FabSwingers.com forum: What would happen if you told them

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would happen if you messaged or texted your ‘crush’ and told them you like them?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Um.

I usually just word vomit it at them as soon as I accept it's the situation.

It's been well received in most cases

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Knowing my luck blocked! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get a who dis? text

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

probably get told f.off you old dog,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably get told they wouldn't touch me with a 10 ft barge pole.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Depends which one, but I've made it clear and I'm not blocked we've still sent messages

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Aww that's so sweet, thanks."

*Blocked*

LvM

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I'd probably get told they wouldn't touch me with a 10 ft barge pole."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd get a who dis? text"

sucks to be you babe

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I've done it a few times.

Sometimes it's lead to the sex; other times to friendship; other times to nothing.

What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd probably get told they wouldn't touch me with a 10 ft barge pole."

It’s true. I wouldn’t

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Then I’d know they weren’t interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've done it a few times.

Sometimes it's lead to the sex; other times to friendship; other times to nothing.

What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x"

If I have to read one more ‘What about you, OP?’ From you I’m going to drown myself in my toilet.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Only one way to find out...

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

1 - He would run a country mile. And then take the piss out of me forever more.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I've done it a few times.

Sometimes it's lead to the sex; other times to friendship; other times to nothing.

What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

If I have to read one more ‘What about you, OP?’ From you I’m going to drown myself in my toilet.

I always want to know where the OP's at. I'm friendly like that

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Depends on the crush Steve

Best mates wife? Probably no

Girl at the checkout? Best not

Forum user? Hell no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've done it a few times.

Sometimes it's lead to the sex; other times to friendship; other times to nothing.

What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

If I have to read one more ‘What about you, OP?’ From you I’m going to drown myself in my toilet.

But to answer your question, I don’t really have a crush like that but the last (genuine) crush I told responded telling me she was in her dating women era so

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've done it a few times.

Sometimes it's lead to the sex; other times to friendship; other times to nothing.

What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

If I have to read one more ‘What about you, OP?’ From you I’m going to drown myself in my toilet.

I always want to know where the OP's at. I'm friendly like that

I think it's rather cute. An endearing sentence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the crush Steve

Best mates wife? Probably no

Girl at the checkout? Best not

Forum user? Hell no"

To conclude, issa no

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I would give it a whirl… I normally do

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Either be blocked, told I’m too far away or just ignored

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've done it a few times.

Sometimes it's lead to the sex; other times to friendship; other times to nothing.

What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

If I have to read one more ‘What about you, OP?’ From you I’m going to drown myself in my toilet.

I always want to know where the OP's at. I'm friendly like that

I think it's rather cute. An endearing sentence.

Ofc you do!

Mrs TMN did it in one of my threads when I’d already given my opinion and I was honestly most heartbroken that the line wasn’t genuine. It’s just a line!!!!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

They wouldn't take me seriously and would just presume I was mocking them.

I would be serious though.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If I told her?

I think she knows.

If I told him?

Coffee would be awkward.

If I told them?

They'd... possibly reciprocate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would give it a whirl… I normally do

Who are you? I don’t recognise you?

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Last person I told how I felt to they said they didn't feel the same and i felt really fucking stupid..only just over it, and this was a year ago....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've done it a few times.

Sometimes it's lead to the sex; other times to friendship; other times to nothing.

What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

If I have to read one more ‘What about you, OP?’ From you I’m going to drown myself in my toilet.

I always want to know where the OP's at. I'm friendly like that

You are kinda friendly. But I’m from London so

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only one way to find out..."

My man!

Do it !!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Mrs TMN did it in one of my threads when I’d already given my opinion and I was honestly most heartbroken that the line wasn’t genuine. It’s just a line!!!!"

Oh for beep sake.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I wouldn't dare as he would be over in a shot, and I'd get into serious trouble with his wife.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Only one way to find out...

My man!

Do it !!"

Remove your filters then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only one way to find out...

My man!

Do it !!

Remove your filters then

I’m not budging on the age range zaddy

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By *azrich87Man
over a year ago

kings lynn

"I'd probably get told they wouldn't touch me with a 10 ft barge pole."

Your gorgeous. I can’t see why they would say that

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

She would look at me with a lot of confusion, and probably ask me if i still wanted to be single.

