FabSwingers.com forum: Organising a threesome....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it better with near strangers or people you know?

Regardless of if you're a single or not.

Is it harder to organise one where two women need to get along or with two men?

I'd always think getting two guys with the right dynamic would be harder than getting two women.

What do you think? What have you experienced?

Id like a threesome where there's two guys.

And another where's there's two women, but I don't do well with women so I'll join the men on that being a dream. (Sigh)

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Too much Admin!

One extra person is enough. Never mind two!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm not into sex with women

But me and 2 guys? Oh yes

But 1 I know well and 1 other

2 strangers to me wouldn't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s fill this with positivity before it all starts….

I want a three way, but as a single I can only imagine it will one day be with strangers.

Everyone I’ve ever mentioned it to had said no way.

I buy lottery tickets too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it better with near strangers or people you know?

Regardless of if you're a single or not.

Is it harder to organise one where two women need to get along or with two men?

I'd always think getting two guys with the right dynamic would be harder than getting two women.

What do you think? What have you experienced?

Id like a threesome where there's two guys.

And another where's there's two women, but I don't do well with women so I'll join the men on that being a dream. (Sigh)"

All depends on the person / people involved

Ie someone times strangers is best as there isn’t worry that one will catch feels or such

Ie if it’s people you know then one could get jealous or something at least with strangers your really not going to get that

Also better with people that you know as with strangers sometimes you can feel like a play toy if it’s people you know your not going to get that feeling like you do with strangers at all

I would say the hardest one is two woman to set up

I mean if you really want one a club and sorted

Or even vennila pubs and clubs insert your self in to a group off guys and let them take you home that’s if it’s just the treesome you want

Two woman is hard or in less your the unicorn then it’s easy

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By *zdoesit69Man
over a year ago

Hertford

Im not sure which one is easier or harder.. i think finding 2 men may be easier than you think though! Im sure there would be plenty of men who would take you up on your offer!!

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By *9naughtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

torbay

We find it really difficult to find another female to join me and the fella. X

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy."

Ahem...delete football insert rugby please! Or beach volleyball at a push

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

To much going on for me. Prefer 1 to 1s. But better with 2 people you know on an intimate level.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

My introduction to swinging was a threesome with two girls.

I think it needs at least two of the three to already know each other. They then have to welcome and encourage the third.

For a single lady, meeting two men, you should know and trust at least one of the men. Then you know that your back is being watched and you can relax into it.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Is it better with near strangers or people you know?

Regardless of if you're a single or not.

Is it harder to organise one where two women need to get along or with two men?

I'd always think getting two guys with the right dynamic would be harder than getting two women.

What do you think? What have you experienced?

Id like a threesome where there's two guys.

And another where's there's two women, but I don't do well with women so I'll join the men on that being a dream. (Sigh)"

I've only had 3some with two women and me

I've consider offering women the experience of two guy

Me the older experienced one and a younger guy .as lot women would like to experience two guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the people. I've had 3somes of both kinds, some with 1 friend/ 1 stranger and some with 2 friends. They all worked ok. Maybe I just got lucky.

The only weird situation was a woman who got a bit attached to my man mate.

I wouldn't have one with 2 strangers, especially not 2 men.

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By *etsGetLaidMan
over a year ago

Haverhill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My introduction to swinging was a threesome with two girls.

I think it needs at least two of the three to already know each other. They then have to welcome and encourage the third.

*For a single lady, meeting two men, you should know and trust at least one of the men. Then you know that your back is being watched and you can relax into it. "

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy."

What if they're gay and hate football?

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By *etsGetLaidMan
over a year ago

Haverhill

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had quite a few threesomes. I'm bi so I occasionally meet couples and I've had some amazing times. Finding the right couple is key though. Finding a couple who have a very happy secure relationship and who treat me right and not just as a play thing for their own wants and needs is important. It has to be about all 3 of us. I also ensure that the lady is genuinely bi/bi curious and not just pretending to be bi to please her man.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I honestly wouldn’t argue with the other bloke about which hole I got

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I honestly wouldn’t argue with the other bloke about which hole I got "
I'd go for toadin the hole

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Any I've had in the past have always involved someone I knew, I just found it easier that way. Would have loved an all female threesome but alas i can only dream

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy.

