FabSwingers.com forum: Are you judgey?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People really are judgemental...I can tell just by looking at them....

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I dont care enough to judge folk anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont care enough to judge folk anymore "

Oh, I'm so sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all judge. It's human nature. It's inbuilt in us for survival.

I judge people who don't pick up after their dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

I don't think that I have ever seen someone in a dressing gown in the street.

I used to love going to Tesco at 02.00 or 03.00 in the morning, when it was empty except for the insomniacs and mum's walking around trying to get their babies to sleep. Did not judge people turning up in their PJs.

I do judge drivers who go through pedestrian crossings when I am crossing the road with my dog - more than judge, significant amount of abuse and gesticulating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

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I don't think that I have ever seen someone in a dressing gown in the street.

I do judge drivers who go through pedestrian crossings when I am crossing the road with my dog - more than judge, significant amount of abuse and gesticulating!"

*** rogue apostrophe there after mum - implying it was only one mum (and possibly mine at that!)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"We all judge. It's human nature. It's inbuilt in us for survival.

Exactly. It doesn't mean you need to be a twonk with that but pretending you don't is daft. Not all judging is negative either.

I judge parents who scream at young children - toddlers.

I judge people who say expresso.

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm nit judgemental...each to their own.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Littering, particularly when there's a bin a short distance away

All sorts of fashion choices (I don't say anything, I just note it and amuse myself)

Anyone who tells me they don't read

Those who like to show off that they aren't community minded (this seems to be an online phenomenon)

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"I dont care enough to judge folk anymore

Oh, I'm so sorry

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no need its very freeing makes life much less stressful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear them to put my bins out cause generally I've woken up late and it's beat the binman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went out in my dressing gown this morning, the cat was yowling at the whole street loudly, it was either I go out and stop her or the street has to listen to her. So I stopped her

If they want to judge me for it, they can, it tells me more about them than they saying about me, doesn’t it

Besides they’re all air bnb so I give no flying what they think tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all judge. It's human nature. It's inbuilt in us for survival.

I judge people who don't pick up after their dogs "

Agreed! I pickup after mine and it makes me angry to see all the dumps

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.

Except Crocs.

People who wear those are sociopaths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to be judgey but I can't help it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

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I don't think that I have ever seen someone in a dressing gown in the street.

I do judge drivers who go through pedestrian crossings when I am crossing the road with my dog - more than judge, significant amount of abuse and gesticulating!"

There is a woman in my street whom I have never seen without a dressing gown! It's cos in in t'Norf I guess

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I judge those 'lowbrow' folk who drink Pumpkin Spice Lattes, especially those with sizeable cleavages who should know better.

One day you shall have your comeuppance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.

Except Crocs.

People who wear those are sociopaths."

I knew crocs would feature

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"We all judge. It's human nature. It's inbuilt in us for survival.

Exactly. It doesn't mean you need to be a twonk with that but pretending you don't is daft. Not all judging is negative either.

I judge parents who scream at young children - toddlers.

I judge people who say expresso. "

That made me laugh. There are quite a few that say expresso, aren't they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately yes.

And apparently, it's bad.

I should be so open minded, my brain falls out.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I judge those 'lowbrow' folk who drink Pumpkin Spice Lattes, especially those with sizeable cleavages who should know better.

One day you shall have your comeuppance."

Lowbrow. Low. Fucking. Brow.

Hope you realise you've just signed yourself up to receive photos of my ascent in to spooky season. And the photo of my first PSL of the year.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can judge people silently or make your judgement known

I judge bad behaviour like blasting music, skipping queues, etc

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I judge people who say expresso.

That made me laugh. There are quite a few that say expresso, aren't they

Yes! I try really hard to keep a poker face but expresso. Really? Ah well, at least hell will be warm.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I judge people who chuck litter on floor

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.

Except Crocs.

People who wear those are sociopaths."

I don't kink shame people for clothing.

I just have a giggle to myself

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Right now I am! Someone has just got on the tram and put their soaking wet brolly on the seat next to them!

