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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red " I like you have been outed at the time it was quite upsetting as I'd kept it to myself. Now I'm of the opinion that if you don't like it and judge me for it.. then it's not my problem x | |||
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Luckily she was about 35/36 at the time and confessed to shutting down her account pronto. | |||
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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red " none people I'm close to know my enjoyments in life  | |||
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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red " Yes it does. I wouldn't want to be 'outed' as such. It's not that i'm ashamed but I should be the one to decide who and when I tell others about my sex life. It would be very unpleasant to be talking away to friends about different things and then find out that they knew about my sex life. I don't ask about theirs. I don't get why 'outers' think that the sex life of others is for them to reveal. Maybe they are in a prolonged period of celibacy. | |||
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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red Yes it does. I wouldn't want to be 'outed' as such. It's not that i'm ashamed but I should be the one to decide who and when I tell others about my sex life. It would be very unpleasant to be talking away to friends about different things and then find out that they knew about my sex life. I don't ask about theirs. I don't get why 'outers' think that the sex life of others is for them to reveal. Maybe they are in a prolonged period of celibacy." You're well respected in the swinging community granny, your secret is safe with us  | |||
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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red Yes it does. I wouldn't want to be 'outed' as such. It's not that i'm ashamed but I should be the one to decide who and when I tell others about my sex life. It would be very unpleasant to be talking away to friends about different things and then find out that they knew about my sex life. I don't ask about theirs. I don't get why 'outers' think that the sex life of others is for them to reveal. Maybe they are in a prolonged period of celibacy.You're well respected in the swinging community granny, your secret is safe with us "I haven't got any secrets. Make one up for me.. but not the one about me being rimmed by a rugby player behind greggs. | |||
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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red Yes it does. I wouldn't want to be 'outed' as such. It's not that i'm ashamed but I should be the one to decide who and when I tell others about my sex life. It would be very unpleasant to be talking away to friends about different things and then find out that they knew about my sex life. I don't ask about theirs. I don't get why 'outers' think that the sex life of others is for them to reveal. Maybe they are in a prolonged period of celibacy.You're well respected in the swinging community granny, your secret is safe with us
I haven't got any secrets. Make one up for me.. but not the one about me being rimmed by a rugby player behind greggs."Oh, come on Granny, you know you’ve had a secret crush on me.  | |||
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"You are beautiful on the inside Huggy but the rest is a mystery " I swear you have a book full of ‘tactful retorts’ that you draw from Granny. As you will have been aware, I lack tact. | |||
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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red Yes it does. I wouldn't want to be 'outed' as such. It's not that i'm ashamed but I should be the one to decide who and when I tell others about my sex life. It would be very unpleasant to be talking away to friends about different things and then find out that they knew about my sex life. I don't ask about theirs. I don't get why 'outers' think that the sex life of others is for them to reveal. Maybe they are in a prolonged period of celibacy.You're well respected in the swinging community granny, your secret is safe with us
I haven't got any secrets. Make one up for me.. but not the one about me being rimmed by a rugby player behind greggs."lol omg not your best friends husbands son | |||
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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red Yes it does. I wouldn't want to be 'outed' as such. It's not that i'm ashamed but I should be the one to decide who and when I tell others about my sex life. It would be very unpleasant to be talking away to friends about different things and then find out that they knew about my sex life. I don't ask about theirs. I don't get why 'outers' think that the sex life of others is for them to reveal. Maybe they are in a prolonged period of celibacy."  | |||
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"I think any one who outs anyone else on here are vile and disgusting individuals and I don't care what their excuses for doing so are. It's not anyone else's place to out anybody else. If I was outed my immediate family wouldn't care some already know other family members I have nothing to do with so I couldn't care less about them. My work would probably not be too impressed and some of the people would revel in the gossip for a bit .But management would cast a dim view on it I would think. But as I'm extremely careful with personal info on here I would know exactly who would out me if it happened and hell roast them if they did.It is bad enough they shared my face pic with others. " Well said! | |||
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"You meet up and maybe have sex with people you meet online or in a club I don’t see how it’s any different from having 1 night stands picking someone up on a normal club it just needs to be normalised everyone has there thing " For a single man you are spot on. Sadly society won't judge single women or couples so kindly | |||
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"All our friends know and some family, but nobody is really bothered tbh. Our kids have grown up with us living this life, although we don't do one nighters at home because kids have a tendency to climb in our bed in the night. Awkward! Lol" That's a lot more than awkward!  | |||
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"My ex outed me in our very small town. Surprisingly no one has ever asked me outright, they either are too scared to ask or just don’t actually care and think he’s just vindictive nasty person. " Wow. Sad people. It does make me wonder why anybody would want to "out" someone, what so they even again from it
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"My ex outed me in our very small town. Surprisingly no one has ever asked me outright, they either are too scared to ask or just don’t actually care and think he’s just vindictive nasty person. Wow. Sad people. It does make me wonder why anybody would want to "out" someone, what so they even again from it
Miss S x"It’s the whole double standards tho isn’t it. It was him that got me into swinging yet I’m now the dirty whore .
He did it to try and destroy me ( and a whole load of other things)
Not worked tho. I’m still here 
He’s still on fab as well. Cheating on the latest girlfriend lol. | |||
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"My ex outed me in our very small town. Surprisingly no one has ever asked me outright, they either are too scared to ask or just don’t actually care and think he’s just vindictive nasty person. Wow. Sad people. It does make me wonder why anybody would want to "out" someone, what so they even again from it
Miss S x
It’s the whole double standards tho isn’t it. It was him that got me into swinging yet I’m now the dirty whore .
