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Silly things that make you nervous

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?"

Snap

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By *oomerangbobMan
over a year ago

stanhope

Wasps

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
over a year ago

Coalville

Official looking letters through the door!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birds flying around me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standing at the underground/subway waiting on a train. I'm paranoid someone will push me on to the tracks at the last moment.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Official looking letters through the door!

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Yes. This is never nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving past a copper

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?"

Me too! Every time

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Standing at the underground/subway waiting on a train. I'm paranoid someone will push me on to the tracks at the last moment."

I get this. I also hate passing people on a canal path for these reasons

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Driving behind a full car transporter lorry and travelling on public transport

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Official looking letters through the door!

Yes. This is never nice"

Add me to the official list of people who don’t like official letters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bridges! I hate driving over them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Currently, driving.

I've had two surgeries on my eye in the last 18 months and haven't been able to drive as a result. In the next week or so I can get behind the wheel again, I admit I feel a frisson of nerves

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Standing at the top of a steep flight of stairs or an escalator- I'm always terrified I'm going to fall down them.

Iirc, this is an actual physical thing something to do with catastrophising or some such.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Overtaking a massive HGV on the motorway

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm going to add sudden stopping on a motorway. Been wiped out a couple of times now

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?"

Drain covers. Cannot walk over them as I'm sure they will collapse and I'll be in the sewer with broken legs.

Interstingly my old pony wouldn't walk over them either, always side stepped them. I figured he was just clever and saving us from certain doom. Nope. He would happily step on them if I wasn't on him. Fool that he was. Tbf he probably thought I was the fool and side stepped to avoid me freaking out on top of him.

MrsAbz

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Getting into lifts, I always think they are going to get stuck or plummet to the bottom, I'm too lazy to take the stairs tho.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Standing at the top of a steep flight of stairs or an escalator- I'm always terrified I'm going to fall down them.

Iirc, this is an actual physical thing something to do with catastrophising or some such."

I'm like this at football matches. The fear is more about the crowd chanting at me when I stack it though

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Overtaking a massive HGV on the motorway "

I don't like it when you are stopped next to one in traffic. Always afraid it will suddenly just fall over and smoosh me. Could happen.

MrsAbz

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?

Drain covers. Cannot walk over them as I'm sure they will collapse and I'll be in the sewer with broken legs.

Interstingly my old pony wouldn't walk over them either, always side stepped them. I figured he was just clever and saving us from certain doom. Nope. He would happily step on them if I wasn't on him. Fool that he was. Tbf he probably thought I was the fool and side stepped to avoid me freaking out on top of him.

MrsAbz"

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Getting into lifts, I always think they are going to get stuck or plummet to the bottom, I'm too lazy to take the stairs tho."

I'm nervous they'll breakdown when I need a poo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butterflies.

Flap about looking pretty a good two metres plus away from me thank you.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?"
men walking on the ridge of roofs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cloths shopping m

Dunno why. Get nervous/shy

Need my Bally on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to people

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Cloths shopping m

Dunno why. Get nervous/shy

Need my Bally on "
yes on black friday especially all of them out of control women charging the shop doors..... Carnage

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Butterflies.

Flap about looking pretty a good two metres plus away from me thank you. "

What's the worst they could possibly do?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Hot women on Fab saying they'd love to meet me

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Going to a new dance venue where I don't know anyone whi h is becoming a rare thing these days

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Cloths shopping m

Dunno why. Get nervous/shy

Need my Bally on "

It just irritates me.

"Do you need any help, Sir"

I've literally just walked in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Butterflies.

Flap about looking pretty a good two metres plus away from me thank you.

What's the worst they could possibly do?

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Flutter about in my face, or be really big and fly towards me.

They are unpredictable and make me incredibly nervous

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Getting into lifts, I always think they are going to get stuck or plummet to the bottom, I'm too lazy to take the stairs tho.

I'm nervous they'll breakdown when I need a poo"

Worst nightmare!

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Butterflies.

