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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I love you all obviously. Except that one user or two.

But is it just me or does this place feel smaller with less people in the forums now?!

Feels like everyone here is starting to feel like my damn family!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s tiny. Absolutely minuscule. Bit like a forgotten willy

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I knows what thee means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I'm hitting on my brother.

Hey brucey...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I does feel like there’s a smaller core of regular contributors

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Don't worry they'll be a new batch along soon.

Or the same one's with different names.

Fear not op your stuck with me for a while longer

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

people leave because of arseholes

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Its a phase. It happens. It goes quiet for a while, then gets bigger for a while. Cycle continues and the wheel turns. You get used to regulars. Some of them go. Some stay. New ones show up.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I feel like I'm hitting on my brother.

Hey brucey... "

Sis no....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads."
Shots were fired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads."

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads. "

Repetitive threads..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People also sometimes leave because they are the arseholes

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads.Shots were fired "

Hey no one can say my threads are repetitive so shots deflected back atcha!

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Is everyone finally on the naughty step?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads.Shots were fired

Hey no one can say my threads are repetitive so shots deflected back atcha!"
Brucey’s gunning for me, so scared

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads.Shots were fired

Hey no one can say my threads are repetitive so shots deflected back atcha!Brucey’s gunning for me, so scared "

Don't worry there's 0 energy going your way from me babycakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads.Shots were fired

Hey no one can say my threads are repetitive so shots deflected back atcha!Brucey’s gunning for me, so scared

Don't worry there's 0 energy going your way from me babycakes "
hahaha you’re so cute

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads.Shots were fired

Hey no one can say my threads are repetitive so shots deflected back atcha!Brucey’s gunning for me, so scared

Don't worry there's 0 energy going your way from me babycakes hahaha you’re so cute "

Aww...

No I have nothing back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads.Shots were fired

Hey no one can say my threads are repetitive so shots deflected back atcha!Brucey’s gunning for me, so scared

Don't worry there's 0 energy going your way from me babycakes hahaha you’re so cute

Aww...

No I have nothing back "
Surprise surprise

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

It’s not smaller OP, you just got bigger

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"It’s not smaller OP, you just got bigger "

These forums are small, but the ones out there are far away.

J

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It’s not smaller OP, you just got bigger "

WINK

Stoppp it you I'm blushing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" pooh leaves through arseholes "

Too true.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yeah, it’s tiny!!!

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"It’s not smaller OP, you just got bigger

These forums are small, but the ones out there are far away.

J"

C’mon Ted X

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I think most people come in here and never get responded too, realise that most of the regulars only chat to each other, their threads fall flat and that ultimately it's such a massive waste of time.

And that's all before they make a forum faux pas and get shouted at over something minor.

It's not always a welcoming place the forums.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Is just you, Brucey, my darling. Your ego is expanding to fill the available space. Like gas. Better lay off them beans!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I think most people come in here and never get responded too, realise that most of the regulars only chat to each other, their threads fall flat and that ultimately it's such a massive waste of time.

And that's all before they make a forum faux pas and get shouted at over something minor.

It's not always a welcoming place the forums."

Never stopped me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"

But is it just me or does this place feel smaller with less people in the forums now?!

"

It's a mirror of society. Everything is getting smaller.

Paychecks, Mars bars, flats, slices of cake, costa coffees.....

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"

But is it just me or does this place feel smaller with less people in the forums now?!

It's a mirror of society. Everything is getting smaller.

Paychecks, Mars bars, flats, slices of cake, costa coffees.....

"

Except tits and lips (face) they seem to be getting bigger and going by the average guy on here so do Dick's

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

When chatting to people at clubs or socials, some will often say they read the forums, but are too worried about posting because the place can be unfriendly. Especially if a minor mistake is made, or if an opinion is perceived to differ from mainstream.

An example is the couple from Bristol area who own a farm. They posted a question to see who would be interested in a nudist campsite on their farm. Unfortunately, because they are unfamiliar with the forums, they accidentally posted in the London section. Instead of their error being politely highlighted, the 'tone' of the messages was harsh.

Until such time as the unfriendly nature of some is challenged, it's going to be difficult to encourage an uplift in the forums.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"I think most people come in here and never get responded too, realise that most of the regulars only chat to each other, their threads fall flat and that ultimately it's such a massive waste of time.

And that's all before they make a forum faux pas and get shouted at over something minor.

It's not always a welcoming place the forums.

Never stopped me "

Same. Most of us were like that once. I'm still around, sometimes you get ignored, sometimes you get responses. Regular or newbie, it still happens. Also for a lot of those that are here from covid boom, that was always going to be a special place in time for high forum traffic. Offline acitivies were limited.

