FabSwingers.com forum: When men turn down a meet in favour of watching sport.

By *ob and Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

crook

This has happened to me a few times including last night when the boxing was on. Am guessing lots of guys would put sport before a meet for sex?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

And ladies. I've delayed or not gone to an event till the race I was watching is done.

When moto gp was on BBC, I even moved the sofa in chams so I could watch it

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Mine isn't sports it's my dog

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Mine isn't sports it's my dog

mine is my cat

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Mine isn't sports it's my dog

mine is my cat"

Mine is my hamster.

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By *raveller_87Man
over a year ago

Rossendale

I tend to decline more when Wimbledon is on.... (Slow summer for me!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some dude (no longer on Fab) once patched me for a Rangers game...

As someone who is just not into sport, I just do not understand this.

Funnily enough I did an abduction meet while the world cup (or was it the Euros, I don't fucking know) was on last year, and it was on in the background

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

Hahaha my hubby would to be fair! He won’t miss his footy team! I once had a solo meet when England were playing the All Blacks! He wasn’t into rugby! I suggested we meet at the pub to watch it or just meet after. He said not to worry he’d put it on in his hotel room! Didn’t see much of the game to be fair but England won!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Somethings are more important than getting your dick wet.

The mr

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

The absolute nerve of some people to put their real life interests ahead of a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Football always comes before a meet.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Football always comes before a meet. "

I like your jibber jabber young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has happened to me a few times including last night when the boxing was on. Am guessing lots of guys would put sport before a meet for sex?"

It's not really putting sport before a meet though.. people have lives in the actual world that come first sometimes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, I'd put something I was interested in before meeting anyone.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I don't think I've ever turn down a meet for sporting events.. I would say only time would be if I'm poorly, at work or with family or if I'm dead lol

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

"This has happened to me a few times including last night when the boxing was on. Am guessing lots of guys would put sport before a meet for sex?"

I’d rather meet you than watch boxing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very easy indicator that they’d be wrong for us.

If they were playing some physical sport then fair enough but sat watching….nah

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By *ornyguyMan
over a year ago

Hillsborough, NI

Had a FWB want me round one evening there was a big champions league game on; I did go on the deal that I would watch the game there. I did watch the game, but she lay on the floor in lingerie in front of the TV and played with herself, so win win.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

What was the score?

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I thought that's what video recording was for. Record the sport while you go to the meet.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Everthing else really comes b 4 a meet family dogs or even just the weather! Hence why I've put meets on hold for now! To much else going on! Once weather has warmed up shall b back out there x

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

"This has happened to me a few times including last night when the boxing was on. Am guessing lots of guys would put sport before a meet for sex?"

Us ladies do that too. Football first!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So my choices are F1 or wrestlelmania this morning. …

I don’t see the offer of a hot sexy chic in my arm, so I opted for some smack down

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

"Some" men would put a cup final before a social meet.

No names.........

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Have to admit, that in MotoGP is on then that comes first. Unless my date enjoys it to. Then it's a win win for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Some" men would put a cup final before a social meet.

No names.........

…..

He must be an idiot.

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

""Some" men would put a cup final before a social meet.

No names.........

Only if my team was playing

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Could be dodging a bullet to be fair.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

I’d only turn down a meet for sport if I was playing it and I’d be letting my team down, or I’d had tickets for a physical game/race!!

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By *entleman kinksterMan
over a year ago

london

"I thought that's what video recording was for. Record the sport while you go to the meet.

sport has to be watched live. it’s all about diary management

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

""Some" men would put a cup final before a social meet.

No names.........

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He must be an idiot. "

I suspect he was just confused. It's not often his team get to a final.

Actually, he's among the nicest of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would have to depend on the quality of the meet. Some meets are with more than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake and pringles would win over a meet.....watching sport over a meet, especially watching overpaid men run round in shorts.....never

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

To be honest that wouldn't bother me and previously when knowing they support a specific team I have made a joke stating we can't meet that night.

