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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

What are the signs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think the signs are op?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

There are no signs.

There is no clique.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What do you think the signs are op?"
I'm asking the question

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"There are no signs.

There is no clique. "
you sure

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"There are no signs.

There is no clique. you sure "

It was disbanded after an awkward incident with a paper bag in 2013.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think the signs are op?I'm asking the question "

You can still answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are no signs.

There is no clique. you sure

It was disbanded after an awkward incident with a paper bag in 2013. "

Wonko knows …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people the can, and do, post often. There are people, like me, that can’t post often.

It’s no surprise that those who post often have more interactions….

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What do you think the signs are op?I'm asking the question

You can still answer!"
No the question master can't be put on the spot sorry

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"There are no signs.

There is no clique. you sure

It was disbanded after an awkward incident with a paper bag in 2013. "
yes i remember that

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

No sign, just a 6 symbol code from the 19 standard reply emojis so you could in theory break it but you have to potentially try 27132 combinations. It could be fun though if you have the time and all the best to you

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"No sign, just a 6 symbol code from the 19 standard reply emojis so you could in theory break it but you have to potentially try 27132 combinations. It could be fun though if you have the time and all the best to you "
A sensible answer at last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are people the can, and do, post often. There are people, like me, that can’t post often.

It’s no surprise that those who post often have more interactions…."

Are you driving today? Weathers shite

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

People keep taking the signs. They're a highly sought after collectible. Due to this, current signs are just a bit of cardboard with "cLiQUe" written in black Sharpie.

J

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

There's only one true sign. A verification from Rickshawed

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"People keep taking the signs. They're a highly sought after collectible. Due to this, current signs are just a bit of cardboard with "cLiQUe" written in black Sharpie.

J"
Can i ask what a sharpie is?

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

Shawn Michael's

Triple h

Kevin Nash

Scott Hall

Sean waltman

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"What do you think the signs are op?I'm asking the question

You can still answer!No the question master can't be put on the spot sorry "

Why not? Is it an indication you have something to hide?

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"There's only one true sign. A verification from Rickshawed "
well theirs a few who would like one I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What do you think the signs are op?I'm asking the question

You can still answer!No the question master can't be put on the spot sorry

Why not? Is it an indication you have something to hide?"
yes

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"People keep taking the signs. They're a highly sought after collectible. Due to this, current signs are just a bit of cardboard with "cLiQUe" written in black Sharpie.

JCan i ask what a sharpie is? "

It's a well known make of permanent marker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now?

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will go-ordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? "
lol

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"People keep taking the signs. They're a highly sought after collectible. Due to this, current signs are just a bit of cardboard with "cLiQUe" written in black Sharpie.

JCan i ask what a sharpie is?

It's a well known make of permanent marker. "
ahhh thank you

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"What do you think the signs are op?I'm asking the question

You can still answer!No the question master can't be put on the spot sorry

Why not? Is it an indication you have something to hide?yes "

So you will answer some questions then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are no signs.

There is no clique. "

Cliques everywhere in life. Every group settled into wee cliques and sub groups who despite always saying there is no such favouritism it's always so obvious there is .. cliques don't even know they do it .. comes down to intelligence in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are people the can, and do, post often. There are people, like me, that can’t post often.

It’s no surprise that those who post often have more interactions….

Are you driving today? Weathers shite "

You got in my head yesterday!!! Everytime another lorry passed me I followed it with a ‘neeeeoooowwww’!!!

By the time I passed Thurrock it was doing my head in

I’m at home today thankfully. Back out tomorrow, heading North! Hope you’re staying warm. X

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? "

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What do you think the signs are op?I'm asking the question

You can still answer!No the question master can't be put on the spot sorry

Why not? Is it an indication you have something to hide?yes

So you will answer some questions then. "
Oh if i must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think the signs are op?I'm asking the question

You can still answer!No the question master can't be put on the spot sorry

Why not? Is it an indication you have something to hide?yes

So you will answer some questions then. Oh if i must "

Go on then, what do you think the signs are?

