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By *unky_Fab_Fella OP   Man
over a year ago

Nr Boston

Recently I've started blocking profiles where I don't meet or match their criteria or them mine. I've done this to serve as a filter so as I'm not presented with profiles that I will be unable to interact with.

In essence I block the following.

Won't meet people my age (I'm 46)

Won't meet smokers (I do)

Profile contains a bicurious/bisexual male. (Not my thing)

This does have the advantage of only showing me updates from profiles I can interact with.

However, my options are severely limited, sometimes moreso as some profiles wish not to be contacted by single males.

This does lead to suggested matches that involve significant travel and of course some profiles prefer not to meet outside of a given radius.

Does anyone else do this?

D

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Rudeness. Persistence.

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Thankfully only had to block two constant messaging after saying no

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Our block list is a mile long, but we think it saves everyone's time x

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"Recently I've started blocking profiles where I don't meet or match their criteria or them mine. I've done this to serve as a filter so as I'm not presented with profiles that I will be unable to interact with.

In essence I block the following.

Won't meet people my age (I'm 46)

Won't meet smokers (I do)

Profile contains a bicurious/bisexual male. (Not my thing)

This does have the advantage of only showing me updates from profiles I can interact with.

However, my options are severely limited, sometimes moreso as some profiles wish not to be contacted by single males.

This does lead to suggested matches that involve significant travel and of course some profiles prefer not to meet outside of a given radius.

Does anyone else do this?

D"

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racists.

People that say they don’t want to meet Black guys thought I might just use the private notes feature for that in future.

People that are misogynistic.

People that victim blame.

People that are obsessed with me and won’t leave me alone.

Sometimes other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude, crude or arrogant.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I block people when I decide that I don't want to hear from them. This can be for a thousand different reasons, but if I don't want to interact with them, what's the point in having them visible to me.

My fab experience is quieter and nicer than before I took the block route

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Because, for whatever reason, it's for the best. It's very rare I do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we’ve spoke and there’s no connection

I’ve they’ve messaged and I’m not interested

If I’ve messaged and they haven’t responded

Can’t be bothered to do much more than that. Seems extremely petty otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block people who are insulting or send more messages than the Royal Mail.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Rudeness. Persistence. "

Listen here numnuts, are we gonna fuck or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I've started blocking profiles where I don't meet or match their criteria or them mine. I've done this to serve as a filter so as I'm not presented with profiles that I will be unable to interact with.

In essence I block the following.

Won't meet people my age (I'm 46)

Won't meet smokers (I do)

Profile contains a bicurious/bisexual male. (Not my thing)

This does have the advantage of only showing me updates from profiles I can interact with.

However, my options are severely limited, sometimes moreso as some profiles wish not to be contacted by single males.

This does lead to suggested matches that involve significant travel and of course some profiles prefer not to meet outside of a given radius.

Does anyone else do this?

D"

Disrespect

Haven’t read the profile

Serial messengers who don’t take a polite no for an answer

Anyone who sends an unsolicited friend request

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

Ignoring what's said on my profile,if someone can't respect a few simple words on profile,I believe they would have no respect if I was foolish enough to interact with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list was until very recently, empty.

Found it astonishing however, how many forumites block lists I was on. It’s totally alien to me how personally some people take others opinions, and these are people I’d never have even dreamed of contacting outwith the forum - so I blocked them all back for the hell of it - it was actually fun doing so

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By *enSiskoMan
over a year ago

Cestus 3

I like to block for the power of it all.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Filth gets blocked. Not taking no for answer gets blocked. Occasionally I'll block someone from the forum that really annoys me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block the people I find annoying which could be for a number of different reasons.

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By *ourisfunCouple
over a year ago

Central

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I block loads

Cocks in the inbox.

Rude people.

People I just take a dislike to.

Anyone I recognise.

People very local.

People who have a profile pic I don't want to look at.

There's probably more reasons but that's all I can think of.

Mrs

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By *ourisfunCouple
over a year ago

Central

We block people who have made racist/homophobic/misogynistic comments, those who can't take no for an answer and the folk who get abusive.

We've had to block a couple of others for some creepy behaviour too, but thankfully not too many!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filth gets blocked. Not taking no for answer gets blocked. Occasionally I'll block someone from the forum that really annoys me. "

Or accidentally block them

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Rude, crude or arrogant."
,,,this

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I block stalkers, arseholes and anybody else I don’t want to interact with ever again. My block list isn’t very long, which is nice

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Those I want extremely very little to zero interaction with.

