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"Context is everything I'm not entirely truthful with people on places like this " It’s true. She be telling me sweet little lies all the time. | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. " ,, santa is real | |||
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"I find little white lies more annoying. I lose all respect for people who lie to me. " I am the same, for some reason I find the little white lies annoy me more. I definitely then look at the person in a different light | |||
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"Lying is only ok if it benefits you personally. Otherwise what’s the point " So by that way of thinking if it benefits you personally it ok but what if it hurts someone to allow that? | |||
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"I find little white lies more annoying. I lose all respect for people who lie to me. I am the same, for some reason I find the little white lies annoy me more. I definitely then look at the person in a different light" Yes, little lies which were never needed annoy m the most because why lie about such trivial things, says a lot about a persons character | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. " So this got me thinking, as much as it’s magical telling our kids Santa, the tooth fairy the Easter bunny ect are real are we then teaching them small lies are ok as long as it makes people happy? | |||
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"I find little white lies more annoying. I lose all respect for people who lie to me. I am the same, for some reason I find the little white lies annoy me more. I definitely then look at the person in a different light" Totally. It’s insulting, | |||
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"We all lie all of the time. " I was lying then. | |||
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"We all lie all of the time. I was lying then. " , Caught! You were definitely lying right then. Before you just may have been lying! pt | |||
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"For me, no. If something would be hurtful and bring no benefit, I'd avoid vomiting unnecessary truth. But if it was relevant to someone making an informed choice, then it should be said. I understand the little white lies, and I'll often draw focus to a positive rather than directly answer a question where my honest opinion is negative but irrelevant. But I just don't agree with lying for the most part." Agree | |||
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"For me, no. If something would be hurtful and bring no benefit, I'd avoid vomiting unnecessary truth. But if it was relevant to someone making an informed choice, then it should be said. I understand the little white lies, and I'll often draw focus to a positive rather than directly answer a question where my honest opinion is negative but irrelevant. But I just don't agree with lying for the most part. Agree" Oh yes, I like that description it's really quite comprehensive. | |||
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"Yes, lying is ok. Everyone does it even if they believe they don't. Nobody is 100% truthful Saying "I'm fine" when someone asks how you are, even though you're not is a lie. " What if by 'fine' you allude to that harrowingly thin line between 'getting by' and utterly debilitating despair lol. pt | |||
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"Yes, lying is ok. Everyone does it even if they believe they don't. Nobody is 100% truthful Saying "I'm fine" when someone asks how you are, even though you're not is a lie. What if by 'fine' you allude to that harrowingly thin line between 'getting by' and utterly debilitating despair lol. pt" Nice to see you back btw (if you were away) pt | |||
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"Yes, lying is ok. Everyone does it even if they believe they don't. Nobody is 100% truthful Saying "I'm fine" when someone asks how you are, even though you're not is a lie. What if by 'fine' you allude to that harrowingly thin line between 'getting by' and utterly debilitating despair lol. pt Nice to see you back btw (if you were away) pt" Thank you, we were away . Truth | |||
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"It’s never ok Being honest and truthful is the only policy " This every time | |||
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"Yes, lying is ok. Everyone does it even if they believe they don't. Nobody is 100% truthful Saying "I'm fine" when someone asks how you are, even though you're not is a lie. What if by 'fine' you allude to that harrowingly thin line between 'getting by' and utterly debilitating despair lol. pt Nice to see you back btw (if you were away) pt Thank you, we were away . Truth " Unrelated to the post but I had a dream about you. You were teaching me how to make cucumber chutney. I’m not sure if cucumber chutney is a real thing or what my mental state was when I went to sleep that night but there you were. | |||
