FabSwingers.com forum: Crying

By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Do you cry?

Do you cry in front of anyone, or only alone?

Have you cried recently?

How do you express yourself when you’re sad?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Been crying alot lately when I see sad stuff on TV x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry. I cry when I’m alone. I’ve cried in front of my partner only in adulthood.

I don’t usually cry as often as I feel sad. So I usually express sadness by sitting quietly with my feelings

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Shed a few tears for people that have passed on and it's the anniversary of it. It was in private.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yes, yes, yes, crying.

I'm a big crier!

Mrs TMN x

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By *ka OMBMan
over a year ago

Wigan/Warrington/St Helens ish

I watched the film one life last weekend at the flicks and and to stifle my sobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cried twice today about my dad, who died a month ago.

Aside from grief, I'm a regular crier and don't have a problem doing it in front of others.

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
over a year ago

shankill

Cry at sad parts of movies.

Trace it back to the lion king, that movie…

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By *drian52Man
over a year ago

Derby

To cry is okay and human. I have done a lot of crying in the past and I laugh more now. Until the next emotional malarkey, which is in the horizon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cry....or it's extremely rare

I don't have a issue with it ...I just don't

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Yes, I cry. I cry a lot. I last cried last night.

I cry in front of people, especially my children as it teaches them that it's normal to cry when you're upset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you cry?

Do you cry in front of anyone, or only alone?

Have you cried recently?

How do you express yourself when you’re sad?"

No, but would love to be able to cry

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

No, I never cry and don't think I could even if I wanted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

usually over a variety of different things, from anger and frustration to heartbreak to stress to things i find upsetting.

today, i cried over exam stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry a lot. I'm highly reactive to movies and even, a few days a month, emotional songs can make my eyes leak.

I cry when I'm frustrated, or in confrontational situations (which are thankfully rare), or when I'm feeling sad or lonely, or overwhelmed by friendship, love or the beauty of nature, and during a good breathwork session.

I used to bottle that up but since having therapy my tears are free to flow. I always feel better after a good hard sob when something more serious goes down.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

"Do you cry?

Do you cry in front of anyone, or only alone?

Have you cried recently?

How do you express yourself when you’re sad?"

had to after a life experience, normally I’d go out with dog, hat on or hood up and could let it out whilst walking

I had a really nice surprise yesterday in terms of what fabber said about me and

had a bit of happy tears, again just with the dog

Right, I’ll go be manly and stuff..

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I've cried a lot in the last couple of years. Mostly on my own but occasionally in front of others when I can't help it.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

I always thought I had a heart of stone but last couple years I've had more tearful moments that I care to admit on my own in public etc some things just kill and can't help but let the tears flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do cry, a lot of the time I don't mean to I just get sad or am soooooooo frustrated and have felt like a right dip stick.

I have cried a fair bit recently. It's not nice xx

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I cry. A lot.

I cry when I'm sad, when I'm angry, when I'm lonely, when I'm happy... pretty much anything sets me off!

If I'm alone, I cry alone, if I'm in company I try to stifle it, but usually fail, so yes, I cry in front of others. I'm not scared of showing and sharing my emotions or vulnerabilities. They make us human right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you cry?

Do you cry in front of anyone, or only alone?

Have you cried recently?

How do you express yourself when you’re sad?"

I very occasionally cry, the last time was over Christmas when I went to see It's a wonderful life. I always cry at the scene where George sees his brother's grave and realises his brother wasn't there to save the troops in WW2 because he wasn't there to save his brother.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"Cried twice today about my dad, who died a month ago.

Aside from grief, I'm a regular crier and don't have a problem doing it in front of others. "

Sorry for your loss.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I cry while watching certain scenes in the movies and no one knows

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I use to only cry at the most intense of personal grief or extreme physical pain before going onto hormone treatment. Over the last few months though I can cry over the small things. The first time it happened over something happy took me by suprise. So far I've not done much in public but thats more luck than contorl or judgement.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

not very often tbh but have had a moment on my own

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yep, it's annoying I usually run off and cry in private, however I'm an angry cryer it's so fucking annoying, trying to explain I'm not upset while tears roll down my face kinda doesn't work.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will cry in the shower on my own... Or occasionally if I'm at rock bottom I'll cry (sob) in the car

Its a very infrequent emotion for me fortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crying is reserved for my mum only

Others almost always disapprove of that kind of stuff. If it’s not used against you, it’ll be seen as a sign of weakness and be used as a negative about you

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"Crying is reserved for my mum only

Others almost always disapprove of that kind of stuff. If it’s not used against you, it’ll be seen as a sign of weakness and be used as a negative about you "

Not by all people.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I very rarely cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, usually when Quacksplat turns off her cam.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

nowadays very rarely, even when my mum died I didn't cry. It doesn't mean I don't feel it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely cry but when I do it’s usually in private

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Cried my last tears of grief when my maternal grandfather passed away. Only then at the cremation. He was my best friend too.