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What do you think the signs are op?I'm asking the question

You can still answer!No the question master can't be put on the spot sorry

Why not? Is it an indication you have something to hide?yes

So you will answer some questions then. Oh if i must

Go on then, what do you think the signs are?"
Aquarius, gemini and libra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A permanent cock legging shadow.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? "
Actually i thought this analogy had a ring of truth to it

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"What are the signs? "

First rule of clique club... Never talk about clique club

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"There are no signs.

There is no clique.

Cliques everywhere in life. Every group settled into wee cliques and sub groups who despite always saying there is no such favouritism it's always so obvious there is .. cliques don't even know they do it .. comes down to intelligence in my experience. "

You missed the joke, but it’s cool.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

They're platinum members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? "

Seems familiar.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"They're platinum members"
damn i so want to be platinum

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Look out for the ones that get birthday threads…

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Look out for the ones that get birthday threads…

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Is that info on the member's database?

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Look out for the ones that get birthday threads…

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lol observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look out for the ones that get birthday threads…

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Jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? "
SO true This happened to me back in the day (2015!). I didn’t unlos though, I savoured it and stood my ground, with a few ‘laughing’ emojis to wind them up! Funnily enough they’re all gone now, bar one or two…

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"They're platinum membersdamn i so want to be platinum "

Invite only

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Look out for the ones that get birthday threads…

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Ha ha ha well played

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

They all have a secret handshake, look at their pics closely.

Mrs

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? SO true This happened to me back in the day (2015!). I didn’t unlos though, I savoured it and stood my ground, with a few ‘laughing’ emojis to wind them up! Funnily enough they’re all gone now, bar one or two…"
Are they gone though or different names

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"They all have a secret handshake, look at their pics closely.

Mrs "
surely they are just playing with themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? SO true This happened to me back in the day (2015!). I didn’t unlos though, I savoured it and stood my ground, with a few ‘laughing’ emojis to wind them up! Funnily enough they’re all gone now, bar one or two…Are they gone though or different names "
- you could be right re: names The two that are still on, names changed but I recognise their writing style and they’ve piped down regards me

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? SO true This happened to me back in the day (2015!). I didn’t unlos though, I savoured it and stood my ground, with a few ‘laughing’ emojis to wind them up! Funnily enough they’re all gone now, bar one or two…Are they gone though or different names - you could be right re: names The two that are still on, names changed but I recognise their writing style and they’ve piped down regards me "
lol well if you're still here, wasted effort on their part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? SO true This happened to me back in the day (2015!). I didn’t unlos though, I savoured it and stood my ground, with a few ‘laughing’ emojis to wind them up! Funnily enough they’re all gone now, bar one or two…Are they gone though or different names - you could be right re: names The two that are still on, names changed but I recognise their writing style and they’ve piped down regards me lol well if you're still here, wasted effort on their part "

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Do people really have time for some clique bollocks on a forum? I have yet to be convinced it exists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people really have time for some clique bollocks on a forum? I have yet to be convinced it exists "
Ohh it exists, sometimes cloyingly and cringingly so, amusing (bemusing) watching the luvvies pat each others backs though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am too confused to know

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Do people really have time for some clique bollocks on a forum? I have yet to be convinced it exists Ohh it exists, sometimes cloyingly and cringingly so, amusing (bemusing) watching the luvvies pat each others backs though"

I haven't noticed. I'm distracted by gorgeous faces and boobs

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ah well. Just deal with it if that's what you want to view it as.

It is all perspective based.

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

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You're definitely not ' vanilla' then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look out for the ones that get birthday threads…

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pahahahahaha

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Kai and fluffy lead the cliques, they just don't know it!

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By *reshforu2Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Local club has a massive Clique, so much so they meet every weekend, and even take their kids along!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

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What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Local club has a massive Clique, so much so they meet every weekend, and even take their kids along! "

Agreed about clubs. They can get very cliquey

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Kai and fluffy lead the cliques, they just don't know it! "

You're saying that like everyone is supposed to know who Kai and Fluffy are. Clique behaviour!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Used to think there was one when I first used the forums but soon realized it was just a case of people knowing each other in here! Plus allways a few more popular people but not a clique x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to think there was one when I first used the forums but soon realized it was just a case of people knowing each other in here! Plus allways a few more popular people but not a clique x"
There’s a difference between a few people knowing one another and a clique

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

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Do they exclude? Or are they just under no obligation to respond to every single person that makes a comment? Do we all go around and talk to every single person at a big party of strangers? Or do we spend the majority of our time and attention on those we feel drawn to and easily get on with?

