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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve got a ton of really nice good quality lingerie - but need to / want to get rid of it. Partly because my shape has changed quite a bit the last year so doesn’t fit well, but also just because I need a fresh start mentally after a breakup.

What do you ladies do with your no longer wanted lingerie?

Obviously can’t give it to the charity shop(!) and not something to offer to a friend - but feel so wrong to just chuck it in the bin. Specifically as some of it hasn’t been worn, and non more than a couple of time.

Do I need to get over it and just bin it?? (And no don’t want to sell it to strangers over the internet thank you!)

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By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
over a year ago

Waterlooville

Definitely give it to the charity shop! They’d love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try eBay. They sell new stuff

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes you can give it to charity shops

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Any bras could go to smalls for all. They are a charity who give them to women who need them

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

At the very least recycle them rather than bin them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I give mine to charity shops with the exception of knickers of course. Last year I donated some gorgeous stuff including a silk basque, they used it in their valentine's display

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"So I’ve got a ton of really nice good quality lingerie - but need to / want to get rid of it. Partly because my shape has changed quite a bit the last year so doesn’t fit well, but also just because I need a fresh start mentally after a breakup.

What do you ladies do with your no longer wanted lingerie?

Obviously can’t give it to the charity shop(!) and not something to offer to a friend - but feel so wrong to just chuck it in the bin. Specifically as some of it hasn’t been worn, and non more than a couple of time.

Do I need to get over it and just bin it?? (And no don’t want to sell it to strangers over the internet thank you!)"

I'm in this situation too.

I keep thinking we need some kind of forum to be able to swap stuff with each other.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster


"So I’ve got a ton of really nice good quality lingerie - but need to / want to get rid of it. Partly because my shape has changed quite a bit the last year so doesn’t fit well, but also just because I need a fresh start mentally after a breakup.

What do you ladies do with your no longer wanted lingerie?

Obviously can’t give it to the charity shop(!) and not something to offer to a friend - but feel so wrong to just chuck it in the bin. Specifically as some of it hasn’t been worn, and non more than a couple of time.

Do I need to get over it and just bin it?? (And no don’t want to sell it to strangers over the internet thank you!)"
advertise it on here , I’m lots of tv cds would take it off your hands

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Piss in them. They’ll sell for an extortionate amount online.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"So I’ve got a ton of really nice good quality lingerie - but need to / want to get rid of it. Partly because my shape has changed quite a bit the last year so doesn’t fit well, but also just because I need a fresh start mentally after a breakup.

What do you ladies do with your no longer wanted lingerie?

Obviously can’t give it to the charity shop(!) and not something to offer to a friend - but feel so wrong to just chuck it in the bin. Specifically as some of it hasn’t been worn, and non more than a couple of time.

Do I need to get over it and just bin it?? (And no don’t want to sell it to strangers over the internet thank you!)advertise it on here , I’m lots of tv cds would take it off your hands "

It's not allowed

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Smalls for all, like someone else suggested. Or maybe even a women's refuge if it's not too risque!

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By *weet6Woman
over a year ago

East Riding


"Definitely give it to the charity shop! They’d love it "

This!! I do

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By *cttMan
over a year ago

Hatfield & Littlehampton

Some food banks do more than food srock

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

You can recycle textiles in certain recycling places.

Put them in a black bag and no-one will be any the wiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Piss in them. They’ll sell for an extortionate amount online."

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Put them in a fondue and have a party

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

Vinted

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By *istr3ssWoman
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

If it's clean (and especially if it's not be worn at all) the chatiry shops will happily take it.

If you don't feel happy doing that, find a Salvation Army (or other charity) clothing bin. That way it's completely anonymous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vinted

Ebay

Charity shops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smalls for all, like someone else suggested. Or maybe even a women's refuge if it's not too risque! "

Womens refuges need underwear. Lots of people give clothes and think underwear isn't acceptable, but it is. I worked with a woman who walked out of her door with a child in one hand and a purse with £3 in the other. She said women often walk out with the clothes on their back, and need a change of underwear and clothes. A set of used but laundered underwear is gratefully accepted she said.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I have exactly this problem. I have a stupid amount of lingerie and recent weight loss has left me with about 2 black sacks full of plus size lingerie. I was thinking about offering it to ladies on here for free if they wanted to collect it but not sure if that would be allowed.

