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"As long as he wasn't involved with her before she turned 18, she consents, wasn't coerced and they are both happy? Same applies for age gaps of any gender." I agree. Though you will get those that say, no matter what, for an 18yo to be with a 48yo that coercion will be included. Even if it's limited to he is a big name movie star, she was coerced. And those people will never see anything otherwise. | |||
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 Even at 19 I could run rings round most men that age/my age  I'm sure these women are the same and very savvy
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"The fact that every 'woman' he dates is in this age range I find creepy as fuck. But yeah he's a billionaire and they are adults. True love. "I didn't know that. He must be hoping their youth will somehow filter through to him. I can't remember what he looks like. Is he the baby faced one? | |||
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"The fact that every 'woman' he dates is in this age range I find creepy as fuck. But yeah he's a billionaire and they are adults. True love.
I didn't know that. He must be hoping their youth will somehow filter through to him.
I can't remember what he looks like. Is he the baby faced one?"He doesn't date over 25yr olds | |||
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"The fact that every 'woman' he dates is in this age range I find creepy as fuck. But yeah he's a billionaire and they are adults. True love.
I didn't know that. He must be hoping their youth will somehow filter through to him.
I can't remember what he looks like. Is he the baby faced one?
He doesn't date over 25yr olds"You could turn that around and say over 25 year olds are too smart fo date him  | |||
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"The fact that every 'woman' he dates is in this age range I find creepy as fuck. But yeah he's a billionaire and they are adults. True love.
I didn't know that. He must be hoping their youth will somehow filter through to him.
I can't remember what he looks like. Is he the baby faced one?
He doesn't date over 25yr olds"Really. That puts a slightly different spin on it. However if I was ratio I wouldn't date anyone under about 55. I can't imagine rocking up to a restaurant with a 19 year old or even a 39 year old. The embarrassment when the waiting staff mistook me for their mother or, heaven forfend their grandmother is enough to prevent that  | |||
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"I don’t know him so couldn’t care less. My brother is 48 and if he dated someone 8 years younger than his daughter then yeah I’d find it weird as fuck. " When you put it like that. | |||
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"I don’t know him so couldn’t care less. My brother is 48 and if he dated someone 8 years younger than his daughter then yeah I’d find it weird as fuck. " Hypothetically, if your brother didn’t have any children would you still be of the same opinion. | |||
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"I don’t know him so couldn’t care less. My brother is 48 and if he dated someone 8 years younger than his daughter then yeah I’d find it weird as fuck. Hypothetically, if your brother didn’t have any children would you still be of the same opinion. " Yes. I think it’s weird. I appreciate it’s not everyone’s opinion and it’s totally legal but the op asked for thoughts. | |||
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"Bill Wyman done worse. R Kelly done worse…r. " Don't get me started on Gary Glitter.... | |||
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"I don’t know him so couldn’t care less. My brother is 48 and if he dated someone 8 years younger than his daughter then yeah I’d find it weird as fuck. Hypothetically, if your brother didn’t have any children would you still be of the same opinion. Yes. I think it’s weird. I appreciate it’s not everyone’s opinion and it’s totally legal but the op asked for thoughts. " I wasn’t questioning the validity of your opinion, I was just curious if having a daughter was an influencing factor. | |||
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"I've changed my mind. I don't find it creepy but I find that he only dates women under 25 a bit odd. " To be fair, I'm pretty sure he has not officially said that. It's just been noticed there is certainly a pattern. My guess is a large part of it is simply that he can. | |||
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"I don’t know him so couldn’t care less. My brother is 48 and if he dated someone 8 years younger than his daughter then yeah I’d find it weird as fuck. Hypothetically, if your brother didn’t have any children would you still be of the same opinion. Yes. I think it’s weird. I appreciate it’s not everyone’s opinion and it’s totally legal but the op asked for thoughts. I wasn’t questioning the validity of your opinion, I was just curious if having a daughter was an influencing factor. "Ah right. No worries  | |||
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"I've changed my mind. I don't find it creepy but I find that he only dates women under 25 a bit odd. To be fair, I'm pretty sure he has not officially said that. It's just been noticed there is certainly a pattern. My guess is a large part of it is simply that he can. " Oh right. Well whatever the facts of the matter I hope everyone concerned is happy | |||