I can imagine some will view me as in this clique, I can also imagine that some of the people i really don't like are also in this clique. I expect people I have never interacted with whatsoever will also apparently be in my clique depending who you ask.

The clique name. List will differ person to person.

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though. "

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters

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By *reshforu2Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Local club has a massive Clique, so much so they meet every weekend, and even take their kids along!

Agreed about clubs. They can get very cliquey "

This one has a really bad rep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

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I don't think anyone thinks they're special, well, maybe one or two. But generally people just get on. Sometimes.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Their may be more than one clique, its the ones with the k#i#k groups or maybe other Apps that are the cliques and unless you're in them groups you'll never know eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters "
Careful Pap… …..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their may be more than one clique, its the ones with the k#i#k groups or maybe other Apps that are the cliques and unless you're in them groups you'll never know eh "
This !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bitchiest people on here are generally the ones that bang on about cliques...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters "

You implied it. If people are jumping on newbies that's not good. Although to be fair sometimes newbies say some bloody stupid things and deserve pushback.

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters Careful Pap… ….. "

Haha its fucking coming, I can feel it!!..I've been on holiday from the forums more times than I care to remember...what I have noticed is it fecking annoys them when you don't "recognise them ".. twits

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Nobody owns the forum, there may be people that seem to live there but even a new account, first time poster has as much right to speak as anyone else.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters Careful Pap… …..

Haha its fucking coming, I can feel it!!..I've been on holiday from the forums more times than I care to remember...what I have noticed is it fecking annoys them when you don't "recognise them ".. twits "

I was distracted by your scintillating cleavage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters Careful Pap… …..

Haha its fucking coming, I can feel it!!..I've been on holiday from the forums more times than I care to remember...what I have noticed is it fecking annoys them when you don't "recognise them ".. twits "
Yep

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters Careful Pap… …..

Haha its fucking coming, I can feel it!!..I've been on holiday from the forums more times than I care to remember...what I have noticed is it fecking annoys them when you don't "recognise them ".. twits "
lol

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters

You implied it. If people are jumping on newbies that's not good. Although to be fair sometimes newbies say some bloody stupid things and deserve pushback. "

And regular forum users don't?!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And point proven.

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester


"Nobody owns the forum, there may be people that seem to live there but even a new account, first time poster has as much right to speak as anyone else. "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? "

That is the combination.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"What are the signs? "

Denial and denying the existence of and membership too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters

You implied it. If people are jumping on newbies that's not good. Although to be fair sometimes newbies say some bloody stupid things and deserve pushback.

And regular forum users don't?!.."

Where did I say that?

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By *reshforu2Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Their may be more than one clique, its the ones with the k#i#k groups or maybe other Apps that are the cliques and unless you're in them groups you'll never know eh "

This club has telegram groups, the same faces posting and ignoring those outside the clique who post. Not even liking their photos!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'd say being a clique member is like the Mason's where you bare your breat and dress up, but that's just normal on fab.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Their may be more than one clique, its the ones with the k#i#k groups or maybe other Apps that are the cliques and unless you're in them groups you'll never know eh

This club has telegram groups, the same faces posting and ignoring those outside the clique who post. Not even liking their photos!"

I've been in a group like that. Got kicked off because I wasn't replying every day

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters

You implied it. If people are jumping on newbies that's not good. Although to be fair sometimes newbies say some bloody stupid things and deserve pushback.

And regular forum users don't?!..

Where did I say that? "

have a nice day with your giraffe

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

People who get along being friendly with one another appears to be the definition of clique here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter?

Why waste time thinking 'there's a clique' when there's thousands of others to interact with.

