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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A new study has shown men are more likely to understand a woman's mood if they send him an emoji than expecting them to read their face. Are men that bad or is botox just that good?

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By *traighttothepoint20Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"A new study has shown men are more likely to understand a woman's mood if they send him an emoji than expecting them to read their face. Are men that bad or is botox just that good?"

Depends on the man, or the quality of the botox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T’s really good at reading me, seems to know when somethings bugging me before I do

Mrs

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I tend not to show when things bother me other than going quiet which is probably a blessed relief to any man that is unfortunate enough to be around me

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By *traighttothepoint20Man
over a year ago

Bradford

No harm in a bit of communication ladies we're not mind readers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I send an emoji then my mood is I'm tired/moody and I don't wanna talk to you.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this "

Ah yes. The alpha male is not concerned with women’s feelings

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"No harm in a bit of communication ladies we're not mind readers"

Speak for yourself. I'm dab hand at reading minds especially

Ladies.

But just to show off my skill to the readers .

When you read this you think

Fuck you .

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this "

Their 'true potential'?

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Facial expression, tone of voice, body language, eye contact. Not sure that all fits into an emoji.

I tend to go for low verbal filtering, high emotional expression. I like the energy and that they feel comfortable with me.

Then there's poker face dry sarcasm approach. That has its charm, in small doses.

As long as it gets expressed and I'm not walking on eggshells - I'm a happy bunny.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I wouldn't have a clue what an emoji means but easy to pick up an expression or tone of voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this "

He wont have to worry about how a loved one is feeling??

Oh, wait....what if he only truly loves and cares about himself, does he not need to care about how he is feeling?

Or...are you talking bollocks again?

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this

He wont have to worry about how a loved one is feeling??

Oh, wait....what if he only truly loves and cares about himself, does he not need to care about how he is feeling?

Or...are you talking bollocks again? "

I'd want a partner to care about how I feel, but not to worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time, my feelings,thoughts and emotions are written all over my face.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Most of the time, my feelings,thoughts and emotions are written all over my face.

The smile on your face makes me know that you need me the look in your eyes say that you'll never leave me

The touch of your hand I've forgot the rest of the words but you get the gist . yes I'm just s hopeless romantic

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

"If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this "

Yeah why let empathy, understanding or being adults about things get in the way of “true potential”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is this gendered? Some people are better at reading people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Botox is good. Trust me.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Why is this gendered? Some people are better at reading people."

Why is your profile gendered

People are just speaking as they choose as you done if everyone are people why do we need all these labels

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"A new study has shown men are more likely to understand a woman's mood if they send him an emoji than expecting them to read their face. Are men that bad or is botox just that good?"

I can see the sense in that ....

IM FUCKING PISSED OFF ! or

which one men ? which says more about my mood ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No harm in a bit of communication ladies we're not mind readers"

I know that, cos you called us ladies.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is this gendered? Some people are better at reading people.

Why is your profile gendered

People are just speaking as they choose as you done if everyone are people why do we need all these labels "

That doesn't make much sense...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A new study has shown men are more likely to understand a woman's mood if they send him an emoji than expecting them to read their face. Are men that bad or is botox just that good?"

Men are from Mars ... women are from Venus...that in itself tells you that men will never understand women... totally different..

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Why is this gendered? Some people are better at reading people.

Why is your profile gendered

People are just speaking as they choose as you done if everyone are people why do we need all these labels

That doesn't make much sense..."

And there we have the gender debate in a nutshell what make sence to one doesn't make sence to another .the new folks thing the old ones no know nothing and the old folks think the young folks are talking bollocks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A new study has shown men are more likely to understand a woman's mood if they send him an emoji than expecting them to read their face. Are men that bad or is botox just that good?"

Hahahahahaha.

*sends eggplant emoji…….