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"Bill Wyman done worse. R Kelly done worse…r. Don't get me started on Gary Glitter...." who is now a free man which is even creepier | |||
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"To put it into scale the age difference is exactly the same as the two lead actors in The Last of Us. Where the main characters have a surrogate father/daughter relationship. A bit creepy." | |||
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"I find it all very ill advised from a life goals perspective, but he's not going to care what anyone thinks. He gets his trade-in every few years and runs around with a fresh nubile piece of arm candy whenever the shine wears off the last one. Or perhaps the 'last one' starts wanting a different scenario like a ring and kids so it's cheerio time. Not illegal but very sad to watch anyone slide their way to old age in a 'dirty old man' scenario. And sad to see young girls spending valuable years investing in a relationship with a use-by date " It worked out well for Hugh Hefner. | |||
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"To put it into scale the age difference is exactly the same as the two lead actors in The Last of Us. Where the main characters have a surrogate father/daughter relationship. A bit creepy." I read that but dismissed it because the female looks and is playing someone younger | |||
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"I've dated someone 19 years younger than me. XX" What about 30yrs younger? | |||
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"….. What if a 48yr old actress was dating a 19yr old man? Same? Or she can use the term toyboy? Just looking for fabbers thoughts on this" Wasn’t this what happened in Titanic? | |||
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"Whats your thoughts on this 48yr old dating a 19yr old? Creepy? Or do we see famous people differently? What if a 48yr old actress was dating a 19yr old man? Same? Or she can use the term toyboy? Just looking for fabbers thoughts on this" gold digging | |||
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"I find it all very ill advised from a life goals perspective, but he's not going to care what anyone thinks. He gets his trade-in every few years and runs around with a fresh nubile piece of arm candy whenever the shine wears off the last one. Or perhaps the 'last one' starts wanting a different scenario like a ring and kids so it's cheerio time. Not illegal but very sad to watch anyone slide their way to old age in a 'dirty old man' scenario. And sad to see young girls spending valuable years investing in a relationship with a use-by date " Well said .. personally l find it very sad because she should be living life as a 19 yr old not dating a guy who probably is older than her mother. | |||
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"To put it into scale the age difference is exactly the same as the two lead actors in The Last of Us. Where the main characters have a surrogate father/daughter relationship. A bit creepy. I read that but dismissed it because the female looks and is playing someone younger " If the female was wearing make up to make her look older it would be ok. | |||
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"Don't see the issue personally. As long as no one is getting hurt it's no one else's business. Not all large age gaps have a sinister meaning behind them. Pxx" | |||
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"Let them get on with it, consenting adults, where's the problem." So let's say your daughter was 19 would you be happy if she was dating a 48 yr old .. considering he is older than both of you | |||
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"I find it all very ill advised from a life goals perspective, but he's not going to care what anyone thinks. He gets his trade-in every few years and runs around with a fresh nubile piece of arm candy whenever the shine wears off the last one. Or perhaps the 'last one' starts wanting a different scenario like a ring and kids so it's cheerio time. Not illegal but very sad to watch anyone slide their way to old age in a 'dirty old man' scenario. And sad to see young girls spending valuable years investing in a relationship with a use-by date It worked out well for Hugh Hefner. "Debateable lol He was grim. Probably lucky he died before the MeToo movement arrived. There's so much coming out about what went on with those house bunnies | |||
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"Bill Wyman done worse. R Kelly done worse…r. Don't get me started on Gary Glitter...." I'll see your Glitter and raise you one Rolf Harris | |||
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"Let them get on with it, consenting adults, where's the problem. So let's say your daughter was 19 would you be happy if she was dating a 48 yr old .. considering he is older than both of you " I wouldn't be ecstatic about it but I certainly wouldn't cause an issue about it. It would be our daughters decision, her life. We all make our own decisions in life. | |||
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"It worked out well for Hugh Hefner.