Tears of joy I cry often though..

Oh. And at the end of Forest Gump.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never been a big crier and when I did it was on my own

However since my partner died 15 months ago I've not shed a single tear. For him or anything else. I think it would do me good to have a good cry

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Blimey you lot are like steel. Barely a day goes by I don't well up over something I watch or even music. I only cry in front of people I trust though.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Yes I have cried. When parents and friends have died and when relationships have ended.I find I get more emotional as I have gotten older. I have to give myself a good talking to sometimes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cried a lot in the last two days. Yesterday more so than today.

I've cried a fair few times in the past year.

I never used to let anyone see me cry and for a long time I found it very hard to cry. It depends what the upset is though and I'm not about to explain that either.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yep. I’m a proud ugly crier.

I don’t just cry from sadness, but also from happiness, frustration and anger as well as stress.

I’m really fortunate I’ve got amazing friends and family who I can openly express my emotions with. I rarely need pandering to. Sometimes I need to be told to get a grip and get on with it, other times I need someone to be angry with me so I don’t feel alone. Most of the time I just need someone to make a joke so I can laugh about it to make whatever the issue is feel smaller so I can tackle it.

Not all tears are justified. I cried today after being on and off hold to the insurance company for 1hr37mins and speaking to several different members of staff my phone died as my charger wasn’t switch on at the wall. 100% my own fault but I still cried about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been a big crier and when I did it was on my own

However since my partner died 15 months ago I've not shed a single tear. For him or anything else. I think it would do me good to have a good cry"

Oh gosh, that's a long time to not be able to cry over your loss. Hard to know what might unlock that.

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By *exyCarla181Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

I cry when I'm happy sad stressed angry.. Anytime really so if you see me in tears you wouldn't guess what my emotion was unless you knew me well

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes I do.

I've cried in front of people - colleagues, loved ones, friends. Random people. I cry angry tears when I'm frustrated. Happy tears when I'm overwhelmed with joy (often at the simplest things that some how strike a chord in me). I cry when I watch something and I'm filled with happiness for them or imagining the hurt.

I used to think that I was too emotional. Too intense. Felt emotions too readily. Now I like that I feel.

I cried last weekend. A combination of things meant that I needed that cathartic release and Hamilton wasn't quite cutting it.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Crying at are energy Bill's

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I have got much more open about crying the last few years, and now lots of things bring tears to my eyes, sometimes in public. I think it's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm comfortable crying

I mostly cry when I'm angry/frustrated. As if everything was trying to explode - emotions and eyes included.

Though I had tears in my eyes yesterday when given an unexpected little rainbow gift. So all for tears of joy too

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By *aaveeMan
over a year ago

Poole

Been crying more lately than I ever have done after losing a best friend and my mum being given months to live

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Nope i never cry

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I cry. Usually alone. If something tugs on my heart strings, and that could be a story I've read on social media, a particular movie, or seeing someone in the real world braving a hard existence, I'll shed a tear. Some things that people go through make us feel for them, and there's no shame in that.

I cried recently when I arrived back at my hotel from visiting the floating village in Siem Reap. The kids I saw there looked so happy, but hearing how their life is from my guide, when i got back to my hotel I had a cry. We have such an easy life in the west, compared to those less fortunate in parts of the world like cambodia.

If I can help a little even, I try to do my part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry a lot. Usually alone.

I miss my daughter. My 7 year relationship ended just over a month ago and he collected his stuff yesterday. And to top it off I'm menopausal! I could really use a break!

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

somewhere

What's the point in crying?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't cry easily

It doesn't mean I'm made of stone

And I do think it's important that people are able to regulate their emotions

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By *restonCouple555Couple
over a year ago

preston

I (Mr) wasn't able to for about twenty years.

I've learnt to be emotionally vulnerable thanks to Mrs. Still not a big crier but when we lost our first dog I wept for days. It helped a little bit.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I do cry - I think it's good to let emotions out. I tend to bottle things up until it's like a damn bursting.

Generally unless it's during a film or something I don't cry in front of others.

I had a good cry to myself on Wednesday night after a lot of anxious emotions had being doing a number on me the past week. Released in time for the new moon energy

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"What's the point in crying?"

It's a release, certainly with issues such as grief..