Still plenty of new faces around. Still plenty of varied topics. The reason it's the same few that create threads is because so many others don't bother to come up with anything of their own, regardless if they fall flat. Plenty of my own go nowhere, I still put some effort in to attempt. People would rather drop in with a quick comment than create a thread.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We start threads and they crash and burn - it’s fine, we aren’t regulars, we sit on the sides mainly so don’t expect them to be bangers. However, if that happens to others who hardly post too, then you are just going to get the same posters posting so it then seems like it’s just the same friends hanging out and no one can join in or contribute.

I think people realise quicker that the forum isn’t going to the place to fish if you want to meet up. We’ve been here 3 years and met one person for play on the forums - there’s a whole world of people outside the forums.

*chants ‘fresh meat’ as walking off

K

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I think most people come in here and never get responded too, realise that most of the regulars only chat to each other, their threads fall flat and that ultimately it's such a massive waste of time.

And that's all before they make a forum faux pas and get shouted at over something minor.

It's not always a welcoming place the forums.

Never stopped me

Same. Most of us were like that once. I'm still around, sometimes you get ignored, sometimes you get responses. Regular or newbie, it still happens. Also for a lot of those that are here from covid boom, that was always going to be a special place in time for high forum traffic. Offline acitivies were limited.

Still plenty of new faces around. Still plenty of varied topics. The reason it's the same few that create threads is because so many others don't bother to come up with anything of their own, regardless if they fall flat. Plenty of my own go nowhere, I still put some effort in to attempt. People would rather drop in with a quick comment than create a thread. "

This is all very true. Unless your views are outrageous, you're pretty much ignored to start with. However persistence is key, people can only ignore you for so long before they give in. Failing that, steal a popular name and you'll get noticed. With regards to threads, unfortunately not enough people will bother to create them so they naturally will be same same.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"We start threads and they crash and burn - it’s fine, we aren’t regulars, we sit on the sides mainly so don’t expect them to be bangers. However, if that happens to others who hardly post too, then you are just going to get the same posters posting so it then seems like it’s just the same friends hanging out and no one can join in or contribute.

I think people realise quicker that the forum isn’t going to the place to fish if you want to meet up. We’ve been here 3 years and met one person for play on the forums - there’s a whole world of people outside the forums.

*chants ‘fresh meat’ as walking off

K"

I hope that's not Bradgate Park in your photos?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


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I hope that's not Bradgate Park in your photos? "

Since I’ve never heard of Bradgate Park then it’s safe to assume it’s not

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

There's definitely quite a few people who have gone unlos, but the forums don't seem quiet.

Noticed quite a few different names (not just Halloween or thieved identities)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were all my family, I'd definitely want an emancipation

I'm joking! But seriously...

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"If you were all my family, I'd definitely want an emancipation

I'm joking! But seriously..."

Dysfunctional... Like most families

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's not so much the Lounge has gone that quiet as it's just currently missing a few people who tended to be consistent in creating Lounge type threads, missing for a handful of reasons I think. So we are missing certain faces we are used to seeing. The late night thing too isn't always on it seems. It's only monday and there was a lot on the past weekend too.

When people like Posh, busman, Nero, Meli et al (ie the fairly large number of good people who keep the place going) are a bit quieter it just looks comparatively empty (plenty are still here you can see). Pickle left, maybe he'll come back. JennieTV is really missed too of course. But it's not emptier though I'm sure, people are still around and the most-common thread-starters are just doing other things. It's a good time for new people I guess. And we always have Wonko when he wants to post and Brucie and Tom etc etc. pt

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We start threads and they crash and burn - it’s fine, we aren’t regulars, we sit on the sides mainly so don’t expect them to be bangers. However, if that happens to others who hardly post too, then you are just going to get the same posters posting so it then seems like it’s just the same friends hanging out and no one can join in or contribute.

I think people realise quicker that the forum isn’t going to the place to fish if you want to meet up. We’ve been here 3 years and met one person for play on the forums - there’s a whole world of people outside the forums.

*chants ‘fresh meat’ as walking off

K"

I can honestly say that in my 15 years on here there's been more meets arranged off the back of the forums than anywhere else on the site.

I've also met plenty of people in clubs and at socials and after chatting for a while thrown the whole 'so who are you on Fab?' question out to then be shocked (pleasantly) by the reply.

The forums are what you make them. We were all lurkers once, then first time posters getting ignored and eventually got used to the way things happen. Some stick around. Some don't for their own reasons. Some take breaks, some go UNLOS and then come back suspiciously earlier than the two week window needed to post.

It's always been the way and always will be. It'll never change.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"I think people move on from the forums after a while when they see the same constant contributors and repetitive threads."