Flap about looking pretty a good two metres plus away from me thank you.

What's the worst they could possibly do?

Flutter about in my face, or be really big and fly towards me.

They are unpredictable and make me incredibly nervous"

There goes our date at the Stratford butterfly farm then

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

40t heavy goods vehicles on the motorway or roundabouts. I'm a very confident driver, but after being cleaned up by one back in 2008, I've been very wary. If they encroach into my lane, it sets my fight or flight response right off. Hate them!

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Cloths shopping m

Dunno why. Get nervous/shy

Need my Bally on "

Same here! (Disco Balls)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Driving behind agricultural vehicles that remind me of the scene from Final Destination. It's always terrifying for me and there's absolutely no reason, no real logic behind it.

I'm not going to be involved in a horrific freak accident where a log suddenly comes loose but I still find my heart racing whenever there's one in front.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Crossing the road when cars are waiting for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cloths shopping m

Dunno why. Get nervous/shy

Need my Bally on

It just irritates me.

"Do you need any help, Sir"

I've literally just walked in "

That’s a really nice way of saying “judge by the way your dressed now, your clueless. Let me help”

Leave me alone im scared and cloths won’t fix my personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cotton wool balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"Crossing the road when cars are waiting for me "

I prefer going around back of cars when they do that

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Flapping birds...I have a weird fear of them getting their feet tangled in my hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving behind overloaded scrap vans

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Talking to people"

I came to write exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going in an elevator, got stuck in one once, would now rather walk up 10 flights of stairs than get in one. Plus it's good for the cardio

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By *dventurousSexplorersCouple
over a year ago

Fantasy Land

Driving in between to HGVs on the motorway. Every time I’m waiting for them to sandwich me

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Cloths shopping m

Dunno why. Get nervous/shy

Need my Bally on

It just irritates me.

"Do you need any help, Sir"

I've literally just walked in

That’s a really nice way of saying “judge by the way your dressed now, your clueless. Let me help”

Leave me alone im scared and cloths won’t fix my personality "

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Cotton wool balls "

I know someone who shares your fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cotton wool balls

I know someone who shares your fear"

Really?!! I am a figure of fun with that particular fear.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Climbing up very high ladders. I hate it, won't do it

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Phoning people about official things. Ugh.

Mrs TMN x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing


"Driving behind a full car transporter lorry and travelling on public transport "

Transporter lorry! Yes I do have visions of the cars become loose!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Official looking letters through the door!

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I dread those brown envelopes.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've noticed recently I get nervous as a plane I'm on takes off. I'm also not the best passenger in a car when someone is driving a little too fast.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Penalty shootouts in football

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Walking on the glass platforms over high structures like the Rockies or Toronto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scorpions give me the fear

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Scorpions give me the fear "

Do they Rock You Like a Hurricane?

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The wrong sorts of dogs

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

Well, there's not a lot that makes me nervous, but I do have this recurring dream in which I'm driving a train, and there's a couple of guys driving over some tracks in their cars as I'm approaching.

And they really do look nervous.

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(What? I said I'd pop up every so often dinnI?)

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Currently, driving.

I've had two surgeries on my eye in the last 18 months and haven't been able to drive as a result. In the next week or so I can get behind the wheel again, I admit I feel a frisson of nerves "

I can completely empathise with this.

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)


"Driving behind a full car transporter lorry and travelling on public transport "

Ahhh totally the same, I thought I was being daft and was alone on this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking over strong current river bridges

I kinda have an inner fear that someone will pick me up & throw me in....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Motorway driving.

So many knobheads on the road.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

When ever I'm around heavy machinery I get and urge to stick my hands in

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Walking out through those security scanners in supermarkets.

I have never nicked anything but there’s always the chance at the back of my mind, that they may go off by mistake

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk


"Driving behind a full car transporter lorry and travelling on public transport

Ahhh totally the same, I thought I was being daft and was alone on this!! "

Ever since I started driving I've had a problem with being behind a car transporter think I'm just convinced one will fall off

I'm ok on public transport with people but alone is when I have the issue unless it's the London underground

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"When ever I'm around heavy machinery I get and urge to stick my hands in "

I have that with Stairs.

