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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.

1 Eye contact

2 The nervous

3 Frequent complements and teasing

4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.

5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.

6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".

7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.

8 Remember the little things about you

9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.

10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.

What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?

I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I would say I'm rubbish at it, and those I have expressed an interest in are clearly not interested in me so I think I will leave things alone from now on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."

I'd probably still mistake this

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Oh it's so easy to tell in the moment. Flirty fun conversation goes abit quiet, they look at your lips briefly.

Be observant fellas!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


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I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "

I think all the points you list are credible Shag, and when listed in this way fairly obvious, however, in reality I rarely actually pick up on them as and when they are happening, it’s usually only on reflection, that I recognise them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh it's so easy to tell in the moment. Flirty fun conversation goes abit quiet, they look at your lips briefly.

Be observant fellas!"

To be fair I look at peoples lips loads because I’m quite deaf so I lipread when the environment is too noisy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I always miss them

Even forum flirting I'm oblivious to

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."

Ah yes, the subtle signs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve as much chance of picking up these signals as I have if reading War and Peace in Swahili and using it as the basis of a secret code for an underground network of freedom fighters in Basingstoke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically you shouldn’t be looking for clues because clues don’t = consent

Making a move based on clues is just sexual assault

You should just ask so you know for sure

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."

Yes but not in the middle of Tesco

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Oh it's so easy to tell in the moment. Flirty fun conversation goes abit quiet, they look at your lips briefly.

Be observant fellas!

To be fair I look at peoples lips loads because I’m quite deaf so I lipread when the environment is too noisy "

You flirt

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If it involves my friends? Sure, I can read that. Me? Nope. It has to be quite obvious.

I definitely do a lot of those. I wish I was harder to read but sadly it's obvious when I like someone. I want to be cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.

1 Eye contact

2 The nervous

3 Frequent complements and teasing

4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.

5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.

6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".

7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.

8 Remember the little things about you

9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.

10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.

What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?

I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "

Bit hard seeing anything like body movement on here unless it is a 10 second sex movie.

Until you meet how can you guage.. If you have met anyone shag you should know how to move like jagger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to hit me with a sledge hammer before I notice a sign

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Technically you shouldn’t be looking for clues because clues don’t = consent

Making a move based on clues is just sexual assault

You should just ask so you know for sure "

He's got a point

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

They pull at the handcuffs and scream fuck me for Gods sake - I’ve got work in 12 hours!!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Technically you shouldn’t be looking for clues because clues don’t = consent

Making a move based on clues is just sexual assault

You should just ask so you know for sure

He's got a point"

Yes, but you want to know that you are acting on something that is there when you ask, or you can look a bit of a tit, so being able to pick up on ‘signs’ is useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.

1 Eye contact

2 The nervous

3 Frequent complements and teasing

4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.

5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.

6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".

7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.

8 Remember the little things about you

9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.

10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.

What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?

I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "

I do not believe they define important 'things'.

What the above describes is an already established relationship reflection.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Potential signs. Potential.

I've known plenty of people that do a lot of these things to everyone - for varied reasons, they didn't have anything more that a platonic friendship interest in those people, at most.

You have to watch out for signs of these things, as they do exist. But unless they make it very clear you won't ever know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Technically you shouldn’t be looking for clues because clues don’t = consent

Making a move based on clues is just sexual assault

You should just ask so you know for sure

He's got a point

Yes, but you want to know that you are acting on something that is there when you ask, or you can look a bit of a tit, so being able to pick up on ‘signs’ is useful. "

True, but the list seems too be hinting at when it’s ok to make a move based on these clues

The only move you should be making is asking for consent

I know many people think that’s not sexy, but that’s what consent is.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."
Yes, that is also a good sign

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Oh it's so easy to tell in the moment. Flirty fun conversation goes abit quiet, they look at your lips briefly.

Be observant fellas!"
Yes, being observant is important too

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I have _zero_ ability to work out if someone is waiting for me to make a move - all these “signals” and whatnot just fly straight past me.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."

Oh, that's why you were doing that

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.

1 Eye contact

2 The nervous

3 Frequent complements and teasing

4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.

5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.

6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".

7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.

