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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yourself?

And no, I’m not talking about *that*.

When did you last take some time for yourself? And just really, enjoy that time?

This morning I’ve taken myself out for a lovely breakfast and coffee, and I’m about to go for a walk around the old abbey ruins nearby before I start my workday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2017

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, impossible most days with 3 kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pamper afternoons sometimes before going out.

Exfoliate, hot bath, shave, oils etc. Give myself a facial not that sort of facial ha.

Do my makeup and hair get ready.

Makes me feel like I'm at my best and very relaxed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nearly every day. I spend an hour or two each afternoon reading, writing, working on a project eg crochet or embroidery.

Being retired it's possible of course. We also make sure we go out together a few times a week and sit down together for coffee every day.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

In October half term, B had business in Scotland. I was able to go with him and spent a day and a half by myself while he was working. I went for a clifftop walk to a ruined castle, skimmed stones and listened to the sea. Then I explored the town and had a Baileys hot chocolate. It was bliss.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was 1982...

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Quite a few yrs ago and at the time I wasn't looking or wanting to date but get caught in the emotions of the events. And I came out of it very damaged.

I am now happy with who I am, what I can offer and what I'm looking for. So I am looking to start dating.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yesterday , had an English breakfast,2hr Thai massage, then a head and hand massage to cure a migraine , some weird sound meditation for my soul, chakras rebalanced and I’ve just d*unk a shot of pepper, slept like a baby & feeling tickety-boo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yourself?

And no, I’m not talking about *that*.

When did you last take some time for yourself? And just really, enjoy that time?

This morning I’ve taken myself out for a lovely breakfast and coffee, and I’m about to go for a walk around the old abbey ruins nearby before I start my workday. "

Everyday for the last 2 years

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I only really take time for myself when I’m travelling for work. Getting an evening in a different city to wander and explore, and enjoy a bar or restaurant on my own.

If I’m at home, then I have a to-do list a mile long. Downtime doesn’t exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great question: I try to make some time for myself fairly regularly - exercising / eating well / spending time thinking deeply about my next moves. Not a luxury every one can afford, but a little goes a long way

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By *earded-OneMan
over a year ago

Woolwich

I’ve taken myself to the cinema and a concert recently. I guess that kinda counts

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door


"Quite a few yrs ago and at the time I wasn't looking or wanting to date but get caught in the emotions of the events. And I came out of it very damaged.

I am now happy with who I am, what I can offer and what I'm looking for. So I am looking to start dating.

"

Well I didn't read what OPs open post correctly

As for dating myself, I did while I was on holiday last month.

Not done it much this year, next year I am going to date me more

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Tonight with dinner and England footie.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yourself?

And no, I’m not talking about *that*.

When did you last take some time for yourself? And just really, enjoy that time?

This morning I’ve taken myself out for a lovely breakfast and coffee, and I’m about to go for a walk around the old abbey ruins nearby before I start my workday. "

i date myself all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hard work so I avoid it.

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Yourself?

And no, I’m not talking about *that*.

When did you last take some time for yourself? And just really, enjoy that time?

This is a great reminder. It's been a long time since I spent some proper time on myself. Thank you op

This morning I’ve taken myself out for a lovely breakfast and coffee, and I’m about to go for a walk around the old abbey ruins nearby before I start my workday. "

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I went to the recycling centre yesterday. Does that count?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

A couple of weeks ago I took myself off for a couple of nights away. I wandered around the Abbey, harbour, beach, town. Ate & drank in a cosy corner of a pub both nights. Managed to get dragged into a locals night out too - really nice bunch of people

It was bliss & really refreshed my soul. I got to know myself again - I quite like her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few month ago I visited a city for the day. Gave myself a pub lunch and a good walk around and checked out some history.

Each week I now visit a pub for a couple of hours as s fine out from the world. And coffee shops now and again.

This weekend I’m going to an art gallery, I’ve not been to it for ages, so it’ll be nice to revisit. But that will be my last day out for this year. I’ll avoid the Xmas shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of times a week I go to the gym, not bother with my phone only for music and just have a hour or two to myself

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Not for a while actually. I am planning a solo spa day soon though, which i thoroughly deserve

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By *r lotharioMan
over a year ago

playa del ingles

end of august / start of september with 2 weeks in sicily. been wales since. next treat is playa del ingles for xmas / new year.

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