FabSwingers.com forum: Squirting

By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

This is an actual genuine question and if it forms any kind of debate, then great!

It is obviously aimed at those that can squirt. But all welcome to add their arse hole... I mean opinion.

I've noticed and I expect others have too, as no surprise really, that it is men (#notallmen) that seem to care and obsess over it more.

Do you actually care if you do?

Not do you enjoy it, or how much you enjoy it if you do. But if you never squired again, would you actually care much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pumpkin can squirt but it’s frightfully dull, and somewhat uncomfortable if a guy just chases it. On the other hand accidentally squirting/gushing because she’s so relaxed and lost in the moment is extremely exciting x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"No"

Not to worry, there’s a chap who can fix you

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Not to worry, there’s a chap who can fix you

Isn’t he on the thread with all the capital letters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"No

Not to worry, there’s a chap who can fix you

Isn’t he on the thread with all the capital letters?

It’s the gift that keeps on giving

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"No

Not to worry, there’s a chap who can fix you

No he can't.

HE'S ON MY BLOCK LIST.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

After I had a woman squirt in my face and I got a mouthful any mystique around it kind of disappeared for me.

Female orgasms are lush almost make me jealous.

Squirting I don't know is it an ego thing like wow look what I made her do I'm so man?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It's like a new found thing - next, people will be tying people up or swapping partners or oooOOOh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't squirting a myth? ... part of the global feminist agenda by women to make men who are really good a sex feel bad.

*Yes someone really wrote that I'm fab ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly nothing puts me off more than someone who is obsessing over the type of pleasure I'm supposed to have.

Sometimes it happens and actually I wish it didn't.

Sometimes it happens and it's great for all involved.

Sometimes it doesn't happen and I'm no less satisfied as a result.

Sometimes people put far too much emphasis on stuff that actually really doesn't matter.

Be in the moment, read your partners responses and just enjoy whatever happens without some annoying agenda !

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Honestly nothing puts me off more than someone who is obsessing over the type of pleasure I'm supposed to have.

Sometimes it happens and actually I wish it didn't.

Sometimes it happens and it's great for all involved.

Sometimes it doesn't happen and I'm no less satisfied as a result.

Sometimes people put far too much emphasis on stuff that actually really doesn't matter.

Be in the moment, read your partners responses and just enjoy whatever happens without some annoying agenda !"

Yay, you just saved me the effort of typing. Exactly, this ^^^^

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Honestly nothing puts me off more than someone who is obsessing over the type of pleasure I'm supposed to have.

Sometimes it happens and actually I wish it didn't.

Sometimes it happens and it's great for all involved.

Sometimes it doesn't happen and I'm no less satisfied as a result.

Sometimes people put far too much emphasis on stuff that actually really doesn't matter.

Be in the moment, read your partners responses and just enjoy whatever happens without some annoying agenda !"

This was sort of my thought process.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've never squirted, but I orgasm like crazy. Like ten times in a minute is possible (not common, possible) and I don't need to stop.

Some guys get really mad at the idea I don't squirt and feel the need to educate me. Even correct me.

My dude, good sex for me is dozens to hundreds of orgasms. Why the fuck do I need your secret method to mine gold in that there vaj? (Particularly when it makes me bleed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. It's never something I aim for, if it happens so be it. I know Eros finds it hot as hell when it does and so do I but we wouldn't be bothered if it never happened again.

Pxx

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

To misquote the Mean Girls movie

“Stop trying to make squirt happen”

It certainly is a borderline obsession with some men. I think it’s ego. And there’s no place for ego in my bed.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"To misquote the Mean Girls movie

“Stop trying to make squirt happen”

It certainly is a borderline obsession with some men. I think it’s ego. And there’s no place for ego in my bed. "

Poor Ego. He is all lonely and bedless.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"To misquote the Mean Girls movie

“Stop trying to make squirt happen”

It certainly is a borderline obsession with some men. I think it’s ego. And there’s no place for ego in my bed. "

Agreed.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I do think some men take it as a challenge, it dosnt bother me either way sometimes it happens with certain friends but it’s not something I crave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is an actual genuine question and if it forms any kind of debate, then great!

It is obviously aimed at those that can squirt. But all welcome to add their arse hole... I mean opinion.

I've noticed and I expect others have too, as no surprise really, that it is men (#notallmen) that seem to care and obsess over it more.

Do you actually care if you do?

Not do you enjoy it, or how much you enjoy it if you do. But if you never squired again, would you actually care much? "

It's OK if they do, a team treat but not the only thing, erotic talk is much better and personality.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'd be personally fine never squirting again, it makes such a mess. I think some of the guys in my life would be a bit disappointed however

It's a nice feeling when it happens, but there are plenty of other nice feelings to be had in its place too.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I feel that if a woman squirts, and enjoys it - all well and good. It's up to her entirely. A lot of men seem to use it as a measure of their prowess. That's just selfishness, masquerading as attentiveness.

