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"Better to get 1 fab from someone who you might meet, than a thousand from folk you've no intention of meeting. Those sort can usually be found on Facebook with comments like "inbox me hun"" You okay hun? | |||
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"Meh. Some people need the affirmation. From the "fab to fuck" to the constant status updates when they upload a new pic. If it makes them feel good then they can crack on. " I'm waiting for you to do one So like the rest of them I can ignore it | |||
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"What’s the desperation get onto page 1 of hot photos? With some captions like “fab this picture to fuck me” or “fab this picture to get me on hot photos”. Can someone kindly explain? " They get platinum membership for a year | |||
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"Anything that says 'fan if you'd lick it'is pure cringe " It’s funny though that people get bent over it. Mostly it’s a hustle though with hot pics Safe to that about half of repeat ones are all on other platforms as well | |||
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"Better to get 1 fab from someone who you might meet, than a thousand from folk you've no intention of meeting. Those sort can usually be found on Facebook with comments like "inbox me hun"" What if they like being appreciated and don't want to meet? | |||
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"Endorphins from perceived affirmation. It's the way most social media works - engagement " | |||
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"Has Fabbing a ‘Fab this pic for fuck’ ever worked. Like ever??? " Try it Marc | |||
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"What’s the desperation get onto page 1 of hot photos? With some captions like “fab this picture to fuck me” or “fab this picture to get me on hot photos”. Can someone kindly explain? " Why not ? They enjoy it, Iv never needed to add anything to my pics other then I love taking pics as it turns me on same as messages after | |||
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"People seeking engagement and affirmation is exactly what we all do on the forums. I'm not sure seeking being on page 1 of hot pics is really all that different " Yes, it's well known that forum use can be a way to make your profile more prominent. | |||
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"Some people treat this like Instagram. And to me it’s a complete turn off, and will ensure you’re never on my radar." Conversely, some people like this place as a pervy Instagram, and more power to them. | |||
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"Some people treat this like Instagram. And to me it’s a complete turn off, and will ensure you’re never on my radar." In what way? By posting photos and talking about everyday life? Marc | |||
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"Whatever the reasons good on them, I hope its working for them. There are some bloody lovely photos on here." There are. I’m a visual person, and I enjoy a lot of photos on here | |||
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"Has Fabbing a ‘Fab this pic for fuck’ ever worked. Like ever??? Try it Marc" I’ve set it on my status. Hopefully this will work | |||
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"Some people treat this like Instagram. And to me it’s a complete turn off, and will ensure you’re never on my radar." I’m curious, what makes it a turn off? Signed, a self confessed and unashamed attention whore….. | |||
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"Whatever the reasons good on them, I hope its working for them. There are some bloody lovely photos on here. There are. I’m a visual person, and I enjoy a lot of photos on here " Your vision brings me here | |||
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"I’ll let you into a little secret. Hot photos ain’t that hot. The mr " I concur - it's heavily influenced by the timing of the photo post, and whether it's a face pic. People love face pics because they're turned on by intimacy. A large amount of the fabbers/blokes on here, are probably all quite lonely and ultimately want connection. They just don't realise it, and think they want sex. Yes, this is a broad-brush sweeping generalisation, I'm aware. | |||
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"Dopamine and equating 'fabs' to feelings of self worth. It's the social media curse of needing to be validated by strangers in order to bump-up their self esteem. It's a shallow and ultimately unhealthy approach to self worth, based on a hollow notion that somehow strangers validating the way you look, or appearing to be sexually attractive in order feel popular and wanted will make you feel good about yourself. There's also a concept known as 'candaulism' that I'm guessing many people have never heard of, which also applies heavily on sites like this. Candaulism is a paraphilic sexual practice or fantasy in which one person exposes their partner, or images of their partner, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure. That definitely also applies to a lot of people on here. " For some yes, but not all. | |||
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"I've no idea. Years ago I got to page 3. I only know because someone told me. I found it amusing to be a page 3 girl for the day. Not sure I'd want all the admin that would likely come from being on page 1" I got to page 4 once and that was quite enough When I had public pictures I found it interesting which photos would do "well" and when. (Well meaning over a certain number in a day, not necessarily in the first few pages) | |||
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"I've no idea. Years ago I got to page 3. I only know because someone told me. I found it amusing to be a page 3 girl for the day. Not sure I'd want all the admin that would likely come from being on page 1 I got to page 4 once and that was quite enough When I had public pictures I found it interesting which photos would do "well" and when. (Well meaning over a certain number in a day, not necessarily in the first few pages)" I rarely look at hot pics but a quick scroll through you can usually determine the fab mood of the day | |||
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"I've no idea. Years ago I got to page 3. I only know because someone told me. I found it amusing to be a page 3 girl for the day. Not sure I'd want all the admin that would likely come from being on page 1 I got to page 4 once and that was quite enough When I had public pictures I found it interesting which photos would do "well" and when. (Well meaning over a certain number in a day, not necessarily in the first few pages) I rarely look at hot pics but a quick scroll through you can usually determine the fab mood of the day " Gash/tits/face day? | |||