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Going by some of our messages, pop them up for sale on here as used... you should find a buyer in no time for them

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

http://www.againstbreastcancer.org.uk/

^Are doing recycling of bras to raise funds.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Can I just mention, guys please don't ask me to send you my knickers. That's not the point of this post and I'll ignore any more messages asking for them.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’ll be Interesting to know how many messages you’ve had offering to buy them

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Stamford

And I'm not sending anyone my Y fronts

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I’ll be Interesting to know how many messages you’ve had offering to buy them "

Lol they didn't offer to pay, just wanted me to send them lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Stamford


"I’ll be Interesting to know how many messages you’ve had offering to buy them

Lol they didn't offer to pay, just wanted me to send them lol"

Bloody cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have exactly this problem. I have a stupid amount of lingerie and recent weight loss has left me with about 2 black sacks full of plus size lingerie. I was thinking about offering it to ladies on here for free if they wanted to collect it but not sure if that would be allowed."

If there's no financial exchange or involvement either way then I personally think the site should allow it?

Failing that then a womens refuge centre or charity sounds the best idea.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Put them in a fondue and have a party "

G strings and cheese strings

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

Just chuck them in the bin simple

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By *loydyMan
over a year ago

British


"So I’ve got a ton of really nice good quality lingerie - but need to / want to get rid of it. Partly because my shape has changed quite a bit the last year so doesn’t fit well, but also just because I need a fresh start mentally after a breakup.

What do you ladies do with your no longer wanted lingerie?

Obviously can’t give it to the charity shop(!) and not something to offer to a friend - but feel so wrong to just chuck it in the bin. Specifically as some of it hasn’t been worn, and non more than a couple of time.

Do I need to get over it and just bin it?? (And no don’t want to sell it to strangers over the internet thank you!)"
why not sell it make yourself a few quid

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm in the same boat I've put on a lot of weight and all my nice stuff doesn't fit although I'm holding onto it in the hope I'll shrink again however I think it's time to get rid.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve got a ton of really nice good quality lingerie - but need to / want to get rid of it. Partly because my shape has changed quite a bit the last year so doesn’t fit well, but also just because I need a fresh start mentally after a breakup.

What do you ladies do with your no longer wanted lingerie?

Obviously can’t give it to the charity shop(!) and not something to offer to a friend - but feel so wrong to just chuck it in the bin. Specifically as some of it hasn’t been worn, and non more than a couple of time.

Do I need to get over it and just bin it?? (And no don’t want to sell it to strangers over the internet thank you!)"

It’s a shame there isn’t a selling page here ? W at probably best option xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve got a ton of really nice good quality lingerie - but need to / want to get rid of it. Partly because my shape has changed quite a bit the last year so doesn’t fit well, but also just because I need a fresh start mentally after a breakup.

What do you ladies do with your no longer wanted lingerie?

Obviously can’t give it to the charity shop(!) and not something to offer to a friend - but feel so wrong to just chuck it in the bin. Specifically as some of it hasn’t been worn, and non more than a couple of time.

Do I need to get over it and just bin it?? (And no don’t want to sell it to strangers over the internet thank you!)"

It’s a shame there isn’t a selling page here ? Bay of fleas is probably best option xx

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Vinted, no seller fees .

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

You may have thought of this already, but you could see if there's a sex workers' collective or other support organisation in your area. I've heard of these operating lingerie exchanges, and maybe they'd appreciate a donation?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

…

The clubs could do a lingerie swap/recycle area in the changing rooms

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By *ntense40Man
over a year ago

Rotherhithe

Lots of people in here would pay for them - and that could become a nice donation to charity

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By *ntense40Man
over a year ago

Rotherhithe

Agree - a buy/sell section would be amazing

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By *1ckyMan
over a year ago

godstone

I started a group for cds starting out was surprising how many ladys put in there to help others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone!

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