I don't give 2 shits if A knows B, B knows C. A knows C because they've met in real life and get on or they have similar personality when they write on the forums.

Complain about the clique, but you wouldn't want to be in it, right?? Or is that the complaint? Your not in it.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Does it really matter?

Why waste time thinking 'there's a clique' when there's thousands of others to interact with.

I don't give 2 shits if A knows B, B knows C. A knows C because they've met in real life and get on or they have similar personality when they write on the forums.

Complain about the clique, but you wouldn't want to be in it, right?? Or is that the complaint? Your not in it.

"

Let's get naked instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are no signs.

There is no clique. you sure

It was disbanded after an awkward incident with a paper bag in 2013. "

You promised never to mention the paper bag incident again. I still have counselling about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- cliques are pretty tragic though aren’t they. I mean, they seem to me to be full of weak/needy/passive aggressive people who NEED the backup of people that don’t even particularly like them, just using one another for ‘clout’

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fever, vomiting, rash, cough

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"What are the signs? "

Where are you asking about?

Bit vague. There are cliques in many places

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nah theres no clique some people just get along and like each others banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter?

Why waste time thinking 'there's a clique' when there's thousands of others to interact with.

I don't give 2 shits if A knows B, B knows C. A knows C because they've met in real life and get on or they have similar personality when they write on the forums.

Complain about the clique, but you wouldn't want to be in it, right?? Or is that the complaint? Your not in it.

Let's get naked instead "

You first

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"nah theres no clique some people just get along and like each others banter"

I like you Dave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People keep taking the signs. They're a highly sought after collectible. Due to this, current signs are just a bit of cardboard with "cLiQUe" written in black Sharpie.

JCan i ask what a sharpie is? "

Have you heard of Google?*

(*other search engines are available)

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley


"nah theres no clique some people just get along and like each others banter"

This 100% in all aspects of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nah theres no clique some people just get along and like each others banter

I like you Dave! "

I like Dave too. Let’s let him join the clique

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"There are no signs.

There is no clique. you sure

It was disbanded after an awkward incident with a paper bag in 2013.

You promised never to mention the paper bag incident again. I still have counselling about it "

Sorry. Sorry. But you did say the howling has now stopped?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Does it really matter?

Why waste time thinking 'there's a clique' when there's thousands of others to interact with.

I don't give 2 shits if A knows B, B knows C. A knows C because they've met in real life and get on or they have similar personality when they write on the forums.

Complain about the clique, but you wouldn't want to be in it, right?? Or is that the complaint? Your not in it.

Let's get naked instead

You first "

You've not been to a club with me, have you?

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"What are the signs? "

You have a nice leg! Hope there is a matching one

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now? "

Na, they tried that and I'm still about

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"What are the signs? "

With how many years people have been whining about this mystery group of elite swingers that run Fab, you'd think a members list would have leaked by now

LvM

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"nah theres no clique some people just get along and like each others banter

I like you Dave!

I like Dave too. Let’s let him join the clique "
.. im in at last x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

I don't think anyone thinks they're special, well, maybe one or two. But generally people just get on. Sometimes.

"

Hang on, what have you done with the real Raven - this is too conciliatory, I want a bit of scathing wit and sarcasm

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"There's only one true sign. A verification from Rickshawed "

Woohoo! I win!

Who would have thought it

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By *reshforu2Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"- cliques are pretty tragic though aren’t they. I mean, they seem to me to be full of weak/needy/passive aggressive people who NEED the backup of people that don’t even particularly like them, just using one another for ‘clout’ "

100% this,needy and can't actually socialise with new people.

To the point they say they hate fab, but use it to big up the club they are paid to promote. They gain fake veris that they were met at a club and were really nice...yeah they were paid to be nice ffs

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"nah theres no clique some people just get along and like each others banter

I like you Dave!

I like Dave too. Let’s let him join the clique .. im in at last x"

Well I've not agreed to yet!

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By *reshforu2Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"nah theres no clique some people just get along and like each others banter"

Thats different to not conversing with others.

