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By *tanley Funseeker OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley

Serious post, sorry. Looking for your suggestions on dealing with days when you just feel listless, flat, uninspired and generally meh! Been feeling like that for a few days and even trying to con myself that I’m just tired isn’t working. So what’s the best ways to get mojo back?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Listening to music I enjoy usually helps.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Serious post, sorry. Looking for your suggestions on dealing with days when you just feel listless, flat, uninspired and generally meh! Been feeling like that for a few days and even trying to con myself that I’m just tired isn’t working. So what’s the best ways to get mojo back?"

Listening to kid's laugh (although it could come across as creepy if you just hang out round kid's laughing)

So that aside, dog's acting like fools, cat's and kittens.

Watching a squirrel run around.

Looking up at the sky and realising that the universe is big,I mean really big....

Then realising that our problems on a universal scale are infinitesimally small.

If you can get to an open body of water that's safe and just lay on your back and float it's the best.

Go for a walk see if you can find an old couple walking hand in hand.

Do some housework you'd be amazed how cathartic housework can be.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

In with you with the just meh days, if you figure it out let me know.

Hope you feel better soon OP.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep

Rest

Bath

Pamper

Massage

A hug

Read a book

Watch a rom cum oops sorry

Take up origami

Bike ride

Music can soothe the soul

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

It depends on the day and how hard the vibe is hitting me low.

What may work for one thing one day won't work for another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely walking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exercise

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I would say try to appreciate the small things. For example, if it’s a sunny day, get a side sit in a park and your mood will change

It’s easier said than done, of course, but the first step is always the best step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I give myself a time limit for feeling the meh, especially if it's something specific that got me down.

I'll say to myself - take today to feel shit. Tomorrow wake up with a different mindset.

It tends to work.

Hope you feel better soon.

xx J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exercise and drink plenty of water. That seems to work for me.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Go for a walk, watch a good show on netflix or youtube, make something (model, cooking, something from wood), plant something, see relatives, arrange visits with friends. Good luck op.

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By *tanley Funseeker OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley

Thanks everyone, been a tough few days, lots of good suggestions that I will give a go. Gonna rest up tonight and go again tomorrow

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Have a good lie-in, proper 13 hours in bed, then get up and blast some exercise in daylight, eat well, go to a club and stick your cock through a glory hole.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I connect with nature as much as I can. I also go for a quiet walk quite often if feeling meh. My biggest uplift is working out. Exercising regularly keeps me generally feeling strong and well but I will get doing some exercise ASAP if feeling less than great. If I'm extremely tired, it could just be a good walk

Some humour may be good. I'll assess what I need, as much as possible.

I may also arrange some things to come, that will be great to look forward to. And contact good friends, who understand me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a good lie-in, proper 13 hours in bed, then get up and blast some exercise in daylight, eat well, go to a club and stick your cock through a glory hole. "

It started off so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put an audio book on and go for a walk for a couple of hours.

Else jump on the motorbike and escape for a bit.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Serious post, sorry. Looking for your suggestions on dealing with days when you just feel listless, flat, uninspired and generally meh! Been feeling like that for a few days and even trying to con myself that I’m just tired isn’t working. So what’s the best ways to get mojo back?"

Op, sometimes it's just about sitting with the feelings, letting them in hosting them for as long as they want to stay for, then letting them fo again, as they will go again, it's swings and roundabouts.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Have a good lie-in, proper 13 hours in bed, then get up and blast some exercise in daylight, eat well, go to a club and stick your cock through a glory hole.

It started off so well "

And finished off even stronger

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Have a good lie-in, proper 13 hours in bed, then get up and blast some exercise in daylight, eat well, go to a club and stick your cock through a glory hole.

It started off so well "

I know right?

Still, OP isn't an unattractive man, if he approached us in a club and introduced himself, we would happily chat. All play starts with talking, but not all talking leads to play. At the very least, he could make a new friend

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By *tanley Funseeker OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley


"Have a good lie-in, proper 13 hours in bed, then get up and blast some exercise in daylight, eat well, go to a club and stick your cock through a glory hole.

It started off so well

I know right?

Still, OP isn't an unattractive man, if he approached us in a club and introduced himself, we would happily chat. All play starts with talking, but not all talking leads to play. At the very least, he could make a new friend "

Thank you this made me smile

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By *tanley Funseeker OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley


"Have a good lie-in, proper 13 hours in bed, then get up and blast some exercise in daylight, eat well, go to a club and stick your cock through a glory hole.

It started off so well

And finished off even stronger "

Lol ty

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By *tanley Funseeker OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley

Thanks again everyone, just back from some time at the dog play park with my pooch. Already feeling a bit more positive

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I force myself to th gym on those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some old school Jerry springer on and then realise my life isn’t so bad after all

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