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A message for all the people Who've been rejected and let down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look in the mirror and see why they rejected me

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Elephant juice

Elephant juice

Elephant juice.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Thanks... Just what I needed to hear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look in the mirror and see why they rejected me

"

From that comment, I would say You spend too much time on this app or website, take a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see. "

Better yet, look in the mirror honestly

Sometimes you are rejected for good reason.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see.

Better yet, look in the mirror honestly

Sometimes you are rejected for good reason. "

Yeah one time I had toothpaste in my beard.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see.

Better yet, look in the mirror honestly

Sometimes you are rejected for good reason. "

Or maybe you just haven't found your people yet???

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"I look in the mirror and see why they rejected me

"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see.

Better yet, look in the mirror honestly

Sometimes you are rejected for good reason.

Or maybe you just haven't found your people yet???"

Who knows. I rejected a woman once because she was smelly.

I hope she didn’t go home and not realise that

I’d hope we’d all reject a racist. I hope they don’t go home and think they aren’t the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see.

Better yet, look in the mirror honestly

Sometimes you are rejected for good reason.

Yeah one time I had toothpaste in my beard."

That shows good oral hygiene. Keep it up

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see.

Better yet, look in the mirror honestly

Sometimes you are rejected for good reason.

Yeah one time I had toothpaste in my beard.

That shows good oral hygiene. Keep it up "

I'll make it a profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you wise one.

I love these kind of posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see.

Better yet, look in the mirror honestly

Sometimes you are rejected for good reason.

Yeah one time I had toothpaste in my beard.

That shows good oral hygiene. Keep it up

I'll make it a profile pic"

Label the toothpaste. Easily confused on here. Semen

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Let's start with feelings: If you get rejected, acknowledge it to yourself. Don't try to brush off the hurt or pretend it's not painful, just say Fuck it. Instead of thinking "I shouldn't feel this way," think about how normal it is to feel like you do, given your situation. Notice how intense your feelings are, and they are just a cunt anyway.

Peace be with you

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING


"I look in the mirror and see why they rejected me

"

From the looks of your profile picture I don't know why they reject you x

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see.

Better yet, look in the mirror honestly

Sometimes you are rejected for good reason.

Yeah one time I had toothpaste in my beard.

That shows good oral hygiene. Keep it up

I'll make it a profile pic

Label the toothpaste. Easily confused on here. Semen "

Good tip.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"I look in the mirror and see why they rejected me

From the looks of your profile picture I don't know why they reject you x"

White Knight rides in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Elephant juice

Elephant juice

Elephant juice."

You can't summon him that way, it's Candy Man or beetle juice

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Let's start with feelings: If you get rejected, acknowledge it to yourself. Don't try to brush off the hurt or pretend it's not painful, just say Fuck it. Instead of thinking "I shouldn't feel this way," think about how normal it is to feel like you do, given your situation. Notice how intense your feelings are, and they are just a cunt anyway.

Peace be with you "

I actually prefer this motivational speech!

Cheers to that!

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see. "

I tried to be positive and not thinking about those things today, but thanks for reminding me. Self love is important, so I'll surprise myself with something nice today.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you wise one.

I love these kind of posts "
your welcome

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Elephant juice

Elephant juice

Elephant juice.

You can't summon him that way, it's Candy Man or beetle juice "

It works try it.

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING


"I look in the mirror and see why they rejected me

From the looks of your profile picture I don't know why they reject you x

White Knight rides in. "

Tosser in tinfoil

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some how I don't think this respect thing would last long hommie I don't need to be respected on fab but am very much off it na na na

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's start with feelings: If you get rejected, acknowledge it to yourself. Don't try to brush off the hurt or pretend it's not painful, just say Fuck it. Instead of thinking "I shouldn't feel this way," think about how normal it is to feel like you do, given your situation. Notice how intense your feelings are, and they are just a cunt anyway.

Peace be with you "

This is where I am with it all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you look in the mirror and you can't see anything positive or happy or nice about yourself, you're On this site too much, sites like these are bad for your psyche try meeting people in the real world.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If you look in the mirror and you can't see anything positive or happy or nice about yourself, you're On this site too much, sites like these are bad for your psyche try meeting people in the real world. "

I don't think that's necessarily true. For some, yes, for others, no.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Are you trying to fab psychology me? Interesting.

God damn positivity brigade.

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By *quidgeyWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Let's start with feelings: If you get rejected, acknowledge it to yourself. Don't try to brush off the hurt or pretend it's not painful, just say Fuck it. Instead of thinking "I shouldn't feel this way," think about how normal it is to feel like you do, given your situation. Notice how intense your feelings are, and they are just a cunt anyway.