What this lady said

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Why worry?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Naaah, just people’s minds that are getting smaller

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"We start threads and they crash and burn - it’s fine, we aren’t regulars, we sit on the sides mainly so don’t expect them to be bangers. However, if that happens to others who hardly post too, then you are just going to get the same posters posting so it then seems like it’s just the same friends hanging out and no one can join in or contribute.

I think people realise quicker that the forum isn’t going to the place to fish if you want to meet up. We’ve been here 3 years and met one person for play on the forums - there’s a whole world of people outside the forums.

*chants ‘fresh meat’ as walking off

K

I can honestly say that in my 15 years on here there's been more meets arranged off the back of the forums than anywhere else on the site.

I've also met plenty of people in clubs and at socials and after chatting for a while thrown the whole 'so who are you on Fab?' question out to then be shocked (pleasantly) by the reply.

The forums are what you make them. We were all lurkers once, then first time posters getting ignored and eventually got used to the way things happen. Some stick around. Some don't for their own reasons. Some take breaks, some go UNLOS and then come back suspiciously earlier than the two week window needed to post.

It's always been the way and always will be. It'll never change.

"

When I was first on FAB I only used the forums and I done well and enjoyed my time. So definitely not saying the forums aren’t a great place to meet - the MLS was an amazing social to attend too.

But I think once you get out of posting regular then the forums don’t hold as much sway and there’s plenty of other places to go looking.

That’s the beauty of FAB - different things work.

K

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"We start threads and they crash and burn - it’s fine, we aren’t regulars, we sit on the sides mainly so don’t expect them to be bangers. However, if that happens to others who hardly post too, then you are just going to get the same posters posting so it then seems like it’s just the same friends hanging out and no one can join in or contribute.

I think people realise quicker that the forum isn’t going to the place to fish if you want to meet up. We’ve been here 3 years and met one person for play on the forums - there’s a whole world of people outside the forums.

*chants ‘fresh meat’ as walking off

K"

Most of my threads crash and burn, I've been around a while (I'm on and off for long periods sometimes) but it still puts me off a bit, so I sympathise there. There are all kinds of reasons for it and I've seen plenty of longtimers here effectively bump their own threads (ah the subtle art of thread maintenance lol - it's worth learning I think!) pt

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Soon it will be just you and Wonko.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I can honestly say that in my 15 years on here there's been more meets arranged off the back of the forums than anywhere else on the site.

I've also met plenty of people in clubs and at socials and after chatting for a while thrown the whole 'so who are you on Fab?' question out to then be shocked (pleasantly) by the reply.

The forums are what you make them. We were all lurkers once, then first time posters getting ignored and eventually got used to the way things happen. Some stick around. Some don't for their own reasons. Some take breaks, some go UNLOS and then come back suspiciously earlier than the two week window needed to post.

It's always been the way and always will be. It'll never change."

.

I'm slowly seeing how the fora are real extended community too (ie not just a small one as it often first appears), but I can't see people who chose not to contribute (or contribute only via PM as some do) as 'lurkers' though. It's just a term I never liked, as there is nothing really positive about it. But I know that some people do only want to read the forum not to contribute to it. And if some people are put off from posting here (maybe not hard to see at times), I wouldn't call them 'lurkers' either.

A lot of people like me if I remember, actually post something the first time they come, then just weigh up for a bit whether it's worth posting something again. I doubt it took me long as I think I'm of the mind to post regardless! Which works fine on this forum I think, because as I always say, it's not particularly given for extended conversation here.

Forum software

Due to poor 'multi-quoting' and the absence of 'auto-signing' especially, the simple forum software that Fab uses was clearly built for more 'land your own post' type of threads. The 175-post thread limit (with no extra pages) stops people from over-replying too. And of course there are no 'post likies' either - which is actually no bad thing imo, though that limits post-appreciation too. So it's very easy to get lost in the mix here.

And regarding new threads, Fab has around 100 a day, excluding the ones that are deleted for whatever reason. So new threads can easily get lost at certain times too.

pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was only gone a day or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were all my family, I'd definitely want an emancipation

I'm joking! But seriously...

Dysfunctional... Like most families"

Oh definitely dysfunctional but at the same time, I don't want to feel filthy for flirting with all of you

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It’s a forum recession.

Something to do with interest rates…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a forum recession.

Something to do with interest rates… "

We need inflating!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"It’s a forum recession.

Something to do with interest rates…

We need inflating!"

Well blow me!

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I blame thatcher.

And myself apparently. I'm the cause of the blight! Someone blow fratellis horn!

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Someone blow fratellis horn!"

I'll give it a go. Anyone know if it's going to inflate his ego, or something more beautiful?

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Someone blow fratellis horn!

