FabSwingers.com forum: Where are the genuine ladies these days?

By *ut of my depth OP Man
over a year ago

Warwick

When I first came on fab it was possible to have a bit of a chat and a giggle. These days I struggle to do this. I know I'm boring and have a poor profile but there must be someone for me

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe try tinder?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

We’re all out getting the sex OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you admitting you have a poor profile seems like, if that’s true, it might be a barrier?

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"When I first came on fab it was possible to have a bit of a chat and a giggle. These days I struggle to do this. I know I'm boring and have a poor profile but there must be someone for me"

There are lots of genuine ladies on here. If you admit to having a poor profile, maybe you could work on it and see what happens? It's unlikely that any man with a poor profile is going to get a lot of responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your first sentence is critical towards women and off putting to begin with…

Start off with a bit of positivity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first came on fab it was possible to have a bit of a chat and a giggle. These days I struggle to do this. I know I'm boring and have a poor profile but there must be someone for me"

I think you have the answer to your quandary within reach...

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"We’re all out getting the sex OP

Not out getting the sex with me, natch.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Fab has evolved. I think you may be out of your depth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re all out getting the sex OP

Not out getting the sex with me, natch."

Nor me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has evolved. I think you may be out of your depth"

We are our own harshest critics. Us and Willy Idol.

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By *imson87Man
over a year ago

Rossendale

Stop worrying mate you will find someone too talk too there's some amazing people on here you just might be going about it the wrong way

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Fab has evolved. I think you may be out of your depth

We are our own harshest critics. Us and Willy Idol. "

Honesty is the best policy

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Fab has evolved. I think you may be out of your depth

We are our own harshest critics. Us and Willy Idol. "

Us: I'm my own worst enemy.

Willy Idol: Not what I'm alive you're not!

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

If I come across a genuine woman I will tell them you are looking

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Going to bed at a sensible hour because we've got work tomorrow. Doing chores. Being dull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has evolved. I think you may be out of your depth

We are our own harshest critics. Us and Willy Idol.

Us: I'm my own worst enemy.

Willy Idol: Not what I'm alive you're not! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi hun I'm real but you are right it has changed on here xx ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has evolved. I think you may be out of your depth

We are our own harshest critics. Us and Willy Idol.

Honesty is the best policy "

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Fab has evolved. I think you may be out of your depth

We are our own harshest critics. Us and Willy Idol.

Us: I'm my own worst enemy.

Willy Idol: Not what I'm alive you're not! "

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By *ut of my depth OP Man
over a year ago

Warwick

Oh some very helpful comments out there. Thanks for your time and trouble. I'm going to change my profile and jaz it up a little. Thinking of changing by profile name to Lovely Lance to woo those amazing ladies. Any more advise ?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I know I'm boring and have a poor profile but there must be someone for me"

To paraphrase, you just said "I know I'm making no effort but why aren't any women making an effort for me?".

If you know your profile is poor, start there.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Oh some very helpful comments out there. Thanks for your time and trouble. I'm going to change my profile and jaz it up a little. Thinking of changing by profile name to Lovely Lance to woo those amazing ladies. Any more advise ?"

Some decent pics

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

You don’t really have a profile OP. Your chances of getting a reply are slim to none.

Would you reply to you? If not. Change it til you would

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Also, suggesting there are no genuine women here because none are giving you what you want, is unlikely to help your cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of cock pics and a video of you having a cry-wank should seal the deal

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By *inkygentkentMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Just focus on your positive points- what can you offer to a prospective fabber? Try and keep it lighthearted - you're basically writing an advert for yourself

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I know I'm boring and have a poor profile but there must be someone for me"

Why aren't people paying attention when I'm making no effort?

Plenty of genuine women on here OP.

But they tend to go for the people who interest and excite them

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I know I'm boring and have a poor profile but there must be someone for me

To paraphrase, you just said "I know I'm making no effort but why aren't any women making an effort for me?".

If you know your profile is poor, start there."

No point in making effort, that's dumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure how it's critical towards women, just of fab becoming less chatty?

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

"When I first came on fab it was possible to have a bit of a chat and a giggle. These days I struggle to do this. I know I'm boring and have a poor profile but there must be someone for me

I think you have the answer to your quandary within reach...

By jove, I do believe the answer may be right there in his opening post

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By *lder.Woman
over a year ago

Not Local

Nothing wrong with being boring, the slow burners will still be going long after the sparklers have burnt out. Your words are fine, plenty will align with what you want. If I was in a talking mood they wouldnt put me off. A book has to have a cover before it can be judged though, a pic, any pic would be nice to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re all out getting the sex OP

I thought you were nesting Littlebird

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm not sure how it's critical towards women, just of fab becoming less chatty?"

Saying we're all fake because we're not lining up to give a man what he wants isn't critical? Seriously?!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If you stay long enough, listen, read the room and chat, there's plenty of extremely genuine, gorgeous ladies here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard a few people say it's not as friendly as before, from females aswell. So maybe fab could encourage it somehow or encourage more women because it's a sausage fest.. so yes seriously..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine ladies? Those mystical creatures won't be found here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re all out getting the sex OP

Your words hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lady. With genuine lady bits ...n'shit.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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The ladies are probably chatting to the non boring men with the decent profiles. If you are aware that your profile is poor, then do something about it. You only get out what you put in.

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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"When I first came on fab it was possible to have a bit of a chat and a giggle. These days I struggle to do this. I know I'm boring and have a poor profile but there must be someone for me"

If you know what the problem is, and you do nothing to fix it, why are you surprised by the obvious and entirely predictable result? It's this kind of lazyness, lack of effort, and yes, entitlement (there must be someone who will give you what you want even without you making any effort) that is the reason for the lack of interest. And you moaning about it is not going to make it any better...

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"We’re all out getting the sex OP

Your words hurt

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I've heard a few people say it's not as friendly as before, from females aswell. So maybe fab could encourage it somehow or encourage more women because it's a sausage fest.. so yes seriously.."

Encourage more women to do what?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I've heard a few people say it's not as friendly as before, from females aswell. So maybe fab could encourage it somehow or encourage more women because it's a sausage fest.. so yes seriously.."

The sausage fest is over on Fab Guys

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Can’t help ya, I’m non genuine

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

She's ^ fit. She's counterfeit.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

I’m a catfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the site lol, have you seen webchat it's about 50 blokes per woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Join the site lol, have you seen webchat it's about 50 blokes per woman"

Too much profile talk, not enough ratio talk

You walk into a pub with 50 guys all screaming at the one women in there, she’s not gonna care that you ironed your shirt before coming out

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

"I've heard a few people say it's not as friendly as before, from females aswell. So maybe fab could encourage it somehow or encourage more women because it's a sausage fest.. so yes seriously.."

That's true, being told I must get my vag n tits out, every time I log in, by people I don't find attractive, does make me a little cranky tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

"When I first came on fab it was possible to have a bit of a chat and a giggle. These days I struggle to do this. I know I'm boring and have a poor profile but there must be someone for me"

Maybe try a monastic way of life because at least you get fed.

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By *ut of my depth OP Man
12 weeks ago

Warwick

I've been trying a monastic way of life for a few months. Didn't work

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

Not being able to accomodate us a barrier and screams married.

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

"Not being able to accommodate is a barrier and screams married."

I doubt it will put too many men off you.....

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

"Join the site lol, have you seen webchat it's about 50 blokes per woman"

Welcome to Fabswingers

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By *uzzleMan
12 weeks ago

Hastings

Fab where 99% of men fail and 99% of women succeed!

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

"Fab where 99% of men fail and 99% of women succeed!"

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