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

We used to block people for purely being rude but now we just block if not interested sometimes people message like 5 times over and over.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I rarely block and when I do it's usually for anything relating to racism, misogyny, misandry and bullying.

All other reasons such as falling out with someone, aborted courtships, irreconcilable differences and general acrimony are left unhindered. Perhaps because, through my verifications, I want them to see that I'm still getting on with ·their· friends and even fucking a few of them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multitude of reasons but mainly if nothing in common or I've messaged and never answered and wrong gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

…through my verifications, I want them to see that I'm still getting on with ·their· friends and even fucking a few of them too."
Oooft how conniving - love it

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

If their updates are nothing but complaining I generally block. Noticed recently I’ve been getting blocked more by those I’ve never spoken to but hey Ho such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the block button in two ways.

1) total mismatch

2) don't need their negativity or drama.

I view my block button as a pause in some cases, I may unblock when the crap dies down.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I rarely block and when I do it's usually for anything relating to racism, misogyny, misandry and bullying.

All other reasons such as falling out with someone, aborted courtships, irreconcilable differences and general acrimony are left unhindered. Perhaps because, through my verifications, I want them to see that I'm still getting on with ·their· friends and even fucking a few of them too."

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Normally for attitudes and views shown in status', profile text, or forum posts. More rarerly if we've chatted before and we aren't for each other, but they keeping appearing every few months looking to meet

LvM

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Same as you op...if im not in the age range then block so they removed from updates

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Only block rude/vile people! Not a long list! Sometime counter block x

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Cunts, cunts, and bollockchops they get blocked....

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"I use the block button in two ways.

1) total mismatch

2) don't need their negativity or drama.

I view my block button as a pause in some cases, I may unblock when the crap dies down."

There's a way to unblock? I've always treated it as a one way function, like throwing someone into a black hole...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only really block people who say things I don't like in DMs or post things in the forums that make my eyebrows go up or if they're persistent and won't take no for an answer

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"I rarely block and when I do it's usually for anything relating to racism, misogyny, misandry and bullying.

All other reasons such as falling out with someone, aborted courtships, irreconcilable differences and general acrimony are left unhindered. Perhaps because, through my verifications, I want them to see that I'm still getting on with ·their· friends and even fucking a few of them too."

You are not alone in advertising success and attempts to promote jealousy

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I block all that I find irritating or offensive and sometimes those who I would never be interested in interacting with.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Cunts, cunts, and bollockchops they get blocked...."

I am going use this when next greeting a friend across a busy bar “Oi, Bollockchops… where ya bin?”

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Not blocking people doesn’t suddenly give you more options, if they aren’t for you anyway

We block people who are vulgar or don’t take no for an answer.

K

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I only block if someone is rude or offensive, or really pushy and demanding.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If I don't like their status update or their pics & they're on my updates I block.

Anyone who shows unsavoury opinions on the forum ,block.

Pests who can't take no for an answer or are abusive get blocked

If I say no thanks to anyone now I tend to block ,save them coming back with why not etc and so they can't message again.

I also block people who were previously blocked and have left then returned,once I spot them.

It's a good tool to use.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Cunts, cunts, and bollockchops they get blocked....

I am going use this when next greeting a friend across a busy bar “Oi, Bollockchops… where ya bin?”"

It's yours to use, I collect the royalties at Christmas

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Cunts, cunts, and bollockchops they get blocked...."

And yet here I am

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Cunts, cunts, and bollockchops they get blocked....

And yet here I am "

There's always expectations to the rule Grumpy, we all know that with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block loads I'm looking for something special and the age range I have set limits me but I don't mind I know what I want

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

My block list mostly consists of straight cock hunters and my ex, I've been blocked by some people that use the forums and no idea why but I also don't really care

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Besides the obvious reasons many have already posted, more recently I’ve started blocking people on my local updates because of the awful pics they upload or just dull and boring status updates.

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By *netobeextraMan
over a year ago

location varies

I block profiles nearby who I’m not interested in meeting. No reason other than that really.

It stops my news feed clogging up and my near by list so I only see the profiles I’m potentially interested in. The added benefit is reducing contact from people Im not interested in

I do it locally or when I’m in another location for a period of time.

Some people may find this rude but for me it helps filter fab into a list of people I want to see.

It’s usually nothing personal other than I’m not attracted or I don’t feel like we would be compatible.

I have absolutely no problem with people blocking me. It helps me massively

I block very few people for other reasons.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I don't block profiles, even if I don't particularly like or agree with them.

