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"Diets don't really work they leave you feeling hungry the best thing I've found is no carbs you can eat as many non carb veg as you like plus a meat either chicken or fish " ,, dont forget the chips with that fish and 3 rounds of bread,, | |||
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"Diets don't really work they leave you feeling hungry the best thing I've found is no carbs you can eat as many non carb veg as you like plus a meat either chicken or fish " Some might argue that cutting an entire food group out is a diet! | |||
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"what is macros,, you have a nice figure as you are" I thought it was about Microsoft Excel | |||
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"Diets don't really work they leave you feeling hungry the best thing I've found is no carbs you can eat as many non carb veg as you like plus a meat either chicken or fish ,, dont forget the chips with that fish and 3 rounds of bread,," lol | |||
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"Diets don't really work they leave you feeling hungry the best thing I've found is no carbs you can eat as many non carb veg as you like plus a meat either chicken or fish Some might argue that cutting an entire food group out is a diet! " lifestyle change | |||
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"what is macros,, you have a nice figure as you are I thought it was about Microsoft Excel " Me too, I got all excited | |||
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"what is macros,, you have a nice figure as you are I thought it was about Microsoft Excel Me too, I got all excited " Geeeeekkks. Me too. Wrt to the real question, I see macros as being a step beyond weight watchers. But other than IF (which isn't a diet in the sense of it's about what you eat) I dont like most diets as it's sticky plasters. I'm coming to believe the reason many people over eat is an unhealthy relationship (possibly addiction) with food, and diets don't help. The remainder are struggling due to either ability or access to cook food from scratch. Diets fail here too. | |||
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"what is macros,, you have a nice figure as you are I thought it was about Microsoft Excel Me too, I got all excited " Simple things eh? | |||
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"God knows how many diets or ways to lose weight. Keto, fasting, the list goes on. God knows how many different exercises, cardio classes etc. It's a minefield right?? By the time you've researched them all you'd give up and think fuck it I'm having a pizza. But I'm curious about macros. Does anyone do it and does it work for weight loss or losing body fat? And for the love of God please don't argue over it on the thread. And yes I know I'm small, but I'm 45 and at my heaviest, no I don't have a body dismorphia or eating disorder, I'm just a smaller version of any woman that can put weight on and gain body fat. And if I don't start being mindful at some point then it's only going to be a bigger problem. " All that matters is energy in vs energy out. Macros matter if your looking to get very lean but not essential to weight loss. Focus on Calorie deficit (healthy one) Sleep Reducing stress Drink 3 litres of water a day Weight is impacted by hormones and water so ignore bar once a month. Aim for sticking to this 80% of the time | |||
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"God knows how many diets or ways to lose weight. Keto, fasting, the list goes on. God knows how many different exercises, cardio classes etc. It's a minefield right?? By the time you've researched them all you'd give up and think fuck it I'm having a pizza. But I'm curious about macros. Does anyone do it and does it work for weight loss or losing body fat? And for the love of God please don't argue over it on the thread. And yes I know I'm small, but I'm 45 and at my heaviest, no I don't have a body dismorphia or eating disorder, I'm just a smaller version of any woman that can put weight on and gain body fat. And if I don't start being mindful at some point then it's only going to be a bigger problem. All that matters is energy in vs energy out. Macros matter if your looking to get very lean but not essential to weight loss. Focus on Calorie deficit (healthy one) Sleep Reducing stress Drink 3 litres of water a day Weight is impacted by hormones and water so ignore bar once a month. Aim for sticking to this 80% of the time " Sorry 10k steps a big part also | |||
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"At the risk of appearing even more of a lemon than usual…….. what are Macros?" protein, fat, carbs. | |||
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"At the risk of appearing even more of a lemon than usual…….. what are Macros?protein, fat, carbs. " That appears to cover the general concept of what I just call ‘food’. Is that all there is too it. Oh, and thanks for answering the question. | |||