Personally I'm indifferent ever since I got a face and mouthful unexpectedly some years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me. Couldn't care less if it never does. I love my orgasms. And reading a few forums threads in my time a lot of women that can say its not that great compared to an orgasm. So I'll happily keep my orgams thanks.

I guess knowing the difference between squirting and an orgasm leaves me a little curious. But enough to go after it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love squirting, I'd miss it if I never did again. It's not a must tho, and rarely happens first time with someone.

I didn't squirt for years and at first when I did I tensed up and sort if stopped it. Now tho I relax and let it all go. FB knows how to make me squirt and we both get soaked from me

And no, he doesn't use the method explained in other post haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to squirt but I don't/can't anymore...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Probably doesn't apply to me as I don't, but there's nothing worse than having some bloke tell you he's going to make you squirt like it's some kind of accomplishment, I mean I never inbox a bloke saying I'm going to make you jizz loads, totally don't get the fascination, huge turn off.

Mrs

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'd prefer not to, as the pressure on my bladder causes me discomfort, and I don't like being drenched in my own urine.

Last time it happened I was the one sleeping on the towel

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

What annoys me is a man thinking he'd a God in bed because I've accidentally pissed myself while he's been battering or squashing my bladder.

Any fool can do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I can do and not something I care about but it can make me feel inadequate when guys learn that and see it as a challenge. No, my body as it is should be enough

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've only ever done it a couple of times, and personally I'd prefer if it never happened again. I didn't really enjoy the sensation, and it makes a godawful mess...who can be arsed changing the bedding after a session? I just want to cuddle and drink tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between squirting and pegging it seems there is no room for anything else.

Well maybe the occasional cheeky rimming perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was one time it hit the curtain from across the bed, I found that an interesting sight. Other than that, it's not really something I find interesting. My sex experience doesn't change if I do or don't do it.

Men seem to care more. I've questioned if I identify as a water pistol considering how many times I've been asked.

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

"What annoys me is a man thinking he'd a God in bed because I've accidentally pissed myself while he's been battering or squashing my bladder.

Any fool can do that."

Exactly this! Squirting is just pissing yourself. Why do men think it means they are good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What annoys me is a man thinking he'd a God in bed because I've accidentally pissed myself while he's been battering or squashing my bladder.

Any fool can do that.

Exactly this! Squirting is just pissing yourself. Why do men think it means they are good? "

I think lots of people argue that squirting isn't pissing yourself. I guess some men like to get women to squirt because some women like it?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Never happened to me so no idea. Sounds like a bit of a faff having to clear it up so I’m quite happy as I am

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

One woman I met bought a whole new meaning to the term 'flood damage'

I had to fill out an insurance claim

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

happened a few times ... its a party trick (wink) xx Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because men are meant to be more visual so for them it is an affirmation of a supposed good time rather then relying on listening to the 'Fuck yes's' and feeling the muscles throb and grip with their toungues or cocks or fingers in an orgasm. Just a shortcut in this modern age of everything quicker and placed infront of us

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"What annoys me is a man thinking he'd a God in bed because I've accidentally pissed myself while he's been battering or squashing my bladder.

Any fool can do that.

Exactly this! Squirting is just pissing yourself. Why do men think it means they are good?

I think lots of people argue that squirting isn't pissing yourself. I guess some men like to get women to squirt because some women like it? "

Obviously in all things there are some exceptions. But based on what I've seen over the years, it is men (not all men) that seem to have the focus on making it happen regardless of if it is what a woman likes or wants.

It's viewed more as an accomplishment as a man to make it happen, than actually enjoying the actual giving of the pleasure and enjoying each other.

As if it is the next level above an orgasm despite, for most women (generalising!) it is below an orgasm in the pleasure scale.

For me it comes down to this.

On a personal level I don't care if you can't, won't, or don't squirt.

However if you want to squirt, and I can't make that happen, yeah of course it's a bit disheartening since I didn't provide to your full wants/needs in that moment. But that's as you say more to do with me wanting it because you like squirting.

Which then comes back around to my question, do women (individually) care if they squirt with a partner or is the emphasis on it all more to do with a man's focus of it?

Lesbians and bi women, do you have the same focus as men seem to towards making your sexual partner squirt?

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

I can but it isn’t something they happens all the time. Like a few have mentioned, it seems to be the guys who get more hung up on it. So much so their desire to do it means they are on a mission to blast me until it does - 9 times out of 10 that will have the opposite effect for me. My clitoral orgasms are much more enjoyable and intense (and easier to clean up after

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

R made me squirt with a toy the other night and first time it's really happened. It's a very odd sensation because it feels like I need to pee so it's difficult to enjoy because I am more concerned about accidentally wetting myself and neither of us are into water sports. Also made rather a large puddle so personally I'm happier not squirting. I can get very wet anyway without it and enjoy myself a lot more without the worry. Also agree that some people seem to see it as a challenge to get a woman to squirt and I'd prefer just to orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What annoys me is a man thinking he'd a God in bed because I've accidentally pissed myself while he's been battering or squashing my bladder.

Any fool can do that.

Exactly this! Squirting is just pissing yourself. Why do men think it means they are good?

