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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Yet another report that sexism and Misogyny is rife in the Dorset and Wiltshire Fire Brigade. Report after report after report saying the same thing whether it's police, fire, ambulance, NHS, Armed Forces etc etc etc..

Is it time to call time on a failed social experiment. The sexes do not mix well... Stop this now. All firemen to be me, All nurses to be women. Or viceverisae. All men as nurses and all women as firemen..

What's going on here guys. It's all over the news

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

What's going on is people with the same mindset as you've indicated in this 1950s style of a thread are acting like fuckwits in how they treat work colleagues..

Albeit a minority but the answer is simple, out them and replace with others who are able to treat people they work with equally..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who worked in the public sector for years on a similar role, it’s easy. Don’t be a cunt to your colleagues.

The blame lies solely with men who are unable to be team players when there’s a woman around.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"As someone who worked in the public sector for years on a similar role, it’s easy. Don’t be a cunt to your colleagues.

The blame lies solely with men who are unable to be team players when there’s a woman around. "

Ditto on all..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

bullies and abusers don't stop being bullies and abusers in same sex environments, they just choose the weakest and most vulnerable person and take their insecurities, personal failings and prejudices out on them.

One easy answer is for the good people to speak up and isolate the bad ones

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Separating the semester doesn't fix misogyny. Just makes it less blatantly apparent to the people involved.

People should have to face the fact that they're sexist assholes. There's no learning in just letting it continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cull all men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cull all men? "

Who will catch the spiders?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Who gets to stay on Fab? The men or the women?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Cull all men?

Who will catch the spiders? "

The hoovers

J

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"Cull all men?

Who will catch the spiders? "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If the senior managers can't eradicate it, then the buck stops with them. Individual staff should face disciplinary measures too but, ultimately it's their senior leadership who should pay.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

The easiest way to remove misogyny from the workplace is if women stayed at home

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"If the senior managers can't eradicate it, then the buck stops with them. Individual staff should face disciplinary measures too but, ultimately it's their senior leadership who should pay.

"

The tried tested and failed for generations approach

Split the buggers up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cull all men?

Who will catch the spiders? "

You’ll have to put your own shifts in. They’re harmless if you name them. Get nasty with them, and they come to poo in your ears while you sleep.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"If the senior managers can't eradicate it, then the buck stops with them. Individual staff should face disciplinary measures too but, ultimately it's their senior leadership who should pay.

The tried tested and failed for generations approach

Split the buggers up "

I went to an all girls school. Separating the sexes doesn't stop abuse and bullying

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"If the senior managers can't eradicate it, then the buck stops with them. Individual staff should face disciplinary measures too but, ultimately it's their senior leadership who should pay.

The tried tested and failed for generations approach

Split the buggers up

I went to an all girls school. Separating the sexes doesn't stop abuse and bullying"

No but it stops misogyny surely

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's wrong to be sexist , the chicks don't like it

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By *r lotharioMan
over a year ago

playa del ingles


"Who gets to stay on Fab? The men or the women? "

what about all the other stupidity they may identify as?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"If the senior managers can't eradicate it, then the buck stops with them. Individual staff should face disciplinary measures too but, ultimately it's their senior leadership who should pay.

The tried tested and failed for generations approach

Split the buggers up

I went to an all girls school. Separating the sexes doesn't stop abuse and bullying

No but it stops misogyny surely"

not in my experience. Some women hate women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will they ever stop moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will they ever stop moaning "

I guess when 'they' have nothing to moan about

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yet another report that sexism and Misogyny is rife in the Dorset and Wiltshire Fire Brigade. Report after report after report saying the same thing whether it's police, fire, ambulance, NHS, Armed Forces etc etc etc..

Is it time to call time on a failed social experiment. The sexes do not mix well... Stop this now. All firemen to be me, All nurses to be women. Or viceverisae. All men as nurses and all women as firemen..

What's going on here guys. It's all over the news"

Omg big breasted women on ladders sheeeesh

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"What's going on is people with the same mindset as you've indicated in this 1950s style of a thread are acting like fuckwits in how they treat work colleagues..

Albeit a minority but the answer is simple, out them and replace with others who are able to treat people they work with equally.."