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"At the risk of appearing even more of a lemon than usual…….. what are Macros?protein, fat, carbs. That appears to cover the general concept of what I just call ‘food’. Is that all there is too it. Oh, and thanks for answering the question. " yeah. Eat the right amounts of all three and you will lose weight. It always came across as a bit of a gym bro thing : if it meets your macros. Allows you to eat a bit dirty. | |||
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"At the risk of appearing even more of a lemon than usual…….. what are Macros?protein, fat, carbs. That appears to cover the general concept of what I just call ‘food’. Is that all there is too it. Oh, and thanks for answering the question. yeah. Eat the right amounts of all three and you will lose weight. It always came across as a bit of a gym bro thing : if it meets your macros. Allows you to eat a bit dirty. " I’ve got a feeling I’m eating more than ‘a bit’ dirty. | |||
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"Protein is almost impossible to be stored as fat so they are important to a degree a diet higher in protein is best way to go fill the remaining calories in either carbs or fat depending on preference it makes no difference as long as under maintenance cals " Yeh I agree with this. That's my approach plus reducing stress, good sleep and 10k steps a day. Aim for a deficit of about 500 calories a day and tack using my fitness pal. I have lost 19lbs since Christmas doing this plus weights 3x a week. Most important thing for me was learning the environment I work in is dangerous so body is always in fight or flight which means my hormones and water wreak havoc on body weight but if I stick to the above fat will always being dropping and scales will eventually show this. | |||
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"I've slowly gained body fat and weight in the past three years or so. My eating habits are poor. I skip breakfast a lot. I tend to eat more carbs than anything. I hate the cold so stay in more in the winter. I don't drink enough water either. But. I've got a hidden illness that dictates what I eat and don't and now on a medication for it. If I drink a lot of water it affects the medication. So a catch 22 in effect. In those past years my cortisol level has been high. I've been looked at and certain things ruled out. So need to rethink thing's. I know high cortisol is a pig for weight gain. And I'm at a loss as to how to get it lower. Im curious about macros to see if it will make me more mindful at least about eating more balanced without having to go no meat and be too restricted when my hidden illness already has a bearing on what I can eat anyway. " Of you're eating habits are poor would it maybe not be better to have a chat with a nutritionist and try to work on a more balanced diet? Macros seem to be overly complicated and I suspect require a considerable amount of discipline | |||
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"People take something so simple and make it so so complicated. If your sole purpose is for the scales to register a lower number (you want to get into those jeans you once could etc) maintain a calorific deficit - expend more calories than you consume. What that weight lost consists of - water weight, muscle, fat….. is a slightly more complex story. " Yup, millions of years of evolution have given us everything what we need to instinctively eat the right things at the right times and with a few simple adjustments putting on or losing fat or muscle is easy. So why is it so hard, why are millions people constantly chasing the latest fad diet , spending huge money on all kinds of powders, tablets and other useless and unnecessary junk food marketed as health ? | |||
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"I've slowly gained body fat and weight in the past three years or so. My eating habits are poor. I skip breakfast a lot. I tend to eat more carbs than anything. I hate the cold so stay in more in the winter. I don't drink enough water either. But. I've got a hidden illness that dictates what I eat and don't and now on a medication for it. If I drink a lot of water it affects the medication. So a catch 22 in effect. In those past years my cortisol level has been high. I've been looked at and certain things ruled out. So need to rethink thing's. I know high cortisol is a pig for weight gain. And I'm at a loss as to how to get it lower. Im curious about macros to see if it will make me more mindful at least about eating more balanced without having to go no meat and be too restricted when my hidden illness already has a bearing on what I can eat anyway. " I struggled with my weight because of health issues (PCOS, possible Addison's disease, chronic migraine) and their associated medication.... At my most consistent weight loss / lowest weight I was in a severe calorie deficit... But I only lost weight if I tracked my macros as well as calories. 25% carbs / 40% protein / 35% fats worked for me and is a tweak from what is commonly suggested for women with PCOS. If you are already on a restricted diet it might be worth seeing if you can get a referral to a nutritionalist, they might be able to suggest things you wouldn't think of. | |||