I'll give it a go. Anyone know if it's going to inflate his ego, or something more beautiful? "

Just keep him distracted while I chat up his loveeeeeeellly lady friend. That's all I care for. Teamwork makes dreamwork!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See all the thinly veiled pot-shots/sly remarks to you on this thread yet the one you apparently have ‘no energy for’ is the only one you respond to in a vitriolic fashion... I won’t be engaging with any more of your super-insightful threads worry not

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Someone blow fratellis horn!

I'll give it a go. Anyone know if it's going to inflate his ego, or something more beautiful? "

Mrs Rockashay… your lips are a brass instruments dream.

Come, inflate my soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" people leave because of arseholes "

Oh. Thought people fucked arseholes

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


" people leave because of arseholes

Oh. Thought people fucked arseholes "

People are really picky about arseholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People also sometimes leave because they are the arseholes "

Arseholes are for fucking.. No.

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"People also sometimes leave because they are the arseholes

Arseholes are for fucking.. No. "

I like your views on arseholes.

Sounds deep.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

There’s a few I genuinely miss haven’t seen them post for a long while and absolutely made me feel at home here.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

I’m back, was on the naughty step for a bit. Did you miss me?

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"I’m back, was on the naughty step for a bit. Did you miss me?"

Just your naughtiness

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

This place has lost some good people lately. Both for good and bad reasons.

But, it is what it is. New regulars will appear. Things will remain in flux always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few I really miss for various reasons.

Some might come back, unfortunately some never will.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Soon it will be just you and Wonko."

I can't wait for that day. Maybe we will meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you all obviously. Except that one user or two.

But is it just me or does this place feel smaller with less people in the forums now?!

Feels like everyone here is starting to feel like my damn family! "

Or maybe you are getting bigger, making it feel smaller? Like wagon wheels

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"This place has lost some good people lately. Both for good and bad reasons.

But, it is what it is. New regulars will appear. Things will remain in flux always."

Bloody new regular men! Where's the babes at. C'mon in babes don't be shy!

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I love you all obviously. Except that one user or two.

But is it just me or does this place feel smaller with less people in the forums now?!

Feels like everyone here is starting to feel like my damn family!

Or maybe you are getting bigger, making it feel smaller? Like wagon wheels "

Wagon wheels did actually get smaller though bro...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you all obviously. Except that one user or two.

But is it just me or does this place feel smaller with less people in the forums now?!

Feels like everyone here is starting to feel like my damn family!

Or maybe you are getting bigger, making it feel smaller? Like wagon wheels "

Oh hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you all obviously. Except that one user or two.

But is it just me or does this place feel smaller with less people in the forums now?!

Feels like everyone here is starting to feel like my damn family!

Or maybe you are getting bigger, making it feel smaller? Like wagon wheels

Oh hello"

Jesus… I mean Raven, hello to you too

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"I love you all obviously. Except that one user or two.

But is it just me or does this place feel smaller with less people in the forums now?!

Feels like everyone here is starting to feel like my damn family!

Or maybe you are getting bigger, making it feel smaller? Like wagon wheels

Oh hello

Jesus… I mean Raven, hello to you too "

That's not the first and last time you will says "jesus" around her. All of the future times though will be in the opposite tone and likely be used as a part of some sort of exorcism.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I love you all obviously. Except that one user or two.

But is it just me or does this place feel smaller with less people in the forums now?!

Feels like everyone here is starting to feel like my damn family!

Or maybe you are getting bigger, making it feel smaller? Like wagon wheels

Oh hello

Jesus… I mean Raven, hello to you too

That's not the first and last time you will says "jesus" around her. All of the future times though will be in the opposite tone and likely be used as a part of some sort of exorcism. "

I can vouch for this I'm saying it to her right now

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

In the 10 or so years I've been on here, it's actually got a lot bigger overall.

I was working night shift years ago, and I remember seeing a count of only 3,000 on line at about 4am. At the same time now it's over 20,000.

But yes, the forum side of it remains quite small (and cliquey!!)

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"I’m back, was on the naughty step for a bit. Did you miss me?"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Lots of my favourites have gone UNLOS or banned recently it's sad

Mrs

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It’s tiny. Absolutely minuscule. Bit like a forgotten willy "

I’m feeling called out….

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Lots of my favourites have gone UNLOS or banned recently it's sad

Mrs "

You hang out with the dodgy crowd eh?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find it goes through stages like this but I think it depends on who you like too. A lot of my fave posters don't post much or are UNLOS so I'm not enjoying the forums as much lately.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I do find it goes through stages like this but I think it depends on who you like too. A lot of my fave posters don't post much or are UNLOS so I'm not enjoying the forums as much lately."

Ouch!

Where's Rex?!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I do find it goes through stages like this but I think it depends on who you like too. A lot of my fave posters don't post much or are UNLOS so I'm not enjoying the forums as much lately.

Ouch!

Where's Rex?! "

We were frotting.

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