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

We're all judgey. I'm particularly judgemental about judgemental people.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

I judge Meli for being judgy

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"I judge people who say expresso.

That made me laugh. There are quite a few that say expresso, aren't they

Yes! I try really hard to keep a poker face but expresso. Really? Ah well, at least hell will be warm.

Especially if followed up with 'pronto'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a letter go out at my children’s primary school once asking parents not to do the school run in pyjamas and dressing gowns

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I judge Meli for being judgy "

Hi Kai. I shall accept that judgement gracefully and not judge it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?

Wow.

Yes. We do. They are exceptional.

Heathen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a letter go out at my children’s primary school once asking parents not to do the school run in pyjamas and dressing gowns

Big fucking oof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's things I am judgey on and others I'm not.

If someone does something wrong. Drops litter, dog mess, the things not accepted by society.

However, I don't judge people for their individuality. What you wear, what you do, who you sleep with, what you believe, what you eat, colour, hair style...

Are none of my business. If I like you, I like you for who you are.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Forgive me Fabther for I have sinned.

I have judged and judged some more. I have spent my morning judging those that say they don't judge, all while they are judging too. Now I am feeling judged for my choices of judgement.

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By *ood time Chris BMan
over a year ago

TAUNTON AREA

Yes I judge but have been proven wrong so many times

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?

Wow.

Yes. We do. They are exceptional.

Heathen. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not judgey just fastidiously observant with decision making included in my process.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I have no judgement for those who give off hearty laughters.

But I will judge those who giggle, chortle, snort and titter. And please don't get me started on those who guffaw. For goodness sake, this is real life; it's not The Beano or The Dandy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?

Wow.

Yes. We do. They are exceptional.

Heathen.

Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.

If you know, you know.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?

Wow.

Yes. We do. They are exceptional.

Heathen.

Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.

If you know, you know. "

I'm going to remain a heathen thank you!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I judge people who chuck litter on floor"

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Totally agree, fine sir. And those who spit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a letter go out at my children’s primary school once asking parents not to do the school run in pyjamas and dressing gowns

Big fucking oof

And it wasn’t aimed at me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Judge! Moi!?

I wear a wig and gown just walking down the street. Don't get me started on people who come to my home town on holiday

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?

Wow.

Yes. We do. They are exceptional.

Heathen.

Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.

If you know, you know. "

Fancy as Marmite sesh?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We all judge it's human nature, I judge the shit drivers probably more than anyone else and the personalised number plates, why you need everyone to know this Corsa belongs to Julie I don't know and it's strange when you mention their name along with their shit driving/parking they seem offended moreso that you know their name.

If you want to keep it private don't plaster it on your car.

Ok I've maybe road rage issues.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I also judge those who spit on the street.

It's minging, no need.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I judge those 'lowbrow' folk who drink Pumpkin Spice Lattes, especially those with sizeable cleavages who should know better.

One day you shall have your comeuppance."

That is..quite niche. So glad I don't drink coffee.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont care enough to judge folk anymore

Oh, I'm so sorry

no need its very freeing makes life much less stressful"

I'm sure you're right. I'm still a judgmental cow sadly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all judge it's human nature, I judge the shit drivers probably more than anyone else and the personalised number plates, why you need everyone to know this Corsa belongs to Julie I don't know and it's strange when you mention their name along with their shit driving/parking they seem offended moreso that you know their name.

If you want to keep it private don't plaster it on your car.

Ok I've maybe road rage issues.

Mrs "

Road rage is a WHOLE other thread!

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"I dont care enough to judge folk anymore

Oh, I'm so sorry

no need its very freeing makes life much less stressful

I'm sure you're right. I'm still a judgmental cow sadly! "
cows only judge farmers wives who dont pull there nipples

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

Anyone wearing crocs

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

"I went out in my dressing gown this morning, the cat was yowling at the whole street loudly, it was either I go out and stop her or the street has to listen to her. So I stopped her

If they want to judge me for it, they can, it tells me more about them than they saying about me, doesn’t it

Besides they’re all air bnb so I give no flying what they think tbh"

That’s something I’ve never understood; I thought that’s what dressing gowns were for: making you look presentable to others.

