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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone shown interest in you and you were just too dumb to notice?

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Probably…

Then again maybe not..

How would you ever know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would I know if they had

Maybe they have but I’m not sure as I wouldn’t have noticed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly, but as I can't take hints I have no idea if this has happened or not!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Has anyone what......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do need to have it spelled out to me.

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Sorry being a bit facetious there.

I was once told by a couple (much later on) one night at the Attic - that I had been talking to that if I’d asked I could have played - but I just didn’t get ‘that’ vibe from them…

Kicked myself aplenty that night.. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea, probably not

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes and I've been told so subsequently. I tend to approach it all from the point of view of no, they're not really interested unless it's from a) my fiancé and b) a person. I'm not hint friendly.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Frequently so. I am always genuinely surprised when someone shows an interest in me in that way so I rarely pick up on it.

I'm chatting to someone on fab at the moment and I am uncertain whether our chatting has progressed to flirting.

This is purely due to my difficulty in thinking that she might be interested in me beyond chatting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably. Some people are so subtle that it goes right over my head

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Sorry being a bit facetious there.

I was once told by a couple (much later on) one night at the Attic - that I had been talking to that if I’d asked I could have played - but I just didn’t get ‘that’ vibe from them…

Kicked myself aplenty that night.. lol. "

This has happened to me frequently. I have been chastised on many a club night for not making my interests clear.

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By *inime45Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm so bad at hints the person could be naked with a sign saying fuck me and I still wouldn't realise

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Probably. Some people are so subtle that it goes right over my head "

Well I think you are gorgeous and, having read your forum posts for a while, would delight in meeting you in person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone shown interest in you and you were just too dumb to notice?"

Perhaps I should add..then subsequently realised or found out

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Absolutely, well what other explanation can there be for the apparent lack of interest in me, it must be frustrating for them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot."

You mean people show interes in you then go cold?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Not that I’ve noticed x

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough


"Yes and I've been told so subsequently. I tend to approach it all from the point of view of no, they're not really interested unless it's from a) my fiancé and b) a person. I'm not hint friendly. "

Jesus, your voice

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By *issilia AmoriWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

I wouldn't know if they had

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

This. This is what it’s like being a lesbian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Nobody has shown interest in me

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I assume everyone is just being nice so people do need to be really obvious about it.

Sometimes my insecurity even has me questioning that though!

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough


"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot."

So many time wasters on this site

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Has anyone shown interest in you and you were just too dumb to notice?"

Oh hell yes. Often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot.

You mean people show interes in you then go cold?"

Yep

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes and I've been told so subsequently. I tend to approach it all from the point of view of no, they're not really interested unless it's from a) my fiancé and b) a person. I'm not hint friendly.

Jesus, your voice "

Ha, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not for me on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.

That happens a lot.

So many time wasters on this site"

True that so true. Say they interested then no show.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

All of the time repeatedly.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

how would I.know if I am.too dumb to realise?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"I do need to have it spelled out to me."

Me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too dumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I suck so badly at picking up hints. I just need it spelt out to me plainly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"how would I.know if I am.too dumb to realise?"

As I added they later tell you or you realise later, oh yeah they were flirting, at least that's what I get. I'm too dumb in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless it’s blatantly obvious, I’m gonna need it written down and shoved in my face or I’ll just assume you don’t like me

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

When they lean in to kiss me. That’s usually when I finally pick up on the signals and realise that they were flirting the whole time.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Unless it’s blatantly obvious, I’m gonna need it written down and shoved in my face or I’ll just assume you don’t like me "

I like you. Is that obvious enough?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When they lean in to kiss me. That’s usually when I finally pick up on the signals and realise that they were flirting the whole time."

Lol, ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless it’s blatantly obvious, I’m gonna need it written down and shoved in my face or I’ll just assume you don’t like me

I like you. Is that obvious enough? "

I might need you to elaborate on that, I don’t know if that’s clear enough for me. I don’t want to get the wrong idea

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I might need you to elaborate on that, I don’t know if that’s clear enough for me. I don’t want to get the wrong idea "

I’d have to shift to DMs to give you more detail. Don’t want to get told off (again) for being graphic in public …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here? Don't really have to second guess, to be honest. Most men just say they want to sex here - couldn't be easier.

Unless.. they approach in a friendly chatty forumite way. Then it's an auto-friend zone.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Don’t think so, but I’d probably need whacked over the head with a shovel for it to occur to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many times.

This extends to other areas of life too. .

I remember walking in Australia years ago with a girlfriend and a car slowed down and the driver asked if we were going to "x" (can't remember the town)..& I replied no & we were going to a slightly different location. He smiled and said ok & drove away.

The girlfriend was flabbergasted-and explained he was offering us a lift...

We then continued walking in the baking brisbane sun..

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Doubtful. I'd rather you just told me outright you were interested

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Yes at parties or clubs it can be difficult to read other.Toyah would be happy for a guy to say I want you more openly and I guess even us girls should be able to do this.And a no thanks wouldn't offend it's can be a long night trying to read peeps.

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