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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Trans story Time for young children?

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

What's that all about?

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

If you expand a little, give me a bit of context or your view I may have something to think about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter what gender the person reads the story is?

If anything, the only thing I find weird is labelling it “trans story time”

Why not just story time and let whoever read a story

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"Why does it matter what gender the person reads the story is?

If anything, the only thing I find weird is labelling it “trans story time”

Why not just story time and let whoever read a story "

Totally agree - it’s all about inclusivity

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"If you expand a little, give me a bit of context or your view I may have something to think about."

The devils in the detail I thought?

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

Why not?

Do we want our future generations to be bigoted unaccepting narrow minded idiots?

If its not your thing then just walk away.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Why does it matter what gender the person reads the story is?

If anything, the only thing I find weird is labelling it “trans story time”

Why not just story time and let whoever read a story

Totally agree - it’s all about inclusivity "

I'm just asking what's it all about

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

Some say it's grooming

I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know. "

Why don’t you just say what you want to say, with your chest, instead of dropping crumbs hoping someone else will say it for you

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know. "

Only an ignorant person would say that

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know.

Why don’t you just say what you want to say, with your chest, instead of dropping crumbs hoping someone else will say it for you "

That's very judgmental & shows ignorance in a person

Just asking what's it all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so confused but it smells like transphobia. Waiting for confirmation. We might need a VAR check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They read stories to kids. I’m failing to see the issue?.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"They read stories to kids. I’m failing to see the issue?. "

Then that's alright then

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?"

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

I’m gonna hazard a guess that the OP is asking us at what age point we think children should learn about transgender? Feel free to correct me if I’m wrong.

So the extremes are…… Never…. And whisking a 4yo boy off for gender reassignment surgery when they say they wanna play the mummy in a game of mommy and daddy.

I’ll be honest and say it’s not something we’ve thought about seriously. We have grandchildren ranging from 2 to 12 and it’s not a conversation I’d really want to have with any of them. No idea if their parents have, I might ask them if they have.

Maybe as part of the sex education at school? But it’s a subject that’s hard to discuss without putting your own personal slant on. I wouldn’t want someone telling my 8yo grandson he can get surgery and become a girl if that’s what he wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions? "

The misconceptions like how it’s somehow grooming?

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Trans story Time for young children?

"

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions? "

It’s pretty simple really. They go and read books to kids. It’s supposed to be fun and inclusive.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

The misconceptions like how it’s somehow grooming? "

I dunno ?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!"

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!"

Sounds wonderful & tranquil

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo? "

I'm all ears

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The article in the right wing rag is about drag story time. Nothing to do with trans people.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X"

At what age did you discuss it with her?

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo? "

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

The misconceptions like how it’s somehow grooming?

I dunno ? "

Well clearly you do.

You started a thread designed to enrage,you say it's for discussion purposes yet shout down every response.

I genuinely don't get the point you are making OP.

A discussion is a discussion carried out in an open minded way and to allow people who have opposing opinions to talk in a grown up and educated way.

This however doesn't seem to be the case.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Wouldn’t phase me I was raised with Dame Edna and Lilly Savage

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"The article in the right wing rag is about drag story time. Nothing to do with trans people. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not?

Do we want our future generations to be bigoted unaccepting narrow minded idiots?

If its not your thing then just walk away. "

The stupid thing is labelling it as “trans story time” which will actually make people MORE bigoted than if you just made it a regular story time with no mention of the persons gender.

I say this as a person who’s a minority myself - I absolutely HATED with a passion any time my skin colour was mentioned, or anyone’s skin colour, because all it did was make me feel like I was not the same as everyone else, and also created a feeling amongst everyone that there is “normal” vs “different”.

This even happens now as an adult, where recently I had a well-meaning friend apologise to me about my skin colour. Wtf? And the same will apply to trans etc.

Just accept them as people without making a big deal out of it.

Basically singling out and highlight differences simply enforces the idea that anyone who doesn’t fit the norm is odd and needs special attention and support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

The misconceptions like how it’s somehow grooming?

I dunno ? "

I don’t believe you.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

The misconceptions like how it’s somehow grooming?

I dunno ?

Well clearly you do.

You started a thread designed to enrage,you say it's for discussion purposes yet shout down every response.

I genuinely don't get the point you are making OP.

A discussion is a discussion carried out in an open minded way and to allow people who have opposing opinions to talk in a grown up and educated way.

This however doesn't seem to be the case.

"

How have I shouted down anyone

I only asked what's it all about

Ah, the Case has Altered - use to be a pub I'd pop in now & again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The article in the right wing rag is about drag story time. Nothing to do with trans people. "

This

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

The misconceptions like how it’s somehow grooming?

I dunno ?

I don’t believe you. "

That's OK - that's freedom of expression isn't it

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X

At what age did you discuss it with her?"

That's the sad thing never! She came to me at age 17/18 I had not an inkling! Which made me feel awfull! I feel I should have known! X

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Why not?

Do we want our future generations to be bigoted unaccepting narrow minded idiots?

If its not your thing then just walk away.

The stupid thing is labelling it as “trans story time” which will actually make people MORE bigoted than if you just made it a regular story time with no mention of the persons gender.

I say this as a person who’s a minority myself - I absolutely HATED with a passion any time my skin colour was mentioned, or anyone’s skin colour, because all it did was make me feel like I was not the same as everyone else, and also created a feeling amongst everyone that there is “normal” vs “different”.

This even happens now as an adult, where recently I had a well-meaning friend apologise to me about my skin colour. Wtf? And the same will apply to trans etc.

Just accept them as people without making a big deal out of it.

Basically singling out and highlight differences simply enforces the idea that anyone who doesn’t fit the norm is odd and needs special attention and support."

Thank you for your input.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

The misconceptions like how it’s somehow grooming?

I dunno ?

Well clearly you do.

You started a thread designed to enrage,you say it's for discussion purposes yet shout down every response.

I genuinely don't get the point you are making OP.

A discussion is a discussion carried out in an open minded way and to allow people who have opposing opinions to talk in a grown up and educated way.

This however doesn't seem to be the case.

"

You don't like me do you.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"The article in the right wing rag is about drag story time. Nothing to do with trans people.