A lot of the time they are going to watch it with mates, maybe in the pub or at home with a group so it's a social thing. To me it's more important that they stay connected to mates than meet me so would encourage a different day

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nothing to see here. Spending time doing what he enjoys.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"To be honest that wouldn't bother me and previously when knowing they support a specific team I have made a joke stating we can't meet that night.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Turn down an offer, or stood up/cancelled?

If it's the former then, I don't care who you are, if I want to do something else at that time even if it's reading a book, I'll read my book. I'm not here to come running when "you" want just because you offered sex.

If it's the latter, and things have been arranged, then short of genuine unavoidable reasons I will be there.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I can turn down a meet for any reason I see fit, and so can anyone else

If it was something already arranged and then you got stood up for sport, especially considering sport things tend to be more known in advance than on the fly, fair enough, be put out at that.

But if they just had other plans when the meet was offered, that's entirely up to them.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Wait shock horror!!

Some men's lives don't revolve around sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have the issue as I don't get offered meets

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'd prefer my balls were being played with, instead of watching other fellas playing with one

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

I just tell them to bang me doggy style in front of the telly at half time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has happened to me a few times including last night when the boxing was on. Am guessing lots of guys would put sport before a meet for sex?"

I wouldn't put sport before a meet, but I would put it before entitlement

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I just tell them to bang me doggy style in front of the telly at half time."

And miss your gorgeous face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a FWB want me round one evening there was a big champions league game on; I did go on the deal that I would watch the game there. I did watch the game, but she lay on the floor in lingerie in front of the TV and played with herself, so win win.

Sounds massively boring for her for 90mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Masters starts on Thursday all 18 holes guaranteed to be filled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See us men have other interests too not just Sex.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

When Ronnie O’Sullivan is playing snooker or Man Utd are playing football then there is no chance of me agreeing to a meet. On the few occasions I have been messaged about a meet I have declined and asked for my reasons I have given them.The fact that a couple of Fab members then choose to block me for my honesty is their right.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"I just tell them to bang me doggy style in front of the telly at half time."

Did that and was accused of being more interested in what was on the TV.

Not a good look

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

"I just tell them to bang me doggy style in front of the telly at half time.

Did that and was accused of being more interested in what was on the TV.

Not a good look

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"I just tell them to bang me doggy style in front of the telly at half time.

Did that and was accused of being more interested in what was on the TV.

Not a good look

I'll get me coat

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

And why shouldn't men choose another interest over meeting some one for sex. They have lives outside of here as well and are have just as much right to say no to a meet as anyone else.

I really don't get why it would be an issue if someone said no sorry can't make it that time as they have something else on. To think anyone should have meet just because sex is offered seems to be quite an entitled attitude to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why shouldn't men choose another interest over meeting some one for sex. They have lives outside of here as well and are have just as much right to say no to a meet as anyone else.

Absolutely! There has been many a time I've said I'm washing my hair, or having a long shit. So need to postpone a date

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"And why shouldn't men choose another interest over meeting some one for sex. They have lives outside of here as well and are have just as much right to say no to a meet as anyone else.

Absolutely! There has been many a time I've said I'm washing my hair, or having a long shit. So need to postpone a date "

Having a long shit is surprisingly satisfying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This comes down to preference, right?

As much as I enjoy sex, it's not the be all in my life.

I'd turn down a meet if I had plans to go to a gig, for sure.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

A few times I've took a woman shopping because her fuck buddy wanted to watch the football.

I spent 70 quid in Anne summers on her and that night she wore the lingerie for him .

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

My work is involved with sport, so I'm often away at weekends working. I turn down many meetings because of sport /work.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"So my choices are F1 or wrestlelmania this morning. …

I don’t see the offer of a hot sexy chic in my arm, so I opted for some smack down

Wrestling everytime

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Obviously someone can decline a meet for any reason they see fit.

Would I personally decline one to watch sport... highly unlikely.

