FabSwingers.com forum: Imperfections

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
51 weeks ago

Leeds

We all know no-one is perfect.

What imperfection/s do you have? x

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By *ife NinjaMan
51 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Fat. Ugly. Myopic. Scars. Tiger stripes. I'm a catch

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

The damage that’s been done to me by someone else that sticks in my head

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By *hriscooperMan
51 weeks ago

Warrington

If I list all of mine it'll close the thread!

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By *mmaleiaWoman
51 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Big arse, boobs, menopause belly

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By *essicagraceWoman
51 weeks ago

birmingham

Rejection sensitivity and I become pretty brutal and short tempered when I'm tired/unwell. Physically I will not start.

I like to think that being self aware of the imperfections makes me at least not a total prick...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
51 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Scars. Duff joints. A dodgy brain. And a multiple times broken not straight nose.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I have one nipple bigger than the other

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I’m needy and far too sensitive.

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By *undee2Man
51 weeks ago

Dundee

I love scars. I have a good number and love to see them on others especially females.

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
51 weeks ago

Londontown

I'm perfectly imperfect

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By *quirrel!Man
51 weeks ago

Too many to list here!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Oh I know the answer to this..

Broke my little finger as a kid and it's never straightened since.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
51 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I have a bit more belly than I’d like. But don’t most of us? And I get self-conscious about spots showing up where my glasses rub on the bridge of my nose. They really bug me.

Huh. That’s quite specific of me I suppose.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
51 weeks ago

Worcester

I have a verrucca.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
51 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Lots but there is no point dwelling on them.

I cannot remove my scars or my stretchmarks etc. I cannot make my boobs grow or my frown lines disappear etc.

I can work to have a fit and healthy body, so that is what I do.

Instead of berating my legs for being short, I am proud of them as they will keep running for me when I am tired.

Instead of being down about my belly I am proud of it for having enough muscles to do 6mins of plank work without failing on me etc.

MrsAbz

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"We all know no-one is perfect.

What imperfection/s do you have? x"

Well that’s a lie, my mum always said that I’m perfect and I’ve got the best face ever for radio

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
51 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I don't share, ever.

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"I have a verrucca."

Show us

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

None.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
51 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Instead of berating my legs for being short, I am proud of them as they will keep running for me when I am tired."

"Well that’s a lie, my mum always said that I’m perfect and I’ve got the best face ever for radio

I am loving these two completely different ways of having a positive mental attitude.

Both are valid! Both work!

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By *ularliWoman
51 weeks ago

Worcester

Scars, stretch marks, saggy boobs lol.

Everything about me isn’t perfect

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"Instead of berating my legs for being short, I am proud of them as they will keep running for me when I am tired.Well that’s a lie, my mum always said that I’m perfect and I’ve got the best face ever for radio

I am loving these two completely different ways of having a positive mental attitude.

Both are valid! Both work!"

PMA PMA it’s the only way

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By *essicagraceWoman
51 weeks ago

birmingham

"I have a bit more belly than I’d like. But don’t most of us? And I get self-conscious about spots showing up where my glasses rub on the bridge of my nose. They really bug me.

Huh. That’s quite specific of me I suppose. "

I get annoyed at those bumps too. Got them front and centre this evening.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
51 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I get annoyed at those bumps too. Got them front and centre this evening. "

Bump buddies!

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
51 weeks ago

Bradford

Bump bump

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"Bump bump "

Vrooom

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By *ornycougaWoman
51 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

No arse. Stomach looks like a deflated balloon. Lost muscle tone on my legs after sickness last year. But hey I have had 3 kids and I've past my half century so it could be worse. I try and focus on the positives than the negatives or my insecurities become debilitating so let's all love the skin we are in

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
51 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I am loving these two completely different ways of having a positive mental attitude.

Both are valid! Both work!"

Wish mine involved less sweat though!

Beaver

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
51 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I have a bit more belly than I’d like. But don’t most of us? And I get self-conscious about spots showing up where my glasses rub on the bridge of my nose. They really bug me.

Huh. That’s quite specific of me I suppose. "

Second the glasses thing... bloody irritating but not as irritating as bring so bloody short sighted

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I'm one giant imperfection

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
51 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I'm one giant imperfection "

Ditto

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By *obilebottomMan
51 weeks ago

All over

We all have those and they sometimes keep changing. Acceptance is key unless can be easily fixed. I had a mole I did not like and had it removed

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By *illy IdolMan
51 weeks ago

Midlands

Too many to list.

But usually what you see as imperfections, everybody else love

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
51 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Beaver"

Best beaver.