This "

Aren't Trans & Drag often linked?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!! "

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X

At what age did you discuss it with her?

That's the sad thing never! She came to me at age 17/18 I had not an inkling! Which made me feel awfull! I feel I should have known! X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The article in the right wing rag is about drag story time. Nothing to do with trans people.

This

Aren't Trans & Drag often linked? "

In the way cheese and gravity are?

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over a year ago


"The article in the right wing rag is about drag story time. Nothing to do with trans people.

This

Aren't Trans & Drag often linked?

In the way cheese and gravity are? "

Clear and obvious links

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X

At what age did you discuss it with her?

That's the sad thing never! She came to me at age 17/18 I had not an inkling! Which made me feel awfull! I feel I should have known! X"

I didn’t come out as gay to my parents until my 30s. Don’t beat yourself up, she may not have felt ready to talk, or knew how and what she wanted to say anyway

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"The article in the right wing rag is about drag story time. Nothing to do with trans people.

This

Aren't Trans & Drag often linked?

In the way cheese and gravity are? "

I don't know.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X

At what age did you discuss it with her?

That's the sad thing never! She came to me at age 17/18 I had not an inkling! Which made me feel awfull! I feel I should have known! X

I didn’t come out as gay to my parents until my 30s. Don’t beat yourself up, she may not have felt ready to talk, or knew how and what she wanted to say anyway "

Hugs* all round

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little "

So how did you get the assumption I wanted to talk to my children about gender reassignment from one word?

'This' meaning I would love someone to come and read a story to my Nursery Children....nothing more nothing less. Stop looking for issues when there really isn't

And the word inclusive is very much a word Ofsted is interested in when they visit. So yes as a setting we need to be inclusive....I think you will find most places and people are also inclusive.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little

So how did you get the assumption I wanted to talk to my children about gender reassignment from one word?

'This' meaning I would love someone to come and read a story to my Nursery Children....nothing more nothing less. Stop looking for issues when there really isn't

And the word inclusive is very much a word Ofsted is interested in when they visit. So yes as a setting we need to be inclusive....I think you will find most places and people are also inclusive. "

Thank you for your input.

I'm still none the wiser ... (Maybe cos I'm a bit dumb?)

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X

At what age did you discuss it with her?

That's the sad thing never! She came to me at age 17/18 I had not an inkling! Which made me feel awfull! I feel I should have known! X

I didn’t come out as gay to my parents until my 30s. Don’t beat yourself up, she may not have felt ready to talk, or knew how and what she wanted to say anyway "

Thank u! Having aspergers probably didn't help! Happy to say she is happy in herself now! Married and living in florida! But of course gets the bigoted people occasionally! But am so very proud of her and how she has handled her journey! All the very best to u xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X

At what age did you discuss it with her?

That's the sad thing never! She came to me at age 17/18 I had not an inkling! Which made me feel awfull! I feel I should have known! X

I didn’t come out as gay to my parents until my 30s. Don’t beat yourself up, she may not have felt ready to talk, or knew how and what she wanted to say anyway

Hugs* all round "

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Wouldn’t phase me I was raised with Dame Edna and Lilly Savage "
And don't forget Hinge and Bracket.

I'm fairly certain that back in history, males played female roles in plays as women weren't allowed on stage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no, not at all... more like YOU are looking for something to be triggered & then kick off about it, it makes you feel powerful.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know. "

How?! So a man or women telling a story is ok but a trans person means it's grooming?! What planet are people on, I mean come on!

Ridiculous.

Mrs

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Why not?

Do we want our future generations to be bigoted unaccepting narrow minded idiots?

If its not your thing then just walk away.

The stupid thing is labelling it as “trans story time” which will actually make people MORE bigoted than if you just made it a regular story time with no mention of the persons gender.

I say this as a person who’s a minority myself - I absolutely HATED with a passion any time my skin colour was mentioned, or anyone’s skin colour, because all it did was make me feel like I was not the same as everyone else, and also created a feeling amongst everyone that there is “normal” vs “different”.

This even happens now as an adult, where recently I had a well-meaning friend apologise to me about my skin colour. Wtf? And the same will apply to trans etc.

Just accept them as people without making a big deal out of it.

Basically singling out and highlight differences simply enforces the idea that anyone who doesn’t fit the norm is odd and needs special attention and support."

I agree 100%.

Which is the best headline to try and get rid of racism…..

1. A man has been shot in London

2. A man has been shot in London by armed police

3. A black man has been shot in London by armed police

4. A black man has been shot in London by a white police officer

5. A gay black male has been shot in London by a white police officer

6. A gay black male has been shot by a white heterosexual policeman.

Every one of those statements comes from a different place and has a different agenda

I was about 8 when the first black boy came to my school. I’d seen black people before obviously, but not in school. We kinda became friends but I think it was because most of the kids didn’t like either of us. White middle class area and I was the loner who didn’t make friends easily and didn’t like football. I remember thinking at the time that he looked different, but we played the same games etc. we weren’t different to each other but we looked it.

My sister married a mixed race man and my first discussions about racism were with his daughter from a previous relationship who was the same age as me. She thought all white people were racist. She expected me to be racist because I was white.

Pre conceived ideas will always be around, on both sides of the many divides, no matter how much you might want to change them. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try of course.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Oh no, not at all... more like YOU are looking for something to be triggered & then kick off about it, it makes you feel powerful."

Who's this addressed to mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are you supposed to find any wisdom in amongst all that bullshit??.. I don't blame you for feeling confused, no-onenoffered a content argument, it just all mad ramblings by the mentally ill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not?

Do we want our future generations to be bigoted unaccepting narrow minded idiots?

If its not your thing then just walk away. "

that's the problem they can't walk away if a parent doesn't want their children to be taught about said subject there rights should be taken but some schools don't tell the parents so they can make a judgement.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know.

How?! So a man or women telling a story is ok but a trans person means it's grooming?! What planet are people on, I mean come on!

Ridiculous.

Mrs "

I don't know how?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it matter what gender the person reads the story is?

If anything, the only thing I find weird is labelling it “trans story time”

Why not just story time and let whoever read a story

Totally agree - it’s all about inclusivity "

what if some don't want to be included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not?

