy to chat to.

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By *layfullsamMan
27 weeks ago

Solihull

Omg noooo that’s awful news.

Huge reminder that tomorrow’s never promised

Lovely lady

RIP licketysplits

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By *onglegcoupleCouple
27 weeks ago

manchester

I met lickety when she came up to manchester in cupids about 10 years ago!!! Very nice person RIP

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"When we die, we die twice.

The first time when our last breath leaves our body.

The second time, the last time someone says our name.

All the time Lickety is in someone’s thoughts, she'll always be here.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
27 weeks ago

wonderland.

"She touched so many people - maybe we should have a photo challenge in her memory x

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Perhaps the STP could have a revival in her memory xx

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By *issmorganWoman
27 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Oh no, I'm so sad to read this

I used to like her posts and she came across as such a lovely lady.

Sleep tight LS x

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

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Perhaps the STP could have a revival in her memory xx"

What A good idea. Didn’t Hatter used to organise them with her? If he is still around?

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
27 weeks ago

Southampton

"…

Perhaps the STP could have a revival in her memory xx

What A good idea. Didn’t Hatter used to organise them with her? If he is still around? "

Hatter I believe has just rejoined

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
27 weeks ago

Next Door

RIP Lickety.

A beautiful lady inside and out.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
27 weeks ago

Debauchery

"…

Perhaps the STP could have a revival in her memory xx

What A good idea. Didn’t Hatter used to organise them with her? If he is still around?

Hatter I believe has just rejoined "

Has he?!

That's made me smile!

Cherry x

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By *estarossa.Woman
27 weeks ago

Flagrante

Sad mews, she was a really lovely person xx

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
27 weeks ago

Southampton

"…

Perhaps the STP could have a revival in her memory xx

What A good idea. Didn’t Hatter used to organise them with her? If he is still around?

Hatter I believe has just rejoined

Has he?!

That's made me smile!

Cherry x

If its the same Hatters ...

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
27 weeks ago

Debauchery

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Perhaps the STP could have a revival in her memory xx

What A good idea. Didn’t Hatter used to organise them with her? If he is still around?

Hatter I believe has just rejoined

Has he?!

That's made me smile!

Cherry x

If its the same Hatters ... "

He had beautiful hair, with ribbons and an incredible mind and a beautiful smile. He could cartwheel but not as good as me

Cherry x

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By *agneto.Man
27 weeks ago

Bham

Oh no that's sad. Rip lickerty.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
27 weeks ago

North East / London

A great all round fabber. Still have my STP badge.

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By *wistntwirlCouple
27 weeks ago

Middle Land

How sad. I used to enjoy her posts.

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By *ee VianteWoman
27 weeks ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I met Lickety several times and considered her a friend so I'm very sad to hear this. RIP Lickety.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
27 weeks ago

Okehampton

Oh gosh.

I missed our late night chats. Very sad to hear she is gone

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By *os19Man
27 weeks ago

Edmonton

RIP Licketysplits I don’t believe we ever met but I did a name search and her profile came up.Apparently we last exchanged a message 5 years ago I am guessing about STP which I believe she was involved with.

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By *olf and RedCouple
27 weeks ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

I was lucky enough to meet Lickety a couple of times at the STP and at a club. She was such a warm and lovely person. I’m sad to read that she’s passed away.

Red x

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
27 weeks ago

London

Still in shock, will be holding an STP in her honour

Details will follow on our profile.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
27 weeks ago

London

"Perhaps the STP could have a revival in her memory xx"

It shall

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
27 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Still in shock, will be holding an STP in her honour

Details will follow on our profile.

KM"

THANK YOU. XX

Sending hugs xx

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By *orny IrishMan
27 weeks ago

Rural Wiltshire

Such sad news. A lovely lady who I and the pleasure of meeting and flirting with. Great craic. RIP lovely lady.

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By *orny-DJMan
27 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Wiw, that is a shock. RIP Lickety.

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By *he Infamous Minxie MinxWoman
27 weeks ago

Sussex

I'm stunned RIP Lickety you were a terrific Lady and lovely person and we had many a laugh on here and at Socials - you will be desperately missed by all of us that knew you - rest easy beautiful xx ??

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By *anky_PankyWoman
27 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

For those that remember Markoh, he messaged last night to tell me and I was shocked.... I passed word onto Bladey and his, reaction of 'Fuckinel' I think said it all

Lickety, lovely lady RIP

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By *ovingSussexLife OP Man
27 weeks ago

West Sussex

Hi all. Its been lovely to read about your experiences with Lickety.

I now have the details of the funeral and where to send donations. Drop me a line if you would like either of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry to hear this news.

I remember that name fondly via the forums having been on/off this site over many many years.

So sad and thoughts are with family and friends xxx

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By *r Man.Man
26 weeks ago

London

Yesterday I buried and said farewell to a family member.