Ahem...delete football insert rugby please! Or beach volleyball at a push"

I’ll change it to sport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy.

What if they're gay and hate football?"

Then they wouldn’t want to smash my wife.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I've had quite a few threesomes. I'm bi so I occasionally meet couples and I've had some amazing times. Finding the right couple is key though. Finding a couple who have a very happy secure relationship and who treat me right and not just as a play thing for their own wants and needs is important. It has to be about all 3 of us. I also ensure that the lady is genuinely bi/bi curious and not just pretending to be bi to please her man.

When we first set up this account and Maya was OK then she used to help women who wanted to have bi experience but it had to be her desire and not done for the thrill of the bf or husband I only got invoiled if requested to do so.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We find it a lot better when it’s with people we know and already have some kind of connection with ..We just don’t enjoy it as much with strangers..

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Organising a threesome with 2 women is hard for me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I prefer 2somes, 4somes and moresomes. When there's 3 I'm always worrying about pleasing 2 people at once, when there's more I can assume so eone else is sorting their needs.

Unless it's a cuckcake thing. Those are okay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I honestly wouldn’t argue with the other bloke about which hole I got "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds hot. I’m in.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

My first experience with Fab was with a couple on fab where I was the third and it went very well - along with a very brief and last appearance on cams.

More recently I instigated (for lack of a better word) a Mff threesome which was very enjoyable indeed and hopeful to be able to explore that more further.

I think as long as everyone is on the same page as to was is on and off the cards in terms of play, then you can just enjoy yourself

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy."

Please don’t cast us all liking football. Myself I hate it lol

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

With me, I got a guy that I saw regularly and trusted to bring along another guy, always worked out well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of MM on here guys who like to tag team.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I prefer a bi mmf as much as I love women I enjoy sitting back and watching my husband with another man ..I find that very hot

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I suggest you find a guy you like who has known associates. Some men struggle performing with others let alone strangers. Better to find two who have played together before.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We find that a threesome of any flavour is better with people we’ve got to know.

Lucky to have had some amazing MFF and MMF.

Communication is key. Couples need to understand what the single wants and vice versa.

If it’s mutual then it’s fabulous fun x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

As a couple we find it a lot easier for threesomes - it’s our preferred number.

We were both singles and I think that helps us as we know what makes someone feel more comfortable and relaxed, as we’ve both been there ourselves.

It’s also important that you build a connection up with the single person too and make it known that it’s not 2 vs 1 but 3 people giving and receiving the pleasure - all working together to generate the heat…

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

My last one was MFF. I knew the other women. First time either of us meeting the guy. She had been in communication. It was actually rather unexpected, as I was invited to.join on the day.

Done threesomes as MMF, MFM, FFM, FFF. I've found that it helps knowing at least one of the people. Though I have played with couples in the past too.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I’ve done both mmf and ffm and always with good friends. I can’t imagine it with strangers unless it was some club situation. Friends has always worked for me, hence us repeating a few times since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been trying to organise one with 2 men for a while, alot of men are all talk unfortunately

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Im old fashion I want meeting of minds before bodies and long chat before an meets .but with all things for me its about the woman's needs first and foremost make them happy allow them all their pleasure and you be rewarded. Sadly lot men want 3 somes with two women and can end up getting left out of the equation. Everyone has to have good time other wise there no point that why communication is important .

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Threesomes are great fun but involve a lot of admin. I’m too lazy for it these days.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy."

And rum….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult either way we think

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

From experiences of a few threesomes with women I learnt the women have to get along well.