In all my time here, I've only needed to block one profile.

Not at all bothered if profiles I've never interacted with block me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they’re dicks

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Because I can.

Because I can be bothered.

Because I don’t like the cut of their jib.

And sometimes just because I feel like it

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Because I can.

Because I can be bothered.

Because I don’t like the cut of their jib.

And sometimes just because I feel like it "

They dont like haribo, fucking wrong uns

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Because I can.

Because I can be bothered.

Because I don’t like the cut of their jib.

And sometimes just because I feel like it

They dont like haribo, fucking wrong uns "

That’s an instant block

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Because I can.

Because I can be bothered.

Because I don’t like the cut of their jib.

And sometimes just because I feel like it

They dont like haribo, fucking wrong uns

That’s an instant block "

Consigned to fab room 101

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Because they’re dicks "

Thought you like dick

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I only block those who clearly haven't read my profile, rude and entitled guys and just those in general that I have no interest in x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Because they’re dicks "

•

Not åll women are dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to annoy them really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t like their profile, something they’ve posted, not compatible, how they’ve been in a message; many reasons.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

-Haven't read the profile

-Gross opening messages

-Offering money or substances

-People I know

-Guy I met on an app who turned out to be superrrr racist

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Cos they're doin me swede in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To prevent them messaging again or to get the vulgarity off my feed as some peoples pics and statuses are disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we can.

It also acts a filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocks can be undone.

I like my block filter.. Anyone else like their block filter.

Might even give it a name of.. Dirty Harry. Or long john silver or just in case

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By *antasyJamMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I got blocked recently for sending a nice message, which I thought was cold blooded, could have just said no thanks, feel as if I've blown my chance now and won't get another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a site tool I use for any one of a hundred reasons or more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I want a proper message with an introduction, a decent Grammar and something to read. At the 12th "how are you doing" and/or "wanna have fun" of the day my vagina just collapse in a black hole of boredom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if people persist despite my 'no thank you' - this isn't always the case, sometimes I do a block delete. You got to survive the m/f imbalance on here.

Or I block because I don't want to see things.

Rudeness is another reason. Thankfully I've only had a couple of msgs that were rude/weird.

Or I get msgs and I do NOT match with their ideals and opinions.

That all I can think of at the mo

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I use the block feature like just another filter.

I have also blocked people for their behaviour, their attitude in messages, their forum engagement, their willingness to share/ask for people's private info, their insistence that I'm doing it all wrong.

A long list of reasons, some more shallow than others.

Oh yes that reminds me, I've also blocked people for being shallow.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Because I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got blocked recently for sending a nice message, which I thought was cold blooded, could have just said no thanks, feel as if I've blown my chance now and won't get another. "

Even if they had of said "no thanks", why would you think that you would get another chance?

This is probably why they blocked cause they know some men on here won't take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if they’ve messaged me and I’ve been put off by what they’ve said or showed as a photo.

I block if someone repeatedly views my profile without interacting (it feels like being spied on, and creeps me out).

I block if I’ve noticed unsafe sex or signs of STI’s etc on their profile.

I block if I have a feeling they’re going to message me and I don’t want them to. eg people nearby that I’m not attracted to.

I block if i think I recognise someone.

I block anyone who refers to themselves as a “hole” or a “cum dump” or anything like that. Also block GH profiles.

Block those who do racist posts or statuses. Even if they’re racism benefits me.

Whewww that all makes me sound high maintenance - but it’s just a way of protecting my health, my privacy and my values.

Also a side benefit of this is identifying those who have verifications from people you’ve blocked. It’s kind of a sign that we have differing standards (which is fine - each to their own) and will probably lead to me not meeting them also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any mention of 420 ,or drugs of any sort.

Any with pics of people in rubber masks or animal filters ,snooze!!

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By *antasyJamMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Because I'm still working on this profile and maybe they would have taken an interest in my say a year from now.

I get that there are persistent people on here that won't leave people alone though.

Also to be fair she did say that if you don't have feedback then back out the page, her bio was long and I forgot the first part lol, I remembered that after I sent the message but didn't want to send another one since women can get loads on this site, maybe I should have but it's too late now I guess.

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness


"Rudeness. Persistence. "

That and when they border on the criminal or indefensible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't I get them to block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block incompatible profiles on my local updates so they don’t clutter up my feed ….which is the vast majority of them..

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If they've wasted my time or are nasty

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We block lazy profiles. Those who have been on here for a good while and have no profile pic, no public pictures and no profile write up.