And in Lickety last few weeks of her own personal journey, she was concerned with my issues, and her family, and what they were going through.

She showed what I already new of my beautiful Lickety. That she cared for others within her personal, and professional life

We were able to confirm our love for each other publicly during the years, and in her final weeks

In her final weeks we cried together and talked about life and what we have done and achieved

The reason why I'm posting this, is.

Don't wait, to tell someone how much you care for them.

Tell them now

Tell them how much you love them, and what them being in your life as lickety was in mine, how much they mean to you

I was fortunate to tell her in the past and in the final days of her journey

M.M

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
26 weeks ago

London

I've not read the whole thread but we got together last Sunday to start planning the STP for Lickety.

We also felt there was something we should say about her funeral.

Fab is a strange place, and for a lot of us a 'secret life'. Though many of us loved her dearly, we believe that going to her funeral is a bad idea.

That event is for her family, non-fab friends, work colleagues etc.

People that do not need their memory of her potentially tainted should they find out about this life of hers.

The STP for Lickety will allow for us to grieve, say some words if we wish and remember her fully as a fabulous fab lady

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By *arla SwingerWoman
26 weeks ago

Somewhere

"I've not read the whole thread but we got together last Sunday to start planning the STP for Lickety.9

We also felt there was something we should say about her funeral.

Fab is a strange place, and for a lot of us a 'secret life'. Though many of us loved her dearly, we believe that going to her funeral is a bad idea.

That event is for her family, non-fab friends, work colleagues etc.

People that do not need their memory of her potentially tainted should they find out about this life of hers.

The STP for Lickety will allow for us to grieve, say some words if we wish and remember her fully as a fabulous fab lady

From the above poster, it very much sounds like the funeral has already gone ahead, and that they as a very close personal friend has already noted this. Nobody had offered any personal details regarding that? So, yep you didn't read the whole thread, but you could have noted the post above you? Lovely that you're holding your next function in her name though x

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
26 weeks ago

London

"From the above poster, it very much sounds like the funeral has already gone ahead, and that they as a very close personal friend has already noted this. Nobody had offered any personal details regarding that? So, yep you didn't read the whole thread, but you could have noted the post above you? Lovely that you're holding your next function in her name though x "

Maybe read Mr Man's post again...

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By *arla SwingerWoman
26 weeks ago

Somewhere

Yes, I'd read their comment and yours x

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
26 weeks ago

Staffordshire

One of my favourite people to meet at the group socials, she was a great listener and always gave great advice when needed.

Glad to of known her, although fleetingly.

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By *ad NannaWoman
25 weeks ago

East London

"I've not read the whole thread but we got together last Sunday to start planning the STP for Lickety.

We also felt there was something we should say about her funeral.

Fab is a strange place, and for a lot of us a 'secret life'. Though many of us loved her dearly, we believe that going to her funeral is a bad idea.

That event is for her family, non-fab friends, work colleagues etc.

People that do not need their memory of her potentially tainted should they find out about this life of hers.

The STP for Lickety will allow for us to grieve, say some words if we wish and remember her fully as a fabulous fab lady

I would have loved to have gone to the service, to say goodbye and listen to all the wonderful things people will say about her. I would be crying the whole time so I'll spend the evening with my sister, remembering the good chats I shared with Lickety and great days we all spent at the Secret Tea Party events, she so thoroughly enjoyed.

I'll forever remember her at the Summer ones where she wore "The Cloud" and brightened up the days even more.

I still can't believe she's gone.

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By *ost SockMan
25 weeks ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Can’t believe I missed this news at the time.

I chatted to her on here a few times years ago and knew she was an integral part of the Fab community. Very sad news.

Gorffwys Mewn Hedd (RIP)

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By *roy9Man
25 weeks ago

London

I first met Lickety about 14 years ago. She became my first swinging girlfriend and we were together and exploring the swinging world as newbies together for about 2 years. We remained friends for most of the time since then, but had not been in contact for the last couple of years.

Since hearing about her sad passing, I have been at a loss about how to honor her memory.

I don't often follow the Fab Forum and have only just come across this thread. As most of you know, Lickety loved the Forums and got and gave a lot of pleasure from them. So maybe it's appropriate to post here a couple of memories, from the many that I was lucky enough to have of her.

Lickety was one of the most intelligent people I have ever met, and she combined that with a caring selfless nature. When she reached her 50th year, she decided to mark it by doing 50 things she had never done before. I don't know what all the 50 things were, but it says a lot about her, that one of them was to spend the day in a wheelchair, so she could better emphasise with those who use one regularly.

She asked me to help her with 2 challenges. In the first we spent a glorious day on the Dorset coast. We went canoeing around some beautiful rock formations, I think one of them is called 'Old Harry'. Her challenge was to catch a fish.... and amazingly using a baited line from the canoe, she did!