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"Yes, lying is ok. Everyone does it even if they believe they don't. Nobody is 100% truthful Saying "I'm fine" when someone asks how you are, even though you're not is a lie. What if by 'fine' you allude to that harrowingly thin line between 'getting by' and utterly debilitating despair lol. pt Nice to see you back btw (if you were away) pt Thank you, we were away . Truth Unrelated to the post but I had a dream about you. You were teaching me how to make cucumber chutney. I’m not sure if cucumber chutney is a real thing or what my mental state was when I went to sleep that night but there you were. " . The way our subconscious works . I was talking about making jam a while back, maybe that triggered it | |||
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"Yes, lying is ok. Everyone does it even if they believe they don't. Nobody is 100% truthful Saying "I'm fine" when someone asks how you are, even though you're not is a lie. What if by 'fine' you allude to that harrowingly thin line between 'getting by' and utterly debilitating despair lol. pt Nice to see you back btw (if you were away) pt Thank you, we were away . Truth " I'm not going to question a mod lol pt (who need to take their breaks!) | |||
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"If you don't lie, you'll never get caught out. But if course you probably won't have a lot of friends either, because the truth often hurts that (amongst other reasons) is why most people tell a lie, to spare someone's feelings. "That lipstick looks the same colour as that clowns we saw last year at the circus" or "no not your shade" "She wasn't in your league mate, better off without her" or "she was way to good for you, you'd just disappoint her" "God your so tight" or "this is like throwing a sausage up a ginnel" " I'd rather hear the clowns for the first. The second is fine in terms of rephrasing to me. The third, why outright lie instead of comment on something like how wet she is or some other positive, rather than lie about something that simply isn't true though? | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. So this got me thinking, as much as it’s magical telling our kids Santa, the tooth fairy the Easter bunny ect are real are we then teaching them small lies are ok as long as it makes people happy? " That’s how I see it. Which is why I don’t want to tell my daughter Santa is real and if she asks me I won’t lie. | |||
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"Everything depends on context. Even big lies can be justified in the right context. In my humble opinion of course " This | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. So this got me thinking, as much as it’s magical telling our kids Santa, the tooth fairy the Easter bunny ect are real are we then teaching them small lies are ok as long as it makes people happy? That’s how I see it. Which is why I don’t want to tell my daughter Santa is real and if she asks me I won’t lie. " I’ve always said Well I believe and I get presents. | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. So this got me thinking, as much as it’s magical telling our kids Santa, the tooth fairy the Easter bunny ect are real are we then teaching them small lies are ok as long as it makes people happy? That’s how I see it. Which is why I don’t want to tell my daughter Santa is real and if she asks me I won’t lie. I’ve always said Well I believe and I get presents. " Surprised you’re on the good list Nora | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. So this got me thinking, as much as it’s magical telling our kids Santa, the tooth fairy the Easter bunny ect are real are we then teaching them small lies are ok as long as it makes people happy? That’s how I see it. Which is why I don’t want to tell my daughter Santa is real and if she asks me I won’t lie. I’ve always said Well I believe and I get presents. Surprised you’re on the good list Nora " . He likes me I always leave him alcohol instead of milk | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. So this got me thinking, as much as it’s magical telling our kids Santa, the tooth fairy the Easter bunny ect are real are we then teaching them small lies are ok as long as it makes people happy? That’s how I see it. Which is why I don’t want to tell my daughter Santa is real and if she asks me I won’t lie. " Don't ruin the magic of Christmas for her too early | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. So this got me thinking, as much as it’s magical telling our kids Santa, the tooth fairy the Easter bunny ect are real are we then teaching them small lies are ok as long as it makes people happy? That’s how I see it. Which is why I don’t want to tell my daughter Santa is real and if she asks me I won’t lie. Don't ruin the magic of Christmas for her too early " I didn’t expect this from you | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. So this got me thinking, as much as it’s magical telling our kids Santa, the tooth fairy the Easter bunny ect are real are we then teaching them small lies are ok as long as it makes people happy? That’s how I see it. Which is why I don’t want to tell my daughter Santa is real and if she asks me I won’t lie. Don't ruin the magic of Christmas for her too early I didn’t expect this from you " I'm not the grinch | |||