It’s why I don’t walk along cliff tops.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Phoning my GP.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Stepping onto escalators.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stepping onto escalators."

I’ll hold your hand

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Stepping onto escalators.

I’ll hold your hand"

You'd make a great boy scout, Pickle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Climate change related excess deaths

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Climate change related excess deaths "

100%

Although it would be nicer to live closer to the beach

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Driving with a police car directly behind me. Suddenly I feel like I’m all over the place or about to get pulled over for doing 33mph.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Climate change related excess deaths "

That’s a “silly thing” is it? Fair enough.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Well, there's not a lot that makes me nervous, but I do have this recurring dream in which I'm driving a train, and there's a couple of guys driving over some tracks in their cars as I'm approaching.

And they really do look nervous.

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(What? I said I'd pop up every so often dinnI?)"

My last image will be your sinister grin

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Hot women on Fab saying they'd love to meet me "

Do you not meet even just for biscuit dunking

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Standing at the underground/subway waiting on a train. I'm paranoid someone will push me on to the tracks at the last moment."

Clapham North, have you seen this one?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wD18J1cAwHk&t=425s

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Driving behind agricultural vehicles that remind me of the scene from Final Destination. It's always terrifying for me and there's absolutely no reason, no real logic behind it.

I'm not going to be involved in a horrific freak accident where a log suddenly comes loose but I still find my heart racing whenever there's one in front. "

That franchise has traumatised a lot of people and left them feeling more worried than they should be.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Top of an endless flight of stairs, feel im going to just fall to the bottom

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

Every time I posted a photo here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I posted a photo here "
post more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting into lifts, I always think they are going to get stuck or plummet to the bottom, I'm too lazy to take the stairs tho.

I'm nervous they'll breakdown when I need a poo

Worst nightmare! "

...that the lift will suddenly plummet just as I'm getting on or off, I lose my balance and trip up as a result, and my legs or feet are half way out, or in the lift door as it's falling

...I don't need to go any further do I??

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nothing my nerves are made of steel

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Catching the last flight of the day with budget airline.

I got cancelled once and despite their promise of reimbursement, it took about a year before I got my money back.

Never book the last flight of the day with budget airlines!

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Driving in heavy rain in the dark

Needles

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Getting into lifts, I always think they are going to get stuck or plummet to the bottom, I'm too lazy to take the stairs tho.

I'm nervous they'll breakdown when I need a poo

Worst nightmare!

...that the lift will suddenly plummet just as I'm getting on or off, I lose my balance and trip up as a result, and my legs or feet are half way out, or in the lift door as it's falling

...I don't need to go any further do I?? "

Like a scene out of Final Destiny

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Windy Scottish B roads in the dark and rain with traffic speeding and passing aggressively.

I'm used to deer popping out so we never drove so stupid in the same conditions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking over drains. I always think one’s going to break and that’ll be the end of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I posted a photo here "

Related. Sending a face pic to someone.

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By *ommy2125Man
over a year ago

newport

Sometimes I get nervous ordering drinks in a pub. Not sure why just in my head feel like I'm going to blurt out something silly in a squeaky voice like some teenager. So have to mentally prepare my banter and deep man voice.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Sometimes I get nervous ordering drinks in a pub. Not sure why just in my head feel like I'm going to blurt out something silly in a squeaky voice like some teenager. So have to mentally prepare my banter and deep man voice. "

I do this. Rehearsing the drink order in my head

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London


"Every time I posted a photo here

Related. Sending a face pic to someone. "

I got your. I can tell you are gorgeous.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London


"Every time I posted a photo here

Related. Sending a face pic to someone.

I got your. I can tell you are gorgeous. "

OP’s pic face too. Very handsome, amazing eyes

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

A heart surgeon with a nervous tic.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

My wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently, driving.