Do we want our future generations to be bigoted unaccepting narrow minded idiots?

If its not your thing then just walk away. that's the problem they can't walk away if a parent doesn't want their children to be taught about said subject there rights should be taken but some schools don't tell the parents so they can make a judgement."

You mean parents can’t opt out of teaching their kids about trans people?

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"How are you supposed to find any wisdom in amongst all that bullshit??.. I don't blame you for feeling confused, no-onenoffered a content argument, it just all mad ramblings by the mentally ill."

Mentally ill? That's discriminatory language there

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions? "

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions..."

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass. "

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not?

Do we want our future generations to be bigoted unaccepting narrow minded idiots?

If its not your thing then just walk away. that's the problem they can't walk away if a parent doesn't want their children to be taught about said subject there rights should be taken but some schools don't tell the parents so they can make a judgement."

Very complicated subject that, far too complicated for the fav forums. How much power do we give the state to teach children things without the parents consent/knowledge

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Wouldn’t phase me I was raised with Dame Edna and Lilly Savage And don't forget Hinge and Bracket.

I'm fairly certain that back in history, males played female roles in plays as women weren't allowed on stage?"

Hinge and Bracket are probably before my time but yes men played women’s rolls for century’s in entertainment

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people ."

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful "

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about."

I've only asked a question? Read it again, no rhetoric from I

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about."

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Trans story Time for young children?

"

I would be more worried about bigoted story time for young children. About anybody with so much hate in their heart that they can take something like people wearing fancy dress while they read out stories to children, and use it to insinuate vile things about a completely different section of society.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Trans story Time for young children?

I would be more worried about bigoted story time for young children. About anybody with so much hate in their heart that they can take something like people wearing fancy dress while they read out stories to children, and use it to insinuate vile things about a completely different section of society."

Applying bigoted are you implying they are unreasonably attached to a belief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trans story Time for young children?

"

Or it's just story time...

I fail to see the issue. I don't think anyone is gonna become trans because they were read a story by a trans person. And if they did...so what?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature."

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks...."

You are very welcome

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Trans story Time for young children?

"

If you are referring to drag-time story hour in America, I think it sounds fun and wouldn't have a problem taking my kids to it. Perforners dressed in outrageous costumes telling stories? What's not to like.

Naturally the right wing in America is up in arms about this because people shouldn't be free to make their own decisions when it comes to decisions they don't agree with. They love talking about freedom but really they are authoritarians who won't move with the times.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in a primary school. There are children that are displaying obvious behaviours that might indicate they have already begun their "trans journey"

Some Children in the past that have left primary school went on to identify as a different gender than what they were born as.

Sad thing is, we see this, we know this but we cannot be seen to be promoting or accepting this because there are so many religious families that would remove their children from the school if they saw this happening. Same thing with homosexuality. At my last job I used to enjoy being able to celebrate pride with the children. And it's not grooming or pushing ideas onto children. It's letting them know that there was always people around them waiting to accept them and welcome them rather than fill them with self hate, doubt and shame.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome "

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X"

Totally agree, knoweldge is way more powerful than bigotted ignorance. Some of us lived through hell at school being bullied and called a sissy when I didn't even know what that was at 11. It took me until my 40's to disocover and be comfortable with what I am even though I still live happily as a male.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?"

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

What was the story?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little

So how did you get the assumption I wanted to talk to my children about gender reassignment from one word?

'This' meaning I would love someone to come and read a story to my Nursery Children....nothing more nothing less. Stop looking for issues when there really isn't

And the word inclusive is very much a word Ofsted is interested in when they visit. So yes as a setting we need to be inclusive....I think you will find most places and people are also inclusive. "

Jesus you have real issues. You definitely need someone to come and read for you because you clearly can’t read yourself.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Trans story Time for young children?

"

Asking again as people are going off topic

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is. "

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me."

You can't keep away.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little

So how did you get the assumption I wanted to talk to my children about gender reassignment from one word?

'This' meaning I would love someone to come and read a story to my Nursery Children....nothing more nothing less. Stop looking for issues when there really isn't

And the word inclusive is very much a word Ofsted is interested in when they visit. So yes as a setting we need to be inclusive....I think you will find most places and people are also inclusive.

Jesus you have real issues. You definitely need someone to come and read for you because you clearly can’t read yourself. "

Absolutely no need for that! I responded to your questions. It is not I with an issue

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away. "

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Very complicated subject that, far too complicated for the fav forums. How much power do we give the state to teach children things without the parents consent/knowledge "

People seem to want the state to teach other peoples kids stuff because other parents don’t teach what they want taught, but opt out themselves because they don’t want the state telling them want to do with their own kids.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go..... "

That's meant to be a dig isn't it.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

That's meant to be a dig isn't it. "

No, but if it landed with you then it landed with you for a reason. Like I said earlier I just reply to your comments. Nothing deeper than that...

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature."

Sometimes, but asking if I should have another coffee is rhetorical, but certainly doesn’t challenge anyone lol

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

That's meant to be a dig isn't it.

No, but if it landed with you then it landed with you for a reason. Like I said earlier I just reply to your comments. Nothing deeper than that..."

You've hurt my feelings

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

That's meant to be a dig isn't it.

No, but if it landed with you then it landed with you for a reason. Like I said earlier I just reply to your comments. Nothing deeper than that...

You've hurt my feelings "

Unfortunately your feelings are not my responsibility. Could ask yourself a rhetorical question, as to why?.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

That's meant to be a dig isn't it.

No, but if it landed with you then it landed with you for a reason. Like I said earlier I just reply to your comments. Nothing deeper than that...

You've hurt my feelings

Unfortunately your feelings are not my responsibility. Could ask yourself a rhetorical question, as to why?. "

... Because you are intellectually superior to I, I now feel inferior

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little

So how did you get the assumption I wanted to talk to my children about gender reassignment from one word?

'This' meaning I would love someone to come and read a story to my Nursery Children....nothing more nothing less. Stop looking for issues when there really isn't

And the word inclusive is very much a word Ofsted is interested in when they visit. So yes as a setting we need to be inclusive....I think you will find most places and people are also inclusive.