There! I’ve judged you. positively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a letter go out at my children’s primary school once asking parents not to do the school run in pyjamas and dressing gowns

Big fucking oof

And it wasn’t aimed at me

Of course not, that'd be a crocheted gown.

Totally different vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?

Wow.

Yes. We do. They are exceptional.

Heathen.

Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.

If you know, you know.

Fancy as Marmite sesh?

Gotta have tea with it though.

Because it's a dangerous snack, literally coats the inside of your mouth with that black salty tar.

The rinse is essential.

OK I'm really selling this now I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont care enough to judge folk anymore

Oh, I'm so sorry

no need its very freeing makes life much less stressful

I'm sure you're right. I'm still a judgmental cow sadly! cows only judge farmers wives who dont pull there nipples"

Kinky cows

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I judge people who like marmite. What is wrong with you!?!? Do you not have taste buds?

Wow.

Yes. We do. They are exceptional.

Heathen.

Even better on cold toast, butter not melted in, marmite smudged into the butter.

If you know, you know.

Fancy as Marmite sesh?

Gotta have tea with it though.

Because it's a dangerous snack, literally coats the inside of your mouth with that black salty tar.

The rinse is essential.

OK I'm really selling this now I know."

Er...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely we all are judgemental, I try not to be.

But fuck me some of the posts I've seen on the forums lately.... I wonder how many people they make as enemies with what they post. I've seen it and thought fuck I really don't like you. Yet this is supposed to be an inclusive environment. Is it fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no judgement for those who give off hearty laughters.

But I will judge those who giggle, chortle, snort and titter. And please don't get me started on those who guffaw. For goodness sake, this is real life; it's not The Beano or The Dandy."

Damn it. I snort. My children cringe.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

We all judge or perhaps on many cases just disassociate. Some I can think of are people who are loud and inconsiderate how their behaviour affects others whether in public places or as neighbours. People who think you should be driving at the speed they want you to. Those waiting at the till behind you and have no social skills to know you should not breath at someone's neck unless in an intimate situation. There are quote a few more but as anything else what bothers one person is not always what bothers another

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I judge people who cheat. And i'm not sorry.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I judge people who cheat. And i'm not sorry."

Yes this for me too.

Mrs

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"I judge people who chuck litter on floor

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Totally agree, fine sir. And those who spit.

Unless they spit on my cock, that's totally acceptable

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By *oodsman1000Man
over a year ago

Hereford

I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring "

I've not drank for 12 years

my life is tragic

But hey, I still find some things to do.

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By *oodsman1000Man
over a year ago

Hereford

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring

I've not drank for 12 years

my life is tragic

But hey, I still find some things to do."

Were you in prison

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring

I've not drank for 12 years

my life is tragic

But hey, I still find some things to do.

Were you in prison "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring

I've not drank for 12 years

my life is tragic

But hey, I still find some things to do.

Were you in prison "

Nah, I took up Pokemon Go

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By *oodsman1000Man
over a year ago

Hereford

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring

I've not drank for 12 years

my life is tragic

But hey, I still find some things to do.

Were you in prison

Nah, I took up Pokemon Go"

Could have been monopoly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring

I've not drank for 12 years

my life is tragic

But hey, I still find some things to do.

Were you in prison

Nah, I took up Pokemon Go

Could have been monopoly "

Then I would go to jail

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring "

I don't need chemical help to have fun

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By *oodsman1000Man
over a year ago

Hereford

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring

I've not drank for 12 years

my life is tragic

But hey, I still find some things to do.

Were you in prison

Nah, I took up Pokemon Go

Could have been monopoly

Then I would go to jail "

Ha ha ha ha, very good..

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By *oodsman1000Man
over a year ago

Hereford

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring

I don't need chemical help to have fun

Each to their own..