I doubt that people with attitudes like this , have a clue how to fix a society containing large number of people with attitudes like that.

the answer is far from simple, 9000 years of gender domination doesn’t go away by telling men off. Answers like Jineology are possible but hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy cure for misogyny: remove all misogynists.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

The knuckle draggers are on the rise it seems wanting to go back in time when men were men and women were women and.....crawling out from under the rocks they were forced to live under ?? and infecting a new generation with their outdated idea's and most call themselves incels now it seems ??? as gasp shock horror they can't fnd anyone females willing to lay back and think of England as they busily work out their mummy issues in 20 odd seconds it takes them to come ? but just name and shame the twats ?? the london mets is full of them by all accounts as are a fair few other police forces and so called public bodies ?? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This very thread exhibits the misogynistic views which lead to toxic workplaces.

The kind of behaviour women were "moaning about":

"Examples uncovered by the review included coercive and controlling behaviour, sexual harassment and inappropriate touching. Staff also reported men intentionally using women-only spaces and toilets.

The independent review team said it was contacted by about 200 current and former employees, with a third of staff saying they had a lack of trust in senior management." (BBC News)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This very thread exhibits the misogynistic views which lead to toxic workplaces.

The kind of behaviour women were "moaning about":

"Examples uncovered by the review included coercive and controlling behaviour, sexual harassment and inappropriate touching. Staff also reported men intentionally using women-only spaces and toilets.

The independent review team said it was contacted by about 200 current and former employees, with a third of staff saying they had a lack of trust in senior management." (BBC News)

"

See these examples are way worse than misogyny. These are abusive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This very thread exhibits the misogynistic views which lead to toxic workplaces.

The kind of behaviour women were "moaning about":

"Examples uncovered by the review included coercive and controlling behaviour, sexual harassment and inappropriate touching. Staff also reported men intentionally using women-only spaces and toilets.

The independent review team said it was contacted by about 200 current and former employees, with a third of staff saying they had a lack of trust in senior management." (BBC News)

See these examples are way worse than misogyny. These are abusive! "

Sadly, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Tom has just solved misogyny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Tom has just solved misogyny"

By being old school misogynistic?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I think Tom has just solved misogyny

By being old school misogynistic?"

Yes, it must work just like homeopathy

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Tom has just solved misogyny

By being old school misogynistic?

Yes, it must work just like homeopathy

J"

Ah the magical healing powers of the dandelion

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Staff also reported men intentionally using women-only spaces and toilets."

Maybe they were identifying as women while they were in there?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I think Tom has just solved misogyny

By being old school misogynistic?

Yes, it must work just like homeopathy

J"

Don’t you just need a small prick for homeopathy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Tom has just solved misogyny

By being old school misogynistic?

Yes, it must work just like homeopathy

J

Don’t you just need a small prick for homeopathy?"

Don't think that will be a problem on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cull all men?

Who will catch the spiders?

The hoovers

J"

Aren't they bunged up with cocks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cull all men?

Who will catch the spiders?

You’ll have to put your own shifts in. They’re harmless if you name them. Get nasty with them, and they come to poo in your ears while you sleep. "

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Let's be clear. Tom offered one solution and there are others.

Tom would separate the buggers.

Male or female only firemen and male or female only nurses

Would stop this bad behavior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's be clear. Tom offered one solution and there are others.

Tom would separate the buggers.

Male or female only firemen and male or female only nurses

Would stop this bad behavior "

Isn't it odd that only one sex is actually doing the bad behaviour in this scenario. Yet you propose to limit career options for both.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Let's be clear. Tom offered one solution and there are others.

Tom would separate the buggers.

Male or female only firemen and male or female only nurses

Would stop this bad behavior

Isn't it odd that only one sex is actually doing the bad behaviour in this scenario. Yet you propose to limit career options for both. "

It does not limit career options.. all female fire crew and a woman is at the top free of oppression from men surely

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By *imber wolfMan
over a year ago

Aycliffe

Surely this is a wind up.

Dogs and cats living together, mass hysteria!

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By *allkinkynerdMan
over a year ago

Consett

I think op is on to something but it doesn't stop with the workplace. What about all the other places that men and women interact? We should have separate sections on public transport and in restaurants for each gender. Set up different schools, libraries, health care facilities, recreation and entertainment spaces. Heck we could even create segregated sorry separate neighbourhoods.

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By *aughty Little SecretsCouple
over a year ago

Wetherby

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By *helovesitwetCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Cull all men?

Who will catch the spiders? "

and park the cars

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