FabSwingers.com forum: How you got into swinging

By *igglesss OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

Couples or singles of fab.

Curious how you approached the subject to swing and open up the relationship?

Was it out of curiosity or needing other peoples attention.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

We met online and talked for months before we met face to face it came up them, from that point on we decided that's what we'd do

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

An old Fwb, introduced me to the scene. Started going to clubs, then when the relationship fizzled I continued to go to clubs

Love the vibes

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I was listening old jazz, then voila.

There's another thread from today just like this, so I commented the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit down and have a adult conversation about open up the relationship is how I would do it presumably before it got serious or anything that way no feelings are hurt in the process ie attachment and stuff has set in

As for how I got in to swingeing in the first place told the story a million times but ok

I split with a ex and a guy at work who I use to talk to on brake if we took or breaks at the same time we had flexible breaks ie you can take it when you like was a swinger

Was telling him how I had split with here he gave me the old get on fab you be drowning in pussy by the weeks end so went home and joined up to find that was far from the truth even back then 14 years ago before fab became media sensationed and all that

I seen there was tv/ts here and before I meet my ex I had dabbled a bit but nothing to serious or meet anyone or anything like that

I seen a opportunity to explore this side off me while I was single so deleted man account went a little shopping after work and made a tv/ts account

And it just sort off snowballed from there in to what it is to day

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Knew I didn’t want a serious relationship again, I like my independence, but also have needs.

Around the time I was thinking this the concept of fwb hit the msm so I looked for a site that did that kinda thing. Didn’t get on great on it met one person then was chatting with another and while I wasn’t attracted to him, we got friendly chatting and he recommended fab.

Was very lucky that my early meets were lovely people quite experienced in swinging so a positive start, one of them introduced me to cjs too which I was surprised to find I liked a lot and I basically haven’t looked back since.

I’ve made some amazing friends through fab and swinging and can’t imagine giving it up, even though I’m now tentatively debating the idea of “proper” dating again, I think I would need to be with someone also into swinging or at the very least happy for me to continue, which is not easy to find is it ?

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

I was seduced by an American couple in Central London few years ago. They wanted me to show them places around the capital (and few other things giggles). They were very affectionate towards each other - young couple in their 30s. They've explained that they were a very adventurous couple who liked cruises, flying and travelling.

I was invited to their hotel a few times but always declined to stay the night - I had social anxiety issues. They had a massive family room at the Premier Inn. I accepted the offer one night and after watching a few movies the subject matter quickly changed to sex and sexuality. Hubby quickly established what he likes: a threesome, DP and DVP. She liked blindfolds and missionary. And before you know it they were getting it on right in front me which turned me on so much. My usual response to these situation was to run as fast as I can out of the room and in my car but I'm glad I stayed. I was a little intoxicated tbf.

Hubby blindfolded her, spread her legs apart and singled to me. I got on my knees and licked her soul out. I remember we fucked all night till the birds started chirping. He was fully involved in everything we did. It was one of the best nights of my life full of wonderful experiences and magic moments. A new way of life began for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wine, I seem, to recall.

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare

Random conversation on a night out with a stranger about swingers clubs, visited one, wasn't keen, they said I might prefer this site, still here 2 years later, and now enjoy clubs, just not that one

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We were a poly couple but found we didn't have the time or emotional energy to out into separate relationships and chose to consider something more casual that could suit high sex drives and an enjoyment of exploring kink with others.

We landed on swing as it felt like a natural progression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started out as role play in the bedroom and progressed from there!

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

My husbands need to see me with another man, and luckily I love it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The conversation actually started a few years before we joined here. I was very ill and unable to have sex without extreme pain so I told my husband he had my permission to go and meet other people to satisfy his needs.

Then a few years later once I was better we were talking how we would feel about involving someone else in our relationship for sex. Then we joined here. And here we are.

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By *igglesss OP Man
over a year ago

bradford

That’s fair.

Never knew how you would even approach the topic

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Got a push...

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

My exe got me involved. She had started swinging before I ever did. However we broke up and she recommended Fab as way to get over her. It was shit advice that ignored that her experience as a female would be different to my experience as a man.