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Aren't they just fluffy coats?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We all judge to a degree it’s human nature.Some people are more judgmental than others tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aren't they just fluffy coats?

NO! (wanders off muttering unintelligibly)

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By *aughtyPeepzMan
over a year ago

London

This made me laugh as I saw someone this morning wearing a dressing gown to the shop.....like you I was a bit judgy lol

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By *oodsman1000Man
over a year ago

Hereford

"We all judge to a degree it’s human nature.Some people are more judgmental than others tho."

I just judged your photos..high 9

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This made me laugh as I saw someone this morning wearing a dressing gown to the shop.....like you I was a bit judgy lol"

IKR!! I have never and would never say a word. I don't know people's circumstances. But OMFG put a bloody jumper on.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"This made me laugh as I saw someone this morning wearing a dressing gown to the shop.....like you I was a bit judgy lol

IKR!! I have never and would never say a word. I don't know people's circumstances. But OMFG put a bloody jumper on. "

When red eyeshadow was all the rage, a friend of mine (overseas) had a lot of fun sharing thoughts about people deliberately adorning themselves like they had an eye infection.

Was I judging? Yes. Did it hurt anyone? No.

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I am very judgy on one thing in particular.

The won't work people. Please do not confuse this with can't work due to medical condition, caring for family or young children. No, what I hate ate people who have no reason not to work, but still don't, and live on benefits.

Drives me nuts. I have been working since I was 16. Not a single gap in employment. If I was ever out of work my first priority would be to take any job, rather than sit about waiting on the right job

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t judge , not even those that judge. There’s likely a valid reason they do it - lack of self awareness , past pain etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often judge people if they don’t judge me

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I would not judge anyone on what they do, who they are, where they live, whether the work or not, how they dress etc. I would only do so if their actions inpinge on me in some specific way. Otherwise it is just none of my business

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

We all judge other in someway be it for trying be posh when I know they owo me money for work I done or whatever I never look down on someone dirty work clothes etc I think a least there working or a tied looking parent etc. Last week was working in a terrace house looking out upstairs window car pull up lady in dressing grown came out house across road gave him money I think got small package off him. Ran back in, guess drugs I felt more sorry for her if it was than judged

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I'm sure I judge intelligence.

I'm not talking about people of high intelligence just those people who have to remind themselves to breathe. Those people, I judge those

Marc

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I judge people for ignorant behavior.

Em x

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.

Except Crocs.

People who wear those are sociopaths."

I LOVE my crocs. Superlightweight when packing for travel. They float. They're comfy. Quick to dry. Easy to clean.

But I'm not a sociopath, and anyone who says I am goes on a very detailed revenge list with horrendous outcomes for them.

And I feel no shame in my crocs or the list.

Gbat

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By *oodsman1000Man
over a year ago

Hereford

"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.

Except Crocs.

People who wear those are sociopaths.

I LOVE my crocs. Superlightweight when packing for travel. They float. They're comfy. Quick to dry. Easy to clean.

But I'm not a sociopath, and anyone who says I am goes on a very detailed revenge list with horrendous outcomes for them.

And I feel no shame in my crocs or the list.

Gbat "

Really depends on the colour

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep I judge those who lie or use others .

Also anyone who hurts animal/older people or children .

We all judge others,it's human nature.Many do seem to like to use judge as an insult though when they don't like another's opinion.

Miss

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I agree judging is a part of human nature.

Not all things natural are automatically good though.

Some of it is about people not conforming to our belief systems. I Judge people for expecting others to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to at all

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Also anyone who hurts animal/older people or children. "

Genuine question and ironically for a thread about judging, I'm not actually judging you, just keen to understand.

Do you really have less compassion for say, an adult victim of domestic violence? Or a woman who is stranger r@aped while walking home. What about victims of genocide and war?

Honestly, I'm not trying to start an argument, but wonder why you put some people and even animals on a higher pedestal than others?

Ta,

Gbat

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

That, I judge that

I was away to say nooooo I’m not judgemental at all but no, seeing the PJs in the local coop does spark some level of judgement

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Also anyone who hurts animal/older people or children.