Seems we having to block a lot lately.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Anyone who displays a lack of love for cheese, they are just not going to be my sort of people.

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

I don't - my block list is empty, but so is my hotlist. Perfectly balanced, as all things should be.

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By *C_playtimeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on trent

Only blocked two people. 1 ex that decided to stalk and advertise our profile on a professional and social level and the other because he was very persistently messaging even after being told thankyou but we weren't interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude. Persistent messages. Fakes. People we just don't get along with who we think may try to strike up conversation. People who we see on the forum and do not appreciate what they post.

F

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By *ilktray manMan
over a year ago

Eagle


"I block people when I decide that I don't want to hear from them. This can be for a thousand different reasons, but if I don't want to interact with them, what's the point in having them visible to me.

My fab experience is quieter and nicer than before I took the block route "

Ditto.

If I don’t think I’d want any contact, no point in them being in my search. And it saves them time too, as they can’t see mine either. ( I think)

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Mostly for the vulgar messages no need of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude. Persistent messages. Fakes. People we just don't get along with who we think may try to strike up conversation. People who we see on the forum and do not appreciate what they post.

F"

Which was I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the forum "nice" guys who aren't actually so nice when they get rejected.

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

Not generally unless I think it’s a fake or some guy pretending to be a women, you can generally tell by how they message

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

Carrie …. So what’s hell like ….. where’s your trident or are you just rocking a tail and pitch fork

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I find people's filters and rules change over time, including our own, so we don't block on current criteria.

Instead, we may add notes, if it's not obvious in their profile.

C

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

If they send a strange message but mostly if they have been nasty or abusive to others in the forums. Also if they hold certain extreme views and that includes any hint or racism, homophobia or misogynist views and such like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being able to choose whether someone can message me or see my profile. It's empowering.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Filth gets blocked. Not taking no for answer gets blocked. Occasionally I'll block someone from the forum that really annoys me.

Or accidentally block them"

Twice I did that twice!

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Rudeness. Persistence. "

Not sure about rudeness but persistence is real romantic virtue. I wrote (real old fashioned hand written letters) to my wife every day during the couple of weeks she went on holiday after our first date. It seemed to mean something

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Filth gets blocked. Not taking no for answer gets blocked. Occasionally I'll block someone from the forum that really annoys me.

Or accidentally block them

Twice I did that twice!"

I think there is not taking no and not taking no. Two of the most significant relationships I have had involved persistence!

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By *dinson1983Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

I've blocked quite a few. Mainly because when I politely say no in a message I'm bombarded with abuse and insults sometimes threats.

And I don't need that shit. I get all that at work... daily

This is supposed to be a site for people to explore what gives them pleasure. Not the keyboard playground for digital bullies

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Rudeness. Persistence.

Not sure about rudeness but persistence is real romantic virtue. I wrote (real old fashioned hand written letters) to my wife every day during the couple of weeks she went on holiday after our first date. It seemed to mean something "

Nice if it’s wanted. Big difference between saying no thanks though and getting nagged. But, but, but - block.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

If someone has blocked me then they normally go on the block list.

People who seem to have a wildly different political perspective on the world from me.

Anyone who messages me and comes across as a total creep.

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Sometimes if people are pushy or arrogant, so we've blocked a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Abuse / stalking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting "

ONE?!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting

ONE?! "

Actually 2 I forgot there was 1 at the very beginning of my fab journey I can’t remember what for tho. But mostly had decent experiences on here and I can take rejection. Builds character and resilience

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Rudeness. Persistence.

Not sure about rudeness but persistence is real romantic virtue. I wrote (real old fashioned hand written letters) to my wife every day during the couple of weeks she went on holiday after our first date. It seemed to mean something

Nice if it’s wanted. Big difference between saying no thanks though and getting nagged. But, but, but - block. "

True but how can you tell that you are about to be blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude. Persistent messages. Fakes. People we just don't get along with who we think may try to strike up conversation. People who we see on the forum and do not appreciate what they post.

F

Which was I?"

All.

F

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

If they’re too local

Abuse/rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting

ONE?!

Actually 2 I forgot there was 1 at the very beginning of my fab journey I can’t remember what for tho. But mostly had decent experiences on here and I can take rejection. Builds character and resilience "

Oh well, if it was TWO. I mean that's totally different. (examines own VERY extensive block list )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two reasons I block users

First is if they're rude or outright nasty to me.

