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Thoughts of swinging, before swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What were your thoughts of swinging, before you started swinging? Did you see it as taboo, a huge risk factor for all involved? (emotions/relationship wise), or something else?

I was totally against being with anybody else, or Mr being with anyone else. I thought it would completely ruin our relationship and we'd not be able to love each other like we did previously.

That thought has been totally busted since we started swinging. I love Mr even more now, it could be time or it could be the swinging effect. Even talking about loving Mr makes me love him even more! How is that possible?

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought swinging was throwing keys in a bowl for people with moustaches.

And now I just talk about it and do very little.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Scary isn't it . The fantasy just got too much for us.

I believe what makes it possible is compersion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny. My fantasy turned into a nightmare.

It’s nice to hear stories of how it worked out for couples. Love can stay strong no matter what you do together.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I had concerns over jealousy and ultimately Mr wanting to leave me for someone else. It's been about realising that wanting to experience something different doesn't mean it's what you want all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly thought it was a bunch of old couples in a house swapping wives and bumping uglies.

Turns out it's a bunch of old couples in a designated club swapping wives and bumping uglies

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I honestly thought it was a bunch of old couples in a house swapping wives and bumping uglies.

Turns out it's a bunch of old couples in a designated club swapping wives and bumping uglies "

Lol ..thank you for making me feel positively ancient and ugly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm still not sold on the whole thing

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

When I first heard about I couldn't believe that people did things like that. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What were your thoughts of swinging, before you started swinging? Did you see it as taboo, a huge risk factor for all involved? (emotions/relationship wise), or something else?

I was totally against being with anybody else, or Mr being with anyone else. I thought it would completely ruin our relationship and we'd not be able to love each other like we did previously.

That thought has been totally busted since we started swinging. I love Mr even more now, it could be time or it could be the swinging effect. Even talking about loving Mr makes me love him even more! How is that possible?

F"

Mr what have you done with F?

Untie her and put the phone down. We know it's not really F

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I thought there would be more pampas grass..

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Swinging intrigued me, but it's not something I ever thought I could be involved in

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I can tell you now that at no point in my life previous to Fab did I think I'd be in a swinging marriage. Not that I'm complaining about the odd threesomes and moresomes

I think I probably had the idea of couples in their 50s dropping keys in a bowl

I'm so grateful to have found K and to be lucky enough to enjoy all these amazing gorgeous people with her, and have the trust for solo adventures

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What were your thoughts of swinging, before you started swinging? Did you see it as taboo, a huge risk factor for all involved? (emotions/relationship wise), or something else?

I was totally against being with anybody else, or Mr being with anyone else. I thought it would completely ruin our relationship and we'd not be able to love each other like we did previously.

That thought has been totally busted since we started swinging. I love Mr even more now, it could be time or it could be the swinging effect. Even talking about loving Mr makes me love him even more! How is that possible?

F

Mr what have you done with F?

Untie her and put the phone down. We know it's not really F "

She's just realising what a wonderful man she married

Also I'll untie her tomorrow she's asleep now

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

The wife wasn't too much into the idea when I fist mentioned it, concerned that jealousy may play a big part in it n could pull us apart.

But after the fist time we both found jealousy played no part n we both loved it.

We have had a few more meats since then n each time pushing the boundaries a bit more.

Like letting her have sex on her own when I'm in another room.

Last meet it was going to be an MFMM meet, but surprise surprise once again got let down with a no show.

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By *omanarab43287653975Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *omanarab43287653975Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I’m single but I was always into it

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I honestly thought it was a bunch of old couples in a house swapping wives and bumping uglies.

Turns out it's a bunch of old couples in a designated club swapping wives and bumping uglies "

Yet you're still here!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I never ever thought it would be for me, having others enjoy C but it’s incredible how close we are because of it.

We can talk about anything and everything.

K

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I didn't really think much before to be honest, we joined in the hopes of meeting a woman and we've enjoyed a few of those meets.

I was concerned how I would feel seeing the Mr with someone else for the 1st time, I didn't need to be worried it was all good

I did think I was a bit of a cuckquean but turns out I prefer to join in rather than watch so my views have changed slightly.

It probably has brought us closer in a sense that we are much more open communication wise, more open to trying stuff together we probably wouldn't have discussed previously.

Mrs

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