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Its nice to see you back x" diolch ,thank you my lovely chum x x | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies from 175 different people (shows how shallow the pool really is) And Not every post stays on topic! What have you noticed??" I don't think you'll ever see that to be fair. No interaction | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies from 175 different people (shows how shallow the pool really is) " I nearly posted this a few nights ago. The 1st page was filled with single figure (or in the teens) replies on all the topics. 
It’s rare a good topic gets to 175.
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"I don't think I want there to be 175 replies by 175 different people. I like that people respond to each other in threads, have conversations that might appear a slight tangent but they're still exchanging ideas, beliefs, information. I've noticed that people reach far too oft for lazy insults if someone doesn't agree with their point of view. Both sides do it. No idea why. Let's stop the ad hominem shite, it's fucking dreary." One observation I have made though is Meli waffles more than me to say the same thing  | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies from 175 different people (shows how shallow the pool really is) I nearly posted this a few nights ago. The 1st page was filled with single figure (or in the teens) replies on all the topics.
It’s rare a good topic gets to 175.
I’m not bothered if mine go off topic, as long as someone’s enjoying a good chat. "It's when they end up as a conversation between 1-4 people, I think spoils them | |||
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"I don't think I want there to be 175 replies by 175 different people. I like that people respond to each other in threads, have conversations that might appear a slight tangent but they're still exchanging ideas, beliefs, information. I've noticed that people reach far too oft for lazy insults if someone doesn't agree with their point of view. Both sides do it. No idea why. Let's stop the ad hominem shite, it's fucking dreary. One observation I have made though is Meli waffles more than me to say the same thing "
Why is this so savage yet so true? I like that you've called me out on my shit, really respect that.
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies from 175 different people (shows how shallow the pool really is) And Not every post stays on topic! What have you noticed??" You really need to get out more.  | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies from 175 different people (shows how shallow the pool really is) And Not every post stays on topic! What have you noticed?? I don't think you'll ever see that to be fair. No interaction " I know....as I said, just an observation. Not saying it's a good/bad thing for it not to happen. | |||
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"I don't think I want there to be 175 replies by 175 different people. I like that people respond to each other in threads, have conversations that might appear a slight tangent but they're still exchanging ideas, beliefs, information. I've noticed that people reach far too oft for lazy insults if someone doesn't agree with their point of view. Both sides do it. No idea why. Let's stop the ad hominem shite, it's fucking dreary. One observation I have made though is Meli waffles more than me to say the same thing
Why is this so savage yet so true? I like that you've called me out on my shit, really respect that.
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies from 175 different people (shows how shallow the pool really is) And Not every post stays on topic! What have you noticed?? You really need to get out more. "That's what bordem does to you | |||
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"I've noticed that in 4 years I've started close to 100 threads and only one of those has ever reached 175 replies which was just before Christmas. A handful have hit the 30 reply mark and all the rest fell below 20. I've also noticed other forumites take the topic of some of my threads and start exactly the same conversation on the same day and they all hit 100-175 replies. Strange how that works. Or is it? " It's like a jigsaw...your face has to fit | |||
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"I don't think I want there to be 175 replies by 175 different people. I like that people respond to each other in threads, have conversations that might appear a slight tangent but they're still exchanging ideas, beliefs, information. I've noticed that people reach far too oft for lazy insults if someone doesn't agree with their point of view. Both sides do it. No idea why. Let's stop the ad hominem shite, it's fucking dreary. One observation I have made though is Meli waffles more than me to say the same thing
Why is this so savage yet so true? I like that you've called me out on my shit, really respect that.