Debateable lol
He was grim. Probably lucky he died before the MeToo movement arrived. There's so much coming out about what went on with those house bunnies "They went into the "relationship" knowing what it would be like, and what the "rewards" would be. They were not prisoners, they could have walked away at any time. Waiting until he died, ie can't defend himself is pretty low to start complaining. | |||
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"It worked out well for Hugh Hefner.
Debateable lol
He was grim. Probably lucky he died before the MeToo movement arrived. There's so much coming out about what went on with those house bunnies
They went into the "relationship" knowing what it would be like, and what the "rewards" would be. They were not prisoners, they could have walked away at any time.
Waiting until he died, ie can't defend himself is pretty low to start complaining."You need to read up on it a bit more. | |||
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"I find it all very ill advised from a life goals perspective, but he's not going to care what anyone thinks. He gets his trade-in every few years and runs around with a fresh nubile piece of arm candy whenever the shine wears off the last one. Or perhaps the 'last one' starts wanting a different scenario like a ring and kids so it's cheerio time. Not illegal but very sad to watch anyone slide their way to old age in a 'dirty old man' scenario. And sad to see young girls spending valuable years investing in a relationship with a use-by date It worked out well for Hugh Hefner.
Debateable lol
He was grim. Probably lucky he died before the MeToo movement arrived. There's so much coming out about what went on with those house bunnies " 
I'm so old I remember when Jim'll fix it was a brilliant show.... | |||
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"It worked out well for Hugh Hefner.
Debateable lol
He was grim. Probably lucky he died before the MeToo movement arrived. There's so much coming out about what went on with those house bunnies
They went into the "relationship" knowing what it would be like, and what the "rewards" would be. They were not prisoners, they could have walked away at any time.
Waiting until he died, ie can't defend himself is pretty low to start complaining.
You need to read up on it a bit more."So they werent all consenting adults in the house then? | |||
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"It worked out well for Hugh Hefner.
Debateable lol
He was grim. Probably lucky he died before the MeToo movement arrived. There's so much coming out about what went on with those house bunnies
They went into the "relationship" knowing what it would be like, and what the "rewards" would be. They were not prisoners, they could have walked away at any time.
Waiting until he died, ie can't defend himself is pretty low to start complaining.
You need to read up on it a bit more.
So they werent all consenting adults in the house then? "There are accounts of coercion and plying with drugs to obtain sex and all sorts. It's not ever that clean and simple. It was a bad situation. | |||
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"The fact that every 'woman' he dates is in this age range I find creepy as fuck. But yeah he's a billionaire and they are adults. True love. "This.
While I stand by there being absolutely nothing wrong with age gap relationships, there surely comes a point where a succession of ever increasing age gap relationships becomes creepy.
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"It worked out well for Hugh Hefner.
Debateable lol
He was grim. Probably lucky he died before the MeToo movement arrived. There's so much coming out about what went on with those house bunnies
They went into the "relationship" knowing what it would be like, and what the "rewards" would be. They were not prisoners, they could have walked away at any time.
Waiting until he died, ie can't defend himself is pretty low to start complaining."Ignor8ngbthe questionability of 'they could of walked away at anytime' of one of those girls had been your 18 or 19 year old daughter, would your opinion still be the same? | |||
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"What attracted a 19 year old to a multi millionaire famous actor?" What attracts multimillionaire famous actors to teenagers? | |||
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"What attracted a 19 year old to a multi millionaire famous actor? What attracts multimillionaire famous actors to teenagers? " You beat me to it  | |||
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"It worked out well for Hugh Hefner.
