FabSwingers.com forum: Not for getting our mum's

By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

There is about when did last speak to your so thought I say something about our mum's

Sadly mine passed away in 2009 so that was the last I spoke to having lost both parties and grandparents to there's not a day goes by thinking about them

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
49 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Sorry to here that op. I spoke to my mum on WhatsApp earlier.

We live on the same street so I see her nearly every day

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

2018

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By *aitonelMan
49 weeks ago

Travelling

Couple of minutes ago.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

A few hours before she passed away in ICU in September 2000. I was the last member of our family to visit her. She thought she'd be going home the next day.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
49 weeks ago

East Sussex

I spoke to her the day she died, I was privileged to sit with her on that last journey.

I talk to her in my head every day and weirdly we get along much better

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
49 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Sorry to hear this OP

I’m in the same boat as you. This time of year is hard so keep your chin up and know you’re not alone.

xXx

The last thing I did was sing my mums favourite song to her. It was a very special moment that I’ll always cherish. Bitter sweet as it is. X

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
49 weeks ago

North West

Almost 2yrs ago? She's persona non grata.

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By *alandNitaCouple
49 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I'm so lucky that both my parents are alive and well.

I last spoke to my mum last Wednesday and will be visiting for a chat and a cuppa tonight.

Nita

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By *hy_bbw24Woman
49 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Last spoke to my mum on the 10th December 2007. She passed away unexpectedly in the early hours on the 11th. Funeral was on the 21st December and now I really do despise this time of year.

It makes no difference how much time has passed since losing a mother, I lost the most important person in my life and it broke me, you accept it but never really get over the loss x

Much love to those who have lost someone special xxx

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By *stwo2023Couple
49 weeks ago

Worcester

Online this morning to tell her not to forget the chocolate Santas when she comes down on Saturday.

In person last Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

November 2nd 2022 and that's the day I cut her from my life.

I had a friend who would say "always love your mother as you'll never get another" but not all mothers are worthy of the title.

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By *oppleWangerMan
49 weeks ago

Gods Country

28th August 2016

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
49 weeks ago

North West

"November 2nd 2022 and that's the day I cut her from my life.

I had a friend who would say "always love your mother as you'll never get another" but not all mothers are worthy of the title.

Totally get you. I have a similar story.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I last spoke to her Christmas day 2022 and she died a few days later. I kept trying to ring but she was too sick to answer her mobile. She spent most of December alone in hospital with nobody allowed to visit her due to Covid restrictions. I had to watch her die over a screen. We didn't have the best relationship but she was still my mum and I loved her. I hate knowing she had such a lonely ending.

If you're lucky enough to have family around and you have a good relationship, make the most out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Last time was a month ago and I nearly bit my tongue off trying not to react to her vileness. She's not a very nice person so I keep away as much as I can.

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By *ICKYMTMan
49 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

The day she died that was 3 years ago, I had the same experience with my wife spoke to her, 1 hour later she was dead.

Treasure the moment

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
49 weeks ago

Coventry

A few hours ago and most days. As a working single parent with sometimes shifts at awkward times I really couldn't do it without my mum's help. I mean where do you get child care a 4am in the morning? She really did come to the rescue of me and kids. I am forever grateful to have such an amazing Mum.

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By *uri00620Woman
49 weeks ago

Croydon

Oh mine died when I was 7 but she was in hospital for a long time. I really don't remember her much and can't recollect a single conversation.

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By *eardedbloke300Man
49 weeks ago

cardiff

Lost mine middle of covid. She'd had dementia for a couple of years before so it felt like I lost her twice

I'd call her daily. And I still want to speak to her every day,

Little things like the weather, when I'd get a squirrel or hedgehog on the garden.

I miss just having someone that's always on the end of the line

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By *issmorganWoman
49 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm same op, lost mine march 2009 and my dad a few years later.