I've had two surgeries on my eye in the last 18 months and haven't been able to drive as a result. In the next week or so I can get behind the wheel again, I admit I feel a frisson of nerves "

Get better soon. You can do it. Most people drive blind these days, I enjoy driving but many others pull out, do not indicate, wrong lane, up my boot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting strangers from fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passport control or walking through the scanner

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Stepping onto escalators."

Yes! Although up escalators are fine. It's the down ones that get me

J

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Three point turn on jetty’s, so paranoid about the car falling in the sea it becomes a 9 point turn.

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?"

Taking to alternative, kinky, latex clad females. I get giggles and flustered and go bright red..

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Driving behind agricultural vehicles that remind me of the scene from Final Destination. It's always terrifying for me and there's absolutely no reason, no real logic behind it.

I'm not going to be involved in a horrific freak accident where a log suddenly comes loose but I still find my heart racing whenever there's one in front. "

It's not entirely a silly fear! I was on the motorway behind a lorry filled with soil/mud. The back flap thing failed and there was mud all over the motorway. It was so slippy, I skidded everywhere and thought I was a goner. One of my scariest moments

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking out of a shop without buying anything. I always have to tell myself to act normal because I didn't actually steal anything

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"Driving behind agricultural vehicles that remind me of the scene from Final Destination. It's always terrifying for me and there's absolutely no reason, no real logic behind it.

I'm not going to be involved in a horrific freak accident where a log suddenly comes loose but I still find my heart racing whenever there's one in front.

It's not entirely a silly fear! I was on the motorway behind a lorry filled with soil/mud. The back flap thing failed and there was mud all over the motorway. It was so slippy, I skidded everywhere and thought I was a goner. One of my scariest moments

J"

I witnessed something similar as a truck drove around a roundabout....The said truck was loaded full of Bales of Briquettes....all the briquettes began to tumble off the truck ....omg how no one was indured or any car damaged I do not know....traffic was moving slow at the time so that probably helped with no injuries

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Getting cash out the cash point.

I always imagine a comically strong wind blowing it out of my hand and having to do that thing where you go to pick something up and the wind blows it, so you do that little jog to get it and the wind blows it again and you have that moments doubt like ‘oh no. This is my life now. I’ll never pick it up’

It’s only happened once but the fear since

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Three point turn on jetty’s, so paranoid about the car falling in the sea it becomes a 9 point turn. "

It is actually a thing that can happen. It has happened before and resulted in the driver dying.

Not sure that helps your fear any though. Sorry!

MrsAbz

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Going thru a security check at the airport..

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester

Heights

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By *issMBWoman
over a year ago

North

Emails. Which is ridiculous seeing as I receive 100+ a day for work

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Reversing a car. I can do it, I'm good at it (sometimes) but I worry I'm going not spot something or zoom out of control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listening to the wind rattling my roof at night

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Three point turn on jetty’s, so paranoid about the car falling in the sea it becomes a 9 point turn.

It is actually a thing that can happen. It has happened before and resulted in the driver dying.

Not sure that helps your fear any though. Sorry!

MrsAbz "

I feel nervous just thinking about it. I sometimes visit Wells next the sea in summer evenings and the only place to park is on a concrete slab in the sea, it’s horrible.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Bridges, I hate driving over bridges. I also hate people standing up around me when I'm sitting down, makes me feel edgy

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By *ozing24Man
over a year ago

kettering

OAP’s

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Just one irrational fear now.

Caving.

Nothing else really worries me anymore.

Instead of saying "what's the worst that could happen"

I say

"What's the best that could happen"

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Prius drivers in London

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Just one irrational fear now.

Caving.

Nothing else really worries me anymore.

Instead of saying "what's the worst that could happen"

I say

"What's the best that could happen""

That's a death wish

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Emails. Which is ridiculous seeing as I receive 100+ a day for work "

Select all. Delete

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Getting cash out the cash point.

