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Do we all age differently?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
42 weeks ago

I want to know - do we all age at different rates?

Now that I’m headed to my late 30’s I’m starting to notice a disparity in how people my age and above look. Some 40 year olds look the same age as me, and some of them look 20 years older than me.

I’m talking about profiles on here, rather than real life.

Do we all age at different rates? Or is it common for people to adjust their ages by big margins?

I can’t figure it out

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Black. Don’t. Crack.

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By *a LunaWoman
42 weeks ago

South Wales

I think a lot of folk on here knock a good few years off their profile.

I wouldn’t compare. Someone might look really fit for an 83 year old but in reality they’re only 25 and have had a hard paper round .

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By *oodmessMan
42 weeks ago

yumsville

My barber was guessing my age a few weeks ago, I think he was looking for a tip as he put me mid/late thirties - it worked

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *eliWoman
42 weeks ago

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I do think people can have physical markers of age faster than others, yes. Definitely. Some wrinkle or grey.

I don't buy in to the whole 'I look in my thirties when I'm in my fifties' thing though. No. They look their age. Not sure that makes sense.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

Physiologically we do age at different rates, my GP told me that once.

Fabologically I think some people are using Martian years.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I do think people can have physical markers of age faster than others, yes. Definitely. Some wrinkle or grey.

I don't buy in to the whole 'I look in my thirties when I'm in my fifties' thing though. No. They look their age. Not sure that makes sense. "

It makes sense and I agree.

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I want to know - do we all age at different rates?

Now that I’m headed to my late 30’s I’m starting to notice a disparity in how people my age and above look. Some 40 year olds look the same age as me, and some of them look 20 years older than me.

I’m talking about profiles on here, rather than real life.

Do we all age at different rates? Or is it common for people to adjust their ages by big margins?

I can’t figure it out"
We do its in our genes, if we work outside, if we smoke, if we over eat all these things contribute to ageing at a more rapid rate

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I do think people can have physical markers of age faster than others, yes. Definitely. Some wrinkle or grey.

I don't buy in to the whole 'I look in my thirties when I'm in my fifties' thing though. No. They look their age. Not sure that makes sense. "

Nia long looks better than most 30 odd year olds btw. Like, genuinely.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"I do think people can have physical markers of age faster than others, yes. Definitely. Some wrinkle or grey.

I don't buy in to the whole 'I look in my thirties when I'm in my fifties' thing though. No. They look their age. Not sure that makes sense.

Nia long looks better than most 30 odd year olds btw. Like, genuinely. "

And Sanaa Lathan

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By *sWyldWoman
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I think it's different for everyone. The things our lives throw at us has an impact too.

I have friends my age who look much younger than me and others who look older.

I guess it varies.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

The way people dress and how they carry themes has an impact on how other people perceive their age.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Central

People age at different rates. Fab really isn't a good arena to study it, as there are people who are very dishonest. I've seen people who must suffer from some rare, extremely damaging severe illnesses, based on their claims here. It's almost as if we attract the very unwell. Perhaps some health specialists in this field of ultra rare medical conditions, recommend fab to their clients?

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By *oomerangbobMan
42 weeks ago

stanhope

Oh to be heading for my late 30s

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
42 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Genetics, Lifestyle and illness.....

Yes we all age differently.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
42 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Cliff Richard looks good for 92.

The secret is in the fact that he has not had sex since 1954.

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By *olfandtazCouple
42 weeks ago

Bristol

Most people age through stress, lifestyle choices, genetics and a whole bunch of other factors.

For what it's worth I might be 46 but I still act as if I'm in my 20s!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
42 weeks ago

chichester

Sun cream is the number one thing everyone needs every day and hydration to skin

Over 30 get using retinols to maintain and keep skin nice

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes everyone ages differently, lifestyle and social systems have an impact.

I'm a smoker so I look 70 when I'm 38 (I think)

Mrs

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
42 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I look better now than I did in my 20's and 30's. I don't drink or smoke, so that helps with my skin looking OK. I have only just started going grey and the grey I do have looks like platinum streaks. People are always shocked when they find out I'm pushing 50 with a 30 year old son

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By *iddlesticksMan
42 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I look better now than I did in my 20's and 30's. I don't drink or smoke, so that helps with my skin looking OK. I have only just started going grey and the grey I do have looks like platinum streaks. People are always shocked when they find out I'm pushing 50 with a 30 year old son

"

You look tip top fantastic. Please stand up

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By *bi HaiveMan
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42 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Go to a club and try and guess ages.

9 times out of 10 you'll be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
42 weeks ago


"Go to a club and try and guess ages.

9 times out of 10 you'll be wrong. "

I bet. I feel like I can’t judge age at all

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

Neck, back of hands and tops of arms will tell you a lot about age.

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By *ooBulMan
42 weeks ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

If you look at peoples necks & hands - they are very good age markers. You can say well that person is in their 40-50's.

Lips & eyes.... Your thighs... I'm starting to sound like an Isley Brothers track now.

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By *ealitybitesMan
42 weeks ago

Belfast

I've very proud of how I look for my age so I'm never going to amend it on here even if that puts me outside age filters.

I've been told that I could easily pass for someone in their 40s and I've never had anyone who didn't already know guess my actual age.

I've met people I went to school with and genuinely didn't recognise them because they looked like old men.

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By *emorefridaCouple
42 weeks ago

La la land

I've yet to meet anyone I've guessed their age wrongly by a decade or more. So although I think some people age better than others I don't think, I think there are enough markers that gives the game away so to speak.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I've yet to meet anyone I've guessed their age wrongly by a decade or more. So although I think some people age better than others I don't think, I think there are enough markers that gives the game away so to speak. "

I can only guess in decades now. I dread people asking me how old I think they are since my new neighbour who it turned out was 52 asked me and I guessed the same age as me

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By *ife NinjaMan
42 weeks ago

Dunfermline

My dad looked old at my age. He had dentures and looked a good 15 years older. I suppose smoking 80 a day for 40 years probably didn't help.

I don't think I look old as such. Just lived in

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By *emorefridaCouple
42 weeks ago

La la land


"I've yet to meet anyone I've guessed their age wrongly by a decade or more. So although I think some people age better than others I don't think, I think there are enough markers that gives the game away so to speak.

I can only guess in decades now. I dread people asking me how old I think they are since my new neighbour who it turned out was 52 asked me and I guessed the same age as me "

Haha, bet that made you popular

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
42 weeks ago

Reading

My body feels ancient.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I've yet to meet anyone I've guessed their age wrongly by a decade or more. So although I think some people age better than others I don't think, I think there are enough markers that gives the game away so to speak.

I can only guess in decades now. I dread people asking me how old I think they are since my new neighbour who it turned out was 52 asked me and I guessed the same age as me

Haha, bet that made you popular "

I cringe every time I remember it

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