FabSwingers.com forum: Not Desperate.... just a dry spell

By *reative-mind OP Man
over a year ago

Exeter

Wanted to add a variation on a theme.

So I've got a friend who is currently having a dry spell, 4 months and counting.

so prey tell what is the longest you or a friend of yours (like myself) has gone without sex since you popped you're cherry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since lock down

True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drew a moustache on my right hand. Kept me going for a while.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

8 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 weeks, because of childbirth

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By *reative-mind OP Man
over a year ago

Exeter

"I drew a moustache on my right hand. Kept me going for a while. "

Good idea I'll... I mean my friend should give that a try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've had longer, but I'm sitting at eight months at the moment. Entirely my choice and I'm not trying to change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanted to add a variation on a theme.

Let’s be honest, it’s s homage isn’t it?

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Longest was 4 years.

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

2 years I think

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By *reative-mind OP Man
over a year ago

Exeter

"Wanted to add a variation on a theme.

Let’s be honest, it’s s homage isn’t it? "

I was to shy to write that so explicitly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck knows tbh... probably at least a year.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Wanted to add a variation on a theme.

Let’s be honest, it’s s homage isn’t it? "

This is not the greatest thread in the world, this is just a tribute

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

2 years or more. Bad times!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Proberly 3years we don't count blow jobs bill Clinton said I did not have sex with that woman .miss Lewinsky .and I quote .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years lockdowns

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

A few years. Can't actually remember how long. And I was in my early 30s too.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

18 months - lockdown

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By *warf with a mulletMan
over a year ago

barry

"Wanted to add a variation on a theme.

So I've got a friend who is currently having a dry spell, 4 months and counting.

so prey tell what is the longest you or a friend of yours (like myself) has gone without sex since you popped you're cherry. "

About 18 months, but I popped it at 14 when I was on holiday,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 months - lockdown"

Same beautiful then came out off it and went a little wild

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

5 years and I didn't miss it everything else was great

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By *urvelover87Man
over a year ago

London

About two years. It was more of a drought than a dry spell

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

15 yrs before joining fab!

I was busy raising my son and didn't want a trail of broken relationships in his childhood, did try dating but no one stood out enough to take to bed.

It took me a long time to realise you could have sex without the social norm of a relationship, son grew up and I found fab

Jill x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around a decade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are talking years please tell me you've had other means of getting off?!

Surely you can't last more than a month without cumming!!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I do not even remember. That’s how long it’s been been been been… oh look a echooo….

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

17-25 years old so 7 years

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I took a year of celibacy once, including no masturbation. But I rarely have to go long without through any decisions outside my own.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

A year. It was a conscious choice. Didn't feel like that big of a deal in all honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year so far through choice just wanted a break from guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 4 years. I got too focused on work, realized i should i probably focus on enjoying life a bit more. Cut the hours down. Made some changes that i normally considered outside of my box.

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east

Too long. Weirdly after all the million messages I don't get desperate just more fussy lol

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east

"A year so far through choice just wanted a break from guys

I know that feeling. Takes special someone to change that lol

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east

" 17-25 years old so 7 years"

Still a virgin? Wow

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By *onny boy cMan
over a year ago

chorlton

6 years

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Been so long i cant even remember just how long

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Wanted to add a variation on a theme.

So I've got a friend who is currently having a dry spell, 4 months and counting.

so prey tell what is the longest you or a friend of yours (like myself) has gone without sex since you popped you're cherry. "
12 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 6 months when I was younger. I was awful! Never again!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

A good year or so very early 20s - then I woke up one day thought what an I doing, realised my standards were crazy, and had sex later that week with a tinder date

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
over a year ago

Bristol

There have been several long dry spells, one was well over a year, but the less you have the less fussed about it you are and stop actively seeking it after a while

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"There have been several long dry spells, one was well over a year, but the less you have the less fussed about it you are and stop actively seeking it after a while "

This is very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 2 years.

4 months is nothing!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Over 2 years.

4 months is nothing!

4 months seems like a weekly occurrence currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest dry spell I've had is 2 years.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

" 17-25 years old so 7 years

Still a virgin? Wow"

Lol no, lost it at 16 with gf, then just 7 years of not even a date..

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By *heelyAceWoman
over a year ago

newport pagnell

7 years.

I was married, he was not a nice person.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Almost three years through covid

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke

2 years and counting

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I was married 12 years, the last 5 years we didn't have sex. We then divorced, people always ask me why did you stay together for so long if you weren't intimate with eachother, simple answer was, I loved her and I thought we could work things out.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

13 years x

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