Jesus you have real issues. You definitely need someone to come and read for you because you clearly can’t read yourself.

Absolutely no need for that! I responded to your questions. It is not I with an issue "

There was clearly a need. I asked you a simple question. You went off on one. I clarified what I meant in case there was confusion. You went off on one.

There was clearly no confusion.

You either just wanted to be argumentative or you didn’t or couldn’t read what I said. I gave you the benefit of the doubt about being ignorant which left an inability to read. If you’re confirming it’s the other option, so be it.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little

So how did you get the assumption I wanted to talk to my children about gender reassignment from one word?

'This' meaning I would love someone to come and read a story to my Nursery Children....nothing more nothing less. Stop looking for issues when there really isn't

And the word inclusive is very much a word Ofsted is interested in when they visit. So yes as a setting we need to be inclusive....I think you will find most places and people are also inclusive.

Jesus you have real issues. You definitely need someone to come and read for you because you clearly can’t read yourself.

Absolutely no need for that! I responded to your questions. It is not I with an issue

There was clearly a need. I asked you a simple question. You went off on one. I clarified what I meant in case there was confusion. You went off on one.

There was clearly no confusion.

You either just wanted to be argumentative or you didn’t or couldn’t read what I said. I gave you the benefit of the doubt about being ignorant which left an inability to read. If you’re confirming it’s the other option, so be it. "

So be it, I like that.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

OP just wants to 'discuss' a made up notion about trans people reading stories to children, has no opinions of his own but 'heard' it's grooming.

*yawn*

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Certainly not grooming imo! Wish my daughter had this information at a young age! Maybe would have saved her alot of heartache growing up! Saved her from cutting her arms/contemplating suicide! Saved her turmoil when she didn't understand why she felt the way she did growing up! X

Totally agree, knoweldge is way more powerful than bigotted ignorance. Some of us lived through hell at school being bullied and called a sissy when I didn't even know what that was at 11. It took me until my 40's to disocover and be comfortable with what I am even though I still live happily as a male. "

That breaks me thinking of that! I so wish she had come to me with those feelings! Happy that u are comfortable with who u are now! All the best to u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trans people reading stories to kids, I no issues with.

Tory politicians though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or worse! A Daily Mail reader!

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"OP just wants to 'discuss' a made up notion about trans people reading stories to children, has no opinions of his own but 'heard' it's grooming.

*yawn*"

Thank you for your input

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little

So how did you get the assumption I wanted to talk to my children about gender reassignment from one word?

'This' meaning I would love someone to come and read a story to my Nursery Children....nothing more nothing less. Stop looking for issues when there really isn't

And the word inclusive is very much a word Ofsted is interested in when they visit. So yes as a setting we need to be inclusive....I think you will find most places and people are also inclusive.

Jesus you have real issues. You definitely need someone to come and read for you because you clearly can’t read yourself.

Absolutely no need for that! I responded to your questions. It is not I with an issue

There was clearly a need. I asked you a simple question. You went off on one. I clarified what I meant in case there was confusion. You went off on one.

There was clearly no confusion.

You either just wanted to be argumentative or you didn’t or couldn’t read what I said. I gave you the benefit of the doubt about being ignorant which left an inability to read. If you’re confirming it’s the other option, so be it. "

How did I go 'off on one' I answered the questions you asked me.

Now you are just being obnoxious and abusive, I've said nothing out of turn to you....Absolutely no need for it. You obviously can't engage rationally in a discussion like an adult so I'm not responding to you further. Between your views on this thread and your other gem of a thread tells me all I need to know.

Good day to you

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Trans people reading stories to kids, I no issues with.

Tory politicians though..."

I hope you've signed the petition then for an immediate general election?

Petition

Call an immediate general election

The Prime Minister should call an immediate general election to allow the British public to have their say on how we are governed, we should not be made to wait until January 2025

More detailsSign this petition

263,428 signatures

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"OP just wants to 'discuss' a made up notion about trans people reading stories to children, has no opinions of his own but 'heard' it's grooming.

*yawn*

Thank you for your input "

Oh it wasn't for you.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"OP just wants to 'discuss' a made up notion about trans people reading stories to children, has no opinions of his own but 'heard' it's grooming.

*yawn*"

I have some rhetoric in the form of a song rolling around in my head. No idea where it's come from...

And who the cap fit let them wear it!

Who the cap fit let them wear it!

And then a-gonna throw me corn (throw me corn)

And then a-gonna call no fowl (call no fowl)

And then a-gonna "Cook-cook-cook" (cook-cook-cook) yeah

"Cluck-cluck-cluck" (cluck-cluck-cluck)

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"OP just wants to 'discuss' a made up notion about trans people reading stories to children, has no opinions of his own but 'heard' it's grooming.

*yawn*

Thank you for your input

Oh it wasn't for you."

Now I'm disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trans people reading stories to kids, I no issues with.

Tory politicians though...

I hope you've signed the petition then for an immediate general election?

Petition

Call an immediate general election

The Prime Minister should call an immediate general election to allow the British public to have their say on how we are governed, we should not be made to wait until January 2025

More detailsSign this petition

263,428 signatures"

Too right I have. Little Rishi who couldnt beat Liz to the post running the country? Another 5 years of this utter Tory bullshit. No ta

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"OP just wants to 'discuss' a made up notion about trans people reading stories to children, has no opinions of his own but 'heard' it's grooming.

*yawn*

Thank you for your input

Oh it wasn't for you.

Now I'm disappointed "

I doubt it.

Judging by your response time this is you living your best life.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"I’m so confused but it smells like transphobia. Waiting for confirmation. We might need a VAR check. "

If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck then it's probably a duck x

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little

So how did you get the assumption I wanted to talk to my children about gender reassignment from one word?

'This' meaning I would love someone to come and read a story to my Nursery Children....nothing more nothing less. Stop looking for issues when there really isn't

And the word inclusive is very much a word Ofsted is interested in when they visit. So yes as a setting we need to be inclusive....I think you will find most places and people are also inclusive.

Jesus you have real issues. You definitely need someone to come and read for you because you clearly can’t read yourself.

Absolutely no need for that! I responded to your questions. It is not I with an issue

There was clearly a need. I asked you a simple question. You went off on one. I clarified what I meant in case there was confusion. You went off on one.