8 Remember the little things about you

9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.

10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.

What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?

I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it

Bit hard seeing anything like body movement on here unless it is a 10 second sex movie.

Until you meet how can you guage.. If you have met anyone shag you should know how to move like jagger

"
Hi becs and yes, it could be hard to gauge as well. I might not notice all of the signs at first, but pick quite few of them

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By *ros40Man
over a year ago

Bedford

They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you.

Hahahaha brilliant

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"If it involves my friends? Sure, I can read that. Me? Nope. It has to be quite obvious.

I definitely do a lot of those. I wish I was harder to read but sadly it's obvious when I like someone. I want to be cool. "
No, but yes, with friends as you say there, would be easier too, it is good to be obvious liking someone as well

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I’m shocking at taking the hint

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
over a year ago

east coast

I wouldn't have a clue lol when we went to our first club H told me a lass wanted a bit of me I just laughed and said no she don't hahah well she did

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I have _zero_ ability to work out if someone is waiting for me to make a move - all these “signals” and whatnot just fly straight past me. "

Maybe we a just need to wearing flashing badges that have FAF on them

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I can’t maintain eye contact with someone I fancy so all the signs would go unnoticed by me.

I prefer them to be direct. I’m old fashioned and also like them to make the first move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t maintain eye contact with someone I fancy so all the signs would go unnoticed by me.

I prefer them to be direct. I’m old fashioned and also like them to make the first move."

Just not too direct on a first meet eh

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I can’t maintain eye contact with someone I fancy so all the signs would go unnoticed by me.

I prefer them to be direct. I’m old fashioned and also like them to make the first move."
Yes, that is good to be direct as well

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"

I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it

I think all the points you list are credible Shag, and when listed in this way fairly obvious, however, in reality I rarely actually pick up on them as and when they are happening, it’s usually only on reflection, that I recognise them. "
That is right, it kind of is obvious when it is listed and yes, sometimes it can be hard to pick up the signs from it when it happens.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I pretty much need them to have their penis in me.

Then I realise they want me to make a move.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."

J

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."

J"

I recognise these signs

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."

J

I recognise these signs "

Are you being followed by someone holding a sign that says "I'm waiting for you to make a movie"?

J

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."

J

I recognise these signs

Are you being followed by someone holding a sign that says "I'm waiting for you to make a movie"?

J"

Surprisingly yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I feel a connection, I tend to not hesitate in taking control of the situation pretty much straight away.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."

J

I recognise these signs

Are you being followed by someone holding a sign that says "I'm waiting for you to make a movie"?

J

Surprisingly yes "

Have you lost the plot?

J

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"I read this as "The signs that someone is waiting for you to make a movie."

J

I recognise these signs

Are you being followed by someone holding a sign that says "I'm waiting for you to make a movie"?

J

Surprisingly yes

Have you lost the plot?

J"

The plot is okay, just stuck with a shallow character

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."

Stick some runway lights on the mattress and I may detect a degree of interest...

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

I can be incredibly oblivious. Especially with women. Looking back there are missed opportunities that I’ll regret for the rest of my life… like the time I didn’t realise a famous porn star wanted to sleep with me back in my very early 20s. I read her memoir a few years later and the penny dropped. I absolutely would have gone to her hotel with her if I’d had better social awareness at the time.

She was a feature entertainer at the strip club where I worked. She did three nights.

On the last night, she dived off stage, pulled my top down, and sucked on my nipples in front of the whole club - about 350 people.

I thought she was just being friendly or this was part of the show.

But she liked to take home a different girl every night on that tour. Which she wrote about in her memoir.

Oops!

She is a lovely person as well. Down to earth. To this day I wish her all the happiness in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.

1 Eye contact

2 The nervous

3 Frequent complements and teasing

4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.

5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.

6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".

7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.

8 Remember the little things about you

9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.

10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.

What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?

I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "

Who you like here shag, who catches your eye... Come on now reveal to the forumites

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."

I need to start flirting with you lol

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you.

Yes but not in the middle of Tesco "

Spoil sport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straddling their lap and whispering "fuck me" into their ear.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I wouldn't have a clue lol when we went to our first club H told me a lass wanted a bit of me I just laughed and said no she don't hahah well she did "

Take it from me, I'd have a large bit of you

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.