Unfortunately this is why I was terrible at essay writing "Well you've got your occasionally witty sense of humour to fall back on, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Unfortunately I've waffled through every part of my life and postgrad in a particular subject really encouraged me to carry on. | |||
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"I've noticed that in 4 years I've started close to 100 threads and only one of those has ever reached 175 replies which was just before Christmas. A handful have hit the 30 reply mark and all the rest fell below 20. I've also noticed other forumites take the topic of some of my threads and start exactly the same conversation on the same day and they all hit 100-175 replies. Strange how that works. Or is it? It's like a jigsaw...your face has to fit "Or you have to delay your responses. Just as it's about to leave the first page, bang! You reply | |||
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"There’s a weird dynamic on fabs between men and women Loads of men complaining they can’t get a meet Loads of women and couples complain about guys talking the talk then disappearing when it comes time to meet How are all these “talk the talk” types getting so many meets? " If you find out, let me know | |||
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"That there is only a handful of people that start multiple threads a day that end up just being a personal conversation between a handful of people." No way does that happen  | |||
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"That there is only a handful of people that start multiple threads a day that end up just being a personal conversation between a handful of people. No way does that happen "Lol, shocking I know, just seems more than usual | |||
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"When you get a group who hijack threads use the threads to tell each other how amazing they each are - try using chat pm, get a room. forum for exchange of useful information and not validation and adoration
Sometimes inthink some only use the forums to show to others how popular they are "I'm saying nothing as I usually get slated | |||
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"When you get a group who hijack threads use the threads to tell each other how amazing they each are - try using chat pm, get a room. forum for exchange of useful information and not validation and adoration
Sometimes inthink some only use the forums to show to others how popular they are
I'm saying nothing as I usually get slated "Happy to take the heat on this one. | |||
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"When you get a group who hijack threads use the threads to tell each other how amazing they each are - try using chat pm, get a room. forum for exchange of useful information and not validation and adoration
Sometimes inthink some only use the forums to show to others how popular they are "I second that | |||
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"When you get a group who hijack threads use the threads to tell each other how amazing they each are - try using chat pm, get a room. forum for exchange of useful information and not validation and adoration
Sometimes inthink some only use the forums to show to others how popular they are "Or how hard done by they are | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies..." • That's because we've seen a paradigm shift and the forå is now veering towards quality rather than quantity.  | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies... • That's because we've seen a paradigm shift and the forå is now veering towards quality rather than quantity. "Where's the quality?? | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies... • That's because we've seen a paradigm shift and the forå is now veering towards quality rather than quantity.
Where's the quality?? "In the threads discussing relishes and puddings. Surprised you've not seen them. | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies... • That's because we've seen a paradigm shift and the forå is now veering towards quality rather than quantity.
Where's the quality??
In the threads discussing relishes and puddings. Surprised you've not seen them." | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies... • That's because we've seen a paradigm shift and the forå is now veering towards quality rather than quantity.
Where's the quality??
In the threads discussing relishes and puddings. Surprised you've not seen them.
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies... • That's because we've seen a paradigm shift and the forå is now veering towards quality rather than quantity.
Where's the quality??
In the threads discussing relishes and puddings. Surprised you've not seen them.
