FabSwingers.com forum: The divide

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

So the divide between the sexes and posts is at an all time obvious high.

Men post their scum.

Women oh poor you.

Then we have the women are just too picky how dare they not sleep with me?!

They only want the big cock, I can't get meets.

Women aren't allowed to want a connection we should be grateful for every cock in our box and jump on it.

Anyway why the shift, why when a man posts does he get abuse but when a women does she doesn't - is it because the male repliers to the woman are just wanting a wet dick still so they'll go with anything or is it genuinely that women are just seen as sat on a pedestal?

Thoughts please

Mrs

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Halo and horns effect is my guess.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I think that you hit the proverbial nail with your comment about guys wanting a wet dick.

I think that it’s one of the consequences of the out balanced ratios of men and women on here. Add to that the number of guys that let the two little brains rule the big brain then you have some understanding.

How many of the single guys on here are actually swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly because men don't wanna piss off any woman incase it ruins their chances of sex. God forbid they have actual opinions and types.

It always amazes me how grown ass men get so far in life and just can't get their little heads around how fab works.

The double standards of fab are incredible of late.

Male/female.

The BBW threads/slim women threads are another fab gold of double standards. The women thrive on these ones.

The whole place is one huge eye roll.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"So the divide between the sexes and posts is at an all time obvious high.

Men post their scum.

Women oh poor you.

Then we have the women are just too picky how dare they not sleep with me?!

They only want the big cock, I can't get meets.

Women aren't allowed to want a connection we should be grateful for every cock in our box and jump on it.

Thoughts please

Mrs "
Men are just a little bit more cautious of how they react which they have to be for several reasons, also some women have a crew who will back them up, you somehow offend her they will offend you, it goes hand in hand with getting your dick wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't divide, guys.

Multiply.

Don't subtract from your lives. Add to them.

(This post is sponsored by Lesley Judd)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a full moon last night. Nuff said

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m not really feeling any growth in the divide. That’s probably because I mostly only look in the nice threads. Fab’s what you make it, I guess.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

It's a strange place is FAB.

In general, with the kind of threads containing these descriptors, I usually roll my eyes and click off the thread (if it has a click bait title). Or if I suspect the title describes the content of the first post, I will just scroll past.

As a man, I would of course like to get my dick wet, and my Mrs would love to wet another man's dick, but she is (rightly) very picky, as am I, but less so. but we would rather there be some kind of connection, and to get that connection, for us, there has to be dialogue. Witticisms etc go a long way towards someone warming to your personality.

I think that there are a fair few people on here, both men and women, who feel entitled and are very vocal about it.

I, myself, am very easy going and laid back, if something happens it happens, if it doesn't, we don't go running to the forums to complain as many do.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"It was a full moon last night. Nuff said

I had to log off for the night! I shall never look at fab forums on a full moon.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Mainly because men don't wanna piss off any woman incase it ruins their chances of sex. God forbid they have actual opinions and types.

It always amazes me how grown ass men get so far in life and just can't get their little heads around how fab works.

The double standards of fab are incredible of late.

Male/female.

The BBW threads/slim women threads are another fab gold of double standards. The women thrive on these ones.

The whole place is one huge eye roll.

Oh no not unlos again.

But yes the double standards are ridiculous.

Mrs

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Mainly because men don't wanna piss off any woman incase it ruins their chances of sex. God forbid they have actual opinions and types.

It always amazes me how grown ass men get so far in life and just can't get their little heads around how fab works.

The double standards of fab are incredible of late.

Male/female.

The BBW threads/slim women threads are another fab gold of double standards. The women thrive on these ones.

The whole place is one huge eye roll.

Oh no not unlos again.

But yes the double standards are ridiculous.

Mrs "

It is a phase

like the full moon, or those random days each year when we get the swarms of flying ants

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think men are just easier targets , most women here are frail and will break if you say boo.

But there are some strong / wise women here and I’ve noticed they get abuse too and invariably leave or stop posting

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"Mainly because men don't wanna piss off any woman incase it ruins their chances of sex. God forbid they have actual opinions and types.

It always amazes me how grown ass men get so far in life and just can't get their little heads around how fab works.

The double standards of fab are incredible of late.

Male/female.

The BBW threads/slim women threads are another fab gold of double standards. The women thrive on these ones.

The whole place is one huge eye roll.

Oh no not unlos again.

But yes the double standards are ridiculous.

Mrs

It is a phase

like the full moon, or those random days each year when we get the swarms of flying ants "

I was thinking that the full moon has a lot to answer for lately

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's a strange place is FAB.

I think that there are a fair few people on here, both men and women, who feel entitled and are very vocal about it.

I, myself, am very easy going and laid back, if something happens it happens, if it doesn't, we don't go running to the forums to complain as many do."

I'm totally with you, I'm extremely picky, is that a bad thing? Absolutely not.