Two guys at once wouldn't flatter me so I wouldn't do it.

I have heard that the men don't play fair when its MMF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to play with a couple. Feel like I was meant to be a bull.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Organising a threesome with 2 women is hard for me

It's not easy, I rarely get them. From experiences of attempts and not so fun threesomes not many are actually bi sexual they lie to impress the dick and keep it happy until its Showtime and then they can't perform looool

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

About 5 years ago now i was involved in many a 3some and moresome not so much these days, i notice one of the couples has recently came back to fab mind

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've only met women, it is important to me that we all get along and can have a laugh as well as attraction, I'm not sure I could do it with a stranger but then again I'm not looking for a best friend either, as long as there's a good 3 way connection that's great.

Arranging it is always tricky mainly for us and childcare but we usually manage to get away for an evening.

Mrs

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By *alsam1Couple
over a year ago

Caister

Really tough to get all available at the right time!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero chance now that the football is back on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone looking in or near Shrewsbury?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

I want to be in the splash zone haha. Half time is good for teasing fore play

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

Ooft - in!! How about setting a timer with a warning alarm to tell when you need to wrap things up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

Ooft - in!! How about setting a timer with a warning alarm to tell when you need to wrap things up?

We'll time it by strokes

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy.

Ahem...delete football insert rugby please! Or beach volleyball at a push"

Ahem...not that simple. Delete the football and the rugby from my list and insert cock!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

Ooft - in!! How about setting a timer with a warning alarm to tell when you need to wrap things up?

We'll time it by strokes

Hope you're doing the counting then!!

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

Ooft - in!! How about setting a timer with a warning alarm to tell when you need to wrap things up?

We'll time it by strokes

I’m happy to sit by and signal the end with an old school bell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

Ooft - in!! How about setting a timer with a warning alarm to tell when you need to wrap things up?

We'll time it by strokes

Hope you're doing the counting then!!

I'll need a calculator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

Ooft - in!! How about setting a timer with a warning alarm to tell when you need to wrap things up?

We'll time it by strokes

I’m happy to sit by and signal the end with an old school bell

Sorted!! We have a referee/time keeper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think it's better with people you know. I used to meet up with 2 friends regularly and those days/nights were amazing

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

Ooft - in!! How about setting a timer with a warning alarm to tell when you need to wrap things up?

We'll time it by strokes

I’m happy to sit by and signal the end with an old school bell

Sorted!! We have a referee/time keeper!"

Perfect - just need to sort which game you want me to ruin for you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I think it's better with people you know. I used to meet up with 2 friends regularly and those days/nights were amazing

Omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

Ooft - in!! How about setting a timer with a warning alarm to tell when you need to wrap things up?

We'll time it by strokes

I’m happy to sit by and signal the end with an old school bell

Sorted!! We have a referee/time keeper!

Perfect - just need to sort which game you want me to ruin for you now

You're clearly intoxicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I think it's better with people you know. I used to meet up with 2 friends regularly and those days/nights were amazing

Omg

You're only jealous.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Zero chance now that the football is back on

Not even at half-time? Thought that was about as long as you lasted anyway....

Rude

I actually lasted 17 minutes once in 2017. So don't be so judgey

Ooft - in!! How about setting a timer with a warning alarm to tell when you need to wrap things up?

We'll time it by strokes

I’m happy to sit by and signal the end with an old school bell

Sorted!! We have a referee/time keeper!

Perfect - just need to sort which game you want me to ruin for you now

You're clearly intoxicated

Nah - I've not had breakfast yet

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

OP I think it depends on what you want. Most (all?) of the threesomes I have had have been with couples. I have always been the third.

If you are organising as the F then I think you need to decide if you like the anonymity of people you have never met before or if you want the security/knowledge that at least one of them will turn up and they actually turn you on.

I would suggest your biggest issue is actually getting people to turn up - too many people like the idea of group sex but then bottle it when it actually comes time to meet. Go with people you have met or have veris that show they meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy.