But in still here and I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drove 130 miles to Adam and Eve's in Manchester - certain I'd be disappointed.

I wasn't

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

130 mike's seems crazy. Although a lot happens generally in the northwest it seems.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The fantasy talk came up & here we are.

Mrs

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Two nun's and a priest

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

We met at a swinging club 5 years ago as two singles.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"We met at a swinging club 5 years ago as two singles. "

This is actually pretty cute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A much older boyfriend introduced me to bdsm when I was 21 and I met swingers through that

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

Couple of accidental threesomes at University, a visit to Rios in the late 90s thinking it was just a health spa,, and then an accidental visit go a swinging club in Paris....

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Couple of accidental threesomes at University, a visit to Rios in the late 90s thinking it was just a health spa,, and then an accidental visit go a swinging club in Paris...."

Which club in Paris did you go to.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

It was call 'Club Escapade' in the Rue de Regrattier - an Aussie who i worked with told me it was a sexy bar - i was checking it out ahead of a stag trip i was organising as Best Man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a very few men in my life. I was with my ex boyfriend 9 years, with hubby 12 years and naturally somehow "mid age crisis " hit me in all aspects.

One of the questions was is this the end? Will i die having only a few cocks? Boredom as well...

I wanted to explore other men, to taste their different smell, taste, body, to be charged differently, to feel that new energy, but surely at the same time I want to keep my family in place.

So after brutally honest conversation with my hubby we made a research about swinging, what is the danger of doing that. I am truly blessed that my husband understood my needs, he heard my soul. So we decided to try and it worked!

We are still new, but our experiences are very positive. Our life became so vibrant! The most important thing is to choose the right people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mid fuck conversation that spiralled out of control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a d*unken threesome and loved it

That was the start.. x

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Came across this site a few years ago, we put a few pictures of us on here.

About 2 years ago I said to the wife about I'd like to have another M join us, she originally said no but then came round to the idea saying she'll try it once as she wasn't sure it was for her n that the thought of an MFM as a fantasy would be better then a real life meet n there would be jealousy, had first, no jealousy n we both loved it n felt it brought us closer together.

Had a few more meet with different people n still loving it.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Totally by accident…..

d*unken night at home with a female friend which led onto lots of fun

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By *ony 2016Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield /derby cinemas

As a single voyeur , started for me with dogging then visiting the adult cinemas

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

By accident. At a social. I was hooked

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

During sex she was so responsive to my suggestions of her having another cock but afterwards she wasn't responsive to the idea so I set it up with a guy I had been chatting to. I had it all worked out and set boundaries with the guy, it was his first mfm too. After meeting him in a wine bar close to him on the pretence he had some software for me he invited us back to his. We had wine and after messing on his PC I suggested we watch a dvd. He put an erotic movie on, she was fine and laughing with us. I sat next to her and slowly run my hand up her dress and started playing with her pussy, she was soaking and opened her legs wider. I gave him the nod and he got behind her and started to massage her neck, she was fine and was saying that she was loving it. Again I gave him the nod, all agreed prior, he slipped his hands down the front of her dress and started massaging her tits and to my surprise she reached around and unzipped his pants and pulled his cock out and started giving him a blow job. We slowly started to get undressed and she pulled him on top of her. I guided his cock into her pussy, she was loving it we then spit roasted her it was mind blowing. Afterwards she said she really enjoyed our time and was worried that I was OK with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"130 mike's seems crazy. Although a lot happens generally in the northwest it seems."

Yes, but hormones are a powerful incentive!

Happened more than once too

(Miles, not 'Mikes')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a very few men in my life. I was with my ex boyfriend 9 years, with hubby 12 years and naturally somehow "mid age crisis " hit me in all aspects.

One of the questions was is this the end? Will i die having only a few cocks? Boredom as well...

I wanted to explore other men, to taste their different smell, taste, body, to be charged differently, to feel that new energy, but surely at the same time I want to keep my family in place.

We are still new, but our experiences are very positive. Our life became so vibrant! The most important thing is to choose the right people."

SO sexy when the woman inititates the adventure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got divorced and just wanted NSA fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was having fun with a married guy I know and he recommend I join here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t

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