Sending love to all who are missing people

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By *andkaCouple
49 weeks ago

Swansea

Both of us have lost our parents. My mum December 2002 and my dad December 2019, we miss them both so much. I know not everyone has a good relationship with their parents but me and the wife had a great relationship with both sets of parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

She popped over at lunchtime today. I do know how privileged I am to have a good relationship with my mum, and that she's still alive and kicking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

I always looked up to my mum as my dad had left us at a early stage in my life was about 10 then

I remember when I started my first job at coal mine she always made sure I got up for my shift work

Was always there for me no matter what I went through the years

As I read some of the comments on here it shows some really miss there's and Dad's

At this time of the year it's very hard not to

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By *imi_RougeWoman
49 weeks ago

Portsmouth

This morning, when she was at mine.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
49 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

November 2016 when she was attached to a ventilator, she was scared and telling me she wanted to go home. I held her hand and just kept reassuring her, talking to her, she fell asleep before slipping into unconsciousness. They turned her ventilator off 2 days later

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I was with my mum yesterday and today. She dropped me to the supermarket to do some shopping.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
49 weeks ago

Gravesend

I live with mine as her carer

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
49 weeks ago

ashford

Oct 2007 she passed Nov 2007 x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
49 weeks ago

ashford

"I live with mine as her carer

Was wondering other day how ur mum was! X

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By *innamon!Woman
49 weeks ago

no matter

My Mum passed away 2006 not long after she lost her last sibling , 13 of them she lived to 89 was an amazing hard working woman. I get the weirdest dreams with her in and still alive as does my son.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
49 weeks ago

In the clouds

2020.. she can do one. She's dead to me

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By *amierebelMan
49 weeks ago

nae danger.

Couple of hours ago

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By *ermite12ukMan
49 weeks ago

Solihull and Brentwood

About 10 years ago.

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By *orphia2003Woman
49 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Earlier today by phone.

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By *ookie46Woman
49 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

June 13th 2007

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By *ou only live onceMan
49 weeks ago

London

I texted my Mum today. Will see her at the weekend.

My Dad's a different story, but I wasn't on that thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

""always love your mother as you'll never get another" but not all mothers are worthy of the title. "

^ I agree - this applied to my bio mother (now gone).

My stepmum however, hasn't really been a mum to me neither and consistently drinks her life away whilst I last saw and spoke to my wonderful dad 4th October 2016.

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By *use and wolfCouple
49 weeks ago

angus

"There is about when did last speak to your so thought I say something about our mum's

Sadly mine passed away in 2009 so that was the last I spoke to having lost both parties and grandparents to there's not a day goes by thinking about them

Likewise, 2002, Mum was the age i am now (46). But her presence can still be felt and seen on the faces of my daughters.

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By *izzy.Woman
49 weeks ago

Stoke area

19th December 1999 just before she died. 24 years ago today.

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By *r_PinkMan
49 weeks ago

london stratford

I know this is gonna sound wrong,,,,,,,,,

BUT..........

It is so refreshing to see others who do not like their mums as much as me.

I last spoke to my biological mother 5 years before she died.

Now, 15 years after her passing, I no longer hate her. I more pity her and feel sorry for the woman who lost her only son due to not being able to love him properly and knowing the fact that she died a very lonely woman.

Then I have a evil step mother who unfortunately is still alive who is the most vile, selfish, covert narcissist going. who did everything in her power to make anyone and everyone she knew hate me with utter lies. the only reason I have not gone down for murder is because I have two half sisters who, even though we do not talk, I do actually love more then I hate her. So for their sake. I just have no contact with the vile bitch.

but such is life. Luckily for me. I have had women in my life who proved to me not all women are nasty (ie my biological aunt, and no biological mum/nanny and friends mums) who proved to me I was just unlucky with my mum/stepmum/ as these other women have been inspirational in my life and shown me how wonderful real mums are.

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By *educing_EmCouple
49 weeks ago

Tipperary

This morning.

I lost my Mam as I knew her about 17 years ago to addiction, I got her back 2 months ago and I have all the fuzzy feels.

I forgot what it was like to have a mother and I love it

Em x

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