We then spent a lovely couple of hours on the naturist beach at Studland Bay. Laying next to her, I had my hand on her ample breast and was amazed how after just a few minutes the sun left an imprint of my hand there, she was a super fast tanner.

The second challenge was to accompany her to see the Giants Causeway in Northern Ireland. We had a fun weekend discovering Belfast, but when we got to the hexagonal Bassalt formations, Lickety, not being a natural rock hopper was uncomfortable about leaving the shoreline. However with encouragement and support she made it out to stand on the rocks near to where they disappear into the sea. She loved being so close to the crashing waves and though not fully at ease, was pleased that she had pushed her comfort limits. Something that she did often in life.

These are just a couple of the wonderful memories I have of her. She was truly an amazing and unique woman who was loved by many who got to know her. She enriched the life of many, including me and certainly passed away far too early.

I miss you L, and will always have very fond memories of you.

Love P x

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By *a LunaWoman
25 weeks ago

South

have enjoyed reading the memories of her.

Rest easy Lickety x

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
25 weeks ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Very sad news. I had a wonderful meet with her some years ago and she was a sexy intelligent woman who was great company. RIP

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By *urry BlokeMan
24 weeks ago

I am genuinely gutted by this sad news

Another former member, who I'm still in touch with, made me aware of Lickety's untimely passing

I only met Lickety once, but there was literally years of contact beforehand, first on the forums and then in private

On meeting, Lickety was everything and more than I expected

A true good soul

I don't think she was 100% aware of the draw she had or the mystique she held - which made her vibe even more alluring

We just clicked

We were once described by another member as 'Lickety was a little bit me and I was a little bit Lickety'

I think it's a fair statement and I am so glad that we did meet

It was like I'd known her forever

If you are reading the Forums from up on high beautiful lady, just know how much you are loved and missed greatly

You left us with a great legacy

You changed mindsets

You changed souls

You made a difference

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By *urry BlokeMan
24 weeks ago

"I am genuinely gutted by this sad news

Another former member, who I'm still in touch with, made me aware of Lickety's untimely passing

I only met Lickety once, but there was literally years of contact beforehand, first on the forums and then in private

On meeting, Lickety was everything and more than I expected

A true good soul

I don't think she was 100% aware of the draw she had or the mystique she held - which made her vibe even more alluring

We just clicked

We were once described by another member as 'Lickety was a little bit me and I was a little bit Lickety'

I think it's a fair statement and I am so glad that we did meet

It was like I'd known her forever

If you are reading the Forums from up on high beautiful lady, just know how much you are loved and missed greatly

You left us with a great legacy

You changed mindsets

You changed souls

You made a difference

If I can just add to this, we shared a love for works of Maya Angelou

I think this piece by Maya sums Lickety up beautifully... and with this, I'll leave it here x

PHENOMENAL WOMAN

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.

I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size

But when I start to tell them,

They think I’m telling lies.

I say,

It’s in the reach of my arms,

The span of my hips,

The stride of my step,

The curl of my lips.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

I walk into a room

Just as cool as you please,

And to a man,

The fellows stand or

Fall down on their knees.

Then they swarm around me,

A hive of honey bees.

I say,

It’s the fire in my eyes,

And the flash of my teeth,

The swing in my waist,

And the joy in my feet.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

Men themselves have wondered

What they see in me.

They try so much

But they can’t touch

My inner mystery.

When I try to show them,

They say they still can’t see.

I say,

It’s in the arch of my back,

The sun of my smile,

The ride of my breasts,

The grace of my style.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

Now you understand

Just why my head’s not bowed.

I don’t shout or jump about

Or have to talk real loud.

When you see me passing,

It ought to make you proud.

I say,

It’s in the click of my heels,

The bend of my hair,

the palm of my hand,

The need for my care.

’Cause I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"I am genuinely gutted by this sad news

Another former member, who I'm still in touch with, made me aware of Lickety's untimely passing

I only met Lickety once, but there was literally years of contact beforehand, first on the forums and then in private

On meeting, Lickety was everything and more than I expected

A true good soul

I don't think she was 100% aware of the draw she had or the mystique she held - which made her vibe even more alluring

We just clicked

We were once described by another member as 'Lickety was a little bit me and I was a little bit Lickety'

I think it's a fair statement and I am so glad that we did meet

It was like I'd known her forever

If you are reading the Forums from up on high beautiful lady, just know how much you are loved and missed greatly

You left us with a great legacy

You changed mindsets

You changed souls

You made a difference

If I can just add to this, we shared a love for works of Maya Angelou

I think this piece by Maya sums Lickety up beautifully... and with this, I'll leave it here x

PHENOMENAL WOMAN

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.

I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size

But when I start to tell them,

They think I’m telling lies.

