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By *ootyfruity OP   Couple
over a year ago

andover

Wifey is getting professional training to become a dominatrix.

Are there any willing subs looking for regular meets to help her progress. At the present she will not be charging for the service so she can hone her skills, however you must be able to accommodate or get a hotel.

Leave a message on here saying if your in, she will contact you privately and you can say why you deserve her time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only I was closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intrigued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy here

My deepest desire is to fully submit to a woman

I’m also bi with very few limits

Feel free to message and I would get hotel half way or something closer to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So when she has honed her skills

She will be charging for it

If I’m reading this correctly

If I’m right then best go to London

Mp are the only people making any money !

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

If she wants to learn the fine art of face sitting I’ll participate.

Note this offer is open to all women who wish to engage in continual professional development

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I think your inbox is about to explode!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with this

At times have often thought teaming novice dommes with experienced subs or vice versa is a good way to learn

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Interested but would need to know more

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I'd be as wary of playing with a novice Dominatrix as I would ne a novice Dom.

And I'd be even more wary of playing with a sub who doesn't see this as a red flag.

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By *ootyfruity OP   Couple
over a year ago

andover


"I'd be as wary of playing with a novice Dominatrix as I would ne a novice Dom.

And I'd be even more wary of playing with a sub who doesn't see this as a red flag.

"

Why a red flag?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be as wary of playing with a novice Dominatrix as I would ne a novice Dom.

And I'd be even more wary of playing with a sub who doesn't see this as a red flag.

"

TBF the OP has suggested that potential subs will be contacted. I would expect conversations and ground rules/expectations to be set then.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"I'd be as wary of playing with a novice Dominatrix as I would ne a novice Dom.

And I'd be even more wary of playing with a sub who doesn't see this as a red flag.

TBF the OP has suggested that potential subs will be contacted. I would expect conversations and ground rules/expectations to be set then."

This is exactly what I would expect in addition to just getting to know them and a relationship and rapport being built up.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"I'd be as wary of playing with a novice Dominatrix as I would ne a novice Dom.

And I'd be even more wary of playing with a sub who doesn't see this as a red flag.

Why a red flag?!"

Because declaring yourself a Dominatrix doesn't make you one.

Because when BDSM goes wrong people can get hurt.

Because no experience exacerbates the risk of things going wrong.

Honestly, the must basic due diligence any sub should carry out with a potential meet is 'how experienced are you'.

If you seek experience as a Domme get involved on your local kink scene, go to events, play with people there, watch other people play and gain a reputation as a Domme.

And I get that everyone has to start somewhere but my advice and comments to someone looking to explore D/s and/or Dimination abd gain experience would be different to this scenario. To me the idea of soneone being a pro Dominatrix after a few lessons is implausible

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By *ootyfruity OP   Couple
over a year ago

andover


"I'd be as wary of playing with a novice Dominatrix as I would ne a novice Dom.

And I'd be even more wary of playing with a sub who doesn't see this as a red flag.

Why a red flag?!

Because declaring yourself a Dominatrix doesn't make you one.

Because when BDSM goes wrong people can get hurt.

Because no experience exacerbates the risk of things going wrong.

Honestly, the must basic due diligence any sub should carry out with a potential meet is 'how experienced are you'.

If you seek experience as a Domme get involved on your local kink scene, go to events, play with people there, watch other people play and gain a reputation as a Domme.

And I get that everyone has to start somewhere but my advice and comments to someone looking to explore D/s and/or Dimination abd gain experience would be different to this scenario. To me the idea of soneone being a pro Dominatrix after a few lessons is implausible "

Do not treat her like she is stupid! I assure you she is far from it!!

There is more to being a dominatrix than doing stuff that can potentially hurt your sub. She meets with her subs and finds out exactly what they like and tries to work with them, she has not done and will not do full impact play until she is fully trained and competent to do so

She has so far had really good feedback. The post does not say she is a pro Domme, but says she is taking lessons with a pro domme. These lessons are paid with a dominatrix that has has over 20 years experience, her domme will also let her know when she feels the wife is ready to move on to certain things.

She has experience as a sub so not a complete novice to bdsm

So once again, do not treat her like she is stupid

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"I'd be as wary of playing with a novice Dominatrix as I would ne a novice Dom.

And I'd be even more wary of playing with a sub who doesn't see this as a red flag.

Why a red flag?!

Because declaring yourself a Dominatrix doesn't make you one.

Because when BDSM goes wrong people can get hurt.