I always imagine a comically strong wind blowing it out of my hand and having to do that thing where you go to pick something up and the wind blows it, so you do that little jog to get it and the wind blows it again and you have that moments doubt like ‘oh no. This is my life now. I’ll never pick it up’

It’s only happened once but the fear since "

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Walking out of a shop without buying anything. I always have to tell myself to act normal because I didn't actually steal anything "

. Can't help but feel guilty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Driving in between to HGVs on the motorway. Every time I’m waiting for them to sandwich me "

That should be impossible.

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"Just one irrational fear now.

Caving.

Nothing else really worries me anymore.

Instead of saying "what's the worst that could happen"

I say

"What's the best that could happen"

That's a death wish"

Probably.

But I'm not afraid of that either.

If its destined to happen, its gonna happen.

Enjoy the ride whilst it lasts.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?"

For me...meeting people 121... terrifies me... private meets in general to be fair

Cali

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Just one irrational fear now.

Caving.

Nothing else really worries me anymore.

Instead of saying "what's the worst that could happen"

I say

"What's the best that could happen"

That's a death wish

Probably.

But I'm not afraid of that either.

If its destined to happen, its gonna happen.

Enjoy the ride whilst it lasts."

You daredevil!

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?

For me...meeting people 121... terrifies me... private meets in general to be fair

Cali "

Yes they can be nerve-racking. But fortune favours the brave

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

When I drive over the Severn bridge (twice a day) I always imagine Godzilla coming out of the water, or the bridge breaking and falling into the water, especially if I’m stuck in traffic (every day!)

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"Just one irrational fear now.

Caving.

Nothing else really worries me anymore.

Instead of saying "what's the worst that could happen"

I say

"What's the best that could happen"

That's a death wish

Probably.

But I'm not afraid of that either.

If its destined to happen, its gonna happen.

Enjoy the ride whilst it lasts.

You daredevil! "

Still won't catch met in a bloody cave though.

Death traps. !!

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
over a year ago

Londontown

Chatting to pretty girls

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Eating baked beans or cabbage the night before I'm due to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carrying a tray of drinks in a cafe, always bloody spill it.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Carrying a tray of drinks in a cafe, always bloody spill it."

It's an expensive mistake these days. Carrying a day's wages on tray would make me nervous

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Eating baked beans or cabbage the night before I'm due to have sex."

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

All my life i never had nerves until the begining of the end then i had them a lot

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Chatting to pretty girls "

You're safe here then

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"All my life i never had nerves until the begining of the end then i had them a lot"

Well I hope you find those boobs before the end

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door


"All my life i never had nerves until the begining of the end then i had them a lot

Well I hope you find those boobs before the end"
boobs are all around us

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"All my life i never had nerves until the begining of the end then i had them a lot

Well I hope you find those boobs before the endboobs are all around us"

And so the feeling grows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone running a tap and they leave it on while they go and nip and get something and it's still running.....

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?"

Actually exactly this haha.

And the Dartford crossing! NO idea why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving behind a truck mainly tipper type in case they have a large boulder or brick wedged between tyres.

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By *Jblue321Man
over a year ago

Chester

This and when you’ve still got a receipt from another store that will set this alarm off, I know I’ve done nothing wrong but just no

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By *Jblue321Man
over a year ago

Chester

Not locking my front door, it’s almost a compulsive thing now to triple check atleast, no matter how certain I am that I’ve locked it

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Not locking my front door, it’s almost a compulsive thing now to triple check atleast, no matter how certain I am that I’ve locked it"

Couldn’t find my keys anywhere one morning, opened the door and there they were, still in the lock on the outside.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Stairs, up and down and escalators but especially slathered stairs where there's a gap at the back of each stair

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Cracking an egg into hot water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moving my daughter when she’s asleep

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Moving my daughter when she’s asleep"

Wheelchairs are ace for this! You can arrange the child on your lap/chest and still move around, but without jolting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moving my daughter when she’s asleep

Wheelchairs are ace for this! You can arrange the child on your lap/chest and still move around, but without jolting them. "

When my daughter was smol I used to love having her in the sling and carrying on with things. Makes me want another one

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Moving my daughter when she’s asleep

Wheelchairs are ace for this! You can arrange the child on your lap/chest and still move around, but without jolting them.