And rum…."

I’m definitely adding rum to the list.

Anyone else who said no to football, it’s just not going to work out. What are we supposed to talk about when she goes to make the sandwiches?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We have only ever had a threesome with people where we both had a connection with them, we don’t do enough club visits to pull in a stranger

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Have a couple of bi lady friends and the thought / prospect has come up ( no pun) on occasion...

If they made a new lady friend they were comfortable with and then introduce me into thwt scenario in some fashion...granted that's fmf...

Mfm, surely just join in with a couple, granted thats from my perspective ...but a couple that want 3 way is ready made in that regard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know as I've not had one or am I likely to be invited to one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have only ever had a threesome with people where we both had a connection with them, we don’t do enough club visits to pull in a stranger

D."

I'll toss myself in for this experiment.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"We have only ever had a threesome with people where we both had a connection with them, we don’t do enough club visits to pull in a stranger

I'll toss myself in for this experiment.

You need to stop sending me morning nudes if you want to play the stranger F!

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy."

You forgot beer

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Is it better with near strangers or people you know?

Regardless of if you're a single or not.

Is it harder to organise one where two women need to get along or with two men?

I'd always think getting two guys with the right dynamic would be harder than getting two women.

What do you think? What have you experienced?

Id like a threesome where there's two guys.

And another where's there's two women, but I don't do well with women so I'll join the men on that being a dream. (Sigh)"

One you've met before and one stranger is probably the best imo or if meeting a couple, meet them socially first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t organise a threesome at a threesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn’t organise a threesome at a threesome

I know. So much paperwork!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think it’s better if you get to know them first. I’ve had a threesome with someone I didn’t know very well and it just wasn’t as good of an experience. If the other people also know each other a little before it’s better, I think everyone can be a lot more comfortable around each other then.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Most of my threesomes have been with women who are best friends with each other, or with MF couples. In fact, I think all of them have. I’m usually the newbie in the mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The easy lazy option for mfm is two mates who have a profile set up for this. The dynamic has worked well for me, as they know eachother, sort of know what they're doing and don't get performance issues with eachother. Bi mfm is the horny dream!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I stick to people I know usually but today I did contact a MM Profile who live nearby.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Yep. I feel like the right couple is the unicorn, not the other way around.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We've had spontaneous ones, and ones with people we already knew on some level. It's definitely the ones that you have some familiarity with that work better and are hotter

LvM

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We have limited experience with threesomes. Mainly limited by opportunity (busy lifes) but also really hard to find the right third. I guess we sound fussy but we just want something that flows completely naturally where all parties just lose themselves in the moment.

I'd not sure if strangers v people you know is one better than the other per se. I think it's more just an individual case by case thing. There is a logic to being with people you know well. However in our own (limited) experience spontaneous encounters with people we've met that night have worked better.

As to if two females or two males make the best threesome that's hard for us to judge because finding the right male third seems to be the most illusive thing. For all the males on the scene the right male for us seems to be the most difficult unicorn for us to find. We've had more success finding ladies that work for us than guys. Our best threesome experience was years ago when we had a wonderful lady we'd met earlier at a party say in our room for the night (even though she was booked in another room). We just spent the whole night together messing around, laughing and cuddling. It was just the effortless, carefree, natural, free love sort of night we love. Only down side was we got no sleep all night. We would like a lot more of that with ladies and gents but that chemistry is hard to find.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I find it best when you have a friend who likes planning & takes care of it all

Seriously, what’s hassle for sone is fun for others, shortlisting, interviewing, planning etc but also in friendship groups sometimes it just comes together. Getting another guy here is so easy, getting another woman usually means having the pre existing relationships and doing the intro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've definitely found arranging 2 guys more difficult. As a single girl it's kind of easy to find couples. But 2 guys who will do it the way I want it... bit tricky. Only time I managed it was finding a pair of friends on here. 2 strangers would be much harder I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a threesome and foursome meet from here, both times were because I was the 'random guy nearby' at the time.