I'd rather have no meets than meet some random for a shit shag who's face I don't wanna look at and who can't string a sentence together.

The level of self entitlement is crazy though.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m not really feeling any growth in the divide. That’s probably because I mostly only look in the nice threads. Fab’s what you make it, I guess."

That's what happens when you view the forums with rose tinted glasses I guess.

Mrs

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Can see how the threads i would say evolve but more devolve. First few comments determine the direction of the thread.

It is amusing on a particular thread how the first women comments mainly sarcasm the next were white knight comments which devolved into aggression.

Other threads if the first comments get popular responces. Subsequent comments try to mimic those.

Has been committed many times threads more often than devolve into pissing contests or gladiatorial one-upmanship whatever the subject.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I think you already hit the nail on the head with your original explanation OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's fab, it's life in general. We are conditioned to believe that men are cold, heartless bastards and do things without feeling. However, women are good with a heart of gold so if they do something, there's always a reason why and its out of character. There will always be a divide because women use their superiority to their advantage and men allow them to do so.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"Can see how the threads i would say evolve but more devolve. First few comments determine the direction of the thread.

It is amusing on a particular thread how the first women comments mainly sarcasm the next were white knight comments which devolved into aggression.

Other threads if the first comments get popular responces. Subsequent comments try to mimic those.

Has been committed many times threads more often than devolve into pissing contests or gladiatorial one-upmanship whatever the subject. "

I have noticed this too and responses differ depending on who started the thread...Double standards have always been an issue

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Ita about their perceptions of power

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

“When all you’ve ever known is privilege, equality feels like oppression.”

I think a lot of this comes down to the fact that in the real world men are in charge (however much we like to whine that we aren’t) on fab women have all the power. There are a lot of me who think they can come on here and behave like a dick and still get laid, they then get nasty when they don’t.

TLDR: men need to grow up.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Some women don't get the thread abuse, because some of the potential judgers are already doing what the OP is doing anyway. Some men will always support women regardless of their moral thoughts, in case it leads to a dick wetting opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a full moon really make that much difference? That's a serious question.. have any studies been done to prove or disprove the fact ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my current favourite line applies here...

"We all eat lies when our hearts are hungry. "

Here, people consume them when they are horny.

The numbers here mean there will always be more men than women.

Topics come and go and I don't really worry about the divide or any potential unfairness anymore.

Just do your own thing and leave others doing theirs because life is too short to worry about strangers on the internet x

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Does a full moon really make that much difference? That's a serious question.. have any studies been done to prove or disprove the fact ? "

Not sure if there are any studies but if you want anecdotal evidence just ask anyone who works in A&E.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I created a word it.

Fannyblind.

It's not just men who are afflicted by it though.

Some don't want to ruin their chances.

Some don't want to be accused of picking on women.

Some just feel that women are incapable of being cunts.

Some are so invested in equal rights that they believe some are more equal than others.

I tend to treat everyone equally even in regard to poor behaviour and if someone is being an arsehole, gender is irrelevant.

I have called out women for certain comments here before and always been amazed how I was attacked by other men but fully supported by other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a full moon really make that much difference? That's a serious question.. have any studies been done to prove or disprove the fact ?

Not sure if there are any studies but if you want anecdotal evidence just ask anyone who works in A&E."

Ohhh

Honestly I slipped and fell on it haha

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Does a full moon really make that much difference? That's a serious question.. have any studies been done to prove or disprove the fact ? "

That much difference, no. There is hints and little traits that pop up.

I used to joke that whenever my dog was going mental I'd check if it was a full moon. Sometimes it was! More often than not during a full moon he was calm as anything. Nothing but just another random night.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I’m not really feeling any growth in the divide. That’s probably because I mostly only look in the nice threads. Fab’s what you make it, I guess."

"That's what happens when you view the forums with rose tinted glasses I guess.

Mrs "

I’ve had a look through the Lounge threads this morning and … I retract my original statement. Jeez, there’s a lot of moaning and whining going on. And a lot of trying to start discussions about why people are moaning and whining. Like this one. Oh, bollocks. I’m contributing to it now aren’t I?

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"Does a full moon really make that much difference? That's a serious question.. have any studies been done to prove or disprove the fact ? "

I work in early years and it is a monthly phenomenon I have witnessed over the years, the childrens behaviour escalates around the full moon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a full moon really make that much difference? That's a serious question.. have any studies been done to prove or disprove the fact ?

I work in early years and it is a monthly phenomenon I have witnessed over the years, the childrens behaviour escalates around the full moon.

Very interesting

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Can see how the threads i would say evolve but more devolve. First few comments determine the direction of the thread.

It is amusing on a particular thread how the first women comments mainly sarcasm the next were white knight comments which devolved into aggression.

Other threads if the first comments get popular responces. Subsequent comments try to mimic those.

Has been committed many times threads more often than devolve into pissing contests or gladiatorial one-upmanship whatever the subject. "

Great observation

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