When my daughter was smol I used to love having her in the sling and carrying on with things. Makes me want another one"

A stretchy wrap was the only way I could carry my daughter. I've never picked her up off the ground and up. Stretchy wraps are ace, I'm sad I didn't have one for my son. Mr KC used to love carrying her on his front too

She still straps on my knee in the wheelchair sometimes, though I can't bloody well see anything

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Regular stuff ,- men following me at night, who aren't sweet and innocent

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

That feeling someone is watching you when you are walking round the house alone at night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That feeling someone is watching you when you are walking round the house alone at night."

That can be freaky....Sensing a presence when no one's there freaks me out!!!!

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall

Walking past police car, you know you done nothing wrong but still gets you iffy

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Walking past police car, you know you done nothing wrong but still gets you iffy"

Walk with a limp and put one trouser in the sock

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.


"I always feel nervous driving over level crossing train lines. One day I'll get wiped out, I'm sure of it.

What silly things make you nervous?

For me...meeting people 121... terrifies me... private meets in general to be fair

Cali

Yes they can be nerve-racking. But fortune favours the brave "
I'm fine with club or public play or group stuff..

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Driving or walking anywhere near water like rivers, lakes or sea.

Official letters

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By *burns7Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Walking past police car, you know you done nothing wrong but still gets you iffy

Walk with a limp and put one trouser in the sock "

Fuckinf Robbin Williams esk from hook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birds flying near me, or being around me.

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

The room going silent when someone lets one rip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not locking my front door, it’s almost a compulsive thing now to triple check atleast, no matter how certain I am that I’ve locked it"

Same. As well as making sure it's locked before going to sleep..which is annoying cause I'll get out of bed to do it after having just settled in

Again, same with the fridge door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn’t find my keys anywhere one morning, opened the door and there they were, still in the lock on the outside. "

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By *cotch90Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Driving past a copper "

That’s a great one, doesn’t matter if you have did nothing wrong all the what ifs fly round

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Portaloo.

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By *cotch90Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Driving past a copper "

That’s a great one, doesn’t matter if you have did nothing wrong all the what ifs fly round

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Changing a socket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I posted a photo here

Related. Sending a face pic to someone.

I got your. I can tell you are gorgeous. "

….. I’ll take that!

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Carrying a tray of drinks in a cafe, always bloody spill it.

It's an expensive mistake these days. Carrying a day's wages on tray would make me nervous "
try doing it in cycling shoes and cleats, near impossible feat of balance!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Driving behind agricultural vehicles that remind me of the scene from Final Destination. It's always terrifying for me and there's absolutely no reason, no real logic behind it.

I'm not going to be involved in a horrific freak accident where a log suddenly comes loose but I still find my heart racing whenever there's one in front.

It's not entirely a silly fear! I was on the motorway behind a lorry filled with soil/mud. The back flap thing failed and there was mud all over the motorway. It was so slippy, I skidded everywhere and thought I was a goner. One of my scariest moments

J

I witnessed something similar as a truck drove around a roundabout....The said truck was loaded full of Bales of Briquettes....all the briquettes began to tumble off the truck ....omg how no one was indured or any car damaged I do not know....traffic was moving slow at the time so that probably helped with no injuries "

Thanks Julie, thanks Louise. There's nothing like two people validating your fear of being in a freak accident as an actual possibility. Guess I'm not driving down country lanes any time soon now.

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

I've got nothing to add except taking this to 172...it's so close to being closed .

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"I've got nothing to add except taking this to 172...it's so close to being closed ."

It's making me nervous seeing it this close. Will it fail at the last hurdle?

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

Nope .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a lot of thoughts on this issue

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