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"It's the body fat I want to lose. I don't particularly like the idea of calarie deficit as I don't want to lose weight. I'm 8st 2 which is my top weight. For years I was 7st 3. And I don't want to go back to that. I just want the body fat to go but stay around the weight I am. Losing 2 to 4 kilos I'll take if needed but any more than that and I'd be worried. " does that mean gaining 4kg of muscle ? | |||
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"It's the body fat I want to lose. I don't particularly like the idea of calarie deficit as I don't want to lose weight. I'm 8st 2 which is my top weight. For years I was 7st 3. And I don't want to go back to that. I just want the body fat to go but stay around the weight I am. Losing 2 to 4 kilos I'll take if needed but any more than that and I'd be worried. " It won't be exact, but to maintain muscle and lose fat, you will need to be in a slight calorie deficit, but keep up resistance training to maintain/build muscle. This is where loosely tracking macros will help as it will ensure you keep your protein high, which you need for muscle building... | |||
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"It's the body fat I want to lose. I don't particularly like the idea of calarie deficit as I don't want to lose weight. I'm 8st 2 which is my top weight. For years I was 7st 3. And I don't want to go back to that. I just want the body fat to go but stay around the weight I am. Losing 2 to 4 kilos I'll take if needed but any more than that and I'd be worried. does that mean gaining 4kg of muscle ?" If I have to keep the scales good then yes. But I really want to stay above 7 and half stones and not go any lower at the worst case scenario. | |||
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"It's the body fat I want to lose. I don't particularly like the idea of calarie deficit as I don't want to lose weight. I'm 8st 2 which is my top weight. For years I was 7st 3. And I don't want to go back to that. I just want the body fat to go but stay around the weight I am. Losing 2 to 4 kilos I'll take if needed but any more than that and I'd be worried. does that mean gaining 4kg of muscle ? If I have to keep the scales good then yes. But I really want to stay above 7 and half stones and not go any lower at the worst case scenario. " that's going to take some training... Just to warn you ! | |||
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"It's the body fat I want to lose. I don't particularly like the idea of calarie deficit as I don't want to lose weight. I'm 8st 2 which is my top weight. For years I was 7st 3. And I don't want to go back to that. I just want the body fat to go but stay around the weight I am. Losing 2 to 4 kilos I'll take if needed but any more than that and I'd be worried. " Losing 2-4kg of bodyfat and replacing with muscle while staying the same weight can be done. Taken me a little over 2 months to do 1kg of lean mass up but down by the same amount of fat. As a woman it will be much harder due to much lower testosterone levels. Anyone trying to do this has to really push training, it's not pleasant or comfortable. | |||
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"I've slowly gained body fat and weight in the past three years or so. My eating habits are poor. I skip breakfast a lot. I tend to eat more carbs than anything. I hate the cold so stay in more in the winter. I don't drink enough water either. But. I've got a hidden illness that dictates what I eat and don't and now on a medication for it. If I drink a lot of water it affects the medication. So a catch 22 in effect. In those past years my cortisol level has been high. I've been looked at and certain things ruled out. So need to rethink thing's. I know high cortisol is a pig for weight gain. And I'm at a loss as to how to get it lower. Im curious about macros to see if it will make me more mindful at least about eating more balanced without having to go no meat and be too restricted when my hidden illness already has a bearing on what I can eat anyway. " I might PM you about this (again)..... | |||