Genuine question and ironically for a thread about judging, I'm not actually judging you, just keen to understand.

Do you really have less compassion for say, an adult victim of domestic violence? Or a woman who is stranger r@aped while walking home. What about victims of genocide and war?

Honestly, I'm not trying to start an argument, but wonder why you put some people and even animals on a higher pedestal than others?

Ta,

Gbat "

No there are lots of people I'd judge for things,including those you've suggested.They just came to mind as I see them as unable to defend themselves as much as others.

If I listed everything that made me judge/sick I'd probably be here a while .

It's not a case of putting anyone/thing on a pedestal.Im a big animal lover & I guess I get fed up of seeing constant cruelty.

Maybe we might judge differently depending on what we regularly see online and social media etc .

I despise any type of bullying or needless violence to anyone regardless of gender /age etc.

Hope that helps

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

I'm judgey. As a trauma survivor, my brain goes "is this person a threat or no threat...or I trust this person or I wouldn't trust this person right now even if my life depended on it."

that's about it. Therapy made me not care about the rest. People can do what they want as long as they do not directly harm me. If they make me emotionally unbalanced then, I'm well within my rights to avert my eyes, cover my ears, hold my nose, decline to taste and swallow and remove myself from their presence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never kink shame anyone, for clothing, lack thereof or acts people get up to.

Except Crocs.

People who wear those are sociopaths.

I LOVE my crocs. Superlightweight when packing for travel. They float. They're comfy. Quick to dry. Easy to clean.

But I'm not a sociopath, and anyone who says I am goes on a very detailed revenge list with horrendous outcomes for them.

And I feel no shame in my crocs or the list.

Gbat

Really depends on the colour "

Or if they're fleece lined

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over a year ago

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

)

That, I judge that

I was away to say nooooo I’m not judgemental at all but no, seeing the PJs in the local coop does spark some level of judgement "

See! It's not just me! I took one of my kids to the dentist after school and a lady walked past in her dressing grown. I judged internally so HARD I nearly squirted.

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

Dunno if I judge that kind of thing necessarily. I'd maybe feel a bit sorry for them as they can't have a great deal of self respect...which is quite a judgey thing to say I suppose.

I do judge people based on how they treat their children though. We can all have a bad day and lose the rag but I've been close to drop kicking some cunts across the car park when I've heard how horrible they can be to their kids out shopping for example.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

)

Dunno if I judge that kind of thing necessarily. I'd maybe feel a bit sorry for them as they can't have a great deal of self respect...which is quite a judgey thing to say I suppose.

Yeah it's the lack of self-respect I'm judging. But then I've done things that show little self-respect at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything and everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who ride bikes with child seats in busy areas.

Similarly, people who take their kids shopping at night, can't control their kid's screaming and generally shouldn't be breeding.

Also, people in general, meh.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"We all judge. It's human nature. It's inbuilt in us for survival.

I judge people who don't pick up after their dogs "

I'm judging you. You've removed your topless bath shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

What? The integrity of top level footballers. The cheating bastards!!!!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Yes; it’s one of my personal favourite pastimes

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I judge the life out of some people on the forums. Where I should remain objective and judge them as they are In person. But there just so cuntish. But is that really a reflection of me. Here I go judging myself for being judgey of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with terrible diction. I truly apologise. I just can’t help it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone "

Disappointing entry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes; it’s one of my personal favourite pastimes

Is there anything specifically that gets your judgey pants tingling?

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Oh yes, I think we all are in different scenarios

It’s all about knowing when to say something out loud & when to just shut up & move on with you day

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By *_elie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Do you judge?

Judgement can be assessment (in relation to yourself and perfectly permissible - ie preferences) or it can be condemnation. Silent condemnation is harmless, ie you keep it to yourself. Verbalise it and someone may conden you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh yes, I think we all are in different scenarios

It’s all about knowing when to say something out loud & when to just shut up & move on with you day

Sometimes it's written all over my face even if I say nowt! I try not to say anything because it's not my business.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Yes; it’s one of my personal favourite pastimes

Is there anything specifically that gets your judgey pants tingling? "

In accordance with the rather charming phrase; ‘Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes.’

