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Do you ever chat people up on the street?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you chat people up on the streets?

Do you get chatted up? Did it ever work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do and I love it.

I am very approachable

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

What interact with random strangers noooooo scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we often do in pubs and wine bars, it's sexy knowing that we can attract vanilla couples.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I keep my big overear headphones on and absolutely avoid making eye contact with anyone on the street. I'm doing something or going somewhere and I want to be left the fuck alone until I'm somewhere I'm happy to be approached. The street ain't it

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Jane gets more approaches from guys out in the real world than she does through Fab, in fact she's meeting a guy for coffee on Saturday who was trying to sell her broadband on Tuesday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

And if anyone approaches me I hiss until they go away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I've met people in shops, on the tube etc. It's a lot more organic

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

I think I must have scary bitch face because I rarely get approached.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I saw an attractive lady in the car park earlier and I thought hmmm yeah I'd like to know her, but I did nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I must have scary bitch face because I rarely get approached. "

I can't see your face, but I would approach you from the neck down!

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By *atthew78Man
over a year ago

Winsford


"I think I must have scary bitch face because I rarely get approached. "

Perhaps your beauty intermediates them

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Almost never but did once and had a date.

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By *atthew78Man
over a year ago

Winsford

I usually smile and bottle it not very confident in that area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope.

And if anyone approaches me I hiss until they go away "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my thirties I took a vow to never miss an opportunity. Don't be a creep but talking to strangers shouldn't be an issue.

Human beings are attracted to one another - it's why the species is a success.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

It's hard not too living in the valleys everyone knows everyone lol.

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By *ay9971Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"It's hard not too living in the valleys everyone knows everyone lol."

I wish I lived in your valley lol xx

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Jane and I met on the train...

We both got the same train every morning from Bromley South to London Victoria.

Occasionally we'd be seated close and we'd exchange pleasantries.

One evening there were major delays from Victoria so she asked if I'd like to join her for a coffee...we went on to share a black cab back to Bromley (at enormous cost) and chatted all the way.

35 years later we are glad we met that way and weren't afraid to talk to each other.

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"It's hard not too living in the valleys everyone knows everyone lol."

I live in the valleys, wish i knew you

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

God no, and double no

LvM

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By *laleeWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow


"I keep my big overear headphones on and absolutely avoid making eye contact with anyone on the street. I'm doing something or going somewhere and I want to be left the fuck alone until I'm somewhere I'm happy to be approached. The street ain't it "
this

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

All people can say is no. We all came out of the same hole, we all end up in the same hole, just be happy, friendly and have fun. We all have different types, so a no is all good, just dont get arsey with someone if they say no

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've been chatted up on the street a few times.

I've never started a conversation with someone because I felt attracted to them but I do talk to random people in public quite a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on the street no. In my rare group or social appearances I often get approached, but unless we click quite quickly I'm polite but fairly unresponsive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't chat anyone up on the streets as it seems everyone has their ears plugged up with earbuds or headphones.

And the only time I've been chatted up in the streets is by a wily charity worker soliciting donations who literally called at me when I walked past him, saying "excuse me sir you dropped something!". I actually believed him, turned round and asked him what I dropped, and he was like "... your beautiful smile! Can I have five minutes of your time please? *begins to go into promoting spiel*".

Remind me never to be so naive again.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Jane and I met on the train...

We both got the same train every morning from Bromley South to London Victoria.

Occasionally we'd be seated close and we'd exchange pleasantries.

One evening there were major delays from Victoria so she asked if I'd like to join her for a coffee...we went on to share a black cab back to Bromley (at enormous cost) and chatted all the way.

35 years later we are glad we met that way and weren't afraid to talk to each other."

Do you think the train eventually made it to Bromley (albeit severely delayed) or was it eventually cancelled?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

chatted to a few ladies along the canal walking the dog,, think its because the dogs handsome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't got the confidence to chat people up in real life and I hardly ever get approached. Thank god for fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"chatted to a few ladies along the canal walking the dog,, think its because the dogs handsome"

I'd forgotten because it's so long since I had one, but yes I sometimes played wingman to my dog...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jane and I met on the train...

We both got the same train every morning from Bromley South to London Victoria.

Occasionally we'd be seated close and we'd exchange pleasantries.

One evening there were major delays from Victoria so she asked if I'd like to join her for a coffee...we went on to share a black cab back to Bromley (at enormous cost) and chatted all the way.

35 years later we are glad we met that way and weren't afraid to talk to each other."

That's lovely story. Quite romantic in fact

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By *utie bootyMan
over a year ago

the manor that never was

Always, analogue fabbing. I find it easier getting what's in my head out through my mouth than I do from my fjngers. And I don't have to check grammer or spelling lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to chat to people on the street. When I attempt it, they think I'm a weirdo

People are not very approachable nowadays, sadly...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm a bit flirty. But I don't think I'm classically attractive to be seriously chatted up, no.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not so much on the street but loads when out with my dogs.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Oh no. This is a skill I have never developed.

To be fair, if a pretty woman tried to chat to me on the street, I'd assume she was trying to sell me something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but they don't appreciate my charms when I'm ambushing them outside Greggs or lurking by the gherkins in Lidls

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Of course its much more satisfying got my last girlfriend that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never. I must look really unapproachable

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Always chatting to strangers when out and about, it's just being friendly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would love to chat to people on the street. When I attempt it, they think I'm a weirdo

People are not very approachable nowadays, sadly..."

Especially not around London

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By *s2pervsCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Yes, yes and yes.

Mr

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, yes and yes.

Mr"

Nothing beats face to face interaction and flirting...

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester

I always say "hello" but get looked at as I have two heads and they hurry up and pass by

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Never in my life! Actually shy at approaching someone if i fancy them. But yes been chatted up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got chatted up by a guy on a bike not too long ago. I just got embarrassed and walked away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god never, I would never chat anyone up in a sexy way. I am pretty fucking friendly at times though with all sorts of different people, I amaze myself and think what on earth But it feels a good thing to do once done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say "hello" but get looked at as I have two heads and they hurry up and pass by "

See I would always say hello and I'm often the one initiating.

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