Works for me as I'm more of a spur of the moment person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a mmmf with 3 good friends...they had zero inhibitions...that dynamic worked well.

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By *oquars19458Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy.

Dont forget beer

Ahem...delete football insert rugby please! Or beach volleyball at a push"

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By *oquars19458Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Any I've had in the past have always involved someone I knew, I just found it easier that way. Would have loved an all female threesome but alas i can only dream

Tinder "

Adult work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems to be that over the last 5 years the men I have known wouldn't have been in the same room with the other guy I expressed an interest in with me.

Trust me I made plenty of suggestions.

Comments like needing to get their head round it

Not matching up to the other guy.

Or worse

Kinda leaves me feeling I need lookalikes and almost identical guys in all ways to pull it off.

I had one threesome with a guy I was sleeping with where he found the guy. That was good and worked well but I insisted on meeting the guy for a social with him and it was very weird, the guy I was seeing had insisted there was no need for a social but I insisted there was.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't like the idea of two strangers.

Its not the same in my head at all.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Do you go to clubs?

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Surprised your inbox hasn't exploded with offers, plenty of couples are looking for a +1 female, fairly certain your forumite friends you have got to know since forever would jump at the chance.

If not for distance, we would be one of them.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

"...the guy I was seeing had insisted there was no need for a social but I insisted there was."

I think you are right. I wouldn't want to have a threesome without meeting the lady first. I like to find out a little about what she likes and that she is an enthusiastic and willing participant.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"It seems to be that over the last 5 years the men I have known wouldn't have been in the same room with the other guy I expressed an interest in with me.

Trust me I made plenty of suggestions.

Comments like needing to get their head round it

Not matching up to the other guy.

Or worse

Kinda leaves me feeling I need lookalikes and almost identical guys in all ways to pull it off.

Just to point out that not all men are into mfm (evident on this thread too). Of course if someone's not comfortable with something or doesn't really desire it there will be issues at every turn. Then those that are well into it will do the admin for you, cos they want it to happen (perhaps too enthusiastically sometimes!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given chance think be horny as hell count me in be first for me

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Getting one guy to turn up when arranging is hard enough... Maybe they'd just have to bring one of their mates?

I'll add it to my fucket list for the rest of this year and let you know if I succeed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Surprised your inbox hasn't exploded with offers, plenty of couples are looking for a +1 female, fairly certain your forumite friends you have got to know since forever would jump at the chance.

If not for distance, we would be one of them."

It hasn't at all. 2/3 offers all day.

Not an explosion like people seem to think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Getting one guy to turn up when arranging is hard enough... Maybe they'd just have to bring one of their mates?

I'll add it to my fucket list for the rest of this year and let you know if I succeed!"

Isn't that the truth! I'm going to raise my age range again it's stupid.

Yes let me know if you do!

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy."

I’m not really into football…

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"Is it better with near strangers or people you know?

Regardless of if you're a single or not.

Is it harder to organise one where two women need to get along or with two men?

I'd always think getting two guys with the right dynamic would be harder than getting two women.

What do you think? What have you experienced?

Id like a threesome where there's two guys.

And another where's there's two women, but I don't do well with women so I'll join the men on that being a dream. (Sigh)"

Wait what!? You don't do well with women? Nope I need to understand that, in what way? Bad experiences? It can't be lack of offers? Lack of offers from people who you are attracted to? something else?

The only threesome I have had so far was with a male, female couple. That was amazing. I want to like and have a connection with the people I play with whatever the dynamic, gender or number of people involved

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

It would be easier to organised in a club rather that privately from what I gathered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blokes are simple creatures…

Football

Vagina

Boobs

That’s all they need. Everything else is optional so threesomes are easy."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time meeting it is social. Then see who drops out.

Local people who do not know me.. Lots of those

Far away they run a mile at distance

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