You set yourself up for that, Sparkle "I was expecting it | |||
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"That there is only a handful of people that start multiple threads a day that end up just being a personal conversation between a handful of people. No way does that happen "You obviously don't follow the 'Politics' section, then. On there, threads get taken over by certain characters who will never agree not to disagree! Usually they keep again and again requoting huge chunks verbatim, which also makes a mockery of the concept of the thread getting too long on the grounds of reaching 175. They have usually got physically 'too long' well before getting anywhere near 175. | |||
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"In my time wondering these forums a few things I have noticed over the years is the following... for the most part given the nature off this site it has more or less its part in fulfilling or appealing to that category off topics and conversations.. which for the most part will be light hearted or one could say happy natured/positive or appealing to people who have similar interests which most people see and want to go for in order to reach out and possibly connect/meet up with others down the line... each section has it's own various subjects or topics to discuss from happy go lucky to down right serious/deep subjects, fortunately there are more laid back threads.. Now if you wonder around enough and take a look a bit deeper behind the veil it will sooner or later reveal a more sinister or twisted element which lies around and shows itself every so often depending on the topic off conversation and who engages in it.. true one can say that these forums can be heavily moderated compared to other sites but when things go off they go off royally... like anywhere else really it has its darker underbelly moments which appear when chaos arises in certain subjects or things take a turn for the worst and all hells breaks loose like an approaching natural disaster.. kind off ironic at times though seeing some people who pass themselves off as civilised or liberated people turn feral and end up attacking each other like rabid animals at each others throats sometimes even on occasion over the most trivial things not even over something serious....it's only then their true nature is revealed. But that's just life sometimes got to take the good with the bad and all guess it's just human nature/behaviour... "Very well said  | |||
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"When you get a group who hijack threads use the threads to tell each other how amazing they each are - try using chat pm, get a room. forum for exchange of useful information and not validation and adoration
Sometimes inthink some only use the forums to show to others how popular they are "This absolutely, along with derailing other people's threads with fly comments and general piss taking. Usually aimed at newbies. When clique behaviours gets called out they are the first to bleat about how there is no clique....Then everyone else are fun sponges and they are the hard done by party | |||
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"Not every post stays on topic! " That can also happen in real face to face conversations too, though. Gbat | |||
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"I think some people have A,Lot of free time!" | |||
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"Not every post stays on topic! That can also happen in real face to face conversations too, though. Gbat " I know, I'm the worst for going off track | |||
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"Loving the observations "No-one else seems to have observed anything | |||
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"I observed i like your tits" So do I | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies from 175 different people (shows how shallow the pool really is) And Not every post stays on topic! What have you noticed??" Many posts never stay on topic ha....I do wonder sometimes when so many people keep soneones thread totally off topic.... The forums here is a very small world also.... | |||
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section. "I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request" | |||
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section.
I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request""They must do, top 1 right now is a prime example of what I mean.
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section.
I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request"
They must do, top 1 right now is a prime example of what I mean.
"Just looked....I can't keep up with 10 friends, let alone over 8000 odd | |||
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section.
I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request""Fab my bacon butty pic for a friend request | |||
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section.
I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request"
Fab my bacon butty pic for a friend request "But I don't like bacon | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies from 175 different people (shows how shallow the pool really is) And Not every post stays on topic! What have you noticed??" Must have really bored | |||
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section.
I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request"
They must do, top 1 right now is a prime example of what I mean.
Just looked....I can't keep up with 10 friends, let alone over 8000 odd " I hear you, would rather 10 than 8,000. It’s just a smidge more manageable | |||
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section.
I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request"
Fab my bacon butty pic for a friend request
But I don't like bacon "But you're already a friend xx | |||
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"I was bored and trawling through the forums. I've not seen any thread/topic posted that has had 175 replies from 175 different people (shows how shallow the pool really is) And Not every post stays on topic! What have you noticed?? Must have really bored " I was | |||
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section.
I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request"
Fab my bacon butty pic for a friend request "I’m just going to fab the bacon butty purely because it’s a bacon butty, and I’m a fatty so. | |||
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section.
I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request"
Fab my bacon butty pic for a friend request
I’m just going to fab the bacon butty purely because it’s a bacon butty, and I’m a fatty so. "Nothing wrong with being a fatty. I've been one all my life. | |||
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"I think some people have A,Lot of free time! "Why the eye roll? | |||
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"Not so much in the forums, but lately there’s been an increase of “fab to add” type pics in the hot pics section.
I often wonder if they work especially the ones who say "Fab for a friends request"
Fab my bacon butty pic for a friend request
I’m just going to fab the bacon butty purely because it’s a bacon butty, and I’m a fatty so.
Nothing wrong with being a fatty.
I've been one all my life. "Nothing wrong with a little cushioning | |||
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"I think some people have A,Lot of free time!
Why the eye roll?"Fat fingers | |||
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