There was clearly no confusion.

You either just wanted to be argumentative or you didn’t or couldn’t read what I said. I gave you the benefit of the doubt about being ignorant which left an inability to read. If you’re confirming it’s the other option, so be it.

How did I go 'off on one' I answered the questions you asked me.

Now you are just being obnoxious and abusive, I've said nothing out of turn to you....Absolutely no need for it. You obviously can't engage rationally in a discussion like an adult so I'm not responding to you further. Between your views on this thread and your other gem of a thread tells me all I need to know.

Good day to you "

Calm down now, everybody should be rational here... Peace be with you

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"OP just wants to 'discuss' a made up notion about trans people reading stories to children, has no opinions of his own but 'heard' it's grooming.

*yawn*

Thank you for your input

Oh it wasn't for you.

Now I'm disappointed

I doubt it.

Judging by your response time this is you living your best life."

Living the dream my friend, living the dream!

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"Trans story Time for young children?

It's incredible isn't it? What an amazing way to teach your children about diversity, inclusively and acceptance as well as using it as an opportunity to celebrate each other and our differences

As a Nursery teacher I would love this and so would my Children!

Can I just clarify what you’re saying. Are you saying you want to talk about transgender to a 3yo?

Absolutely not! Where did I say that???

You can teach acceptance, diversity and inclusion without going into dynamics....

Did you never go to the theatre as a child! Pantomime dames etc etc. How is it any different to that! The pantomime dame didn't stand on a stage spouting off about transgender did they!!

I didn’t say you’d said anything. I asked you to clarify what you were saying as it was a little ambiguous.

You said “as a nursery teacher (which is 3-4yo) you would love this”. So I just wanted to know what “this” was.

And no I never went to the theatre as a child. I think my first visit was a panto at the age of about 17-18. Took a couple of my kids to see the Scottish play when they were about 13 cos they were doing it at school.

Theatre is not something that’s every really appealed to me. But I don’t think a bloke dressing up as a woman to play a female role in a play (or the reverse) for a big fat chunk of money is the same as transgender.

Inclusiveness is one of those buzz words that people love to use to try and make people who they feel are not being inclusive, feel bad. See I don’t think that’s very inclusive. But I’m going off topic a little

So how did you get the assumption I wanted to talk to my children about gender reassignment from one word?

'This' meaning I would love someone to come and read a story to my Nursery Children....nothing more nothing less. Stop looking for issues when there really isn't

And the word inclusive is very much a word Ofsted is interested in when they visit. So yes as a setting we need to be inclusive....I think you will find most places and people are also inclusive.

Jesus you have real issues. You definitely need someone to come and read for you because you clearly can’t read yourself.

Absolutely no need for that! I responded to your questions. It is not I with an issue

There was clearly a need. I asked you a simple question. You went off on one. I clarified what I meant in case there was confusion. You went off on one.

There was clearly no confusion.

You either just wanted to be argumentative or you didn’t or couldn’t read what I said. I gave you the benefit of the doubt about being ignorant which left an inability to read. If you’re confirming it’s the other option, so be it.

How did I go 'off on one' I answered the questions you asked me.

Now you are just being obnoxious and abusive, I've said nothing out of turn to you....Absolutely no need for it. You obviously can't engage rationally in a discussion like an adult so I'm not responding to you further. Between your views on this thread and your other gem of a thread tells me all I need to know.

Good day to you "

Thank you, I feel much better about myself now. And I bet you do to

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"I’m so confused but it smells like transphobia. Waiting for confirmation. We might need a VAR check.

If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck then it's probably a duck x "

What's that song?

Walk Like a Man / Frankie Valli

Ooh-wee-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh-wee

Walk, walk, walk, walk

Ooh-wee-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh

Walk like a man

Oh, how you tried to cut me down to size

Tellin' dirty lies to my friends (ooh-ah, ooh-ah, ooh-ah, ooh)

But my own father said give her up, don't bother

The world isn't comin' to an end

(He said)

Walk like a man, talk like a man

Walk like a man, my son

No woman's worth crawlin' on the earth

So walk like a man, my son

Oh wee ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh-wee-ooh

Walk, walk, walk, walk

Ooh-wee-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh

Bye, baby, I don't-a mean maybe

Gonna get along somehow (ooh-ah, ooh-ah, ooh-ah, ooh)

Soon you'll be cryin' on account of all your lyin'

Oh yeah, just look who's laughin' now

(I'm gonna)

Walk like a man, fast as I can

Walk like a man from you

I'll tell the world, forget about it, girl

And walk like a man from you

Ooh-wee-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh-wee-ooh

Walk, walk, walk, walk

Ooh-wee-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh

Walk, walk, walk, walk

Walk, walk, walk, walk

Ooh-wee-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh-wee-ooh

Source: LyricFind

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

That's meant to be a dig isn't it.

No, but if it landed with you then it landed with you for a reason. Like I said earlier I just reply to your comments. Nothing deeper than that...

You've hurt my feelings

Unfortunately your feelings are not my responsibility. Could ask yourself a rhetorical question, as to why?.

... Because you are intellectually superior to I, I now feel inferior "

If that's you're perspective, then that's for you to deal with

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Developing literacy skills and gender diversity understanding, etc. What's not to love!

Ignorance and bigotry are best avoided. I'll read for anyone

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

That's meant to be a dig isn't it.

No, but if it landed with you then it landed with you for a reason. Like I said earlier I just reply to your comments. Nothing deeper than that...

You've hurt my feelings

Unfortunately your feelings are not my responsibility. Could ask yourself a rhetorical question, as to why?.

... Because you are intellectually superior to I, I now feel inferior

If that's you're perspective, then that's for you to deal with "

I've now learnt -

Try To Avoid Direct Confrontation. ...

Reiterate Your Need For Action Over Promises. ...

Maintain Boundaries. ...

Remind Yourself That You Are Not To Blame. ...

Don't Accept Their Behavior. ...

Acknowledge When You Need Professional Help. ...

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

It's nice when inflammatory shit posting brings out the best in people and we can see that the bigot's really are tiny loud minorities.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

That's meant to be a dig isn't it.