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"I've slowly gained body fat and weight in the past three years or so. My eating habits are poor. I skip breakfast a lot. I tend to eat more carbs than anything. I hate the cold so stay in more in the winter. I don't drink enough water either. But. I've got a hidden illness that dictates what I eat and don't and now on a medication for it. If I drink a lot of water it affects the medication. So a catch 22 in effect. In those past years my cortisol level has been high. I've been looked at and certain things ruled out. So need to rethink thing's. I know high cortisol is a pig for weight gain. And I'm at a loss as to how to get it lower. Im curious about macros to see if it will make me more mindful at least about eating more balanced without having to go no meat and be too restricted when my hidden illness already has a bearing on what I can eat anyway. I might PM you about this (again)....." Feel free. | |||
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"I'm now a bit pissed as I've just been weighed at doctors and her scales said 47.8kg and I got a bollocking for my bmi being too low. My scales say 51kg. Im pretty sure hers a wrong but I didn't argue it as was pointless. I had a health check. All my other results are fine but I got crap about my bmi. Ffs. " Urgh I get so frustrated that they still use BMI because it's such a flawed metric. I'm dreading my weight dropping towards a 'normal' range of BMI... I've already got people telling me I've lost too much weight and I have a BMI of about 27 at the moment (I had a gastric bypass a couple of years ago and I'm still dropping weight) | |||
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"I'm now a bit pissed as I've just been weighed at doctors and her scales said 47.8kg and I got a bollocking for my bmi being too low. My scales say 51kg. Im pretty sure hers a wrong but I didn't argue it as was pointless. I had a health check. All my other results are fine but I got crap about my bmi. Ffs. Urgh I get so frustrated that they still use BMI because it's such a flawed metric. I'm dreading my weight dropping towards a 'normal' range of BMI... I've already got people telling me I've lost too much weight and I have a BMI of about 27 at the moment (I had a gastric bypass a couple of years ago and I'm still dropping weight)" BMI does my head in. Always has. It's not accurate at all in my opinion. It's completely flawed. | |||
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"I'm now a bit pissed as I've just been weighed at doctors and her scales said 47.8kg and I got a bollocking for my bmi being too low. My scales say 51kg. Im pretty sure hers a wrong but I didn't argue it as was pointless. I had a health check. All my other results are fine but I got crap about my bmi. Ffs. Urgh I get so frustrated that they still use BMI because it's such a flawed metric. I'm dreading my weight dropping towards a 'normal' range of BMI... I've already got people telling me I've lost too much weight and I have a BMI of about 27 at the moment (I had a gastric bypass a couple of years ago and I'm still dropping weight) BMI does my head in. Always has. It's not accurate at all in my opinion. It's completely flawed. " If its flawed ignore it and use a measure that you trust. | |||
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"I'm now a bit pissed as I've just been weighed at doctors and her scales said 47.8kg and I got a bollocking for my bmi being too low. My scales say 51kg. Im pretty sure hers a wrong but I didn't argue it as was pointless. I had a health check. All my other results are fine but I got crap about my bmi. Ffs. Urgh I get so frustrated that they still use BMI because it's such a flawed metric. I'm dreading my weight dropping towards a 'normal' range of BMI... I've already got people telling me I've lost too much weight and I have a BMI of about 27 at the moment (I had a gastric bypass a couple of years ago and I'm still dropping weight) BMI does my head in. Always has. It's not accurate at all in my opinion. It's completely flawed. If its flawed ignore it and use a measure that you trust. " I do. Unfortunately medical professionals do not. | |||
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"God knows how many diets or ways to lose weight. Keto, fasting, the list goes on. God knows how many different exercises, cardio classes etc. It's a minefield right?? By the time you've researched them all you'd give up and think fuck it I'm having a pizza. But I'm curious about macros. Does anyone do it and does it work for weight loss or losing body fat? And for the love of God please don't argue over it on the thread. And yes I know I'm small, but I'm 45 and at my heaviest, no I don't have a body dismorphia or eating disorder, I'm just a smaller version of any woman that can put weight on and gain body fat. And if I don't start being mindful at some point then it's only going to be a bigger problem. " Macros definitely work. As long as combined with calorie counting and matched with what physical activity you do. My bf does meal plans for people based on their body type and their goals. Drop us a pm and he’ll do you one if you want. | |||
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