But if I had existing social plans or gig plans then that's more likely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd probably do this too, especially if they wanted to meet during the Newcastle/Utd game later.

Don't blame them!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I wouldn't feel put out.

I might do the same if something important cropped up.

It is silly to arrange something on a day your team could be playing in something important though; unless we're the plan b if they don't make it through.

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By *aza1888Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sports happen one time maybe 2 times if your lucky , meeting people can happen any day the event only has that time that place and that day to have it thus if ulyou miss it you miss your full chance to experience it live, sex u can experience that live most day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% sporting teams/people are a life long commitment, a meet is one night of fun possibly a few depending on the connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah well, he could of ditched you for another meet I guess as disappointing as it is

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I do the same ... rugby trumps even Tom Hardy (Just don't tell him please!)

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Yes I would, having said that I wouldnt arrange a meet ahead of time if I knew it would be on that date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So my choices are F1 or wrestlelmania this morning. …

I don’t see the offer of a hot sexy chic in my arm, so I opted for some smack down

Wrestling everytime

It was similar to how my sex goes. On top of her for a count of three seconds.

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If a meet had previously been arranged for a particular day and time, then they ditched me to watch sport, I'd be a bit miffed. There will always be sport to watch, but people aren't around forever.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I let them get on with it. I used to see a guy who was into rugby and wouldn't dream of disturbing him when the rugby was on. Same aa football. I'm not precious and think I'm the most important thing in the world. When I used to meet I would wait until corrie had finished.

My beloved Jay was a tennis fanatic and I'd become a tennis widow for two weeks.

Never bothered me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a meet had previously been arranged for a particular day and time, then they ditched me to watch sport, I'd be a bit miffed. There will always be sport to watch, but people aren't around forever."

True.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

As Bill Shankly once said

“Some people believe football is a matter of life and death, I am very disappointed with that attitude. I can assure you it is much, much more important than that.”

Marc

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

was a time I would let NO ONE keep me from the rugby.

Not so much these days

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I’ll hold my hand up my hand and say I am guilty as charged having done this….

I have had people contact me asking if I fancy meeting when I have not advertised for one… it’s a bit like saying I should be at a couple beckon call!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance of that in my corner.....

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Men are idiots. That's why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are idiots. That's why!

Disagree.

Well not on the idiot part, but why shouldn't they put something they genuinely care about over casual sex?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Men are idiots. That's why!

Disagree.

Well not on the idiot part, but why shouldn't they put something they genuinely care about over casual sex? "

We're just supposed to be grateful for a shag on here, drop everything and do as we're told. We're like props. Did you not get the memo?

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I've turned down a last minute meet request because I already had a film picked out, pizza ordered and a box of doughnuts waiting for me. I'd definitely do it for sport

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By *irty_DeedsMan
over a year ago

Teesside

I'd turn down a meet for an exciting boxing match, Anthony Joshua has never and will never make that list tho. Always been dull as dishwater and mediocre at best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd turn down a meet for an exciting boxing match, Anthony Joshua has never and will never make that list tho. Always been dull as dishwater and mediocre at best"

If it's an important sporting event, champions league final, final day of the prem, any play off games they would come before anything! Pmsl!

I have a friends wedding coming up and it's on a Saturday when all the FA cup games are on! He has made sure there is decent WiFi so people can watch the matches on phones/tablets and a TV at the reception!

NOW I KNOW WHY HE KS MY BEST FRIEND! HA!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate I support Arsenal in football.

We may win the league this year but probably wont. It's been 19 years.

If it comes to the last game of the season to win the league Margot Robbie could send me a video of her in sexy lingerie in a hotel waiting for me to do anything I want. I would order her a fancy vibrator to be delivered to her room and watch the game!

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Mate I support Arsenal in football.

We may win the league this year but probably wont. It's been 19 years.

As a United fan, I'm genuinely wondering if I would do the same. It's a tough one...

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

If i had tickets then yes i would

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