He did it to try and destroy me ( and a whole load of other things)
Not worked tho. I’m still here
He’s still on fab as well. Cheating on the latest girlfriend lol. "That's even lower. Makes me laugh because if it was the other way round the man would be getting a high five. Just because your a swinger it doesn't make you a whore. Wow, glad you escaped from that one then. Just shows what sort of person he is. Miss S x | |||
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"My ex outed me in our very small town. Surprisingly no one has ever asked me outright, they either are too scared to ask or just don’t actually care and think he’s just vindictive nasty person. Wow. Sad people. It does make me wonder why anybody would want to "out" someone, what so they even again from it
Miss S x
It’s the whole double standards tho isn’t it. It was him that got me into swinging yet I’m now the dirty whore .
He did it to try and destroy me ( and a whole load of other things)
Not worked tho. I’m still here
He’s still on fab as well. Cheating on the latest girlfriend lol.
That's even lower.
Makes me laugh because if it was the other way round the man would be getting a high five.
Just because your a swinger it doesn't make you a whore.
Wow, glad you escaped from that one then. Just shows what sort of person he is.
Miss S x"Yes very lucky escape but he’s still trying to destroy me and it’s been years! | |||
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"My ex outed me in our very small town. Surprisingly no one has ever asked me outright, they either are too scared to ask or just don’t actually care and think he’s just vindictive nasty person. Wow. Sad people. It does make me wonder why anybody would want to "out" someone, what so they even again from it
Miss S x
It’s the whole double standards tho isn’t it. It was him that got me into swinging yet I’m now the dirty whore .
He did it to try and destroy me ( and a whole load of other things)
Not worked tho. I’m still here
He’s still on fab as well. Cheating on the latest girlfriend lol. "I think you should "out" him | |||
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"My ex outed me in our very small town. Surprisingly no one has ever asked me outright, they either are too scared to ask or just don’t actually care and think he’s just vindictive nasty person. Wow. Sad people. It does make me wonder why anybody would want to "out" someone, what so they even again from it
Miss S x
It’s the whole double standards tho isn’t it. It was him that got me into swinging yet I’m now the dirty whore .
He did it to try and destroy me ( and a whole load of other things)
Not worked tho. I’m still here
He’s still on fab as well. Cheating on the latest girlfriend lol.
That's even lower.
Makes me laugh because if it was the other way round the man would be getting a high five.
Just because your a swinger it doesn't make you a whore.
Wow, glad you escaped from that one then. Just shows what sort of person he is.
Miss S x
Yes very lucky escape but he’s still trying to destroy me and it’s been years!"What a loser! Miss S x | |||
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"My ex outed me in our very small town. Surprisingly no one has ever asked me outright, they either are too scared to ask or just don’t actually care and think he’s just vindictive nasty person. Wow. Sad people. It does make me wonder why anybody would want to "out" someone, what so they even again from it
Miss S x
It’s the whole double standards tho isn’t it. It was him that got me into swinging yet I’m now the dirty whore .
He did it to try and destroy me ( and a whole load of other things)
Not worked tho. I’m still here
He’s still on fab as well. Cheating on the latest girlfriend lol.
That's even lower.
Makes me laugh because if it was the other way round the man would be getting a high five.
Just because your a swinger it doesn't make you a whore.
Wow, glad you escaped from that one then. Just shows what sort of person he is.
Miss S x
Yes very lucky escape but he’s still trying to destroy me and it’s been years!"He is a sore pathetic loser. He's trying and failing to drag you down to his level. You ride high x | |||
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"My ex outed me in our very small town. Surprisingly no one has ever asked me outright, they either are too scared to ask or just don’t actually care and think he’s just vindictive nasty person. " I've found that people don't ever ask, they just believe it and spread the rumour.  | |||
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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red " We got outed to Fox's mother shortly after we started meeting and long before we were actually in a real relationship. Awkward initially but a long chat to explain we were sensible and safe and it was all fine. She still asks if we're going to one of 'those parties' every time we ask her to child sit at weekends though..... 
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"If someone "outed" you what affect would it have on your life? We’ve potentially had this, this week. Luckily my children already know as I’ve been honest with them about it for a while. But it does make you think how others in your life might react. Red We got outed to Fox's mother shortly after we started meeting and long before we were actually in a real relationship. Awkward initially but a long chat to explain we were sensible and safe and it was all fine. She still asks if we're going to one of 'those parties' every time we ask her to child sit at weekends though.....
A"Oh that would defo be my mum. She was excruciatingly embarrassing enough when I was dating let alone this | |||
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"My ex outed me in our very small town. Surprisingly no one has ever asked me outright, they either are too scared to ask or just don’t actually care and think he’s just vindictive nasty person. Wow. Sad people. It does make me wonder why anybody would want to "out" someone, what so they even again from it
Miss S x
It’s the whole double standards tho isn’t it. It was him that got me into swinging yet I’m now the dirty whore .
He did it to try and destroy me ( and a whole load of other things)
Not worked tho. I’m still here
He’s still on fab as well. Cheating on the latest girlfriend lol.
I think you should "out" him"I have thought long and hard about this. But if I do and she leaves he will Blame me and I will get the full force or his anger. Or she will stay with him and I’ll have both of them against me. I think it’s better I take the higher ground and just know what he’s up to and laugh to myself. Cheaters normally get caught. | |||
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Anyone of any importance in our lives, already knows and doesn't give a flying fuck what we get up to. If someone tried they would probably just get laughed at.
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