Second is if I've reached out to them and I'm not thier type. Adding them to my block list ensures in the future I don't inadvertently message them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting

ONE?!

Actually 2 I forgot there was 1 at the very beginning of my fab journey I can’t remember what for tho. But mostly had decent experiences on here and I can take rejection. Builds character and resilience

Oh well, if it was TWO. I mean that's totally different. (examines own VERY extensive block list )"

I think it’s different for a women then it is a guy though, you definitely get a lot more shit than us how big is your list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked one person. I gave my availability, she couldn’t do any of those two dates so she asked for the same date early the following week I already had plans with my friend on one day so she threw a hissy fit and I said “so you’re getting shitty with me because I’ve already have plans with a friend who I’ve known years and won’t drop them to meet a girl I’ve never met?” and she said I was twisting her words and began gaslighting

ONE?!

Actually 2 I forgot there was 1 at the very beginning of my fab journey I can’t remember what for tho. But mostly had decent experiences on here and I can take rejection. Builds character and resilience

Oh well, if it was TWO. I mean that's totally different. (examines own VERY extensive block list )

I think it’s different for a women then it is a guy though, you definitely get a lot more shit than us how big is your list? "

It's 150+

Quite a lot of those are from local updates or guys who have messaged an old profile. Works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha "

Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont block anyone. Only time I might would be if I saw any family or work colleagues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont block anyone. Only time I might would be if I saw any family or work colleagues. "
Ahh that’s because you’re a beautiful soul, Maren - I *used* to be the same until being on here (still am: just counter-block for the hell of it )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont block anyone. Only time I might would be if I saw any family or work colleagues. Ahh that’s because you’re a beautiful soul, Maren - I *used* to be the same until being on here (still am: just counter-block for the hell of it )"

It twinges a bit if I find myself blocked, but I adjust my halo and let it pass me by

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've never felt the need

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I block no one because I'm inclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha

Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!"

What’s the most you’ve been inundated with?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha

Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!

What’s the most you’ve been inundated with? "

You

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I block no one because I'm inclusive "

You spelt easy wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block no one because I'm inclusive

You spelt easy wrong "

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I block no one because I'm inclusive

You spelt easy wrong "

Who have you blocked you absolute witch?

We all know you're just as easy don't have to be the big man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha

Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!

What’s the most you’ve been inundated with?

You "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha

Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!

What’s the most you’ve been inundated with?

You "

6 months no veri? Can imagine you’re on a few with that attitude

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

I block people that get a bit tideous but mor often those that can't understand a simple advert for a meet, EG, "At Your Place.'!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Jesus Christ.. there was one girl who took a screen shot of the number of her unopened messages in her inbox and it was in the 1000’s I don’t know how all you women cope on here haha

Haha, I've never been inundated like that. But some women are, for sure. Strong filters needed!

What’s the most you’ve been inundated with?

You

6 months no veri? Can imagine you’re on a few with that attitude "

I'm a troll x

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

I tend to block men in women's pants because I just have no interest.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Diverse reasons, largely because we are unmatched as potential partners. If there's anything unpleasant, then it's a block too. Overall, it saves mutual time and energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to block men in women's pants because I just have no interest. "

I’ve got men, tv/ts blocked so they can’t even send a message or wink etc. nothing against them just not what I’m looking for

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I block no one because I'm inclusive

You spelt easy wrong

Who have you blocked you absolute witch?

We all know you're just as easy don't have to be the big man! "

I haven't blocked you Brucey, best behave yourself though or else

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I block no one because I'm inclusive

You spelt easy wrong

Who have you blocked you absolute witch?

We all know you're just as easy don't have to be the big man!

I haven't blocked you Brucey, best behave yourself though or else "

Cause you're totally down for the ride right

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By *mcsMan
over a year ago

Selly Oak

I block 2 random profiles everyday apart from on Sundays, that’s when I unblock 3 random profiles from my block list

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Usually only guys that have absolutely no idea how to communicate with somebody they have never had any contact with, especially asking if we are into some outlandish sexual activity when it's perfectly obvious from our profile we wouldn't be interested.

This happened a few days ago. This guy asked if we were into something I hadn't heard of and I wasn't exactly sure what it was, but it sounded gross.

Inane messages like "hi hru" bore me and I ignore them and don't really care if they could still choose to send another one. This was a guy I wanted to make sure couldn't send anything like that to us again.

He didn't even start with "Hello"! Luke

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Only ones I’ve blocked are who post annoying daily status updates, and one who kept uploading photo with tab in mooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- People that aren’t interested or who delete my messages (just to avoid messaging them again).