No, but if it landed with you then it landed with you for a reason. Like I said earlier I just reply to your comments. Nothing deeper than that...

You've hurt my feelings

Unfortunately your feelings are not my responsibility. Could ask yourself a rhetorical question, as to why?.

... Because you are intellectually superior to I, I now feel inferior

If that's you're perspective, then that's for you to deal with

I've now learnt -

Try To Avoid Direct Confrontation. ...

Reiterate Your Need For Action Over Promises. ...

Maintain Boundaries. ...

Remind Yourself That You Are Not To Blame. ...

Don't Accept Their Behavior. ...

Acknowledge When You Need Professional Help. ..."

See there we go that's not such a hard lesson is it, we've both been teachers today, im glad I could be of assistance to you like you were me

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"It's nice when inflammatory shit posting brings out the best in people and we can see that the bigot's really are tiny loud minorities."

We must not leave out minorities.

We must be inclusive in our modern society.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

That's meant to be a dig isn't it.

No, but if it landed with you then it landed with you for a reason. Like I said earlier I just reply to your comments. Nothing deeper than that...

You've hurt my feelings

Unfortunately your feelings are not my responsibility. Could ask yourself a rhetorical question, as to why?.

... Because you are intellectually superior to I, I now feel inferior

If that's you're perspective, then that's for you to deal with

I've now learnt -

Try To Avoid Direct Confrontation. ...

Reiterate Your Need For Action Over Promises. ...

Maintain Boundaries. ...

Remind Yourself That You Are Not To Blame. ...

Don't Accept Their Behavior. ...

Acknowledge When You Need Professional Help. ...

See there we go that's not such a hard lesson is it, we've both been teachers today, im glad I could be of assistance to you like you were me "

Peace be with you my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh look its another Essex Tom. I guess there is no shortage of the type around.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Oh look its another Essex Tom. I guess there is no shortage of the type around."

Who are you?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk


"It's nice when inflammatory shit posting brings out the best in people and we can see that the bigot's really are tiny loud minorities.

We must not leave out minorities.

We must be inclusive in our modern society. "

Some people who spout about inclusion are not as inclusive as they try to make out.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"It's nice when inflammatory shit posting brings out the best in people and we can see that the bigot's really are tiny loud minorities.

We must not leave out minorities.

We must be inclusive in our modern society.

Some people who spout about inclusion are not as inclusive as they try to make out.

"

Now, now that is blasphemy

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Oh look its another Essex Tom. I guess there is no shortage of the type around."

What is the 'type'? Are you being a judgemental person essentially means thinking, speaking, or behaving in a manner that reflects a critical and condemnatory point of view. When we are judgmental we are critically nitpicking and finding fault with another person, group of people, idea, or situation.

Disgraceful

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You definitely seem to have a bee in your bonnet about this OP ?

No Busy Bees in my bonnet, I just asked what's it all about?

Any of the Trans community on Fab may be able to tell me the ethos behind it & clarify the misconceptions?

Challenge your own misconceptions, look into it for yourself, others views and opinions won't help you to clarify your misconceptions...

I've no misconception my brain is a blank canvass.

Well that's bollocks, we all have misconceptions, if you didn't why would you start a thread such as this, you're looking for something from it. And then make some of the comments you've made in response to people .

Just seeking truth. You're very judgmental & that's showing ignorance is a person, disgraceful

Responding to what you've said is not being judgemental, it's just that responding, I'd suggest before you start banding 'terminology' and rhetoric around really know what it is your talking about.

Rhetorical questions are a type of figurative language—they are questions that have another layer of meaning on top of their literal meaning. Because rhetorical questions challenge the listener, raise doubt, and help emphasize ideas, they appear often in songs and speeches, as well as in literature.

Where would I be without this lesson and knowledge that you've imparted on me today, that's right in exactly the same place, as I was already informed as to what a rhetorical question is, but more importantly the context to use them in, I use all sorts of questioning styles for my work, but again thanks....

You are very welcome

And yet your mind is completely blank when it comes to... What was it you were asking again? Sorry I'm a sod for checking my understanding. It's a good way of avoiding misconceptions - I find.

You want the trans community to educate you about the ethos and whether it's grooming?

I'm not sure what my take on it is.

Thats the drawbacks to a blank mind..

Have a look at the psychological concept of 'tabula rasa' and what it says!... just for shits n giggles or to humour me.

You can't keep away.

Unfortunately for you it's an open forum, where I waste vast amounts of my precious time, generally arguing with stupid, but there we go.....

That's meant to be a dig isn't it.

No, but if it landed with you then it landed with you for a reason. Like I said earlier I just reply to your comments. Nothing deeper than that...

You've hurt my feelings

Unfortunately your feelings are not my responsibility. Could ask yourself a rhetorical question, as to why?.

... Because you are intellectually superior to I, I now feel inferior

If that's you're perspective, then that's for you to deal with

I've now learnt -

Try To Avoid Direct Confrontation. ...

Reiterate Your Need For Action Over Promises. ...

Maintain Boundaries. ...

Remind Yourself That You Are Not To Blame. ...

Don't Accept Their Behavior. ...

Acknowledge When You Need Professional Help. ...

See there we go that's not such a hard lesson is it, we've both been teachers today, im glad I could be of assistance to you like you were me

Peace be with you my friend. "

In'shalla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's that all about? "

What’s the question?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Oh look its another Essex Tom. I guess there is no shortage of the type around.

What is the 'type'? Are you being a judgemental person essentially means thinking, speaking, or behaving in a manner that reflects a critical and condemnatory point of view. When we are judgmental we are critically nitpicking and finding fault with another person, group of people, idea, or situation.

Disgraceful "

The 'type' is someone posting right wing culture war talking points to stir shit, and pretending to be innocent when called out on it.

You're not fooling anyone.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"What's that all about?

What’s the question?"

You don't wanna know Fluffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's that all about?

What’s the question?

You don't wanna know Fluffy "

I do!