….See, no way am I trying on that decidedly coarse looking dudes shoes; he might have veruccas or some similarly highly contagious fungal infection. Not only that, but I’ve seen those shoes on eBay - they’re clearly knock offs….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes; it’s one of my personal favourite pastimes

Is there anything specifically that gets your judgey pants tingling?

In accordance with the rather charming phrase; ‘Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes.’

But at least not crocs.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Try not to be! But inevitably probably am sometimes x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As soon as I see a Honda jazz infront I know it’s Betty and the blue rinse crew off to bingo.

The mr

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

In my job I’m very judgmental and I happily get proven wrong quite often….

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

People who believe the news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parents always taught us:

"Try not to judge, your life isn't over and you may very well end up in the same situation"

Always stood by their advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As soon as I see a Honda jazz infront I know it’s Betty and the blue rinse crew off to bingo.

The mr "

Ooh Betty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats on your first thread OP

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.

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over a year ago

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth."

Ok Judgey McJudgeson

No but I didn’t actually know that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Congrats on your first thread OP"

Why thank you, King of Threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth."

Did you...did you just judge me?

PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I found myself almost judging the number of people blaming it on human nature, but then I thought hang on, maybe they actually do know what they just said and why

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.

Did you...did you just judge me?

PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!"

Oh the irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Congrats on your first thread OP

Why thank you, King of Threads"

King of the threads- going in my bio

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.

Did you...did you just judge me?

PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!

Oh the irony

Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Do you judge?

I get ask for my professional judgement all the time & I make assessments & decisions all the time but I think ‘Judgy’ means seeing someone do something - wearing pyjamas in a supermarket or not picking up dog shit - and letting your mind create a scenario about them and why they did it.

Some people might need that ,but it’s certainly not human nature

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Congrats on your first thread OP

Why thank you, King of Threads

King of the threads- going in my bio"

Yass!

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.

Did you...did you just judge me?

PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!

Oh the irony

Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated.

I did wonder at first if it was a trap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.

Did you...did you just judge me?

PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!

Oh the irony

Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated.

I did wonder at first if it was a trap

Yes, but for Cornucopia

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.

Did you...did you just judge me?

PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!

Oh the irony

Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated.

I did wonder at first if it was a trap

Yes, but for Cornucopia

Getting much better at spotting traps, the Missus once asked me what Mansplaining is, we stared at each other in silence for 20 minutes.

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

"People really are judgemental...I can tell just by looking at them....

"
brilliant

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

)"
I agree dressing gowns should never be seen in public

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.

Did you...did you just judge me?

PS I know it's not a word, but it suited the thread!

Oh the irony

Tbh I was surprised no-one pulled me up on it earlier. You did well! I wince at orientated.

I did wonder at first if it was a trap

Yes, but for Cornucopia

Getting much better at spotting traps, the Missus once asked me what Mansplaining is, we stared at each other in silence for 20 minutes."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

)I agree dressing gowns should never be seen in public

On a mannequin in a shop is acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people who don't drink. Must be soooo boring "

Why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I judge those who talk about ‘the great reset’, the Covid ‘hoax’ and other stupid conspiracy theories.

Also anyone who believes that Nigel Farage is on their side.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth."
grinding your teeth is bad for you don't do it...... Dentist trips are expensive

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.

Ok Judgey McJudgeson

No but I didn’t actually know that

Why u like dis? Lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Made it to 124 comments biting my tongue but can't do it any longer.

There's no such word as Judgey.

It's Judgmental.