I think lots of people argue that squirting isn't pissing yourself. I guess some men like to get women to squirt because some women like it?

It's viewed more as an accomplishment as a man to make it happen, than actually enjoying the actual giving of the pleasure and enjoying each other.

As if it is the next level above an orgasm despite, for most women (generalising!) it is below an orgasm in the pleasure scale.

For me it comes down to this.

On a personal level I don't care if you can't, won't, or don't squirt.

Which then comes back around to my question, do women (individually) care if they squirt with a partner or is the emphasis on it all more to do with a man's focus of it?

Lesbians and bi women, do you have the same focus as men seem to towards making your sexual partner squirt?"

That's quite true, some guys do seem to see it as a medal winning accomplishment. I was trying to be charitable. FWIW The men who've done it to me seemed little interested in my reaction or thoughts. Or even whether I had orgasmed at the same time. I am going to list it as a boundary with the next man I have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care if I squirt no. I would prefer an actual orgasm please and thank you

When it happened to me for the first time it was epic! It was during DVP and I had no idea about squirting, I don't watch porn and had never seen it or had it happen to me so it was exciting. I do like it in certain situations for sure

But if someone said to me , sorry you will never squirt again I'd be fine ha

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

"Is it because men are meant to be more visual so for them it is an affirmation of a supposed good time rather then relying on listening to the 'Fuck yes's' and feeling the muscles throb and grip with their toungues or cocks or fingers in an orgasm. Just a shortcut in this modern age of everything quicker and placed infront of us

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what she wrote xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Right women, I have a cunning plan....

Every time you have sex .... even after your bloke has shot his load.... keep pumping and thrapping and insisting that he is able to do it at least 5 times in a row getting higher and higher fountains each time he does it. Also tell him to lie back and relax cos it's his fault if this doesn't happen cos he's purposely blocking it out. Don't forget the bit where you really wanna make it happen for him and he will luv it.

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By *quirtLoverXWoman
over a year ago

huyton

I love to squirt, and if my partner didn't make me squirt then I wouldn't be a happy girl, I also love to see him make others squirt

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

"Right women, I have a cunning plan....

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Surely this is a 'Swingers Chat' topic and not for the lounge.

It ruins the cushions and the carpet.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm interested in those who say they're indifferent at best, after getting a mouthful of squirt. What did it taste like, please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never experienced it myself no but also not really bothered? Don’t see the fascination….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely this is a 'Swingers Chat' topic and not for the lounge.

It ruins the cushions and the carpet."

Or the car seats

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I'm interested in those who say they're indifferent at best, after getting a mouthful of squirt. What did it taste like, please?"

Not really a major taste if I'm honest, just a kind of astringent sensation??? Like you'd get from dry wine... And a vagina like taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please Tell Me when someone joins the thread to explain the technique that guarantees to make a girl squirt 1000% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can squirt, but it's more a mindset. When I'm feeling submissive and able to let go completely with a partner it will happen.

I've been honest and said I have no idea how it happens, it can happen everyday for a week and then not for 6 months.

It gets tedious when a guy chases it.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I can squirt. It's not something I like people to chase or force though. There is definitely a way to kind of manually force it, but unless it's coming from a naturally deeply intense orgasm it's a bit fucken pointless.

I don't care if I squirt or not. Shit, sometimes I don't even care if I cum as long as everyone has fun. There's a lot to be said for a few hours of cock worship with no direct physical stimulation for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can squirt. It's not something I like people to chase or force though. There is definitely a way to kind of manually force it, but unless it's coming from a naturally deeply intense orgasm it's a bit fucken pointless.

OMG are we twins?

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By *40 - StratfordWoman
over a year ago

stratford upon avon

Sometimes I wish I wasn’t such a massive squirter, I’d like to never have to either change the bed immediately or sleep in a puddle again

That said I love how turned on my partner gets by it (when he’s not complaining about waterboarding and adding snorkel to his Christmas list)

There are times when I get nothing, other times it’s like Niagra Falls down there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My girlfriend squirts quite often during sex which i feel blasting against and running down my thighs and very often strongly during anal..which turns us both on all the more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please Tell Me when someone joins the thread to explain the technique that guarantees to make a girl squirt 1000% of the time.

Oh my GOD funniest thread ever!! I almost peed myself reading it. Does that count as squirting?! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please Tell Me when someone joins the thread to explain the technique that guarantees to make a girl squirt 1000% of the time.

Oh my GOD funniest thread ever!! I almost peed myself reading it. Does that count as squirting?! Haha "

To some....yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please Tell Me when someone joins the thread to explain the technique that guarantees to make a girl squirt 1000% of the time.

Oh my GOD funniest thread ever!! I almost peed myself reading it. Does that count as squirting?! Haha "

You ALMOST squirted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm interested in those who say they're indifferent at best, after getting a mouthful of squirt. What did it taste like, please?"

Doesn't taste of anything to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm interested in those who say they're indifferent at best, after getting a mouthful of squirt. What did it taste like, please?

Doesn't taste of anything to me "

… or champagne…

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