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

This and its sister thread, and a few others that pop up from time to time, is an excellent expose to the kind of intolerant and divisive society we all still live in. Thankfully we have made progress towards inclusion, just not enough yet and I am not just talking about this issue but many others that still divide. If I really cared about an issue and wanted to inform myself better, as to be honest there are lots of things I don't know, I would not start or pick an argument with strangers on the internet. I would hate to misjudge the audience who were clearly more informed than myself. However until I was well informed and made my own mind, I will just follow my principles of integrity and decency and remain very inclusive. On that note and as I hate to see this kind of provocative threads, I am out and happy never to know what else might be said on the thread. Off to start a cake thread as I really enjoy those.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Oh look its another Essex Tom. I guess there is no shortage of the type around.

What is the 'type'? Are you being a judgemental person essentially means thinking, speaking, or behaving in a manner that reflects a critical and condemnatory point of view. When we are judgmental we are critically nitpicking and finding fault with another person, group of people, idea, or situation.

Disgraceful

The 'type' is someone posting right wing culture war talking points to stir shit, and pretending to be innocent when called out on it.

You're not fooling anyone."

Harsh

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Oh look its another Essex Tom. I guess there is no shortage of the type around.

What is the 'type'? Are you being a judgemental person essentially means thinking, speaking, or behaving in a manner that reflects a critical and condemnatory point of view. When we are judgmental we are critically nitpicking and finding fault with another person, group of people, idea, or situation.

Disgraceful

The 'type' is someone posting right wing culture war talking points to stir shit, and pretending to be innocent when called out on it.

You're not fooling anyone.

Harsh "

Accurate

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Well this thread is a dumpster fire .

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Well this thread is a dumpster fire ."

As intended

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset


"Why not?

Do we want our future generations to be bigoted unaccepting narrow minded idiots?

If its not your thing then just walk away. that's the problem they can't walk away if a parent doesn't want their children to be taught about said subject there rights should be taken but some schools don't tell the parents so they can make a judgement.

Very complicated subject that, far too complicated for the fav forums. How much power do we give the state to teach children things without the parents consent/knowledge "

the state doesn’t give schools the power to teach their children anything without their knowledge. Schools have a statutory obligation to tell parents exactly what they are taught and when, including example course materials. It is literally enshrined in law they must tell parents. Parents can (and do) withdraw their children from the sex part. Children from some religious communities remove all their children. Weirdly after a presentation to parents a Somali women actually said to me, “Is that all there is? I thought it was all about changing boys into girls.” Some myths are widespread and enduring.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Well this thread is a dumpster fire .

As intended"

People are being very nasty & I only asked a question that was literally half a dozen words & people are twisting the thread & turning it into a witch hunt on moi, I'm a sensitive soul & can't take this treatment. Here's a reminder of forum rules everybody before I have a breakdown.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Why not?

Do we want our future generations to be bigoted unaccepting narrow minded idiots?

If its not your thing then just walk away. that's the problem they can't walk away if a parent doesn't want their children to be taught about said subject there rights should be taken but some schools don't tell the parents so they can make a judgement.

Very complicated subject that, far too complicated for the fav forums. How much power do we give the state to teach children things without the parents consent/knowledge the state doesn’t give schools the power to teach their children anything without their knowledge. Schools have a statutory obligation to tell parents exactly what they are taught and when, including example course materials. It is literally enshrined in law they must tell parents. Parents can (and do) withdraw their children from the sex part. Children from some religious communities remove all their children. Weirdly after a presentation to parents a Somali women actually said to me, “Is that all there is? I thought it was all about changing boys into girls.” Some myths are widespread and enduring."

I like this informative post.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

You seem nice OP.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this thread is a dumpster fire .

As intended

People are being very nasty & I only asked a question that was literally half a dozen words & people are twisting the thread & turning it into a witch hunt on moi, I'm a sensitive soul & can't take this treatment. Here's a reminder of forum rules everybody before I have a breakdown.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action"

But what was your question?

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Well this thread is a dumpster fire .

As intended

People are being very nasty & I only asked a question that was literally half a dozen words & people are twisting the thread & turning it into a witch hunt on moi, I'm a sensitive soul & can't take this treatment. Here's a reminder of forum rules everybody before I have a breakdown.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action

But what was your question?"

Trans story time, what's it all about.

That was it....

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Well this thread is a dumpster fire .

As intended

People are being very nasty & I only asked a question that was literally half a dozen words & people are twisting the thread & turning it into a witch hunt on moi, I'm a sensitive soul & can't take this treatment. Here's a reminder of forum rules everybody before I have a breakdown.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action"

If you're a sensitive soul, I'd suggest the forums aren't the place for you or for your mental health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this thread is a dumpster fire .

As intended

People are being very nasty & I only asked a question that was literally half a dozen words & people are twisting the thread & turning it into a witch hunt on moi, I'm a sensitive soul & can't take this treatment. Here's a reminder of forum rules everybody before I have a breakdown.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action

But what was your question?

Trans story time, what's it all about.

That was it.... "

Trans people reading books?

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Well this thread is a dumpster fire .

As intended

People are being very nasty & I only asked a question that was literally half a dozen words & people are twisting the thread & turning it into a witch hunt on moi, I'm a sensitive soul & can't take this treatment. Here's a reminder of forum rules everybody before I have a breakdown.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action"

Do the rules only apply to you then because you were happy to engage with your mate when they were being abusive to me

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people."

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental. "

Its about drag queens reding stories isnt it?

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Well this thread is a dumpster fire .

As intended

People are being very nasty & I only asked a question that was literally half a dozen words & people are twisting the thread & turning it into a witch hunt on moi, I'm a sensitive soul & can't take this treatment. Here's a reminder of forum rules everybody before I have a breakdown.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action

Do the rules only apply to you then because you were happy to engage with your mate when they were being abusive to me "

What are you talking about now? I've no "mates" on Fab?

I'm not responsible for other people's actions

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know. "

"Some say" it's insinuating.

I don't know.

J

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

Its about drag queens reding stories isnt it? "

Yes? What was all the fuss about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

Its about drag queens reding stories isnt it?

Yes? What was all the fuss about "

Beats me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

Its about drag queens reding stories isnt it? "

I reckon drag queens reading stories would be a shit ton more entertaining than middle aged white men doing it

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know.

"Some say" it's insinuating.

I don't know.

