FabSwingers.com forum: Take the hint

By *hrek101 OP Man
42 weeks ago

Herts

Has anyone shown interest in you and you were just too dumb to notice?

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By *apperleymanMan
42 weeks ago

Nottingham

Probably…

Then again maybe not..

How would you ever know?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

How would I know if they had

Maybe they have but I’m not sure as I wouldn’t have noticed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Possibly, but as I can't take hints I have no idea if this has happened or not!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Has anyone what......?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
42 weeks ago

Essex

I do need to have it spelled out to me.

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By *apperleymanMan
42 weeks ago

Nottingham

Sorry being a bit facetious there.

I was once told by a couple (much later on) one night at the Attic - that I had been talking to that if I’d asked I could have played - but I just didn’t get ‘that’ vibe from them…

Kicked myself aplenty that night.. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Apparently so.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I've no idea, probably not

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By *eliWoman
42 weeks ago

Yes and I've been told so subsequently. I tend to approach it all from the point of view of no, they're not really interested unless it's from a) my fiancé and b) a person. I'm not hint friendly.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
42 weeks ago

London

Frequently so. I am always genuinely surprised when someone shows an interest in me in that way so I rarely pick up on it.

I'm chatting to someone on fab at the moment and I am uncertain whether our chatting has progressed to flirting.

This is purely due to my difficulty in thinking that she might be interested in me beyond chatting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

Probably. Some people are so subtle that it goes right over my head

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By *cottish guy 555Man
42 weeks ago

London

"Sorry being a bit facetious there.

I was once told by a couple (much later on) one night at the Attic - that I had been talking to that if I’d asked I could have played - but I just didn’t get ‘that’ vibe from them…

Kicked myself aplenty that night.. lol. "

This has happened to me frequently. I have been chastised on many a club night for not making my interests clear.

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By *inime45Man
42 weeks ago

Plymouth

I'm so bad at hints the person could be naked with a sign saying fuck me and I still wouldn't realise

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By *cottish guy 555Man
42 weeks ago

London

"Probably. Some people are so subtle that it goes right over my head "

Well I think you are gorgeous and, having read your forum posts for a while, would delight in meeting you in person.

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By *hrek101 OP Man
42 weeks ago

Herts

"Has anyone shown interest in you and you were just too dumb to notice?"

Perhaps I should add..then subsequently realised or found out

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
42 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Absolutely, well what other explanation can there be for the apparent lack of interest in me, it must be frustrating for them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot.

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By *hrek101 OP Man
42 weeks ago

Herts

"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot."

You mean people show interes in you then go cold?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
42 weeks ago

kent

Not that I’ve noticed x

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
42 weeks ago

peterborough

"Yes and I've been told so subsequently. I tend to approach it all from the point of view of no, they're not really interested unless it's from a) my fiancé and b) a person. I'm not hint friendly.

Jesus, your voice

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
42 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I wouldn't know if they had

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
42 weeks ago

Worcester

This. This is what it’s like being a lesbian.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

No. Nobody has shown interest in me

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By *sWyldWoman
42 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I assume everyone is just being nice so people do need to be really obvious about it.

Sometimes my insecurity even has me questioning that though!

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
42 weeks ago

peterborough

"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot."

So many time wasters on this site

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Has anyone shown interest in you and you were just too dumb to notice?"

Oh hell yes. Often.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot.

You mean people show interes in you then go cold?"

Yep

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By *eliWoman
42 weeks ago

"Yes and I've been told so subsequently. I tend to approach it all from the point of view of no, they're not really interested unless it's from a) my fiancé and b) a person. I'm not hint friendly.

Jesus, your voice

Ha, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Nope not for me on here

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot.

So many time wasters on this site"

True that so true. Say they interested then no show.

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
42 weeks ago

Durham

All of the time repeatedly.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
42 weeks ago

Reading

how would I.know if I am.too dumb to realise?

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
42 weeks ago

Southampton

"I do need to have it spelled out to me."

Me too lol

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By *heffieldGuy2000Man
42 weeks ago

Sheffield

I'm too dumb

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By *agerMorganMan
42 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Yep, I suck so badly at picking up hints. I just need it spelt out to me plainly.

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By *hrek101 OP Man
42 weeks ago

Herts

"how would I.know if I am.too dumb to realise?"

As I added they later tell you or you realise later, oh yeah they were flirting, at least that's what I get. I'm too dumb in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Unless it’s blatantly obvious, I’m gonna need it written down and shoved in my face or I’ll just assume you don’t like me

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

When they lean in to kiss me. That’s usually when I finally pick up on the signals and realise that they were flirting the whole time.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Unless it’s blatantly obvious, I’m gonna need it written down and shoved in my face or I’ll just assume you don’t like me

I like you. Is that obvious enough?

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By *hrek101 OP Man
42 weeks ago

Herts

"When they lean in to kiss me. That’s usually when I finally pick up on the signals and realise that they were flirting the whole time."

Lol, ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Unless it’s blatantly obvious, I’m gonna need it written down and shoved in my face or I’ll just assume you don’t like me

I like you. Is that obvious enough?

I might need you to elaborate on that, I don’t know if that’s clear enough for me. I don’t want to get the wrong idea

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
42 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I might need you to elaborate on that, I don’t know if that’s clear enough for me. I don’t want to get the wrong idea

I’d have to shift to DMs to give you more detail. Don’t want to get told off (again) for being graphic in public …

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

On here? Don't really have to second guess, to be honest. Most men just say they want to sex here - couldn't be easier.

Unless.. they approach in a friendly chatty forumite way. Then it's an auto-friend zone.

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By *agnar73Man
42 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Don’t think so, but I’d probably need whacked over the head with a shovel for it to occur to me

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By *alcon77Man
42 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

Many times.

This extends to other areas of life too. .

I remember walking in Australia years ago with a girlfriend and a car slowed down and the driver asked if we were going to "x" (can't remember the town)..& I replied no & we were going to a slightly different location. He smiled and said ok & drove away.

The girlfriend was flabbergasted-and explained he was offering us a lift...

We then continued walking in the baking brisbane sun..

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By *olex99Man
42 weeks ago

Hull

Doubtful. I'd rather you just told me outright you were interested

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By *oyahandrussCouple
42 weeks ago

Nr Rugby

Yes at parties or clubs it can be difficult to read other.Toyah would be happy for a guy to say I want you more openly and I guess even us girls should be able to do this.And a no thanks wouldn't offend it's can be a long night trying to read peeps.

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