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By *reya73 OP Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

My constant tinnitus is raging at the moment due to a lingering virus.

It's permanent.. And I notice how withdrawn it can make me feel, separate and introspective and neurologically exhausted.

It affects my plans and life course often .. I suddenly have to go small. It's invisible from the outside.

What do you experience that is invisible to others, but affects your life and plans?

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Tinnitus. I doesn't effect my plans though, just really annoying

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Chronic pain and fatigue. I've had a big day out today, not long after one on Saturday. So I will barely be leaving the house for the next week.

I've made zero plans because I know I won't be capable of even a conversation.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I used to get Tinnitus badly but I found doing neck exercises gradually it faded away

Besides that hidden pain and sorrow I hide it well with my fake smile

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By *reya73 OP Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"Tinnitus. I doesn't effect my plans though, just really annoying "

So glad it doesn't interfere x

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Ouch! How debilitating for you

Have you tried low level white noise played through headphones?

I have a heart condition, I tire easily when it flares and need to sleep. Meaning nights out end early

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By *reya73 OP Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"I used to get Tinnitus badly but I found doing neck exercises gradually it faded away

Besides that hidden pain and sorrow I hide it well with my fake smile

Mmm great news, yours was somatic.

Love to the pains xx

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

My hip pain. And the developing arthritis. I hide it well

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I have severe osteoarthritis in my hip which means I can no longer walk without crutches. I’ve barely left my house this year and will never attempt to go anywhere on a bad day. Thankfully the end is in sight but the last few years have been mentally tough.

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Autism. It's not completely invisible; a few people have spotted it.

But it's tough experiencing the world differently from everyone else while simultaneously "not being a victim about it."

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

I’ve lived with Inflammatory Bowel Syndrome for over 20 years. If I have a period of regular flare ups it can really shred my confidence and make me not want to leave home.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Tinnitus as well.

Just recently it’s got worse and has appeared more in my right ear that’s usually been ok.

High pitch constant tone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a non malignant blood cancer and I get really bad joint pain in the weirdest of areas, like it can be in my knuckles or shoulders for instance and the tiredness can wipe me out.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have bi polar and try to come across as "normal" otherwise I shut myself away. Due to an accident I can no.longer walk unaided. I have a three wheeled walker because of this I only leave the house once a week for my mum to take me shopping

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Currently waiting for an op to remove my entire reproductive organs as they keep trying to kill me.

Constant aneamia due to it. So constantly tired but can't sleep. Ridiculous amounts of hormones to take to ensure I dont start heamoraging again, which for some reason are making me super sensitive and easily hurt/upset and cry.

Oh and it makes my boobs ache randonly, wearing a bra has reduced me to tears before.

All fun and games.

Sorry to hear of other peoples issues too

MrsAbz

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By *reya73 OP Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

My goodness, what we all live with. Our fragility and absolute strength x

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

"I’ve lived with Inflammatory Bowel Syndrome for over 20 years. If I have a period of regular flare ups it can really shred my confidence and make me not want to leave home. "

20 years is a long time to be dealing with that mate, Had colitis from age 14 to 29 till was forced into surgery to remove large intestine (pre cancerous cells showed up on yearly biopsy) after I wish I’d done it sooner a lot but they could never guarantee it was able to be reversed and not stuck with a bag So refused the surgery for many years

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Tinnitus again. Bloody horrible. But after 30 years or so I've gradually got used to it and mostly manage to ignore it. Until anything happens to make me remember it, when it instantly comes back to the fore.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Makes my excessive horniness sound trivial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suddenly wondered if I am on Fab or walked in to the local A&E.

In all honesty, you lot are amazing, keep on persevering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chronic pain and fatigue, it can really suck when it flares up.

I'm actually not well on top if it at the moment which has made it much harder to cope with.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Illness of any kind makes people withdraw, i guess its because you don't feel your best, i don't get ill very often but i try to stay away from people when i do, to have something permanently wrong must be a real nightmare.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I used to get Tinnitus badly but I found doing neck exercises gradually it faded away

Besides that hidden pain and sorrow I hide it well with my fake smile

Mmm great news, yours was somatic.

Love to the pains xx "

Think I applied enough pressure on my upper half so air flew through. It all about posture an imbalance can create sudden changes hence tintinous as air does pass via the ear

Thanks mwah xX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hip dysplasia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinnitus. But probably it as bad as yours op.

I have a Morton’s neuroma, a foot problem.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"My constant tinnitus is raging at the moment due to a lingering virus.

It's permanent.. And I notice how withdrawn it can make me feel, separate and introspective and neurologically exhausted.

It affects my plans and life course often .. I suddenly have to go small. It's invisible from the outside.

What do you experience that is invisible to others, but affects your life and plans? "

That sounds awful. I had chronic pain in my lower back, when younger. Even when numbed up, painkillers or nerve root blocks it just robs you of living your best life.

I imagine tinitus , anxiety , depression is similar, you exert so much energy, to cope with it, there’s not much left for things like creativity, adventure , coping isn’t truly living

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

Horniness.

Also I heard (hehe) that white noise helps with tinnitus. Try to listen to videos with pure white noise from youtube or something. Maybe that'll help

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By *akedMMan
over a year ago

Witney

Tinnitus is a bugger,at night is worse i do have sleep sounds on Alexa which help.

I have a enlarged prostate and over acitve bladder getting up for a pee 3 to 4 times a night.Chronic pain in lower back and neck,chronic Prostatitis having a bout of it now.Osteoathritis in my left foot.

I do stretching every morning and swim 3 times a week helps me keep off painkilllers

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

That sounds awful, it's hard when something is invisible people expect you to be ok.

My broken heart is the same it's restrictive at times but not visible, I despise having to tell people if I get a little unwell, that sympathetic look people give drives me crazy.

Mrs

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