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"Would you advise a single Bengali (Asian) man who’s 26 to attend clubs of such as he is wanted test new waters and break the stigma of such how would 1 make this possible and what kinda of atmosphere would he encounter "Absolutely go for it, you have nothing to lose, if your respectful amd respect boundaries, are sociable and friendly you'll find a welcoming atmosphere....amd vice versa.. Mr | |||
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"I’d say I’m quite reserved and laid back , all about holding up the up most respect, I’ve been intrigued in attending a club for some time now but don’t know where to start or what to do pretty much a newbie " We were all at our visit at some point aint it Mr | |||
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"Would you advise a single Bengali (Asian) man who’s 26 to attend clubs of such as he is wanted test new waters and break the stigma of such how would 1 make this possible and what kinda of atmosphere would he encounter
Absolutely go for it, you have nothing to lose, if your respectful amd respect boundaries, are sociable and friendly you'll find a welcoming atmosphere....amd vice versa..
Mr "I call BS on this. You can be as friendly and sociable as you want but it won't stop women and couples not giving you the time of day because they think you want sex with them by just saying Hi. | |||
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"Is it that bad? " I overstated it slightly. You do get some women and couples who are lovely and will chat with you even if nothing more happens, at least you've passed time being sociable. But you do need a bit of a thick skin to put up with those who aren't as courteous. | |||
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"Would you advise a single Bengali (Asian) man who’s 26 to attend clubs of such as he is wanted test new waters and break the stigma of such how would 1 make this possible and what kinda of atmosphere would he encounter
Absolutely go for it, you have nothing to lose, if your respectful amd respect boundaries, are sociable and friendly you'll find a welcoming atmosphere....amd vice versa..
Mr
I call BS on this. You can be as friendly and sociable as you want but it won't stop women and couples not giving you the time of day because they think you want sex with them by just saying Hi."Your experience is your experience but don't call bs on my experience of clubs when i was a single man. And the experience that I have through observation of seeing many many single men having a great time in clubs up and down the country. Mr | |||
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"Would you advise a single Bengali (Asian) man who’s 26 to attend clubs of such as he is wanted test new waters and break the stigma of such how would 1 make this possible and what kinda of atmosphere would he encounter "Go for it, Townhouse hosts some great events for newbies to attend where you can just chill and soak up the atmosphere no pressure. Cupids is s good friendly club too | |||
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"Would you advise a single Bengali (Asian) man who’s 26 to attend clubs of such as he is wanted test new waters and break the stigma of such how would 1 make this possible and what kinda of atmosphere would he encounter
Absolutely go for it, you have nothing to lose, if your respectful amd respect boundaries, are sociable and friendly you'll find a welcoming atmosphere....amd vice versa..
Mr
I call BS on this. You can be as friendly and sociable as you want but it won't stop women and couples not giving you the time of day because they think you want sex with them by just saying Hi.
Your experience is your experience but don't call bs on my experience of clubs when i was a single man. And the experience that I have through observation of seeing many many single men having a great time in clubs up and down the country.
Mr "I mean, you did use a generalisation that being respectful etc. means he'll get a welcoming atmosphere. That's not always the case for single guys. The welcoming atmosphere comes from those willing to give it. | |||
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"Would you advise a single Bengali (Asian) man who’s 26 to attend clubs of such as he is wanted test new waters and break the stigma of such how would 1 make this possible and what kinda of atmosphere would he encounter
Absolutely go for it, you have nothing to lose, if your respectful amd respect boundaries, are sociable and friendly you'll find a welcoming atmosphere....amd vice versa..
Mr
I call BS on this. You can be as friendly and sociable as you want but it won't stop women and couples not giving you the time of day because they think you want sex with them by just saying Hi.
Your experience is your experience but don't call bs on my experience of clubs when i was a single man. And the experience that I have through observation of seeing many many single men having a great time in clubs up and down the country.
Mr
I mean, you did use a generalisation that being respectful etc. means he'll get a welcoming atmosphere. That's not always the case for single guys. The welcoming atmosphere comes from those willing to give it."Joe, we can get into semantics if you want. I would have presumed that, it would be recognised that I was sharing my experience here. As after all I can't share anybody else's experience can I. But next time I'll make sure that I keep it first person, just so your not confused. Mr | |||
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"Would you advise a single Bengali (Asian) man who’s 26 to attend clubs of such as he is wanted test new waters and break the stigma of such how would 1 make this possible and what kinda of atmosphere would he encounter
Absolutely go for it, you have nothing to lose, if your respectful amd respect boundaries, are sociable and friendly you'll find a welcoming atmosphere....amd vice versa..
Mr
I call BS on this. You can be as friendly and sociable as you want but it won't stop women and couples not giving you the time of day because they think you want sex with them by just saying Hi.
Your experience is your experience but don't call bs on my experience of clubs when i was a single man. And the experience that I have through observation of seeing many many single men having a great time in clubs up and down the country.
Mr
I mean, you did use a generalisation that being respectful etc. means he'll get a welcoming atmosphere. That's not always the case for single guys. The welcoming atmosphere comes from those willing to give it.
Joe, we can get into semantics if you want. I would have presumed that, it would be recognised that I was sharing my experience here. As after all I can't share anybody else's experience can I. But next time I'll make sure that I keep it first person, just so your not confused.
Mr "I just wanted to clarify as you're giving advice to someone who's never been before and I'd be wary of setting an expectation the experience might not live up to  | |||
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"Would you advise a single Bengali (Asian) man who’s 26 to attend clubs of such as he is wanted test new waters and break the stigma of such how would 1 make this possible and what kinda of atmosphere would he encounter
Absolutely go for it, you have nothing to lose, if your respectful amd respect boundaries, are sociable and friendly you'll find a welcoming atmosphere....amd vice versa..
Mr
I call BS on this. You can be as friendly and sociable as you want but it won't stop women and couples not giving you the time of day because they think you want sex with them by just saying Hi.
Your experience is your experience but don't call bs on my experience of clubs when i was a single man. And the experience that I have through observation of seeing many many single men having a great time in clubs up and down the country.
Mr
I mean, you did use a generalisation that being respectful etc. means he'll get a welcoming atmosphere. That's not always the case for single guys. The welcoming atmosphere comes from those willing to give it.
Joe, we can get into semantics if you want. I would have presumed that, it would be recognised that I was sharing my experience here. As after all I can't share anybody else's experience can I. But next time I'll make sure that I keep it first person, just so your not confused.
Mr
I just wanted to clarify as you're giving advice to someone who's never been before and I'd be wary of setting an expectation the experience might not live up to "I'm not responsible for setting anybodies expectations, but thank you for schooling me, I do appreciate it. Mr | |||
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"I just wanted to clarify as you're giving advice to someone who's never been before and I'd be wary of setting an expectation the experience might not live up to
I'm not responsible for setting anybodies expectations, but thank you for schooling me, I do appreciate it.
Mr "No worries at all! | |||
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"I just wanted to clarify as you're giving advice to someone who's never been before and I'd be wary of setting an expectation the experience might not live up to
I'm not responsible for setting anybodies expectations, but thank you for schooling me, I do appreciate it.
Mr
No worries at all! "Now I know where to come for all the clarification issues that might arise for me.... I'm not hijacking this thread....so have a good one...
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"I just wanted to clarify as you're giving advice to someone who's never been before and I'd be wary of setting an expectation the experience might not live up to
I'm not responsible for setting anybodies expectations, but thank you for schooling me, I do appreciate it.
Mr
No worries at all!
Now I know where to come for all the clarification issues that might arise for me....
I'm not hijacking this thread....so have a good one...
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