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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land

Not confidence in the way you look, that's something we discuss a lot on the forum.

I want to know something that you are confident at doing. Be that parallel parking, swimming, making an awesome souffle etc. Whatever it is what's that thing you're confident at doing.

Extra bonus point questions. Do you realise you're confident at these things? Or are they so ingrained in you you kind of forget? Do you think others recognise your confidence?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Hmm.

Sucking dick and making the numbers dance

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Confident in my job, with my driving and my Yorkshire pudding making skills. I also make a mean pancake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confident in my driving skills!

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I am confident in my cooking skills, my gardening skills, my understanding of maths and technology, my ability to read maps, my ability to “read” people.

I am also darn good at the sex thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"Not confidence in the way you look, that's something we discuss a lot on the forum.

I want to know something that you are confident at doing. Be that parallel parking, swimming, making an awesome souffle etc. Whatever it is what's that thing you're confident at doing.

Extra bonus point questions. Do you realise you're confident at these things? Or are they so ingrained in you you kind of forget? Do you think others recognise your confidence? "

I’m seriously good at parallel parking. It’s like an art form for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident in my coffee making abilities and pretty sure I can always brew a good cup. I'm also confident when it comes to cleaning around the house and keeping it tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m confident in my driving abilities and very confident in my cooking a roast abilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baking, I’m ace at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m confident in most things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photography just not when the cameras pointed at me

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

I'd also say driving

Mr

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm quite good at making feel at ease. I also give quite good hugs I think.

I realise now that statement does not overflow with confidence. So I'm pretty confident that I'm not good at being confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite good at making feel at ease. I also give quite good hugs I think.

I realise now that statement does not overflow with confidence. So I'm pretty confident that I'm not good at being confident "

May I test your hugging skills

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I’m confident in my driving abilities and very confident in my cooking a roast abilities "

Hold on. Are you me?

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I suppose I didn't realise I was confident at things until I saw an average person struggle.

I wouldn't give a moments thought to canoeing white water, doing a 10k or travelling alone. But the idea of driving a car or going in a classroom fills me with dread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Riding motorbikes, it's my life's passion and I'm acutely aware at how skilled I am at riding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confident in my job, I am good at it and very comfortable in my role.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm confident at parallel parking. I can slot my estate car into the tightest of spaces and it's all using one hand to steer and controlling the clutch with my middle finger.

I'm confident at my job, I know that's evident to people.

I'm confident in most settings to be honest. My lack of confidence is in my appearance mainly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Writing. I’m very, very good at writing fluently, intelligently and with feeling. I know I can make a scene come alive with words.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Confident in myself.

I can do anything without help.

Well, except sex.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"I’m confident in most things "

Especially that bathroom!

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Im confident in my cooking and leading a team of chefs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m confident in most things

Especially that bathroom! "

Fuck yeah that bathroom is the peak of confidence!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"I’m confident in most things

Especially that bathroom!

Fuck yeah that bathroom is the peak of confidence!"

That is actually true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident at work. I think others recognise it too which is lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm freaking awesome at my job and I know I'm actually cleverer than most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m confident with my job- makeup artistry and teaching it to others. It’s something I’m so passionate about, and I could talk about for hours.

I’m also confident that I make the best vegan rocky road ever.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I’ve never been confident in work, really. I, do, however, feel confident when speaking in front of others, which is a significant element of it.

I also have a hobby, which has turned into a “side-hustle”. Again, it involves being creative and performing for people (no, it’s not Only Fans!). For some reason, I’m really confident in what I do with that, to the point of not caring if people don’t like it.

That’s never been me really, and it a bit of a revelation to feel that way .

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I'm very confident in my goals whatever they are

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

I'm good at handling my sheep and lambing my ewes

Mrs M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drink wine very, very confidently.

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm confident in my cooking and being able to pull a perfect pint..

Also in mt ability to giving people advice and being a nice person.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Reversing down Country lanes with a tractor breathing down my neck.

Reverse parking.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm confident in my career, I worked hard and have good knowledge.

I'm also confident that I can remember random cheesy 90's pop songs word for word

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing tennis and cricket.

Cooking a plantain and chickpea curry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm like weirdly good at golf haha

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Speaking in public to groups of people. I didn't realise how much lots of people hate this until relatively recently.

Mrs TMN x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Stunningly confident about being modest.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’m confident in my cooking skills. I was confident in my job - starting a new one next month, so we’ll see….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making Toast..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say I'm overly confident but I keep getting pay rises so I must be doing something right.

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"Not confidence in the way you look, that's something we discuss a lot on the forum.

I want to know something that you are confident at doing. Be that parallel parking, swimming, making an awesome souffle etc. Whatever it is what's that thing you're confident at doing.

Extra bonus point questions. Do you realise you're confident at these things? Or are they so ingrained in you you kind of forget? Do you think others recognise your confidence? "

This is going to sound somewhat paradoxical, but….. I’m my work I often suffer imposter syndrome and find myself doubting. However, if I take a deep breath I know I am bloody good at what I do, am at the top of my game and give inward the best advice they’re going to find in my field of work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident that I'm ridiculously good at getting things wrong and fucking up.

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By *heitaliandreamerMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Eating a pussy is my speciality

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I drink wine very, very confidently. "

Down in one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m confident in my own self, whether or not people like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am confident in my ability to lead others, cooking, travelling, organising, planning, public speaking, and researching.