When my Mum died I sort of locked the emotion away as our children were quite young and I didn't want them to see their Dad cry, it came out eventually but it wasn't good I believe to try and bottle it up..

When my Dad died I sobbed like a child, the difference in the grieving for both of them who I loved equally the same was tangibly different..

I've stood at the graves of other men in the military and emergency services who locked their emotions away and for them sadly the outcome wasn't good..

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I cry a lot. Anything can trigger it, sadness happiness anything

The last time I cried was last weekend. Leaving my boy in London.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

No, I rarely do, and esp not as a child. Even as a 7 yr old when my dad said my mum died. He left me to do the washing up. I went upstairs to my room to have a think about it. Same a few years later with my dad.

However, I did when I was rushed to the emergency room when I had my daughter bc she was in danger but that was the last time.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I used to cry all the time, a lot.

Since my mother died in November ‘22 in quite traumatic, albeit not unexpected circumstances, my self-preservation instinct has kicked in and I in much better control of my emotions and my reactions to them. I don’t cry as much as I used to…

Lol right now I do feel like crying about losing my shoes. But tough sh*t, I’ll just have to suck it up and buy a new pair… 2 years ago I’d be bawling like a baby hahaha

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

I don't cry if I can help it..be it through grief or feeling distraught etc,not good as it gets bottled up and when it surfaces is probably far far worse..

When I found out my older brother had terminal cancer the utter shock and disbelief sent me over the edge and I cried and wailed like a demonic banshee..I was at work at the time,so not a good look. That taught me to lighten the load sooner rather than later,but..I'll still refrain if I can..

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By *utterfly64Woman
over a year ago

Raynes Park

Yes I cry.

Haven’t cried in front of my partner - yet! But he is relatively new

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

As I cum I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely cry now. Had a very turbulent few years some time back and although things have settled, something has switched off within me and I have become very unemotional.

I wish I could cry and be more open about how I feel with other people.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Occasionally - and more often as I get older. Into my 30s I think I hadn't cried since being a child. Now occasionally things build up and I find myself crying. Sometimes I start imagining upsetting things and the tears start - I think it's my mind's way of tricking my body into getting rid of negative emotions.

I also sometimes find myself crying with laughter.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I cry sometimes.

I prefer to be alone when I do.

The last time I cried was earlier this week when I had one of my dogs put to sleep.That day I cried in front of the vet.

When I'm that sad I prefer to be alone that day to process things. When I am sad I tend to go quieter than normal and usually try and avoid talking about things too much as I don't like to cry in front of people.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Yes I cry sometimes.

I prefer to be alone when I do.

The last time I cried was earlier this week when I had one of my dogs put to sleep.That day I cried in front of the vet.

dogs

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Never again iv cauterized my tear ducts so it will never happen again and purged emotional responses of all kinds in hope of never being a sap again i dont do vulnerability well

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Do you cry?

Do you cry in front of anyone, or only alone?

Have you cried recently?

How do you express yourself when you’re sad?"

I am dominant man and everyday life i wouldnt dream of crying in front of anyone .but with my new love i get tears in my eyes how wonderful it is to be with her and not ashamed admit ting it .there very in awe happy tears

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Oh god, I bawled yesterday! Total pity party cos I felt like crap and was totally fraustrated. Felt much better after though!

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Oh god, I bawled yesterday! Total pity party cos I felt like crap and was totally fraustrated. Felt much better after though!"

They say it gets all the stress hormones out literally in the tears so it’s really very healthy to cry. Glad you’re feeling better.

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By *hampagnesteveMan
over a year ago

Wimbledon

"Cried twice today about my dad, who died a month ago.

Aside from grief, I'm a regular crier and don't have a problem doing it in front of others. "

I hope the crying releases your sadness. Sorry for your loss,

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Ps I've always cried with some movies .

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes I am quite emotional and can get teary with others

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By *ortney CocksWoman
over a year ago

I hardly cry I don’t want to mess up my eye makeup nah I’m just not a emotional person

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

When girls do the hand wavy think when crying does it work i always wondered that

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"When girls do the hand wavy think when crying does it work i always wondered that"

No. When I do that I simply thump my face which hurts, and I cry more. I’m clumsy.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"When girls do the hand wavy think when crying does it work i always wondered that

No. When I do that I simply thump my face which hurts, and I cry more. I’m clumsy. "

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

I never cry, in fact the last time I cried I was a child. I didn't even cry at my fathers funeral.

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

Being a guy I never shed a tear, no matter what. But and it's a big but, after losing the love of my life my friend my soulmate of 49 years after nursing for 4 years with cancer, it truly broke me, I cried at every mention, every thought, and am still fragile now almost 9 years on.

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