When a group are having some banter in a club telegram group about a certain thing and someone asks whats the joke? They say oh its a private joke and don't explain, thats a clique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are no signs.

There is no clique. you sure

It was disbanded after an awkward incident with a paper bag in 2013.

You promised never to mention the paper bag incident again. I still have counselling about it

Sorry. Sorry. But you did say the howling has now stopped? "

The howling is from my dog, he should never have looked in the bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"- cliques are pretty tragic though aren’t they. I mean, they seem to me to be full of weak/needy/passive aggressive people who NEED the backup of people that don’t even particularly like them, just using one another for ‘clout’

100% this,needy and can't actually socialise with new people.

To the point they say they hate fab, but use it to big up the club they are paid to promote. They gain fake veris that they were met at a club and were really nice...yeah they were paid to be nice ffs "

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By *agebunWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

It can feel a little like there is an "in crowd" on the forums but it's just the people who post regularly and might know each other a little better than they know other people.

I've only recently started posting on the forum and everyone has been nice to me so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter?

Why waste time thinking 'there's a clique' when there's thousands of others to interact with.

I don't give 2 shits if A knows B, B knows C. A knows C because they've met in real life and get on or they have similar personality when they write on the forums.

Complain about the clique, but you wouldn't want to be in it, right?? Or is that the complaint? Your not in it.

Let's get naked instead

You first

You've not been to a club with me, have you? "

Maybe next year lol my goal is overcome agor, get a life, and meet the cli....

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Does it really matter?

Why waste time thinking 'there's a clique' when there's thousands of others to interact with.

I don't give 2 shits if A knows B, B knows C. A knows C because they've met in real life and get on or they have similar personality when they write on the forums.

Complain about the clique, but you wouldn't want to be in it, right?? Or is that the complaint? Your not in it.

Let's get naked instead

You first

You've not been to a club with me, have you?

Maybe next year lol my goal is overcome agor, get a life, and meet the cli.... "

It would be a pleasure to get you naked in a club (that sounds awkward, but you know what I mean)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the signs? "

I lost track in this conversation but if you are seriously asking... Here are my two thoughts.

1. There aren't cliques persay. (I know I can't spell but you hopefully understand)

I think people generally get on with others better or have developed relationships which they can communicate easier with. This leads to freer more engaging conversations.

You may feel there is a clique because your opinion/comments don't hit home as easily as someone they already know/trust.

2. There are perceived barriers to being "accepted" into conversations/thread comments. Basically people are rightfully cautious about just accepting anyone's opinion or comments especially if the person commenting is immediately wanting to be the centre of attention.

Works the same in any social setting. If a person just strolls up to you and your friend group and starts chatting your initially be wary until you figure out what they are about.

If that person is being over baring then you'd probably try to ignore them.

You have to have to take time to just be yourself and comment and take part in the threads you find enjoyment in. Before you know it you'll be getting viewed as a clique member of whatever thread you are on by someone else.

Now I clearly have to much time on my hands today and have verbally been sick on here. Digest at your own peril. (Again spelling and grammar aren't my strong point)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look out for funny handshakes at socials…

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"It can feel a little like there is an "in crowd" on the forums but it's just the people who post regularly and might know each other a little better than they know other people.

I've only recently started posting on the forum and everyone has been nice to me so far "

Tattoos and boobs....a winning combination

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

This conversation has been going on for so many years, surely the clique will have all died of old age by now.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This conversation has been going on for so many years, surely the clique will have all died of old age by now. "

We pick our successor. It's a fun bonding process.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Look out for funny handshakes at socials…"

A different kind of hand job!

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What are the signs?

With how many years people have been whining about this mystery group of elite swingers that run Fab, you'd think a members list would have leaked by now

LvM"
The groups or cliques are special invite only so only those in them know, unless they've been bludgeoned by them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it really matter?

Why waste time thinking 'there's a clique' when there's thousands of others to interact with.

I don't give 2 shits if A knows B, B knows C. A knows C because they've met in real life and get on or they have similar personality when they write on the forums.

Complain about the clique, but you wouldn't want to be in it, right?? Or is that the complaint? Your not in it.