Debateable lol
He was grim. Probably lucky he died before the MeToo movement arrived. There's so much coming out about what went on with those house bunnies
They went into the "relationship" knowing what it would be like, and what the "rewards" would be. They were not prisoners, they could have walked away at any time.
Waiting until he died, ie can't defend himself is pretty low to start complaining.
Ignor8ngbthe questionability of 'they could of walked away at anytime' of one of those girls had been your 18 or 19 year old daughter, would your opinion still be the same?"Well that depends. If shes in there of her own free will, i might disapprove strongly, but no crime would be taking place. Her being my daughter doesnt change that | |||
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"What attracted a 19 year old to a multi millionaire famous actor? What attracts multimillionaire famous actors to teenagers? " Young, gorgeous, fresh faced, beautiful tight body, fun loving? | |||
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"I think he’s just looking for fun, frivolity and light hearted romance/sex. Maybe he’s scared of commitment? Maybe he thinks a young lass won’t want to be tied down with an older fella like him and he’s just enjoying the arm candy whilst he can with no worries of marriage being on the horizon. Why does there always have to be sinister connotations to things?" Agreed. I've just googled her and she doesn't look 19, she looks like a beautiful, intelligent woman who is more than capable of making her own decisions. Is anyone actually getting harmed? I'm pretty sure no-one is forcing her to date him? Didn't Demi Moore date Ashton cutcher when she was in her 50's and he was a young chap? | |||
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"Age gaps aren't automatically a problem, but the fact that he just changes in his gf for a new one whenever they hit 25 or whatever is just a bit sad in my opinion. " Are we sure he's the one doing the dumping? | |||
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"What attracted a 19 year old to a multi millionaire famous actor? What attracts multimillionaire famous actors to teenagers? Young, gorgeous, fresh faced, beautiful tight body, fun loving? " Only one of those attributes is fact and that's young. The others can be found in many women your own age. | |||
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"What attracted a 19 year old to a multi millionaire famous actor? What attracts multimillionaire famous actors to teenagers? Young, gorgeous, fresh faced, beautiful tight body, fun loving? Only one of those attributes is fact and that's young. The others can be found in many women your own age." I didnt say anything about fact. But its just logical that hes more likely to find all those attributes in a 19 year old than a 40 year old | |||
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"I do find it a bit creepy. Sure it's legal, but constantly seeking out young women makes me uncomfortable. I can't quite put my finger on why. Maybe it's the power dynamic, maybe it's just the fact I can't wrap my head around being attracted to a 19 year old and I'm only 29. I sometimes wonder if these people would go for girls even younger if it was legal. If he wasn't so handsome and rich I'm pretty sure more people would have something to say about it. And if my daughter came home at 18 with a 50 year old man I'd be absolutely raging. " I dont think people would to be honest. Those that have an issue with it will have an issue regardless of who it is. Those that don't, won't | |||
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"To play devils advocate. Are we all in the habit of telling our children who they can or cannot date? Our daughter is living with a guy who is only a few years older than her and he's a total bell end and a wet fart. But she loves him and we wouldn't dream of getting involved unless he was abusive." Now there's a big difference between a bellend and someone being abusive. And there's a huge difference in my 18 year old daughter coming home with a young man compared to her coming home with someone who will be older than her parents. You're damn right I'll make an issue out of it if it ever happens. I think there comes a point you can't sit back and say nothing. | |||
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"I do find it a bit creepy. Sure it's legal, but constantly seeking out young women makes me uncomfortable. I can't quite put my finger on why. Maybe it's the power dynamic, maybe it's just the fact I can't wrap my head around being attracted to a 19 year old and I'm only 29. I sometimes wonder if these people would go for girls even younger if it was legal. If he wasn't so handsome and rich I'm pretty sure more people would have something to say about it. And if my daughter came home at 18 with a 50 year old man I'd be absolutely raging. " I don't even think he's attractive! Obviously, I'm just jealous or something because I'm far too old, at 37. We choose not to meet people close in age to our eldest child (20) because we'd find that a bit odd, but that's how we feel. I'm not opposed to age gaps in relationships per se - there's 20yrs between my parents and they first met at ages 19 (mother) and 39 (father) respectively. Their relationship didn't work out but as far as I can tell, the age gap wasn't the issue. However, the apparent pattern whereby Mr DiCaprio stops relationships when the woman hits 25 and then moves swiftly on, does seem a bit odd..... | |||