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i can read somebody in seconds it truly is a gift thank you good lord,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this "

I think what he means is that a man living to his true potential will be able to see a woman's emotions and understand her feelings, then act accordingly i.ed. the true gentleman, a real man

I don't know if that's what he meant, but that's what I would be talking about if I said that

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this

I think what he means is that a man living to his true potential will be able to see a woman's emotions and understand her feelings, then act accordingly i.ed. the true gentleman, a real man

I don't know if that's what he meant, but that's what I would be talking about if I said that"

Well said young sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this

I think what he means is that a man living to his true potential will be able to see a woman's emotions and understand her feelings, then act accordingly i.ed. the true gentleman, a real man

I don't know if that's what he meant, but that's what I would be talking about if I said that

Well said young sir "

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"If a man is living life to his true potential he won't have to worry about this

I think what he means is that a man living to his true potential will be able to see a woman's emotions and understand her feelings, then act accordingly i.ed. the true gentleman, a real man

I don't know if that's what he meant, but that's what I would be talking about if I said that

Well said young sir

I'm not up on emoji but that's fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as someone with autism, I’m frequently baffled by personal interactions. Trying to understand someone’s mood is a minefield. So all help is gratefully received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've learnt when to duck or at least keep my head down when dealing with women in a... Umm... (Difficult?) Mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men reading women?, there's an oxymoron in there somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bob and his wife have been on a diet.

Bobs wife suggested a cheat day.

Bobs wife brought home kfc.

Bob brought home his secretary.

From his hospital bed Bob wondered if he’d ever understand women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bob and his wife have been on a diet.

Bobs wife suggested a cheat day.

Bobs wife brought home kfc.

Bob brought home his secretary.

From his hospital bed Bob wondered if he’d ever understand women

Lol this reminds me of something an ex once said to me

A husband and wife are on a road trip

The wife sees a sign for a cafe and asks the husband if he would like a coffee and he simply replies "no I don't feel like having coffee right now"

They continue on their road trip and a little while later they see another sign for a cafe

The husband says to the wife "okay I'm going to pull into that cafe and get a coffee"

The wife, with a frown on her face, arms folded and looking out the passenger window says "no keep driving"

The husband is baffled and doesn't understand why his wife upset

The moral of the story is, if she asks you if you want a coffee or something to eat, what she really means is... SHE WANTS A COFFEE AND SHES HUNGRY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speaking as someone with autism, I’m frequently baffled by personal interactions. Trying to understand someone’s mood is a minefield. So all help is gratefully received "

I have family members with autism and I know they find mood really hard to gauge. It must be very tricky at times.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Because subtle bodily queues or tones are harder to pick up on than (devil face)(devil face)(eggplant)(water droplets)(tongue out)

LvM

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Hmmm

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

interesting read

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If something is bothering me believe you me EVERYBODY can tell

I make it easy for people to read me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No harm in a bit of communication ladies we're not mind readers"

Logic does not live here

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Is it just me or is this really obvious? (Not the OP, but the research!)

If I sent a sad emoji, I'd literally be telling that person I'm sad, and vice versa?

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think many women bottle their emotions up and then either explode at a later time with a high amount of sed emotion, or mull over how they're feeling internally, work through it and come out the other side with a different adaptation of mood.

By this age, we know that most men just won't get half of what we feel. We're simply built differently. That's not to say that men shouldn't attempt to be empathetic, and that women should stop trying to communicate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I've been really clear about what I'm feeling or thinking and spelt it out and it still goes over heads.

I think it boils down to how much the man wants to understand a woman and if he is actually bothered enough to do anything about it.

A man that's interested will pay attention a man that's not won't.

The arrogant ones that love themselves will simply not give a fuck.

Doesn't matter if you have botox or what emoji you use.

Same applies to women though.

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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago

London

"A new study has shown men are more likely to understand a woman's mood if they send him an emoji than expecting them to read their face. Are men that bad or is botox just that good?"

Just to check, someone can more easily understand how someone else is feeling if that second person explicitly says how they're feeling by use of a pictogram. This research feels like a candidate for an Ig-Nobel award....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(aubergine)(splash)(devil)

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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago

London

"(aubergine)(splash)(devil)"

I'm definitely putting that into What3Words....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair I've been really clear about what I'm feeling or thinking and spelt it out and it still goes over heads.

I think it boils down to how much the man wants to understand a woman and if he is actually bothered enough to do anything about it.

A man that's interested will pay attention a man that's not won't.

The arrogant ones that love themselves will simply not give a fuck.

Doesn't matter if you have botox or what emoji you use.

Same applies to women though. "

I absolutely agree with this. And why I said I didn't think this issue is gendered

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