-People who can’t take no for an answer.

-Axe wound profile photos (a tasteful pussy shot can be ok but I don’t want to see a battle scene from ‘Vikings’ as the first thing on my local feed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a few of the comments made already the block feature is more a usful way to filter out people outside either your or their matches. Also when either no response or deleted messages just to try and get a better experience on site.

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By *rishVikingMan
over a year ago

Shankill

I’m blocked by everyone

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I’m blocked by everyone "

•

Surely not even the Shield Maidens have blocked you?!?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I block no one because I'm inclusive

You spelt easy wrong

Who have you blocked you absolute witch?

We all know you're just as easy don't have to be the big man!

I haven't blocked you Brucey, best behave yourself though or else

Cause you're totally down for the ride right "

How could anyone possibly resist you Brucey

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By *randMrs T90Couple
over a year ago

Chester

Anyone who mentions drugs on their status updates, no thanks

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who come across as judgemental or bigoted in the forums, negativity or have anger issues.

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By *onzoDog74Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

I occasionally get blocked because because I'm not verified.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I never block, if they are that arrogant and ignorant that they don't deserve acknowledgements, I find that ignoring them is far more effective, as their unanswered messages seems to wind them up like a coil spring.

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By *iona_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen

So many bozos and so little time.

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By *orfolkNewbieMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

I only have guys that insist they can give me the best BJ I'll ever experience in multiple messages on my block list, even after a polite no I'll get another a few days later. I'd possibly understand if I stated I wanted to meet men at some point....

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

Reading

I block every female who’s turnt me down.

Which means 90% of the women on this site are on my Block List

Means I don’t have to remember who I’ve already messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude initial messages and from not reading our profile and still sending a cock shot... cocks you can see anywhere. Genuine people are much harder (excuse the pun) to find.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I block no one because I'm inclusive

You spelt easy wrong

Who have you blocked you absolute witch?

We all know you're just as easy don't have to be the big man!

I haven't blocked you Brucey, best behave yourself though or else

Cause you're totally down for the ride right

How could anyone possibly resist you Brucey "

The ones that do are usually slightly more miserable?

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

I block men an trans for fabbing and looking at my profile.

Block couples too when the male half thinks they can message me on their "wifes" behalf and just not interested in getting involved in threesomes with a couple. (Except for female couples of course)

I block women who reject me or don't fit their or my criteria

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By *he Black ExperienceMan
over a year ago

banbury

I have zero tolerance for fools.

If I suspect you're a time waster- block.

Male pretending to be a couple- block

Start using racist language- block

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Lets face it most couple profiles are men as they see it as a by pass to send message to anyone they want hence why I stopped couples messaging me

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yep!

Single straight male/couple who thinks a bi male can't control himself? Blocked

Over 50? Blocked

Drugs users? Blocked

Shit profile? Blocked

Messaged us without reading our profile? Blocked

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont block anyone. Only time I might would be if I saw any family or work colleagues. Ahh that’s because you’re a beautiful soul, Maren - I *used* to be the same until being on here (still am: just counter-block for the hell of it )

It twinges a bit if I find myself blocked, but I adjust my halo and let it pass me by "

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Just bad vibes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are crude and send messages like i want to ride u

They cant take no for an answer

Their pics gross me out

Multiple other reasons

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Our block list is very small we mostly only use our block as a extra filter if we have messaged a couple and for whatever reason we are not what their looking for or the other way round.

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By *olarMan
over a year ago

woking

Ignoring or not reading profile and persisting with the same line of chat even if has been answered with the negative. Rudeness. Guys pretending to be couples and the scourge of the site - time wasters Other than that I’m really tolerant

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

We are now using blocking as to make it easier for us and not waste the contactors time, EG, we feel they live too far away, can't accommodate when we've made it clear we can't - then there is the usaly/common reason the rude or more commonly they dont notice we've answered the question and start to retun with what we precive to be vulgar comments

Blocking is useful and as I said, makes it easier for us to get better contacts by stopping those we have little interest in and it saves them time as well

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been sending quite normal messages like "hi hope you're well just thought I'd say hi" or "New to all this so not sure what are acceptable messages ha" or Nice pictures etc etc I always read the profile so I understand what an individual wants. Most block, I must be doing something wrong ha any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude people.

People that don't read the profile.

Others we just simply do not like.

Gobshites and liars.

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By *ixiePoisonWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

I’ve just blocked a liar with a fake profile….

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