Peace be with you "

Spot on Dick

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"If you look in the mirror and you can't see anything positive or happy or nice about yourself, you're On this site too much, sites like these are bad for your psyche try meeting people in the real world. "

The mirror doesn't solve problems

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you look in the mirror and you can't see anything positive or happy or nice about yourself, you're On this site too much, sites like these are bad for your psyche try meeting people in the real world.

The mirror doesn't solve problems "
No the mirror is a tool you see a reflection in the mirror you talk to it, it's like talking to yourself giving yourself positive thoughts messages, and love and it makes your psyche a lot better.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"If you look in the mirror and you can't see anything positive or happy or nice about yourself, you're On this site too much, sites like these are bad for your psyche try meeting people in the real world.

The mirror doesn't solve problems No the mirror is a tool you see a reflection in the mirror you talk to it, it's like talking to yourself giving yourself positive thoughts messages, and love and it makes your psyche a lot better. "

It's also the closest steps to getting sectioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you look in the mirror and you can't see anything positive or happy or nice about yourself, you're On this site too much, sites like these are bad for your psyche try meeting people in the real world.

The mirror doesn't solve problems "

Seems that be the mentality these days. Just keep telling yourself your a 10/10 and it’ll be alright

What ever happened to trying to be the best possible version of yourself

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"If you look in the mirror and you can't see anything positive or happy or nice about yourself, you're On this site too much, sites like these are bad for your psyche try meeting people in the real world.

The mirror doesn't solve problems

Seems that be the mentality these days. Just keep telling yourself your a 10/10 and it’ll be alright

What ever happened to trying to be the best possible version of yourself "

This is more of a positive approach without the mirror

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Fab is just too diverse to catch everyone with this stuff.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Let's start with feelings: If you get rejected, acknowledge it to yourself. Don't try to brush off the hurt or pretend it's not painful, just say Fuck it. Instead of thinking "I shouldn't feel this way," think about how normal it is to feel like you do, given your situation. Notice how intense your feelings are, and they are just a cunt anyway.

Peace be with you

Spot on Dick "

My goodness, some did concur with me on Fab for once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why call people a cunt just because they reject you?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

So anyone else having a nice Thursday or....

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"So anyone else having a nice Thursday or.... "

. Mines not bad Brucey. Yours?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've also noticed that people try to berate you because they disagree with what you said. classic Low self-esteem and self-denial. I really feel sorry for you guys.

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"I've also noticed that people try to berate you because they disagree with what you said. classic Low self-esteem and self-denial. I really feel sorry for you guys. "

I'm full of self-denial & low self-esteem.

It makes my life complete to make someone cry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've also noticed that people try to berate you because they disagree with what you said. classic Low self-esteem and self-denial. I really feel sorry for you guys.

I'm full of self-denial & low self-esteem.

PE

It makes my life complete to make someone cry "

PEOPLE TAKE NOTE OF THIS GUYS MESSAGE

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By *ick-Dastardly-Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"I've also noticed that people try to berate you because they disagree with what you said. classic Low self-esteem and self-denial. I really feel sorry for you guys.

I'm full of self-denial & low self-esteem.

PE

It makes my life complete to make someone cry

PEOPLE TAKE NOTE OF THIS GUYS MESSAGE"

You can sing it for me

Peace be with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Remember always give yourself the affection you deserve, and Ignore the rest that are Negative

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I look in the mirror and think maybe people think I’m stronger than what I am and think I’m a challenge they don’t want to take on.

I haven’t met my people yet.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"People don't have to like you, People don't have to love you, They don't even have to respect you.

So when you look in the mirror you better love what you see.

Better yet, look in the mirror honestly

Sometimes you are rejected for good reason.

Yeah one time I had toothpaste in my beard."

Was it really toothpaste though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you look in the mirror and you can't see anything positive or happy or nice about yourself, you're On this site too much, sites like these are bad for your psyche try meeting people in the real world.

The mirror doesn't solve problems No the mirror is a tool you see a reflection in the mirror you talk to it, it's like talking to yourself giving yourself positive thoughts messages, and love and it makes your psyche a lot better. "

So after being rejected you want me to talk to myself?

Yeah that's gonna help me loads.

I think you should the word psyche to psycho.

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By *quidgeyWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Let's start with feelings: If you get rejected, acknowledge it to yourself. Don't try to brush off the hurt or pretend it's not painful, just say Fuck it. Instead of thinking "I shouldn't feel this way," think about how normal it is to feel like you do, given your situation. Notice how intense your feelings are, and they are just a cunt anyway.

Peace be with you

Spot on Dick

My goodness, some did concur with me on Fab for once "

Is that a rare happenstance Dick?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I look in the mirror and see a distinguished good looking guy with money who is attractive to a huge amount of women around the world - good hair, and a salt & pepper well groomed beard, talented and also down to earth and very funny with a wicked sense of humour - I have a poster of George Clooney on the mirror - if I move that I see Gollum from Lord Of The Rings!!

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