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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over

Why do so many people are so loud and noisy these days? Everywhere you go people just do as they wish with no consideration on how it affects others around tbem. I am not suggesting people should not enjoy themselves when out with friends and family but so many are just rude and inconsiderate. Do we not care about anybody else anymore as long as we just have a good time? Thoughts and experiences please.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Depends where you are I guess. Pub or Library?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry just the way I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably too used to having those infernal things blasting an unholy racket into their ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is socially acceptable to the old isn't the same as what's socially acceptable to the young.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Totally agree OP people are very selfish these days, don't give a damn about anyone else.

ME ME ME

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over


"What is socially acceptable to the old isn't the same as what's socially acceptable to the young."

If only it was just the young but age has nothing to do with. More about how respectful you are for others in my opinio of course

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I find the world to be too noisy, not just the people in it. Everything makes a noise, and there are too many competing sounds.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"I find the world to be too noisy, not just the people in it. Everything makes a noise, and there are too many competing sounds. "

Or maybe I’m just getting old

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've noticed a pretty serious decline in consideration for others. Not that it was ever ideal, and I'm a bit sensitive to sounds, but the last few years have been appreciably worse. Coughing without covering their mouths (not toddlers. adults. gross), yelling at staff, complete obliviousness to the needs of others, etc etc.

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By *agebunWoman
over a year ago

Rugby


"I find the world to be too noisy, not just the people in it. Everything makes a noise, and there are too many competing sounds. "

Yep, I feel this! I have earplugs with me a lot of the time so I don't get overwhelmed

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I find the world to be too noisy, not just the people in it. Everything makes a noise, and there are too many competing sounds.

Yep, I feel this! I have earplugs with me a lot of the time so I don't get overwhelmed"

I have special earplugs that reduce the intensity of certain pitches without seriously interfering with my ability to hear what's going on around me. It's wonderful for my anxiety.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"What is socially acceptable to the old isn't the same as what's socially acceptable to the young."

My nextdoor neighbour is in her 70's and her sister is slightly older her son is in his 50's

They are the most noisy selfish bastards ever.

Age has nothing to do with it.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"I find the world to be too noisy, not just the people in it. Everything makes a noise, and there are too many competing sounds.

Yep, I feel this! I have earplugs with me a lot of the time so I don't get overwhelmed"

I’ve tried ear plugs, but I find them uncomfortable. I just tune everything out as best I can, and when I get home and all I can hear is the wind in the trees, I breathe out and relax.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"I find the world to be too noisy, not just the people in it. Everything makes a noise, and there are too many competing sounds.

Yep, I feel this! I have earplugs with me a lot of the time so I don't get overwhelmed

I have special earplugs that reduce the intensity of certain pitches without seriously interfering with my ability to hear what's going on around me. It's wonderful for my anxiety."

I didn’t even know such ear plugs existed! Xx

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,


"Totally agree OP people are very selfish these days, don't give a damn about anyone else.

ME ME ME "

sense of entitlement

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What is socially acceptable to the old isn't the same as what's socially acceptable to the young.

My nextdoor neighbour is in her 70's and her sister is slightly older her son is in his 50's

They are the most noisy selfish bastards ever.

Age has nothing to do with it."

Agreed. I do find myself going "kids these days... Jesus Swing you're getting way too old". But my complaints are about changes in the same age group. It was not normal several years ago for a (say) 40 year old woman to cough with spittle flying everywhere in a way that you'd scold a child for; nor to go from zero to banshee when told she can't have something.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I find the world to be too noisy, not just the people in it. Everything makes a noise, and there are too many competing sounds.

Yep, I feel this! I have earplugs with me a lot of the time so I don't get overwhelmed

I have special earplugs that reduce the intensity of certain pitches without seriously interfering with my ability to hear what's going on around me. It's wonderful for my anxiety.

I didn’t even know such ear plugs existed! Xx"

I have Calmer by Flare (they also sell keychain attachments, which is handy). Other brands are available

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over


"What is socially acceptable to the old isn't the same as what's socially acceptable to the young.

My nextdoor neighbour is in her 70's and her sister is slightly older her son is in his 50's

They are the most noisy selfish bastards ever.

Age has nothing to do with it."

Agree

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I get annoyed with this, loud conversations on phones, no matter where you are, whole world doesn't meet to know your business. People who spoil gigs by talking loudly when the artist is singing/talking.

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden


"Totally agree OP people are very selfish these days, don't give a damn about anyone else.

ME ME ME "

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

And have you noticed that no one indicates nowadays!

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden


"And have you noticed that no one indicates nowadays!"
so ture

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

Very true, Shouting at phones anywhere is so annoying, screaming kids too. Very quick story, I am hearing impaired quite badly, anyhow got hearing aids for the first time 15 years ago, wore them for one week, I just could not stand the ambient noise of the world, had no clue how loud and noisy supermarkets were.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over


"And have you noticed that no one indicates nowadays!"

That's true and another whole thread as it is becoming not only annoying but frankly quite dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have no self awareness.

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By *r lotharioMan
over a year ago

newcastle-under-lyme


"Totally agree OP people are very selfish these days, don't give a damn about anyone else.

ME ME ME "

and i want it now

and i want it free

and only my opinion is the right one so shut up you're offending me

you forgot those....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very true, Shouting at phones anywhere is so annoying, screaming kids too. Very quick story, I am hearing impaired quite badly, anyhow got hearing aids for the first time 15 years ago, wore them for one week, I just could not stand the ambient noise of the world, had no clue how loud and noisy supermarkets were."

And this is why I don’t wear mine

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