I do realise I’m confident at some of these thing; however, some are so ingrained in me I kind of forget. I do know others recognise my confidence as they are often comments or praise I receive.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Fighting

Mathematics

Scuba diving

Photography

3d printing

Wood working / metal bashing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident in my football ability and swimming ability. Maybe even my video game ability depending on the game.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley


"Not confidence in the way you look, that's something we discuss a lot on the forum.

I want to know something that you are confident at doing. Be that parallel parking, swimming, making an awesome souffle etc. Whatever it is what's that thing you're confident at doing.

Extra bonus point questions. Do you realise you're confident at these things? Or are they so ingrained in you you kind of forget? Do you think others recognise your confidence? "

Planning ( key skill in my job) and making the best Yorkshire Puddings. I am aware of my confidence in both and others have occasionally commented.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"Not confidence in the way you look, that's something we discuss a lot on the forum.

I want to know something that you are confident at doing. Be that parallel parking, swimming, making an awesome souffle etc. Whatever it is what's that thing you're confident at doing.

Extra bonus point questions. Do you realise you're confident at these things? Or are they so ingrained in you you kind of forget? Do you think others recognise your confidence? "

Black and white hyperrealism pencil drawings. Give me any texture and ill make it come alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking in public to groups of people. I didn't realise how much lots of people hate this until relatively recently.

Mrs TMN x"

Omg this. I love public speaking but so many people hate it

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Speaking in public to groups of people. I didn't realise how much lots of people hate this until relatively recently.

Mrs TMN x

Omg this. I love public speaking but so many people hate it"

Guess I like playing to an audience. Huh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking in public to groups of people. I didn't realise how much lots of people hate this until relatively recently.

Mrs TMN x

Omg this. I love public speaking but so many people hate it

Guess I like playing to an audience. Huh. "

Yes. You like group sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing tennis and cricket.

Cooking a plantain and chickpea curry. "

I didn't know you played cricket Pickle!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Speaking in public to groups of people. I didn't realise how much lots of people hate this until relatively recently.

Mrs TMN x

Omg this. I love public speaking but so many people hate it

Guess I like playing to an audience. Huh.

Yes. You like group sex. "

Shhhh, keep it quiet! Honestly, this is what sparks The Gossip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m confident I can make a very cheap steak taste amazing and very expense steak sublime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing tennis and cricket.

Cooking a plantain and chickpea curry.

I didn't know you played cricket Pickle!"

Surely you’re joking? I feel like we discussed in various cricket threads over the summer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking in public to groups of people. I didn't realise how much lots of people hate this until relatively recently.

Mrs TMN x

Omg this. I love public speaking but so many people hate it

Guess I like playing to an audience. Huh.

Yes. You like group sex.

Shhhh, keep it quiet! Honestly, this is what sparks The Gossip "

Ok babe.

Gossip girl xoxo

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am absolutely confident I could be late for work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing tennis and cricket.

Cooking a plantain and chickpea curry.

I didn't know you played cricket Pickle!

Surely you’re joking? I feel like we discussed in various cricket threads over the summer!"

I knew you were into it but either you playing wasn't brought up or I forgot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing tennis and cricket.

Cooking a plantain and chickpea curry.

I didn't know you played cricket Pickle!

Surely you’re joking? I feel like we discussed in various cricket threads over the summer!

I knew you were into it but either you playing wasn't brought up or I forgot "

Omg yes! I’m actually planning to join a club in January. Gonna go to winter nets

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm confident in my ability to appear confident.

Everything else I overthink way too much.

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land

Thank you all, for contributing to the thread. I think we all have skills that we tend to forget now and again.

I'm very jealous of those who can parallel park I'm absolutely rubbish at it.

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"I'm confident in my ability to appear confident.

Everything else I overthink way too much."

You are a good listener Posh, that is a skill not many actually have I find. You definitely should be confident in your ability in this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parking and manoeuvres- I can put anything anywhere! People have commented on it.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Confident in most things be that presenting to lots of people or other random shit.

Also pretty good at bluffing so that tends to fill the gaps neatly.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Cooking, baking, crochet and I was a very good butcher

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Mediocre at many things, excel at a few and them I enjoy most. Mediocre things I enjoy when I try to excel at them.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Confident in most things I do , even if I’m not great or the best , I’m realistic not nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Playing tennis and cricket.

Cooking a plantain and chickpea curry.

I didn't know you played cricket Pickle!

Surely you’re joking? I feel like we discussed in various cricket threads over the summer!

I knew you were into it but either you playing wasn't brought up or I forgot

Omg yes! I’m actually planning to join a club in January. Gonna go to winter nets "

Nice! Enjoy and good luck!

I really miss playing now

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Hitting a 2 iron into a front to back sloping green with bunkers at the front and water at the back from 240 yards out.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm confident in my ability with words. Not confident enough to write a blog entry that's not anonymous but I'm confident in my ability to use language fairly well.

I think it's more that I have a passion for language, the myriad of ways we can convey a sentiment, depict a scene accurately. The power they can hold. The silliness, the lust. I love language so perhaps that's where my confidence comes from.

I was going to write something far smuttier but saw the time and thought nope. Not yet Meli.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm confident in my parenting ability and I was a good teacher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confident women are very very very attractive

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Confident women are very very very attractive "

All of them?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confident women are very very very attractive

All of them?! "

Obviously there's a difference between confidence and arrogance which becomes annoying and off putting but I'd say yes, confident woman who knows what she wants and is comfortable in her own skin is super attractive imo

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