J"

We're in the same sinking boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have i seen 2 people spend so much time saying literally nothing to each other

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know.

"Some say" it's insinuating.

I don't know.

J

We're in the same sinking boat "

I don't think so

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Never have i seen 2 people spend so much time saying literally nothing to each other "

Fab is always a new experience for everyone.

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know.

"Some say" it's insinuating.

I don't know.

J

We're in the same sinking boat

I don't think so "

How come?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental. "

You literally said

"Some say it's grooming

I don't know."

There was an emoji too.

Our daughter (6) goes to school with a child who likes to wear clothing typically "belonging" to any gender. He likes to wear makeup for parties and sparkly jackets. Not one child in the class finds this unusual or a fact to question or tease him about. I know for a fact a child presenting like this when I was at primary school would most likely have experienced bullying, unfortunately. Children actually don't care about the gender identity of their friends. They don't care what they wear or what they do as a hobby etc. They just like the PERSON, the child.

My child would have zero issues or questions about a transgender person reading a story. She would likely admire the outfit of a drag queen and want to borrow their sequins.

It is adults who pass on their prejudice to children. The more children see that people are just people, the better the world will be.

And anyone connecting transgender people or drag queens with grooming are the ones who need help.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

You literally said

"Some say it's grooming

I don't know."

There was an emoji too.

Our daughter (6) goes to school with a child who likes to wear clothing typically "belonging" to any gender. He likes to wear makeup for parties and sparkly jackets. Not one child in the class finds this unusual or a fact to question or tease him about. I know for a fact a child presenting like this when I was at primary school would most likely have experienced bullying, unfortunately. Children actually don't care about the gender identity of their friends. They don't care what they wear or what they do as a hobby etc. They just like the PERSON, the child.

My child would have zero issues or questions about a transgender person reading a story. She would likely admire the outfit of a drag queen and want to borrow their sequins.

It is adults who pass on their prejudice to children. The more children see that people are just people, the better the world will be.

And anyone connecting transgender people or drag queens with grooming are the ones who need help. "

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

You literally said

"Some say it's grooming

I don't know."

There was an emoji too.

Our daughter (6) goes to school with a child who likes to wear clothing typically "belonging" to any gender. He likes to wear makeup for parties and sparkly jackets. Not one child in the class finds this unusual or a fact to question or tease him about. I know for a fact a child presenting like this when I was at primary school would most likely have experienced bullying, unfortunately. Children actually don't care about the gender identity of their friends. They don't care what they wear or what they do as a hobby etc. They just like the PERSON, the child.

My child would have zero issues or questions about a transgender person reading a story. She would likely admire the outfit of a drag queen and want to borrow their sequins.

It is adults who pass on their prejudice to children. The more children see that people are just people, the better the world will be.

And anyone connecting transgender people or drag queens with grooming are the ones who need help. "

Thanks for answering, much appreciated

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental. "

Did you miss the post about grooming above?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

You literally said

"Some say it's grooming

I don't know."

There was an emoji too.

Our daughter (6) goes to school with a child who likes to wear clothing typically "belonging" to any gender. He likes to wear makeup for parties and sparkly jackets. Not one child in the class finds this unusual or a fact to question or tease him about. I know for a fact a child presenting like this when I was at primary school would most likely have experienced bullying, unfortunately. Children actually don't care about the gender identity of their friends. They don't care what they wear or what they do as a hobby etc. They just like the PERSON, the child.

My child would have zero issues or questions about a transgender person reading a story. She would likely admire the outfit of a drag queen and want to borrow their sequins.

It is adults who pass on their prejudice to children. The more children see that people are just people, the better the world will be.

And anyone connecting transgender people or drag queens with grooming are the ones who need help. "

That's lovely to read! And yes it's adults who influence their children with their prejudice! X

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

Did you miss the post about grooming above?

"

The OP made that post!

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

Did you miss the post about grooming above?

"

My IQ is limited & I couldn't absorb the information in that post.

Postcards are the limit of my literature abilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know. "

Who says it’s grooming? How is it grooming?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

You literally said

"Some say it's grooming

I don't know."

There was an emoji too.

Our daughter (6) goes to school with a child who likes to wear clothing typically "belonging" to any gender. He likes to wear makeup for parties and sparkly jackets. Not one child in the class finds this unusual or a fact to question or tease him about. I know for a fact a child presenting like this when I was at primary school would most likely have experienced bullying, unfortunately. Children actually don't care about the gender identity of their friends. They don't care what they wear or what they do as a hobby etc. They just like the PERSON, the child.

My child would have zero issues or questions about a transgender person reading a story. She would likely admire the outfit of a drag queen and want to borrow their sequins.

It is adults who pass on their prejudice to children. The more children see that people are just people, the better the world will be.

And anyone connecting transgender people or drag queens with grooming are the ones who need help.

That's lovely to read! And yes it's adults who influence their children with their prejudice! X"

There are also two families who have same sex parents and again, zero issues or questions from the children. All are included in party invites and after school play dates etc etc. The families of all the children in the class are supportive and open minded (including towards my disability needs) and it's genuinely a lovely thing to see. It's sad that some people would read negatively into these things.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

Its about drag queens reding stories isnt it?

Yes? What was all the fuss about "

Did you know that drag queens and trans people are not the same thing?

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"One could argue the premise of your thread and insinuation of that they are grooming children is a personal attack on all trans people.

Trans story time,

What's that all about...

Where's the insinuation for grooming children?

That's very judgmental.

Did you miss the post about grooming above?

The OP made that post!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once upon a time ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once upon a time ..

"

.. The End?

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By *ick-Dastardly- OP   Man
over a year ago

A whole world of Shit.


"Some say it's grooming

I don't know.

Who says it’s grooming? How is it grooming?"

Certain media outlets & protesters?

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset


"

I reckon drag queens reading stories would be a shit ton more entertaining than middle aged white men doing it "

so much for diversity and inclusion. Is there a hierarchy of entertainment where middle aged white men come at the bottom? That’s Michael Rosen fucked! How many children do you think ever experience men of any colour reading to them. It’s not many. Children, especially boys whose reading tends to lag behind girls, need reading role models, not just inclusivity role models. I don’t care who reads to children as long as someone does.

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