Judgey has invariably been forced into existence and it makes me grind my teeth.grinding your teeth is bad for you don't do it...... Dentist trips are expensive

Facts..wear your mouth guards people!!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

)I agree dressing gowns should never be seen in public

Me taking out the trash, in my dressing gown on the street in Wandsworth at 6am because the council refused to give us residents rubbish bins, only to be confronted by all my neighbours trash that they put out the night before when they come home in their work clothes that the foxes got into overnight..... Nah while they are judging me in my dressing gown..I'm judging all the trash in the street..Lol!

They can't be arsed to give us bins. They can't be arsed to not put food in their rubbish bags and put the rubbish out at 6am. The foxes can't be arsed to leave it all alone and I can't be arsed to get out of my dressing gown. Lol!

I could judge what to wear to suit myself of I could write complaint letters to all the neighbours and the council...I know which one has a much better outcome for me....keeping my dressing gown on...unless they want a naked protest...

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m judging you right now. Yes, you. Reading this. You.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m judging you right now. Yes, you. Reading this. You."

Meh, judge away

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I judge those who talk about ‘the great reset’, the Covid ‘hoax’ and other stupid conspiracy theories.

Also anyone who believes that Nigel Farage is on their side. "

Interesting...I spent most of the pandemic in bottles of wine and/or in crisis meetings and/or training outside in the snow and in my essential worker job...all in an attempt to maintain my sanity.

I definitely stopped watching the news. I definitely didn't watch Boris's daily torture briefings .. something about that man...and Nigel triggers my anxiety. Lol!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I Don't judge life becomes more interesting

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I’m judging you right now. Yes, you. Reading this. You."

Ah Im judging you right now...Let me go to private messaging.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Ah Im judging you right now...Let me go to private messaging.

My inbox is primed and ready.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes I judge

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By *abuma65Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

My judgey demon comes out when I encounter a whole family of dressing gowned eejiots doing the weekly shop together gawping in the supermarket aisle! FML aaaargghh

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

I'm not just judgy, I'm a colossal bitch haha

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I judge all women worthy of my cock, form an orderly queue..

.. 1 person does not constitute a queue..

..no, the toilets are over THERE!..

..ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all judge ,it's human nature

It's people going shopping in there pj's or dressing gown,just why?

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I only judge myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m judging you right now. Yes, you. Reading this. You."

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Honestly, I'm not trying to start an argument, but wonder why you put some people and even animals on a higher pedestal than others?

Gbat

I despise any type of bullying or needless violence to anyone regardless of gender /age etc.

Hope that helps. "

Thank you for taking the time to answer,

cheers,

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

Where the hell do you live, to see people in their dressing gowns Wandering the streets

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

)

Where the hell do you live, to see people in their dressing gowns Wandering the streets

•

Luton.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Bed hair makes me judge, because I know they haven't showered that morning!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(I already know this one makes me a superficial bitch, so no need to come at me!)

I judge sunglasses. Sites like this and Tinder are full of snaps of people looking 'cool' in their fave shades and lots of them are fucking awful.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"(I already know this one makes me a superficial bitch, so no need to come at me!)

I judge sunglasses. Sites like this and Tinder are full of snaps of people looking 'cool' in their fave shades and lots of them are fucking awful. "

Oooh, good one. Heels, as well. Women who think their high heels are all sexy, when they don’t even fit properly. How hard is it to buy shoes that fit you? Most of us master that at a pretty young age.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Would I look and stare at someone in a dressing gown in the street? Hell yes….

Would I judge them? Nope.

I wasn’t put on this Earth to judge others. They have their own shit going on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I judge people wearing dressing gowns in the street. I know it has no effect on me. But STILL!

What do you judge? (first thread, be nice now

)

Where the hell do you live, to see people in their dressing gowns Wandering the streets

Chavsville, it would seem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really do try not to judge as you never know what is going on in people's lives, but yes I do find myself judging when I see people in McDonald's in their pyjamas. I really can't think of any reason not to be in clothes.

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over a year ago

"I really do try not to judge as you never know what is going on in people's lives, but yes I do find myself judging when I see people in McDonald's in their pyjamas. I really can't think of any reason not to be in clothes. "

I'd just use the drive thru if I was in my pjs!

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