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By *y the cCouple
over a year ago

guernsey

Away from fab I’m not sure I would have the courage, we have told a female friend that we would love for her to join us in the bedroom. I’m not sure she believed us.

On here, why not we are all here for similar reasons after all.

Jim.

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Laughed at blocked or told no I have a boyfriend

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

In the unlikely event that I every said anything I'd probably just get ghosted

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"In the unlikely event that I every said anything I'd probably just get ghosted

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....•°°·tumblewééd·*....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s tough for you man.

Can’t relate. Being a leng ting and all that

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've no idea as I wouldn't ruin a great friendship..

Probably get a " you're lovely but not in that way " kinda response

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I'd wouldn't message or text to tell someone I have a crush on them. I'll just randomly say it in face to face conversation. That way I can see the reaction on their face as soon as they process what I've said before they reply with anything. It's easier to work out where I stand with them that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just get blocked or told no thanks.

Happens quite often.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I would give it a whirl… I normally do

Who are you? I don’t recognise you?"

I’m new here…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they still talk to me so that’s a good sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one time I did, he wasn't interested

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"The one time I did, he wasn't interested

A fool he is! A fool!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would give it a whirl… I normally do

Who are you? I don’t recognise you?

I’m new here…

Nice!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"The one time I did, he wasn't interested

A fool he is! A fool!

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Ney, fine sir, he had a narrow escape!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably get ignored.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"The one time I did, he wasn't interested

A fool he is! A fool!

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Ney, fine sir, he had a narrow escape!"

An escape from heavenly bliss

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I've no idea what will happen, too busy appreciating what is happening.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Probably either 'that's nice' with a polite smile or zilch response...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He'd probably invite you round for dinner to show you how much of a princess I am.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I generally tell them, sometimes it leads somewhere, sometimes it doesn’t.

If it was me being crushed on, I’d always like to know, mainly because I’m clueless without someone being direct

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not much, I don't have any crushes.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably either 'that's nice' with a polite smile or zilch response...

Ah the "that's nice". Fyi, that isn't nice.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Probably either 'that's nice' with a polite smile or zilch response...

Ah the "that's nice". Fyi, that isn't nice. "

What’s even worse is;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably either 'that's nice' with a polite smile or zilch response...

Ah the "that's nice". Fyi, that isn't nice.

What’s even worse is;

Luckily I don't use those.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I would give it a whirl… I normally do

Who are you? I don’t recognise you?

I’m new here…

Nice!

Said like Alan Partridge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually say it, no means on to the next. Yes means into ya bed lol

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"Probably either 'that's nice' with a polite smile or zilch response...

Ah the "that's nice". Fyi, that isn't nice. "

No. I know

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

The message would probably go unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The one time I did, he wasn't interested

A fool he is! A fool!

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Ney, fine sir, he had a narrow escape!"

dick

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various

A response summed up by whatever gif/emoji tumble use to express desolate wastelands of humiliation.

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By *oadsafun1960Man
over a year ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

She'd probably still ignore me

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Mrs TMN did it in one of my threads when I’d already given my opinion and I was honestly most heartbroken that the line wasn’t genuine. It’s just a line!!!!

Oh for beep sake.

Or... Maybe I just hadn't read it properly?

I'm good, but not perfect. Sorry to burst your bubble, Stephen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mrs TMN did it in one of my threads when I’d already given my opinion and I was honestly most heartbroken that the line wasn’t genuine. It’s just a line!!!!

Oh for beep sake.

Or... Maybe I just hadn't read it properly?

I'm good, but not perfect. Sorry to burst your bubble, Stephen

Hmmmmm. maybe.

Nah

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Anyone I like at the moment, already knows that.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

She knows. She's cool about it, but her boyfriend might be vexed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone I like at the moment, already knows that. "

I thought you liked me until 3 minutes ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, he would probably tell his wife and she'd beat the shit out of me.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

They’d ask me to fuck them and I’d be required to oblige

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Probably get ignored, blocked or rejected

Tinder x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They’d ask me to fuck them and I’d be required to oblige

Ah I get why you wouldn’t want that effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think he’d leave Fab, sell up, move Countries.

I love it when men play hard to get

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Probably get ignored, blocked or rejected

Tinder x"

Either that or shagged senseless. One of the other, right?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

She would say what do you mean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once and had one of the best fab meets ever.

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