Because no experience exacerbates the risk of things going wrong.

Honestly, the must basic due diligence any sub should carry out with a potential meet is 'how experienced are you'.

If you seek experience as a Domme get involved on your local kink scene, go to events, play with people there, watch other people play and gain a reputation as a Domme.

And I get that everyone has to start somewhere but my advice and comments to someone looking to explore D/s and/or Dimination abd gain experience would be different to this scenario. To me the idea of soneone being a pro Dominatrix after a few lessons is implausible

Do not treat her like she is stupid! I assure you she is far from it!!

There is more to being a dominatrix than doing stuff that can potentially hurt your sub. She meets with her subs and finds out exactly what they like and tries to work with them, she has not done and will not do full impact play until she is fully trained and competent to do so

She has so far had really good feedback. The post does not say she is a pro Domme, but says she is taking lessons with a pro domme. These lessons are paid with a dominatrix that has has over 20 years experience, her domme will also let her know when she feels the wife is ready to move on to certain things.

She has experience as a sub so not a complete novice to bdsm

So once again, do not treat her like she is stupid"

I wasn't treating anyone like they were stupid. I offered an observation and an pinion based on many years experience on the kink scene.

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By *ootyfruity OP   Couple
over a year ago

andover

I’m not interested in your opinion.

The post is genuine as I’d like more subs to play with.

A Social meet will happen, we discuss what is expected, we talk and message, build a trust and a rapport together. And then go from there.

As OP states, if anyone is interested, I will chose and message.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

You will find more interest on the bdsm sites OP. Fab is more swingers and sexual than submissives looking for bdsm. Quite a few dungeons in the clubs will have experience as will local munches

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By *canswingMan
over a year ago

filton

I’m a sub male , Bristol based , Happy to travel etc , Would be happy to help x Dan

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By *eeglos94Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Been a while since I found someone willing to tie me up and ruin me. I do enjoy being a sub bitch when the opportunity arises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely in and had experience so could assist

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Maybe you could list a few things she's looking to practice and if she offers "full service" some might just be expecting to be some sort of sex sub, and not all Dommes engage in that.

Has she chosen something to specialise in?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I'd be as wary of playing with a novice Dominatrix as I would ne a novice Dom.

And I'd be even more wary of playing with a sub who doesn't see this as a red flag.

"

Are you feeling weary ? Have a nap

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By *ummerfield94Man
over a year ago

falkirk

If only I was closer would love to help you learn

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By *ush12345Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

I have dabble, myself!. I sold one wimp a used condoms!. He was made to lick it, then bite a whole in it and stuck the cum out. Then chew the condom as if it was gum. All while he had nettles in his underwear. .. I got loads of pleasure from it. Even though there was no sex. There was more punishment for him..

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I am very interested and would love to help out if possible.

I would be grateful to hear from you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be as wary of playing with a novice Dominatrix as I would ne a novice Dom.

And I'd be even more wary of playing with a sub who doesn't see this as a red flag.

Why a red flag?!

Because declaring yourself a Dominatrix doesn't make you one.

Because when BDSM goes wrong people can get hurt.

Because no experience exacerbates the risk of things going wrong.

Honestly, the must basic due diligence any sub should carry out with a potential meet is 'how experienced are you'.

If you seek experience as a Domme get involved on your local kink scene, go to events, play with people there, watch other people play and gain a reputation as a Domme.

And I get that everyone has to start somewhere but my advice and comments to someone looking to explore D/s and/or Dimination abd gain experience would be different to this scenario. To me the idea of soneone being a pro Dominatrix after a few lessons is implausible

Do not treat her like she is stupid! I assure you she is far from it!!

There is more to being a dominatrix than doing stuff that can potentially hurt your sub. She meets with her subs and finds out exactly what they like and tries to work with them, she has not done and will not do full impact play until she is fully trained and competent to do so

She has so far had really good feedback. The post does not say she is a pro Domme, but says she is taking lessons with a pro domme. These lessons are paid with a dominatrix that has has over 20 years experience, her domme will also let her know when she feels the wife is ready to move on to certain things.

She has experience as a sub so not a complete novice to bdsm

So once again, do not treat her like she is stupid

I wasn't treating anyone like they were stupid. I offered an observation and an pinion based on many years experience on the kink scene."

Do you want a step ladder? Just to help you get off your high horse!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s how it should be, for any true submission, trust needs to be there, and rules set etc

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By *tevie1Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Any wannabe Dommes closer to me?

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