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By *sWyldWoman
51 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.

I'm the stuff of dreams

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By *icassolifelikeMan
51 weeks ago

Luton

I have man chebs

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
51 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.

I'm the stuff of dreams "

Honestly that sounds like an amazingly good time to me. Not gonna lie, that is the stuff of dreams

MrsAbz

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
51 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.

I'm the stuff of dreams

Honestly that sounds like an amazingly good time to me. Not gonna lie, that is the stuff of dreams

MrsAbz"

Yeah, no sympathy here. Just mild jealousy.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
51 weeks ago

Leeds

"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.

I'm the stuff of dreams "

My bedside top drawer is full if snacks for such occasions

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By *ife NinjaMan
51 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.

I'm the stuff of dreams "

I have cream

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
51 weeks ago

Bradford

"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.

I'm the stuff of dreams

My bedside top drawer is full if snacks for such occasions

Now you’re talking my language

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By *lexm87Man
51 weeks ago

Various

"I woke up at 2am, took some chocolate cake back to bed, ate half, went back to sleep and finished the rest for breakfast.

I'm the stuff of dreams

My bedside top drawer is full if snacks for such occasions

Have you considered a mini fridge for choc ices?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

The chances are, if I realy fancy someone, I’m going to be kissing each and ever part of her she thinks isn’t perfect.

What I think is imperfect, I pray and hope someone sees it as just me.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
51 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Small tits. Loose skin on my belly. My whole personality. Scars on my neck and inner thigh. Big ol varicose vein on my knee. Ugly stubby little toes. My nose and ears are too big for my other features. My eyes are small. My hands and shoulders are big and manly. Years of abuse mean my hair is flat and flaccid. Too moody. Too hormonal. Too prone to people pleasing.

The list goes on.

But overall, I'm still hot

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By *ife NinjaMan
51 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Small tits. Loose skin on my belly. My whole personality. Scars on my neck and inner thigh. Big ol varicose vein on my knee. Ugly stubby little toes. My nose and ears are too big for my other features. My eyes are small. My hands and shoulders are big and manly. Years of abuse mean my hair is flat and flaccid. Too moody. Too hormonal. Too prone to people pleasing.

The list goes on.

But overall, I'm still hot

I found you a great conversationalist

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

2 lower abdominal scars....

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Low confidence and self esteem if that counts

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
51 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

The list goes on.

But overall, I'm still hot

I found you a great conversationalist

Oh I can waffle for days.

I don't think my imperfections outweigh my good points. And the people who do think that aren't my people anyway. So it's all good

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By *eroLondonMan
51 weeks ago

Mayfair

I have a few battle-worn scars. In particular I have abrasions and scars on the soles of my feet, attributed to the fragments and shards from the porcelain hearts the line the boulevard of broken dreams.

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By *ife NinjaMan
51 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I have a few battle-worn scars. In particular I have abrasions and scars on the soles of my feet, attributed to the fragments and shards from the porcelain hearts the line the boulevard of broken dreams."

Smooth talking bastard

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By *tylebender03Man
51 weeks ago

Manchester

Everything I'm not made me everything I am

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
51 weeks ago

Basingstoke

'Imperfections' are what make us uniquely ourselves. They set us apart from the next person, and should be embraced. Without these differences, we'd all be identical clones. And who needs another one of me in the world!!

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By *ife NinjaMan
51 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I prefer real people who have lived a life

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

theres not enough paper in the world for me to put mine down but perfection is impssible if we can be kind and our best version of u then i think thats the best we can do

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By *ave1976XXXMan
51 weeks ago

newmarket

I have never and will never look for imperfections in people.

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By *C79Man
51 weeks ago

Caterham

I definitely suffer with the mental image I have of myself. Never liked it never will. I could easily reel off a list of physical things but I also suffer with back pain and a constant, involuntary clenching of my neck/throat muscles. 100% of people would have no idea without being told

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By *iss.BellaWoman
51 weeks ago

Wales

boob gap

Stretch marks

Mum tum

Bingo wings

A lot of wobbly bits

A mole which sits below my boobs, I usually blur it out of pictures or hide it.

My hair I wanted to grow it for years and now I have, I hate how flat and frizzy it is

Eye bags

Bum - hate how it looks at the moment.

But other than that absolutely nothing

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By *KTim61Man
51 weeks ago

Tipton

I need a new body

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By *estarossa.Woman
51 weeks ago

Flagrante

All of them.

Yet to someone, I will be perfect.

Then I open my mouth

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By *empest2KMan
51 weeks ago

Derby

"Big arse, boobs, menopause belly"

I'm not sure I'd class those as imperfections, in my humble opinion.