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"Telling your kids Santa is real (I’m not doing that but for those that do) is not all that bad. Telling your partner she doesn’t have anything to worry about or she’s mad for being suspicious when you’re cheating on her? That’s kinda bad. So this got me thinking, as much as it’s magical telling our kids Santa, the tooth fairy the Easter bunny ect are real are we then teaching them small lies are ok as long as it makes people happy? That’s how I see it. Which is why I don’t want to tell my daughter Santa is real and if she asks me I won’t lie. Don't ruin the magic of Christmas for her too early I didn’t expect this from you I'm not the grinch " I know. Maybe you’re nice? | |||
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"Lying is just not on,I mentioned this to Kate Moss on my last modelling job. Can't remember if it was before the Oscars or after Cannes . It definitely happened though " You are lying! Kate Moss told me she'd never been to the Oscars.... Oh no! Was Kate Moss the liar ????? | |||
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"It’s never ok Being honest and truthful is the only policy Totally agree " | |||
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"If I don't lie I never have to remember what I said. Just say the truth for a simpler life." This. Plus lying is cowardly at best, and manipulation at worst... I'd rather know a difficult truth than a beautiful lie any day. | |||
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"If people like ,it makes me more wary of them in general and I wouldn't trust them. Some people can't lie straight in bed though,I used to work with a woman who likes about loads of stuff ,big and little just to get attention it seemed .sad cos everyone knew ,because she didn't have a good memory. If I catch people lying here ,I'm usually done with them ,as everything they say then, I'd question ." I've known people like this, it's very sad to observe as it's obviously done out of massive insecurity and feeling like they need to lie to impress or get attention or whatever. I'd just rather be not liked for who I genuinely am, than be liked as a person I'm pretending to be. | |||
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"Everyone does it to sone degree. Even those who paint themselves as so virtuous that they'd never tell the slightest of lies. " *some | |||
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"If I don't lie I never have to remember what I said. Just say the truth for a simpler life. This. Plus lying is cowardly at best, and manipulation at worst... I'd rather know a difficult truth than a beautiful lie any day. " How many Jews and prisoners of war and resistance fighters were protected by lies when asked by the Nåzis "Have you seen who we are looking for?" Not exactly cowardly... | |||
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"Being a liar is hard work. Tell the truth & you’ll never get caught out J x" Well said am with you on that | |||
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"It does depend on context, I have a person with dementia in the family, it is much easier and less upsetting for them to tell the odd white lie." | |||
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"It does depend on context, I have a person with dementia in the family, it is much easier and less upsetting for them to tell the odd white lie." Yep, it's not always as straightforward as we'd like. | |||
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"For me, no. If something would be hurtful and bring no benefit, I'd avoid vomiting unnecessary truth. But if it was relevant to someone making an informed choice, then it should be said. I understand the little white lies, and I'll often draw focus to a positive rather than directly answer a question where my honest opinion is negative but irrelevant. But I just don't agree with lying for the most part." | |||
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"I lie to my boss when they ask what I did on my WFH days. " It's your boss here. What are you really doing on your WFH days ? Ps. I have your HR manager with me. | |||
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"No I don't like even little lies. White lies aren't harmless they're the start of a slippery slope and the clear indication someone is untrustworthy x" I offer tell people I'm fine when I'm really not. It's an outright lie but I often either don't want to tell them the truth of they don't want to hear it. If that makes me untrustworthy I'll live with it | |||
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"Man with a knife chasing a neighbour,she disappears down a side street "Do you know where she lives?" Your answer?" It would depend. Is he chasing her to kill her or to return a knife she dropped? | |||
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"No I don't like even little lies. White lies aren't harmless they're the start of a slippery slope and the clear indication someone is untrustworthy x" But what about Santa? | |||
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"No I don't like even little lies. White lies aren't harmless they're the start of a slippery slope and the clear indication someone is untrustworthy x But what about Santa?" Oh he tells some whoppers, when I was 6 he said I was getting a new bike, like fuck I did. | |||
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"Man with a knife chasing a neighbour,she disappears down a side street "Do you know where she lives?" Your answer? It would depend. Is he chasing her to kill her or to return a knife she dropped?" | |||
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