Let's get naked instead

You first

You've not been to a club with me, have you?

Maybe next year lol my goal is overcome agor, get a life, and meet the cli....

It would be a pleasure to get you naked in a club (that sounds awkward, but you know what I mean) "

Haha down boy

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"This conversation has been going on for so many years, surely the clique will have all died of old age by now.

We pick our successor. It's a fun bonding process. "

Do you wear masks, sacrifice chickens and drink the blood of virgins?

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What are the signs?

I lost track in this conversation but if you are seriously asking... Here are my two thoughts.

1. There aren't cliques persay. (I know I can't spell but you hopefully understand)

I think people generally get on with others better or have developed relationships which they can communicate easier with. This leads to freer more engaging conversations.

You may feel there is a clique because your opinion/comments don't hit home as easily as someone they already know/trust.

2. There are perceived barriers to being "accepted" into conversations/thread comments. Basically people are rightfully cautious about just accepting anyone's opinion or comments especially if the person commenting is immediately wanting to be the centre of attention.

Works the same in any social setting. If a person just strolls up to you and your friend group and starts chatting your initially be wary until you figure out what they are about.

If that person is being over baring then you'd probably try to ignore them.

You have to have to take time to just be yourself and comment and take part in the threads you find enjoyment in. Before you know it you'll be getting viewed as a clique member of whatever thread you are on by someone else.

Now I clearly have to much time on my hands today and have verbally been sick on here. Digest at your own peril. (Again spelling and grammar aren't my strong point)"
Yes perceived barriers i love this analogy

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What are the signs?

With how many years people have been whining about this mystery group of elite swingers that run Fab, you'd think a members list would have leaked by now

LvMThe groups or cliques are special invite only so only those in them know, unless they've been bludgeoned by them "

Yeah but not even the conspiracy theory opinion list is leaked.

Even Epstein's list has "oh X is definitely on it"

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What are the signs?

I lost track in this conversation but if you are seriously asking... Here are my two thoughts.

1. There aren't cliques persay. (I know I can't spell but you hopefully understand)

I think people generally get on with others better or have developed relationships which they can communicate easier with. This leads to freer more engaging conversations.

You may feel there is a clique because your opinion/comments don't hit home as easily as someone they already know/trust.

2. There are perceived barriers to being "accepted" into conversations/thread comments. Basically people are rightfully cautious about just accepting anyone's opinion or comments especially if the person commenting is immediately wanting to be the centre of attention.

Works the same in any social setting. If a person just strolls up to you and your friend group and starts chatting your initially be wary until you figure out what they are about.

If that person is being over baring then you'd probably try to ignore them.

You have to have to take time to just be yourself and comment and take part in the threads you find enjoyment in. Before you know it you'll be getting viewed as a clique member of whatever thread you are on by someone else.

Now I clearly have to much time on my hands today and have verbally been sick on here. Digest at your own peril. (Again spelling and grammar aren't my strong point)Yes perceived barriers i love this analogy "
You're not part of a clique so you perceive a barrier

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"This conversation has been going on for so many years, surely the clique will have all died of old age by now.

We pick our successor. It's a fun bonding process.

Do you wear masks, sacrifice chickens and drink the blood of virgins? "

Only on Michael mass Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This conversation has been going on for so many years, surely the clique will have all died of old age by now.

We pick our successor. It's a fun bonding process.

Do you wear masks, sacrifice chickens and drink the blood of virgins? "

Not allowed to sacrifice Chickens, otherwise the Great Cock in the sky would come down on us through his earthly embodiment Fluffy

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What are the signs?

With how many years people have been whining about this mystery group of elite swingers that run Fab, you'd think a members list would have leaked by now

LvMThe groups or cliques are special invite only so only those in them know, unless they've been bludgeoned by them

Yeah but not even the conspiracy theory opinion list is leaked.

Even Epstein's list has "oh X is definitely on it" "
Y?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This conversation has been going on for so many years, surely the clique will have all died of old age by now. "
Nah, it regenerates every couple of years, different faces, same energy

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"What are the signs?