1 Eye contact

2 The nervous

3 Frequent complements and teasing

4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.

5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.

6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".

7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.

8 Remember the little things about you

9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.

10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.

What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?

I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it

Who you like here shag, who catches your eye... Come on now reveal to the forumites "
Hi becs, there are many, but a gentlemen never tells

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Must be awful for young people in their late teens & early 20s trying to start any kind of relationship these days, one false move & you're spending time at her majesty's & a reputation in tatters. And people wonder why the birth rate is plummeting? People, particularly lads, must be living in fear of approaching a woman & being accused of misogynistic behaviour. Safer to stay single these days!!

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By *G TMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."

Lmfaoooo

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you.

Yes but not in the middle of Tesco

Spoil sport "

I prefer fun sponge

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Short of someone wearing an 8ft flashing neon sign saying "let's do the sex" with an arrow pointing to their genitals, I can promise I will miss any other sign

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
over a year ago

Harwich


"They lie on their side, put their leg in the air and present their pussy to you."

Damn, damn, dammit!

That has actually happened to me with quite some frequency, me the idiot, well, I always scarpered as I feared that they had some issue with me and were going to let off an almighty fart or worse !

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By *rooMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I'm not good at reading any signs, never have been, had so many times someone or my then partner say that someone was giving me the eye etc,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a world champion at failing to read any sort of signals. Been told 3 times by 3 different women that "if only you'd read the signals..." and if I had my life would have been so different.

Sadly I feel I'm now through my 4th failure to signal read...

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I can be incredibly oblivious. Especially with women. Looking back there are missed opportunities that I’ll regret for the rest of my life… like the time I didn’t realise a famous porn star wanted to sleep with me back in my very early 20s. I read her memoir a few years later and the penny dropped. I absolutely would have gone to her hotel with her if I’d had better social awareness at the time.

She was a feature entertainer at the strip club where I worked. She did three nights.

On the last night, she dived off stage, pulled my top down, and sucked on my nipples in front of the whole club - about 350 people.

I thought she was just being friendly or this was part of the show.

But she liked to take home a different girl every night on that tour. Which she wrote about in her memoir.

Oops!

She is a lovely person as well. Down to earth. To this day I wish her all the happiness in the world."
I see and yes, one can be oblivious too and same here. I have had missed opportunities as well. I think that many have those too

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"I can be incredibly oblivious. Especially with women. Looking back there are missed opportunities that I’ll regret for the rest of my life… like the time I didn’t realise a famous porn star wanted to sleep with me back in my very early 20s. I read her memoir a few years later and the penny dropped. I absolutely would have gone to her hotel with her if I’d had better social awareness at the time.

She was a feature entertainer at the strip club where I worked. She did three nights.

On the last night, she dived off stage, pulled my top down, and sucked on my nipples in front of the whole club - about 350 people.

I thought she was just being friendly or this was part of the show.

But she liked to take home a different girl every night on that tour. Which she wrote about in her memoir.

Oops!

She is a lovely person as well. Down to earth. To this day I wish her all the happiness in the world."

Similar thing happend to me with the Nolan Sisters back in the early 90s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was watching a fun video of the 10 signs that someone is waiting for you to make a move, here it is:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMAVuMNPudY I listed the signs below.

1 Eye contact

2 The nervous

3 Frequent complements and teasing

4 Physical, pay attention to the physical proximity between you and the person you suspect is waiting for you to do the move.

5 Initiating, one on one encounters, suggestion coffee dates, movie nights or strolls in the park.

6 Playful,teasing and banter, you know the saying "flirting is the art of keeping someone interest without giving it all away".

7 Actively, when someone is interested in you, they tend to take a keen interest in your hobbies passion and interests.

8 Remember the little things about you

9 Sustained communication and effort, communication is the key in any relationship.

10 The friends as allies, pay attention to the behavior of mutal friends.

What do you think of the examples and would you add anything to the list?

I think that they covered the most important things, would you be aware of the signs and are you good at reading the signals? I would say that I am good at it "

They tell you they are like a dog on heat!

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