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"I do find it a bit creepy. Sure it's legal, but constantly seeking out young women makes me uncomfortable. I can't quite put my finger on why. Maybe it's the power dynamic, maybe it's just the fact I can't wrap my head around being attracted to a 19 year old and I'm only 29. I sometimes wonder if these people would go for girls even younger if it was legal. If he wasn't so handsome and rich I'm pretty sure more people would have something to say about it. And if my daughter came home at 18 with a 50 year old man I'd be absolutely raging. " I absolutely agree about your comment on going for even younger girls if if were legal. That's what I find the hardest to get my head round, they are barely legal sexually and only just legally adults. | |||
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"What attracted a 19 year old to a multi millionaire famous actor? What attracts multimillionaire famous actors to teenagers? Young, gorgeous, fresh faced, beautiful tight body, fun loving? Only one of those attributes is fact and that's young. The others can be found in many women your own age. I didnt say anything about fact. But its just logical that hes more likely to find all those attributes in a 19 year old than a 40 year old" Not really. I'd say there were equal numbers in either age range | |||
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"I do find it a bit creepy. Sure it's legal, but constantly seeking out young women makes me uncomfortable. I can't quite put my finger on why. Maybe it's the power dynamic, maybe it's just the fact I can't wrap my head around being attracted to a 19 year old and I'm only 29. I sometimes wonder if these people would go for girls even younger if it was legal. If he wasn't so handsome and rich I'm pretty sure more people would have something to say about it. And if my daughter came home at 18 with a 50 year old man I'd be absolutely raging. I absolutely agree about your comment on going for even younger girls if if were legal. That's what I find the hardest to get my head round, they are barely legal sexually and only just legally adults." Hold on, are we now insinuating the man is a paedophile now?? | |||
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"What attracted a 19 year old to a multi millionaire famous actor? What attracts multimillionaire famous actors to teenagers? Young, gorgeous, fresh faced, beautiful tight body, fun loving? Only one of those attributes is fact and that's young. The others can be found in many women your own age. I didnt say anything about fact. But its just logical that hes more likely to find all those attributes in a 19 year old than a 40 year old Not really. I'd say there were equal numbers in either age range" Im sorry, but thats just deluding oneself | |||
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"I do find it a bit creepy. Sure it's legal, but constantly seeking out young women makes me uncomfortable. I can't quite put my finger on why. Maybe it's the power dynamic, maybe it's just the fact I can't wrap my head around being attracted to a 19 year old and I'm only 29. I sometimes wonder if these people would go for girls even younger if it was legal. If he wasn't so handsome and rich I'm pretty sure more people would have something to say about it. And if my daughter came home at 18 with a 50 year old man I'd be absolutely raging. I absolutely agree about your comment on going for even younger girls if if were legal. That's what I find the hardest to get my head round, they are barely legal sexually and only just legally adults. Hold on, are we now insinuating the man is a paedophile now?? " Not at all. It's all perfectly legal | |||
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"What attracted a 19 year old to a multi millionaire famous actor? What attracts multimillionaire famous actors to teenagers? Young, gorgeous, fresh faced, beautiful tight body, fun loving? Only one of those attributes is fact and that's young. The others can be found in many women your own age. I didnt say anything about fact. But its just logical that hes more likely to find all those attributes in a 19 year old than a 40 year old Not really. I'd say there were equal numbers in either age range Im sorry, but thats just deluding oneself " No need to apologise | |||
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