With how many years people have been whining about this mystery group of elite swingers that run Fab, you'd think a members list would have leaked by now

LvMThe groups or cliques are special invite only so only those in them know, unless they've been bludgeoned by them

Yeah but not even the conspiracy theory opinion list is leaked.

Even Epstein's list has "oh X is definitely on it" Y? "

No, Y was busy at the other shady place with Z.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"What are the signs?

With how many years people have been whining about this mystery group of elite swingers that run Fab, you'd think a members list would have leaked by now

LvMThe groups or cliques are special invite only so only those in them know, unless they've been bludgeoned by them

Yeah but not even the conspiracy theory opinion list is leaked.

Even Epstein's list has "oh X is definitely on it" Y?

No, Y was busy at the other shady place with Z. "
ahhh in the algebra club i guess

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"This conversation has been going on for so many years, surely the clique will have all died of old age by now.

We pick our successor. It's a fun bonding process.

Do you wear masks, sacrifice chickens and drink the blood of virgins? "

Ever seen the Stonecutters episode of the Simpsons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nah theres no clique some people just get along and like each others banter

I like you Dave!

I like Dave too. Let’s let him join the clique .. im in at last x

Well I've not agreed to yet! "

Yeah me and Kai need to have a huddle in the corner and whisper a bit

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"This conversation has been going on for so many years, surely the clique will have all died of old age by now.

We pick our successor. It's a fun bonding process.

Do you wear masks, sacrifice chickens and drink the blood of virgins?

Ever seen the Stonecutters episode of the Simpsons? "

To be honest I’m glad I quit when I did. The membership badge starts to tarnish after a while. The secret handshake was fun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the Clinique clique. Does that count?

But just for clarity, do people believ there is a single forum Clique (TM). Or are there various different cliques?

I'm hoping that it's the latter and then there is some kind of clique gangwar that plays out on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the signs?

With how many years people have been whining about this mystery group of elite swingers that run Fab, you'd think a members list would have leaked by now

LvMThe groups or cliques are special invite only so only those in them know, unless they've been bludgeoned by them

Yeah but not even the conspiracy theory opinion list is leaked.

Even Epstein's list has "oh X is definitely on it" Y?

No, Y was busy at the other shady place with piZZa. "

FTFY

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You know when people spend a lot of energy worrying about the clique? What those evil bastards are up to?

Why not invest that energy in making a positive contribution? Talking to different people. Being inclusive. Starting new threads. Include newbies. Not giving that energy to moans and whinges but actually useful things.

Just a thought.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I'm in the Clinique clique. Does that count?

But just for clarity, do people believ there is a single forum Clique (TM). Or are there various different cliques?

I'm hoping that it's the latter and then there is some kind of clique gangwar that plays out on the forums.

"
In answer to your question no but several yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clique rules:

1.You do not talk about the Clique

2.YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE CLIQUE!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You know when people spend a lot of energy worrying about the clique? What those evil bastards are up to?

Why not invest that energy in making a positive contribution? Talking to different people. Being inclusive. Starting new threads. Include newbies. Not giving that energy to moans and whinges but actually useful things.

Just a thought. "

This too! I find my energy goes in to being a sarcy bastard where and when I see fit. Majority of the time aimed at those I know won't get upset by my sarcy bastardness.

Otherwise that energy is the wasteful diverted to trying to care that I upset somebody.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Clique rules:

1.You do not talk about the Clique

2.YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE CLIQUE!

"
whisper?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

They all go to the loo together and the signs are on lampposts strangely. Especially the ones with a leg cocked against them.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Clique rules:

1.You do not talk about the Clique

2.YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE CLIQUE!

"

But we are talking about the clique!

Does that make us rule breakers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clique rules:

1.You do not talk about the Clique

2.YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE CLIQUE!

But we are talking about the clique!

Does that make us rule breakers? "
only if you are in the clique.

So are you a rule breaker ?

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Popular thread must have got some peoples interest

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Clique rules:

1.You do not talk about the Clique

2.YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE CLIQUE!

But we are talking about the clique!

Does that make us rule breakers? only if you are in the clique.