I say,

It’s in the reach of my arms,

The span of my hips,

The stride of my step,

The curl of my lips.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

I walk into a room

Just as cool as you please,

And to a man,

The fellows stand or

Fall down on their knees.

Then they swarm around me,

A hive of honey bees.

I say,

It’s the fire in my eyes,

And the flash of my teeth,

The swing in my waist,

And the joy in my feet.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

Men themselves have wondered

What they see in me.

They try so much

But they can’t touch

My inner mystery.

When I try to show them,

They say they still can’t see.

I say,

It’s in the arch of my back,

The sun of my smile,

The ride of my breasts,

The grace of my style.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

Now you understand

Just why my head’s not bowed.

I don’t shout or jump about

Or have to talk real loud.

When you see me passing,

It ought to make you proud.

I say,

It’s in the click of my heels,

The bend of my hair,

the palm of my hand,

The need for my care.

’Cause I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

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By *ynecplCouple
24 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Oh what a shock. Back when we were regular forum users used to love reading and responding to her posts.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
24 weeks ago

London

"Yes, I'd read their comment and yours x "

He buried a family member not Lickety.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
24 weeks ago

London

The date for the STP in honour of Lickety has been set as May 11th 2024.

Venue yet to be decided but at least we have a date

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
24 weeks ago

wonderland.

"The date for the STP in honour of Lickety has been set as May 11th 2024.

Venue yet to be decided but at least we have a date

KM"

Thanks xxx

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By *anielpiercedMan
23 weeks ago

by the seaside

That is so sad to hear she was such a lovely lady. My first ever club visit was for one of her birthday parties and she was so sweet and charming

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
21 weeks ago

London

We have a thread for the upcoming STP for Lickety in the parties section of the forum in case anyone is interested.

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By *stwo2023Couple
21 weeks ago

Worcester

Oh my goodness I am so sad to read this

I have known lickety on the forums for many years and met her a few times at various social events.

My condolences to all who knew her. She was a lovely lady.

Evie

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Was so sad to hear this news when I returned. Lickety was one who always used to message me in the shadows, a constant, a beautiful soul and we got each other in such a unique and relaxed way - she’d message after not talking for a year and it was like we’d spoken just yesterday. Wish I’d made more time and met her for that drink when I had the chance

See you soon my lover, just like yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"We have a thread for the upcoming STP for Lickety in the parties section of the forum in case anyone is interested.

KM"

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"Some of the old timers on here will know Lickety through the forums, clubs and parties.

Over the years, we became good friends, which I'm proud of.

Sadly she passed away after a short illness yesterday. I'll be attending her funeral when it's organised. If anyone else was a friend and wants details, please drop me a private message.

RIP Lickety. A unique and lovely person x"

Was really sad to see this news when I returned to Fab a couple of weeks ago (was not able to post in the Forum as you have to wait 14 days).

Lickety was lovely, eccentric, funny, encouraging, kind to me and happy to meet socially for a drink when we were in town at the same time (in the days prior to the pandemic).

I am sorry that she has gone

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By *r Man.Man
19 weeks ago

London

STP are having a social this Saturday. With a tribute and celebration of our Lickety splits

It's not to morn her, but to laugh and be jubilant with people who she has touched.

The thread is there

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"STP are having a social this Saturday. With a tribute and celebration of our Lickety splits

It's not to morn her, but to laugh and be jubilant with people who she has touched.

The thread is there "

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By *irBobbMan
19 weeks ago

London / Birmingham

"STP are having a social this Saturday. With a tribute and celebration of our Lickety splits

It's not to morn her, but to laugh and be jubilant with people who she has touched.

The thread is there "

What a lovely gesture

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Wait, what?

I’ve had a few weeks off Fab and I know this thread is a few weeks old but this is the first I’ve heard.

Really sad news, had a number of nice chats with Lickety over the years, she will be sorely missed!

I’m sure the STP will provide a fitting tribute to a wonderful lady!

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By *abioMan
19 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"STP are having a social this Saturday. With a tribute and celebration of our Lickety splits

It's not to morn her, but to laugh and be jubilant with people who she has touched.

The thread is there "

Glad.. she absolutely loved Eurovision weekend so I am going to do the famous Eurovision thread in her honour

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
19 weeks ago

London

"Glad.. she absolutely loved Eurovision weekend so I am going to do the famous Eurovision thread in her honour

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By *tarling and RobinCouple
13 weeks ago

North East

Only picked up on this now.

We went to the funeral and it was a sad but "lickety" send off. Smiles and tears.

We were friends for years and had a special connection for a few reasons.

But must admit, we didn't really appreciate the good work she did for charity and good causes.

What a lovely woman, sadly missed.

R&S

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
13 weeks ago

Hereabouts

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By *olgateMan
13 weeks ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

A name from the past when I used to spend a lot of time here and attending socials.

RIP

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