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"Some people treat this like Instagram. And to me it’s a complete turn off, and will ensure you’re never on my radar. In what way? By posting photos and talking about everyday life? Marc" More by posting a photo with a “Fab me to…” caption, and then updating their status to say “Just posted a new photo! Help me get to page 1!” Reeks of a desperate need for external validation. Not attractive. | |||
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"Some people treat this like Instagram. And to me it’s a complete turn off, and will ensure you’re never on my radar. In what way? By posting photos and talking about everyday life? Marc More by posting a photo with a “Fab me to…” caption, and then updating their status to say “Just posted a new photo! Help me get to page 1!” Reeks of a desperate need for external validation. Not attractive." Insecure?? | |||
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"What’s the desperation get onto page 1 of hot photos? With some captions like “fab this picture to fuck me” or “fab this picture to get me on hot photos”. Can someone kindly explain? " It doesn’t have to be desperation, that might be their goal and they are using all the tools available to achieve that. Adding ‘fab this for…’ might be the difference between getting to page one or page two and it’s really easy to do! Each to their own | |||
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"Some people treat this like Instagram. And to me it’s a complete turn off, and will ensure you’re never on my radar. In what way? By posting photos and talking about everyday life? Marc More by posting a photo with a “Fab me to…” caption, and then updating their status to say “Just posted a new photo! Help me get to page 1!” Reeks of a desperate need for external validation. Not attractive." Ultimately fab and other sites are visual marketing tools to promote and/or to make connections with like minded people. Because some people have got basic marketing 101 skills it doesn’t mean that they can’t market themselves in a way that they enjoy. Life is too short to focus on what other people are doing that you wouldn’t Marc | |||
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"I've no idea. Years ago I got to page 3. I only know because someone told me. I found it amusing to be a page 3 girl for the day. Not sure I'd want all the admin that would likely come from being on page 1 I got to page 4 once and that was quite enough When I had public pictures I found it interesting which photos would do "well" and when. (Well meaning over a certain number in a day, not necessarily in the first few pages) I rarely look at hot pics but a quick scroll through you can usually determine the fab mood of the day " I never thought about it as "mood", more "people who look at me like X more than Y". But maybe it is almost "fashion". It's a curiousity for me (and personally irrelevant given my exactly 0 public photos ) | |||
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"Why is it desperation OP? Maybe they get turned in knowing that people actually want them. Or maybe, they suffer from low self esteem or have done in the past. It could be that they actually like people perving over their photos and it is a way of getting more eyeballs on their photos. Maybe they might actually like it and it’s not desperation after all. Marc " It’s desperation because it’s cringeworthy | |||
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"Why is it desperation OP? Maybe they get turned in knowing that people actually want them. Or maybe, they suffer from low self esteem or have done in the past. It could be that they actually like people perving over their photos and it is a way of getting more eyeballs on their photos. Maybe they might actually like it and it’s not desperation after all. Marc It’s desperation because it’s cringeworthy " So you don't like it therefore it's desperate? I'm not sure that's how it works | |||
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"Why is it desperation OP? Maybe they get turned in knowing that people actually want them. Or maybe, they suffer from low self esteem or have done in the past. It could be that they actually like people perving over their photos and it is a way of getting more eyeballs on their photos. Maybe they might actually like it and it’s not desperation after all. Marc It’s desperation because it’s cringeworthy " In your opinion. It’s not for you but there choice. If they didn’t get something out of it they wouldn’t do it Marc | |||
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"Can everyone that needs air to survive please fab my photos " | |||
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"Ultimately fab and other sites are visual marketing tools to promote and/or to make connections with like minded people. Because some people have got basic marketing 101 skills it doesn’t mean that they can’t market themselves in a way that they enjoy. " A notion only belied by the simple truth that most of these supposed high-achieving marketers constantly complain about having too many messages in their inbox | |||
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"Some people just like the ego boost, each to their own. Any pic that says fab it makes me want to do the opposite. Mrs " This....if you have to court fabs it somewhat feels diluted | |||
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"people keep forgetting that many are OF content creators as well and well lets be honest is a free marketing resource , .. for a chunk of those its not about stroking an ego or anything it is simply a byproduct of a business to generate new traffic ... I see so many of these hot pics (yes I have been on page 1 and in hot spot multiple times , I am trans as well lol ) ) and so many are on twitter with similar handle names promoting xyz content ... The caption pics is just something alot of us do on twitter to drive traffic on other platforms /engagment etc for some reason guys do seem to engage with pics that have silly captions .. especially if its a meme .. Equally there is going to be some peeps that are just wanting some tributing/liking to feel nice and sexy .. as well been said once you are on page 1 its very hard not to blow up for that 12/24 hour period . its a self feeding cycle .. " Definitely agree with the this. Marketing. Have you seen my gas bill? | |||
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