To be honest, my belly is more rotund than I'd like, mainly due to IBS, and my back is a pitted due to bad acne as a youngster, but I see imperfections as a trait of what makes us human. It's taken me a long time to love what I've got (or haven't got), and I feel happier and more attractive for it

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By *usurrusCouple
51 weeks ago

North West.

Birth marks, scars, badly faded tattoos, that's before we count the invisible six pack and cunningly hidden tight ass!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I have stretch marks on my hips, my ears stick out a little, I have acne scars on my face and dry skin, I wear glasses, have shit hair, bad knees, I don’t have a flat stomach, I’m a grumpy little shit most of the time and my nose has a little bump on it from when I misjudged how much room I had and whacked it off a wardrobe.

Other than that I’m a real catch

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By *inxy777Woman
51 weeks ago

essex

I’m me loads of imperfections, you have to take me as I am! Though being short drives me insane! X

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By *elix SightedMan
51 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I’ve said this a few times before so sorry for being boring. Everything.

There is literally not one thing I like about myself. I’ve got a weird disproportionate body that’s also crap at being a body and keeps breaking. I’m currently covered in psoriasis requiring hostipal treatment. I look weird and my brain is a fucking wrongun. And because I’m injured and can’t train but still love shite food, I’m getting chunky.

Some of these are temporary. But I’ve never liked me and would change everything in a heartbeat.

All that said - I am who I am and won’t ever change. So, people can take me for who I am or poke it

#owningmyimperfections

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
51 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

I’m probably about as perfect as you are ever gonna get, it’s a cross I’ve had to bear, does that make it a paradox?

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By *heExcommMan
51 weeks ago

Llantrisant

Wonky nose, one eye is lower than the other, and I have small hands for my height. Like I've met women with bigger hands than me. Doesn't bother me though. My nan says I'm handsome so it must be true!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
51 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Gone are my boyish good looks, they have receded along with my hairline

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
51 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Faulty brain

Really faulty eyes

Very overweight, although I've always hated my stomach even when I wasn't

Fat thighs

No eyebrows because I keep pulling them out through stress

Oh well I am what I am

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"Rejection sensitivity and I become pretty brutal and short tempered when I'm tired/unwell. Physically I will not start.

I like to think that being self aware of the imperfections makes me at least not a total prick..."

Wow you are stunning x

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By *ostindreamsMan
51 weeks ago

London

Very skinny, premature ejaculation, can't/won't dance.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Imperfections or gifts that make us different

There are things about me I’d change in a heart beat but they are what I was given and make me who I am so tough one to answer for me

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By *picyminxWoman
51 weeks ago

Huntingdon

Really awful saggy belly. 3 caesarians didn't help. I find it hard to be naked. People think I'm so confident , which I am at face level but not so on a deeper level . Still loving myself in the process though

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
51 weeks ago

Leeds

"I’ve said this a few times before so sorry for being boring. Everything.

Some of these are temporary. But I’ve never liked me and would change everything in a heartbeat.

All that said - I am who I am and won’t ever change. So, people can take me for who I am or poke it

#owningmyimperfections"

Psoriasis is the worst!

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By *TG3Man
51 weeks ago

Dorchester

I'm perfect sorry no imperfections

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
51 weeks ago

Kent

Fat, wobbly, saggy, stretch marks, nose too wide, hair too curly, boobs too small, feet too big, too tall to be "cute", arse too wide. We are our own worst critics.

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By *ags73Man
51 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Fat, wobbly, saggy, stretch marks, nose too wide, hair too curly, boobs too small, feet too big, too tall to be "cute", arse too wide. We are our own worst critics. "

Really? Oh goodness no.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
51 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Proper broken nose and a few scars and lost a half inch off my left leg through a bad break, so slightly tilted! A bone graft scar and massive tinnitus.

Been in the wars but there are plenty worse off than me.

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By *orbidden eastMan
51 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

My imperfections are my perfections

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By *ags73Man
51 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Hair, face, nose

Chest stomach and rolls

Skin and feet

Nothing a new body wouldn’t fix

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By *riel13Woman
51 weeks ago

Northampton

I am very overweight... I don't really think of scars n stretch marks n stuff as being imperfect

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By *mf123Man
51 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

A round middle bit that looks like mr greedy

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By *avexxMan
51 weeks ago

cheshire

blind in my left eye

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Big nose, quite bushy eyebrows, not that tall, slim build that makes it tough to build muscle no matter how hard I train, don't exactly have the manliest voice either.

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