So are you a rule breaker ? "

Ohhhhh catch 22!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"You know when people spend a lot of energy worrying about the clique? What those evil bastards are up to?

Why not invest that energy in making a positive contribution? Talking to different people. Being inclusive. Starting new threads. Include newbies. Not giving that energy to moans and whinges but actually useful things.

Just a thought. "

Nah, it's easier to to be salty.

(was so tempted to give this a thumbs up) (clique joke)

J

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Popular thread must have got some peoples interest "

Controversial is always popular

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

A self worth thread is always a novelty

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Many attest to its authenticity, so it could be true

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"You know when people spend a lot of energy worrying about the clique? What those evil bastards are up to?

Why not invest that energy in making a positive contribution? Talking to different people. Being inclusive. Starting new threads. Include newbies. Not giving that energy to moans and whinges but actually useful things.

Just a thought.

Nah, it's easier to to be salty.

(was so tempted to give this a thumbs up) (clique joke)

J"

Thank you for not using The LadyBonerKiller3000, really appreciated.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Many attest to its authenticity, so it could be true "

Perspectives and whatever anyone wants to see as true they will.

That applies to both sides of course. But the whole clique thing is soley based on perspectives alone. Some people will fight to the death for what they choose to. Believe weather they are right or wrong.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Many attest to its authenticity, so it could be true

Perspectives and whatever anyone wants to see as true they will.

That applies to both sides of course. But the whole clique thing is soley based on perspectives alone. Some people will fight to the death for what they choose to. Believe weather they are right or wrong. "
maybe they are wrong in the summer but almost right in the winter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

whisper? "

Referenced from the film Fight club. Very true to FAB though lots of bickering

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"

whisper?

Referenced from the film Fight club. Very true to FAB though lots of bickering

"
or bitching as somebody referred to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there is!!..I've been on here longer than most(about 15 years on and off) and I'm definitely not in that group that likes to think they're special because they post on the forums and have regular public banter with each other and "exclude " newbies.

What's wrong with banter between friends - it's what makes it fun here.

I think newbies can feel easily excluded. Not sure it's purposeful though.

Didn't say there was anything wrong with banter !..and of course newbies can feel excluded especially if they are jumped on by the special group of posters

You implied it. If people are jumping on newbies that's not good. Although to be fair sometimes newbies say some bloody stupid things and deserve pushback.

And regular forum users don't?!..

Where did I say that?

have a nice day with your giraffe "

Why thank you. You have a nice day too.

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By *TG3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

So its a myth..... Thought so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get a forum ban for no reason because you pissed one of them off

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A few people know each other from clubs or just regularly posting on here. I have heard from some that there is a WhatsApp group with a few members, who encourage each other to pick on certain people. However even if there was I can’t imagine they’d do much damage.

The majority of the site don’t post on the forums, you’re in a niche group if you do. So this clique doesn’t really have that much power or influence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you dare to disagree with one of them in the forums, then the off-site chat groups will coordinate a response where they will pounce on you like a pack of wolves in the forums, mass report to admin and generally harass you across multiple unrelated threads until you think “sod this for a game of charades” and UNLOS and then publicly whoop and cheer at your demise.

Or at least that’s how it used to work c2016-2019.

It may be different now?

Na, they tried that and I'm still about "

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"What are the signs? "

We’ve not invited you lol

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"There are no signs.

There is no clique. "

The best places have the most discreet signage...keeps the riff raff out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get a forum ban for no reason because you pissed one of them off "

Is that where you've been?

I thought maybe you were being held hostage in one of those underground tunnels in Croydon.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"There are no signs.

There is no clique.

The best places have the most discreet signage...keeps the riff raff out.

"

There are no places.

There is no riff raff

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

There is no clique like home

There is no clique like home

There is no clique like home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no clique .. it’s just that I am more comfortable with my friends and tend to stick with and speak to them in our friendship group and exclude people I don’t know. What’s wrong with that?

Said with absolutely NO irony at all

The end.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"There is no clique like home

There is no clique like home

There is no clique like home"

Clique your heels together three times!

J

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